I can't get over the loss of my parents

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I can't get over the loss of my parents

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Why can't I live this life without sadness all time and feeling sorry for myself that I am now without parents. for God sake I am an adult and should be creating my own family, but every time I think about that I am reminded by the fact that my children will not have grandparents. :|
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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AUN to your parents. And may allah make your life easier ameen :!:
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May allah take all sadness and sorrow from your heart and grant you peace and happiness, always remember you are not alone, and that Allah is always with you keeping company.
And may Allah also grant jannatul-Firdaus for your parents, Surely Allah puts his believers and slaves in a better place.
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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Have you been raised knowing your grandparents?
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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What you are feeling is normal, It took me years to get over my mother's death, but eventually I learned to move on, and you will too, you can still think about them and keep them in your heart, while living your life, anyway ilahey ha u naxariisto your parents.
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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Sorry to hear abt ur parents. :(
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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Nabeela wrote:What you are feeling is normal, It took me years to get over my mother's death, but eventually I learned to move on, and you will too, you can still think about them and keep them in your heart, while living your life, anyway ilahey ha u naxariisto your parents.
AUN to your mom also :!:
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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Am sorry to hear that.. :rose:
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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Surround yourself with brothers/sisters if they are near & may Allah ease your sadness over the loss of your parents.

My dad passed away when I was little long time ago & my mum back in the 90's after years of suffering with cancer, may Allah rest their souls in paradise, theirs and all the Muslims that passed away.

But what I couldn't get over & still feel down whenever I remember is the death of 2 of my brothers more than my parents. Is that coz I grew up with them & had more memories with them since I was a grown person when they died? Don't know.

Ilaah inta dhimatay ha u naxariisto.
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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Coeus wrote:
Nabeela wrote:What you are feeling is normal, It took me years to get over my mother's death, but eventually I learned to move on, and you will too, you can still think about them and keep them in your heart, while living your life, anyway ilahey ha u naxariisto your parents.
AUN to your mom also :!:
Thanks dear..
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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by far this is the saddest topic I have ever read on somalinet.

I just lost a person who I had known for less than two weeks but loved and I feel devastated.

For those of you who lost parents and siblings may allah grant them jannah and let all meet each other there.

And haliey balley as I've said before I am your internet brother and whenever you need to talk I am here for you
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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Walidiintiina tagey ilaahay iilka hau waasiciyo. Dont forget to duca for them and pay sadaqqa on their behalf. :(
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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Thanks to everyone for your kind response.
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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Ilaahay ha u naxariisto waalidkaadi, adiguna ilaahay ha ku fududeeyo aduunkan. You'll live through it, we all do, it's threads like this that makes me appreciate my parents on greater scale.
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Re: I can't get over the loss of my parents

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Twist wrote:
My dad passed away when I was little long time ago & my mum back in the 90's after years of suffering with cancer, may Allah rest their souls in paradise, theirs and all the Muslims that passed away.

But what I couldn't get over & still feel down whenever I remember is the death of 2 of my brothers more than my parents. Is that coz I grew up with them & had more memories with them since I was a grown person when they died? Don't know.

Ilaah inta dhimatay ha u naxariisto.
Very sad. :(

Ameen,
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