Question for the fellas.

[Tuushi]

^^^ Smooth. Alpha.Dont be "what,where`s the door at" if that is used against u.

Wallahi I was just worried about this, wondering if I made a huge mistake

Then I thought how self-absorbed that was Chances are sub-minimal. : (

Time will tell.

[TeAmo]

Personally if I was interested in a guy for something serious such as getting to know each other for marriage I would NEVERRR Talk to him myself or add him on FB myself if there was no other way to contact him.

I would get another person such as my friend to add him talk to him see how he is if he's nice get her to drop it in some sort of way that I'm looking for something serious and think he is a nice guy if he rejects I can always say negro please my friend was tryna hook us up, I never said I was interested.

Or if I'm super serious get my cousins or uncles to befriend him and see how he is if he is a nice serious guy and they like him, tell him about me and "recommend" me to him.

I would never personally approach a guy I'm serious about and want to be the father of my babies, that's just me though.

Imagine you two have an argument one day he'll be like bitch plz your the one who wanted me or the one who approached me or asked me to get with you, no way that's embarrassing

[Alphanumeric]

Childish nonsense.

[sahal80]

Its ok for the sake of the love but he will never respect her and will feel some thing is missing from him that he never approached a woman in his life and has to tray it for the first time.

[grandpakhalif]

Assalamu 'alaikum sis,

First of all I would recommend you to tell this sister to NOT approach this individual male, indeed this is a fitnah beyond the boundaries of God. I suggest you send a brother or a fellow muslim sister to approach him and they should tell the brother that 'so and so sister is interested in you'. He will then take the initiative to approach the girl with a her mahram and inquire about marriage and discuss that with her wali.


Inshallah this is the best and permissible way, and Allah knows best.

[blackstars25]

If this person is supposed to be a potential spouse, I think first contacting him through facebook is a terrible idea. Unknown facebook female friends are all seen as potential roots by men, at least speak to him real life then add him.

[Barwaaqoiyobashbash]

Assalamu 'alaikum sis,

First of all I would recommend you to tell this sister to NOT approach this individual male, indeed this is a fitnah beyond the boundaries of God. I suggest you send a brother or a fellow muslim sister to approach him and they should tell the brother that 'so and so sister is interested in you'. He will then take the initiative to approach the girl with a her mahram and inquire about marriage and discuss that with her wali.


Inshallah this is the best and permissible way, and Allah knows best.

Best advice!!

[Xamud.]

so facebook is your only way to talk to him?

this shid happened to me in the spring, some girl hits me up that i've never seen before and starts talking about meeting up.. nigga please

They better be 2 and 3s

[jalaaludin5]

She doesn't go to parties and mix weddings but has a facebook account...

[Somaliman50]

Guess chivalry is well and truly dead...for both sides, that is.

[AbdiWahab252]

Very hard to tell:

Post her photo and let the Ahlu Farax decide.

[baradho]

Hi all!

I just remembered I made a thread here. I don't have time to answer back but the least I can do is to log on and say to you all thank you very much
for taking the time to answer. It's much appreciated:) After long contemplation the sister decided to not contact him on facebook.
I guess it's a dead end.
Thanks anyway.

[Lillaahiya]

She doesn't go to parties and mix weddings but has a facebook account...

I go to parties and mix weddings but don't have a facebook account How are they even mutually inclusive?