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It is a process to get that baby to quit. A bedtime routine would really help because at this point babies are able to understand routines. So get a bedtime routine, it might take a week or so to get him to follow it and at the beginning he might resist to sleep alone in his crib, if so, try the "cry it out" method. This is where you get baby ready for bed, dim the lights in his room and if he cries let him but check in every 10-15 mins, dont pick him up, just let him see that someone is there. It usually takes like 2-3 nights for babies to adopt to his and sleep on their own. It is hard to listen to him cry and not pick him up, but in the long run it is best for parents and child.
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Greetings Ismahaneey,

I only got 4 hrs shut eye last night. I tried that routine but damn, he can scream. He cried for 3 hrs straight. I checked the diapers, fed him, and still he screams. However, I will continue your method in the hopes, he gets the message.

hyperactive wrote:ya ilmaheesa ko aminey AW, ma qof wah o dimaneheen ba!
:down: Bully ba tahay.
AishahWaqooyi wrote:Make him milk and rock him to sleep
Then he is up in 2 hrs.
Enlightened~Sista wrote:Adeer get yourself checked for alzheimers, you've made an identical topic just few months back.
Thank goodness for my woman who is half my age. She will nurse me when I lose it.
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Stay on it, it will take few days to see the results. :up:
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Ismahan,

Yep, I will. All I know that my offspring will be sired in Africa where I will get the best nannies I can afford to house break them.
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Abdi,
And what will their mom be doing, if you hire a nanny? :|
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^^^ showing him her jewelry box :ducktales:
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Ismahan123 wrote:Abdi,
And what will their mom be doing, if you hire a nanny? :|
Working out to get back into shape and prepping for the sire another AW252, Jr.
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AishahWaqooyi wrote:^^^ showing him her jewelry box :ducktales:
:lol: :lol: her jewelry box should be busy feeding them.

AW,
Dont be selfish, you can't make up for what the iljeex nation lost. Two kids should be enough. :clap:
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lol, Ismahan,

I have to do my part. Just don't be traveling in August and prepare your best buranbur.
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My son had to learn the hard way, his mom had him most of the time but when he was with me few times a month wuu iska ooyi jirey so qolka baan sound proof ka dhigey and he learned to stop crying alrite.
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Advo wrote:My son had to learn the hard way, his mom had him most of the time but when he was with me few times a month wuu iska ooyi jirey so qolka baan sound proof ka dhigey and he learned to stop crying alrite.
They need to alert children services on your fat a**.


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Wa igu ogtahay ina adeer. :rose:
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Re: Parents Only !!!

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ISmahan,

Remember, you may have Islaanti na neceb who stalks us on the other team, so best have your "A" Game.
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Ismahan123 wrote:AW

It is a process to get that baby to quit. A bedtime routine would really help because at this point babies are able to understand routines. So get a bedtime routine, it might take a week or so to get him to follow it and at the beginning he might resist to sleep alone in his crib, if so, try the "cry it out" method. This is where you get baby ready for bed, dim the lights in his room and if he cries let him but check in every 10-15 mins, dont pick him up, just let him see that someone is there. It usually takes like 2-3 nights for babies to adopt to his and sleep on their own. It is hard to listen to him cry and not pick him up, but in the long run it is best for parents and child.
ismahan,

so u did this with your child? u r stronger than me walahi...i simply cannot bring myself to let my baby "cry it out"... just can't do it. :mrgreen:

abdi,

just hold that baby close, they need the warmth of parent/caregiver... gently rub their head in circular motion while maintaining eye contact...at 10 month they usually fall asleep fast provided they are fed/changed etc. ha dhibsan intaa yar they ask for your closeness.
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Re: Parents Only !!!

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Z,

That is how a child is spoiled. I was adamant that his mom adopt the crying out approach but she didn't. Now she and I are paying the price.

Ismahan,

I can see your child bullying Zulaika's child.
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Zuli

lol I sure did, and it works for me. Granted it is hard but I like any child of mine to be independent to a certain extend no matter what age they are. He can get all the love and closeness he wants but when its bedtime, its down to a routine. After 6 months, a baby can adopt to any routine and be fine...besides I aint raising no mommas boy :|
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