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What is a 'Comfortable' Salary for you?

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Assuming you've finished all of your education (I still have 3 more years to go), how much do you feel like you need to make in order to live a comfortable life? What is your desired salary? How much do you want to be making 5 years from now?

I think 45K-57k is enough for me. My parents raised a whole family on half of that. I haven't internalized conspicuous consumptive values. I don't need a huge house and a fancy car. I don't want to be that person who's so insecure about their social standing that they have to compensate to keep up. I'm proud of my working class roots. Also, the work I want to do isn't in business, IT or engineering; it's in my values.

I didn't have to worry about money growing up, Alhamdulilah. Got my first job when I was 20. Paid my first bill at 21. I've had a comfortable upbringing and didn't experience the strain my parents did.
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i dont know in 5 years, not even tomorrow. but my life style right now pretty expensive cause i dont pay my own way. but im sure i can live much less than my parents life style.
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88-100 thousands dollars

or if I am poor 75,000 to 90,000

Nothing Less.
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Don't aim for a 'comfortable' salary, aim for the highest.

When you can afford 3 holidays a year (1 national) then you know your living the life.
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STARKAST wrote:Don't aim for a 'comfortable' salary, aim for the highest.

When you can afford 3 holidays a year (1 national) then you know your living the life.
You know, it depends on a lot of things (i.e. location, whether or not I'll be given generous maternity paid leave). I will also need to learn how to negotiate my salary. That's in the future, InshAllah. For now, I'm focusing on identity capital, establishing who I am and what I want and networking.
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SavySallySupersedes wrote:Assuming you've finished all of your education (I still have 3 more years to go), how much do you feel like you need to make in order to live a comfortable life? What is your desired salary? How much do you want to be making 5 years from now?

I think 45K-57k is enough for me. My parents raised a whole family on half of that. I haven't internalized conspicuous consumptive values. I don't need a huge house and a fancy car. I don't want to be that person who's so insecure about their social standing that they have to compensate to keep up. I'm proud of my working class roots. Also, the work I want to do isn't in business, IT or engineering; it's in my values.

I didn't have to worry about money growing up, Alhamdulilah. Got my first job when I was 20. Paid my first bill at 21. I've had a comfortable upbringing and didn't experience the strain my parents did.


I used to make more money than I currently do. And I am still covering the same needs I covered before with the lesser amount of money I generate now for some reason I can't fathom. I think one aspect people ignore that is more important than how high your salary might be is the happiness factor in what you do. If you love your job and what you do Vs feeling stuck with it, the difference can be tremendous. Even if you make stupefying amount of money and you aren't happy, money becomes worthless.


PS: Question to you, now that you earn your own money, do you pay your parents for the years you have been leeching on them?
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Reacher wrote:

I used to make more money than I currently do. And I am still covering the same needs I covered before with the lesser amount of money I generate now for some reason I can't fathom. I think one aspect people ignore that is more important than how high your salary might be is the happiness factor in what you do. If you love your job and what you do Vs feeling stuck with it, the difference can be tremendous. Even if you make stupefying amount of money and you aren't happy, money becomes worthless.


PS: Question to you, now that you earn your own money, do you pay your parents for the years you have been leeching on them?
Very true. I want to live a life filled with meaning. I want to wake up every morning and know I'm making a difference. I want to be someone's inspiration. Don't get me wrong. I want to have a stable and family-friendly career. I don't have to make a lot of money, but I need my job to be family-friendly.

To answer your question, I will reciprocate my family's sacrifices by being the most morally upright, confident, and driven woman I can possibly be. I will involve them in every decision I make. I will always seek their approval. I will always need their support and guidance. I will take care of them when they reach old age. I think the best way to repay your parents is to do better than they did. That's what they ultimately want.
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Sally, aren't you the perfect little girl every parent hopes to have? :up:
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currently on 40.000 per year with ex wife and new family def not enough. hopefully next years everything will changed.
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below $50,000 per annum is just not gonna cut it for me
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FarhanYare wrote:below $50,000 per annum is just not gonna cut it for me
Dude ur girlfriend/wife will make another 50gs so ur income is $100,000 enuff rite??
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Re: What is a 'Comfortable' Salary for you?

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$63,749.37, personally
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Keyblade wrote:$63,749.37, personally
You're American? :smugruss:
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Sally,

So you are planning to be single for the rest of your life? How come you didn't add the income of your partner? You only need $20000 as a girl for shopping and make-up. The man would provide the rest.
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Sheikh Mustafa wrote:Sally,

So you are planning to be single for the rest of your life? How come you didn't add the income of your partner? You only need $20000 as a girl for shopping and make-up. The man would provide the rest.
No, I would like to be married after 26, InshAllah. I hate feeling like I owe someone something. That I'm a financial liability. I want to be an asset.
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