The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?
If your wife is genuinely happy about you getting another wife you would be a fool for not questioning her motives
It's unnatural
			
			
									
																
						It's unnatural
Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?
It all depends on who you take advice from, principles do matter, and if one is a faithful Muslim woman, she would be at peace with these matters   
 
Back to te tweets, you have a practising Muslim woman praying for her husband taking a second wife, and you also have other Muslim women making dua for her and her husband. Maasha'Allah, those are the kind of Muslim women we wish every woman had their courage!
			
			
									
																
						 
 Back to te tweets, you have a practising Muslim woman praying for her husband taking a second wife, and you also have other Muslim women making dua for her and her husband. Maasha'Allah, those are the kind of Muslim women we wish every woman had their courage!
Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

Haye.
It goes to show how little you understand women. Good luck to you
Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?
Being married 15 years and I don't understand women when you never tie the knots - it does not mean there is anything wrong with it though   
 
Anyhow, I think you're failing to realize that there are differences in morality, worldview, and goals amongst women in general. Just think about that and compare yourself with those women in those tweets
			
			
									
																
						 
 Anyhow, I think you're failing to realize that there are differences in morality, worldview, and goals amongst women in general. Just think about that and compare yourself with those women in those tweets

Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?
I think being a woman trumps being married to one 
The only way you can convince a woman to be happy with a man who is committed to her becoming committed to someone else is if you threaten her with religion or poverty edit or possibly her children
Ps Am I hurting your feelings? If so just let me know and I will leave you alone. It makes me uncomfortable to receive bitchy comments from a male poster
			
			
									
																
						
The only way you can convince a woman to be happy with a man who is committed to her becoming committed to someone else is if you threaten her with religion or poverty edit or possibly her children
Ps Am I hurting your feelings? If so just let me know and I will leave you alone. It makes me uncomfortable to receive bitchy comments from a male poster
Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?
BVSNet wrote:I think being a woman trumps being married to one
The only way you can convince a wife to be happy with polygamy is if you threaten her with religion or poverty edit or possibly her children
Ps Am I hurting your feelings? If so just let me know and I will leave you alone. It makes me uncomfortable to receive bitchy comments from a male poster
 
 You just can't take other's point of view, BV. Seriously, you don't. Well, that took a different turn that I did not intend it. Honestly, when I posted those tweets, I knew you were gonna respond to them
 You became so predictable, BV
  You became so predictable, BV   
 We're cool, BV. You can always post your views and nothing wrong with it looool
 But I will make sure I will stay clear from making certain comments.
   But I will make sure I will stay clear from making certain comments.Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?
Gerigoor
Women, in general, want to be exclusively tied to a man. I think this also applies to the ones who do not object out of piety as they are most probably suppressing feelings of jealousy.
			
			
									
																
						Women, in general, want to be exclusively tied to a man. I think this also applies to the ones who do not object out of piety as they are most probably suppressing feelings of jealousy.
Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?
My supervisor is like that and I hate that quality. Call me out on it because if I'm like that in 20 years I'll kill myself ok maybe not but it will suckgegiroor wrote:You just can't take other's point of view,
I understand where you're coming from there are people who seem happy with the arrangement. However you also need to consider that the same way you might say monogamy is unnatural for a man, sharing the resource that is a husband is unnatural from the female perspective. But there are always exceptions, usually taught
Lakin adiga you stuck at debate. You can take digs at the stupidity of the person's argument make it clear that they have no basis but the rule is don't get personal. I'm used to girls doing that it's just strange coming from a guy
Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?
Zumaale, I heard you bro   
 
BV, I've not been personal in this instance. If you remember I say there is nothing wrong with it. The smile at the end may trigger it, but the wordings was right. However, without asking me to explain it further, you took it personal. I don't think you get the gist of what I was trying to convey. Anyhow, cimaamadaan ku saaray mar haddii aad dhibsatay, xawaaladana ii sheeg xaalmarintii baan soo dhigiye 
  
Let us go back to days we used to be buddies here and I used to send you those pms You know in those days you were a candidate but after realizing your views, I started going to straight to East Africa and scored big
  You know in those days you were a candidate but after realizing your views, I started going to straight to East Africa and scored big  
			
			
									
																
						 
 BV, I've not been personal in this instance. If you remember I say there is nothing wrong with it. The smile at the end may trigger it, but the wordings was right. However, without asking me to explain it further, you took it personal. I don't think you get the gist of what I was trying to convey. Anyhow, cimaamadaan ku saaray mar haddii aad dhibsatay, xawaaladana ii sheeg xaalmarintii baan soo dhigiye
 
  Let us go back to days we used to be buddies here and I used to send you those pms
 You know in those days you were a candidate but after realizing your views, I started going to straight to East Africa and scored big
  You know in those days you were a candidate but after realizing your views, I started going to straight to East Africa and scored big  
Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

You are ridiculous I don't even know why I bother
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