Nygga stop the calaacal
man up and approach a sista appropriately, if she ain't with it? Waa caadi. Woman aren't programmed to read ur mind and come to u! No u gotta muster enough confidence to look them in the eyes.
A quiet observation
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thehappyone
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Re: A quiet observation
This is exactly what I wanted to hear.Advo wrote:Nygga stop the calaacal
man up and approach a sista appropriately, if she ain't with it? Waa caadi. Woman aren't programmed to read ur mind and come to u! No u gotta muster enough confidence to look them in the eyes.

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Re: A quiet observation
Youre a nice guy, which means you are not boyfriend material,
women want a nice guy when they are nesting or settling, they want a bad boy the rest of the time..
if you are able to act, you can fake it..
I was in your position for a long time, i was too nice, too much of a gentleman, and i did not know how to flirt, or banter.
even after meeting women, i have been dumped for being too nice..
so i learnt how to put on an act, total simulation of another personality
its quite fun really and extremley effective..
as long as you are not a midget or deformed or obese, just regular looking, not even attractive
you will be seducing women left and right..
I figured it out after observing my fresh of the boat cousin, he was bucktoothed, balding and walks around wearing what you would wear in burco
and skinny as hell.
He cannot even speak english or arabic properly and this guy was picking up women all over the place,
took him shopping, i go to the toilet and come back to see him with a woman, took him to a clinic for a checkup and
im not bullshiting he picks up again..
its dangerous really, all that power can be addcitive.
fortunatley i met my wife just as i was perfecting my skills, and ive retired from the game..
i am myself a nice guy again,,
but i do try it for fun, i am trying a new persona
an extremist wadaad,
i go to somali functions with a khamis and ive been growing a big beard for aesthetic reasons,
interjecting allot of arabic randomly in conversations, and talking about seerah nabawiya and general islamic history and hadiths as well....
women want a nice guy when they are nesting or settling, they want a bad boy the rest of the time..
if you are able to act, you can fake it..
I was in your position for a long time, i was too nice, too much of a gentleman, and i did not know how to flirt, or banter.
even after meeting women, i have been dumped for being too nice..
so i learnt how to put on an act, total simulation of another personality
its quite fun really and extremley effective..
as long as you are not a midget or deformed or obese, just regular looking, not even attractive
you will be seducing women left and right..
I figured it out after observing my fresh of the boat cousin, he was bucktoothed, balding and walks around wearing what you would wear in burco
He cannot even speak english or arabic properly and this guy was picking up women all over the place,
took him shopping, i go to the toilet and come back to see him with a woman, took him to a clinic for a checkup and
im not bullshiting he picks up again..
its dangerous really, all that power can be addcitive.
fortunatley i met my wife just as i was perfecting my skills, and ive retired from the game..
i am myself a nice guy again,,
but i do try it for fun, i am trying a new persona
an extremist wadaad,
i go to somali functions with a khamis and ive been growing a big beard for aesthetic reasons,
interjecting allot of arabic randomly in conversations, and talking about seerah nabawiya and general islamic history and hadiths as well....
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thehappyone
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Re: A quiet observation
We all know a guy like this! A guy who would approach 10 different girls, get rejected 9 times, and get 1 number. And only reason he got that number is because he tells her let's be friends. I don't want to be that guy. Can't handle that much chasing and rejection. I need a method that's 100% rejection proof and doesn't land you in the friendzone. So far the only method I know that works is when you pretend to be loaded. Back when I was driving my brothers nice car I was getting dimes without putting in any effort. It was them trying to impress me,often they would play suggestive songs on my radio. Those were the good days. Now I need a method for people that are broke. The wadaad approach wouldn't work for me as I am beardless and know about three Arabic words.gurey25 wrote:Youre a nice guy, which means you are not boyfriend material,
women want a nice guy when they are nesting or settling, they want a bad boy the rest of the time..
if you are able to act, you can fake it..
I was in your position for a long time, i was too nice, too much of a gentleman, and i did not know how to flirt, or banter.
even after meeting women, i have been dumped for being too nice..
so i learnt how to put on an act, total simulation of another personality
its quite fun really and extremley effective..
as long as you are not a midget or deformed or obese, just regular looking, not even attractive
you will be seducing women left and right..
I figured it out after observing my fresh of the boat cousin, he was bucktoothed, balding and walks around wearing what you would wear in burcoand skinny as hell.
He cannot even speak english or arabic properly and this guy was picking up women all over the place,
took him shopping, i go to the toilet and come back to see him with a woman, took him to a clinic for a checkup and
im not bullshiting he picks up again..
its dangerous really, all that power can be addcitive.
fortunatley i met my wife just as i was perfecting my skills, and ive retired from the game..
i am myself a nice guy again,,
but i do try it for fun, i am trying a new persona
an extremist wadaad,
i go to somali functions with a khamis and ive been growing a big beard for aesthetic reasons,
interjecting allot of arabic randomly in conversations, and talking about seerah nabawiya and general islamic history and hadiths as well....
Re: A quiet observation
Maskiin. 
Re: A quiet observation
Get ur money up, become a more confident person, focus on your education, pick up a hobby. Maybe you should try to befriend the girls, and then go from there? Idk, just stop pretending, it's not cool, just focus on bettering yourself. The right people will eventually come into your life. Good luck. I hope everything works out for you, Insha'Allah !
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thehappyone
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Re: A quiet observation
Sxb if my money is up I'd be like jay z 99 problems but a bitch ain't one. I wouldn't be on here if I had money. All the rest is typical Buddha bullshit. I've seen broke guys, maskiin guys, disabled guys, guys with aids, homeless guys, he'll I've even seen gay guys, with wives. There is something fundamentally against me when it comes to the opposite gender. There's not a single girl in the world I can attract beyond the physical stage.NubianQueen97 wrote:Well... Get your money up, become more confident, focus on your education, pick up a hobby. Maybe you should try to befriend the girls, and then go from there? Idk, just stop pretending, it's not cool, just focus on bettering yourself. The right people will eventually come into your life.
Good luck. I hope everything works out for you!
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Bibaaye6828
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Re: A quiet observation
^this made me lol in public Walahi. The fact u started it off with get ur money up aswell.
Tho gureys advice is the best on here but u are Trollin after all so whateva.
Tho gureys advice is the best on here but u are Trollin after all so whateva.
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Re: A quiet observation
jealousy is a bi@ch.
Anyway----funny u mention that --today I saw an adoon Kenyan student with the cutest white boy. the perfect hunk--couldn't be older than 19. I was kinda happy for them. Yet, I was intensely jealous. She wore a bad wig. lol
Anyway----funny u mention that --today I saw an adoon Kenyan student with the cutest white boy. the perfect hunk--couldn't be older than 19. I was kinda happy for them. Yet, I was intensely jealous. She wore a bad wig. lol
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