Going to weddings full of haram/sins

[dhuusa_deer]

[quote="kambuli"]
Sis, Does that mean, going to work where there are men is Xaraam? There are men everywhere: Colleges, unversities, stores, buses. How can we avoid men?[/quote]




By staying home or working only with women. But you want to have your cake and eat it too. You know what? I don't blame you... you're being normal human being.

[SoMaLiSiZz]

[quote="Kamal35"]Proud-Muslimah: In order to avoid all kind of sins in a wedding, better stay at home. In order to avoid all kind of sins in street, better don't walk through the streets. In order to avoid all kind of sins in life, better don't live.

It's easy.[/quote]


How about you take your ignorance somewhere else this is a sincere advice for the Muslims! Are you a muslim … NO! is this Topic for you :[[[ NO ]]]

Now if you reject Islam, and you do not care for it = > do not come here and give your freaking useless advice to Muslims as they are misguiding and contradicting Islam get it or are you still slow

[SomaliLight]

[quote=somalizz]Now if you reject Islam, and you do not care for it = > do not come here and give your freaking useless advice to Muslims as they are misguiding and contradicting Islam get it or are you still slow[/quote]

Somalizz,

you talk of giving advice to forumers on this Snet, yet it is you who gives the most riddicules wahaabi nonesense warnings. How is it posible that your notion of belief consists of only elements of fear? is there no love to be found at Allah's corner? why are you salafis/wahabbis teaching these impressionable kids that islam is fear of Allah and loathing of all other human beings? so now what weddings are xaaraam eh?

[Samatr]

[quote="SomaliLight"][quote=somalizz]Now if you reject Islam, and you do not care for it = > do not come here and give your freaking useless advice to Muslims as they are misguiding and contradicting Islam get it or are you still slow[/quote]

Somalizz,

you talk of giving advice to forumers on this Snet, yet it is you who gives the most riddicules wahaabi nonesense warnings. How is it posible that your notion of belief consists of only elements of fear? is there no love to be found at Allah's corner? why are you salafis/wahabbis teaching these impressionable kids that islam is fear of Allah and loathing of all other human beings? so now what weddings are xaaraam eh?[/quote]

Miss Atheist, I mean agnostic.

Why do you care what she writes since your agnostic. Just skim through her posts or ignore it like I do. You are right about Wahabis, they are not all there in the head and thats why you should ignore them.

The last string for me was when she said music, weddings and my beloved magical plant were all xaraan.

[SoMaLiSiZz]

Samatr ==> may Allah guide you and the rest of us muslims, if you don't repent todya one day it might be too late ! and guess what ?? no one can help you when it comes to Allah's anger and punishment not even the shytan that is telling you these lies !!! music is xaram, so is qaad, mixed weddings and this is the law of Allah..

[قَالَ رَبِّ بِمَآ أَغْوَيْتَنِى لأُزَيِّنَنَّ لَهُمْ فِى الاٌّرْضِ وَلأُغْوِيَنَّهُمْ أَجْمَعِينَ - إِلاَّ عِبَادَكَ مِنْهُمُ الْمُخْلَصِينَ - قَالَ هَذَا صِرَطٌ عَلَىَّ مُسْتَقِيمٌ - إِنَّ عِبَادِى لَيْسَ لَكَ عَلَيْهِمْ سُلْطَـنٌ إِلاَّ مَنِ اتَّبَعَكَ مِنَ الْغَاوِينَ - وَإِنَّ جَهَنَّمَ لَمَوْعِدُهُمْ أَجْمَعِينَ - لَهَا سَبْعَةُ أَبْوَابٍ لِكُلِّ بَابٍ مِّنْهُمْ جُزْءٌ مَّقْسُومٌ ]

(39. [Iblis] said: "O my Lord! Because You misled me, I shall indeed adorn the path of error for them (mankind) on the earth, and I shall mislead them all.'') (40. "Except Your chosen (guided) servants among them.'') (41. (Allah) said: "This is the way which will lead straight to Me.'') (42. "Certainly, you shall have no authority over My servants, except those of the astray who follow you.'') (43. And surely, Hell is the place promised for them all.) (44. It has seven gates, for each of those gates is a class assigned.)

[Samatr]

^^Your scare tactics are not working, If I go to heaven/hell its up to GOD and lets leave it at that.

[SomaliLight]

^i SWEAR AM NOT MUSLIM OR ANYTHING, BUT I HAVE A HARD TIME BELIEVING THAT ALLAH IS REALLY AS CRUEL AS YOU WAHAABI PEOPLE MAKE HIM OUT TO BE...WAHABISM IS DEFINETLY BAD PR FOR ALLAH...

[Gacalisa]

People Walaahi i beg of yall, lets stop with the talks of sects. Islam is one, if you dont agree with something, just state your feeling, but bash a sect which in truth you have no knowledge off.

anywayz. Kambuli. I did not saying the being surrounded by men is haram, that rediculus, you cant help that. but said the mingling of sexes is haram, hence beign socially active with men is haram.

[SoMaLiSiZz]

[quote="Samatr"]^^Your scare tactics are not working, If I go to heaven/hell its up to GOD and lets leave it at that.[/quote]


That is the Point walaal we should be scared wallahi that is the meaning of having Taqwa, if we dont fear Allah and his punishment then subxan Allah we are in deeep trouble !!!!!!!!!!!!

non-muslims dose not fear Allah and that is why they end up in hell fire lets not follow ahlul naar ..

Fe Aman Ellah

[avowedly-agnostic]

[quote = Wahhabi Somalisis] no one can help you when it comes to Allah's anger and punishment not [/quote]

Do you have anything to share with us other than pronouncements of eternal damnation and hellfire? Does Allah not have an iota of love, compassion and mercy?

As Somalilight quite rightly said, Wahhabies/Salafies are intent on instilling irrational psychological fear and terror into the minds of Muslims that only seek to have a healthy relationship with god; a reltionship based not soley on fright and terror, but one of love and understanding.

Wahhbies have completely and utterly mischaractised and grossly distorted the image of the loving god into a god of hate and vengeance.
These fanatics and extremists ought to be stopped. It is evidently they who are misguided.

[Gacalisa]

agnostic, just chlll, you know nothing about Islam and these new sects.

Somlisis. abaayo, its xaram to say anyone will go to hell, whether a kufar or not, no one but Allah has that authority. You never know if that person may become muslim on not. God is Merciful.

[SoMaLiSiZz]

[quote="Gacalisa"]agnostic, just chlll, you know nothing about Islam and these new sects.

Somlisis. abaayo, its xaram to say anyone will go to hell, whether a kufar or not, no one but Allah has that authority. You never know if that person may become muslim on not. God is Merciful.[/quote]

Asalam Alaikom Warhmatullah Wbaraktuh

it is not xaram to say a kaafir will go to hell fire [if they die in a state of Kufr] that is what Rabby says in the Quran Al kareem simple as 'you disbelive you will enter hell fire' you disobey Allah and you do not repent you will enter hell fire and you die in a state of doing the xaraam bardo you will enter hell fire .. if you doubt it read the Quran and search for your self. barak Allahu feeke

Other then That I did not say ! that Is why I am warning samatr from Allah's anger and punihsment in hope that he repents before it is too late..


Fe Aman Ellah

[kambuli]

Gacalisa quote "anywayz. Kambuli. I did not saying the being surrounded by men is haram, that rediculus, you cant help that. but said the mingling of sexes is haram, hence beign socially active with men is haram.

Excatly what do you mean by mingling sis?

[Gacalisa]

by Mingling i mean, conversing, talking, associating, socializing, with men.


the common things we do, and dont consider to be haram. A Muslim woman, cannot a Ajanabi men, which is any men that breaks her Wudo(weeso), excluding a her Husban.

[kambuli]

Gacalisa,

Sister, who told you this? I am sure someone is misleading you intentionally. We can talk to men Period! And we can associate with them also. Be carefull of what people tell you.