Going to weddings full of haram/sins

[Gacalisa]

Laa ilaaha Ila laah.

Kambuli, dont bee so naive, even the most flexible sect will tell you that men and woman are not associate with one another if he is not related to you or not you husband.

not mingling with men will prevent any fitna or sin from happening. if you dont believe serve the net, even better ask you local shiekh.


Somalisiz.

you Quoted from the Quran, which is God's words, and as i have said god is the only one with authority to say someone will go to hell. you say, somone is does such and such may go to hell. but cannot say a direct person or an individual (hear the kafirs on Snet) will go to hell. \

you can state the characterists as you have and actions that can lead a person to hell, but not say that a person will actually to hell.

[SoMaLiSiZz]

[quote="kambuli"]Gacalisa,

Sister, who told you this? I am sure someone is misleading you intentionally. We can talk to men Period! And we can associate with them also. Be carefull of what people tell you. [/quote]

Asalam Alaikom Warhmatullah Wbaraktuh


Really Kambuli ? give me proof from Quran and Sunnah that we can talk to men freely ?

I can give your proof that we can't Freely [under some conditions you can Bot MOS DEF NOT FREELY], not only the voice I can give you from quran and Sunnah that we must avoide being alone with them, conceal our sleves from men ect ect ..


can you give me a single hadeeth that promotes that men and women should mingle freely .. ! ??

Fe Aman Ellah

[avowedly-agnostic]

Do you mean to imply that she's going to go to hell if she converses with men? These beliefs of your Mrs Wahhabi are really bordering on insanity.

[SoMaLiSiZz]

[quote="Gacalisa"]Laa ilaaha Ila laah.

Kambuli, dont bee so naive, even the most flexible sect will tell you that men and woman are not associate with one another if he is not related to you or not you husband.

not mingling with men will prevent any fitna or sin from happening. if you dont believe serve the net, even better ask you local shiekh.


Somalisiz.

you Quoted from the Quran, which is God's words, and as i have said god is the only one with authority to say someone will go to hell. you say, somone is does such and such may go to hell. but cannot say a direct person or an individual (hear the kafirs on Snet) will go to hell. \

you can state the characterists as you have and actions that can lead a person to hell, but not say that a person will actually to hell.[/quote]

Asalam Alaikom Warhmatullah Wbaraktuh

sister where did I say so and so will go to hell ??! I am not that stupid to tell someone while they live they will go to hell fire .. as I would only gain Allah's anger and punishment ! sacry indeed!! Allahuma Aqfrely w tob 3alaya inak Anta twaaabul RA7eem ===> only a jaahil would talk about the Qayb [the un-seen]

Arroor/habeen wanaagsan I have some learning to do ! gtg ==>

Fe AmaN Ellah

[kambuli]

Somalisis,

Waar yaa Ilaahay yaqaan

Sister I think we are talking about two different things. Mingling with men, do you mean.. "Sharmuuteysi" iyo edeb darro?

If you mean the above I agree with you. But if you mean not to talk to any man who is gayaan( This includes our first cousins) then you are suggesting that all Somali women are then doomed.... Who does not talk to his first cousin? Are you telling me, you have never talked with your first cousin or never associated with him? Come on sister do not mislead us.

I associate with men every day... And I have no guilt in doing that.. because Allaah SWT sees everything and knows everything...Allaah knows that I have no bad intentions what soever. Just to work and earn money to live or go to school.

Tell me are you saying Aisha RLC when she was leading, she was wrong? Because we know she was dealing with the muslims.. men and women?

Not to associate with men is like not to have oxygen.... Men are everywhere, they are our teachers, our doctors, our lawyers, our bosses, our cousins, our present and future husbands they are everything.... Or you are suggesting for the women to be locked in a dark room?

[kambuli]

Somalisis,

I am still waiting for your response