I got a relative with 3 wives and he's doing alright but personally find it weird.grandpakhalif wrote:If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice
Allah SWT does not start with one but Allah SWT starts with TWO, THREE, FOUR
In another ayat Allah says
Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women, even if it is your ardent desire: But turn not away (from a woman) altogether, so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If ye come to a friendly understanding, and practise self- restraint, Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.
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Granpa how many wives does your dad have?
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OneBlackVelvet wrote:Granpa how many wives does your dad have?
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I am curious, why do you feel like you have to constantly advocate polygamy marka seeing as you were raised in a monogamous household?grandpakhalif wrote:OneBlackVelvet wrote:Granpa how many wives does your dad have?
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BlackV, I am not a greedy man but wish to be a mercy to this world. I see many young single mothers struggling and living pay cheque to pay cheque, they need a helping hand and If I have the financial means to do so I will marry her. If my first wife is not willing to accept this there are many women who will not hesitate.BlackVelvet wrote:I am curious, why do you feel like you have to constantly advocate polygamy marka seeing as you were raised in a monogamous household?grandpakhalif wrote:OneBlackVelvet wrote:Granpa how many wives does your dad have?
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So you will divorce your first wife and make her a garoob so that you can go and marry another garoob, or 2. Assuming you will have enough money to raise 2/3 families have you considered using that money to build a system that finds the solution to the whole problem instead of helping just 2 single mothers. Perhaps funding counselling for single mothers so that they can get back with the father of their children or introduce widows to widowers? There are many ways of solving a problem. But on the bright side at last you don't seem to want to use Islam as an excuse to go around marrrying a string of virgins.
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Maybe you are right BV, thanks for the compliment you are now my favourite forumer 
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BlackVelvet wrote:Perhaps funding counselling for single mothers
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Lord have mercy!grandpakhalif wrote: BlackV, I am not a greedy man but wish to be a mercy to this world.
its raining "grandpakhalif" hallelujah
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zulaika wrote:Lord have mercy!grandpakhalif wrote: BlackV, I am not a greedy man but wish to be a mercy to this world.
its raining "grandpakhalif" hallelujah
He wants to spread himself around
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Men walk into lots of things without thinking, Shirib.Shirib wrote:I don't know why men think its fun or cool to marry more than one wife. Its a big time masuuliyad, and men walk into it without thinking of that
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