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There should be a reason for bringing a kid to this world though.. don't you agree? Yes, there are rational reasons; insurance policy that provide you with an indemnity when you are not able to function but that is not a reason enough if you have accumulated wealth.greenday wrote:Waa caadi i myself dont see me as a "mother" but i know children are a blessing so
That's your choice and people should respect that. Are you planning not to get married too?daiman wrote:I said this to someone who is a relative of mine ( a year and so ago). I am still angry the way he responded which was ' waxa qoran wey qoran yahiin, maxaa niyada iskaga dileysaa'I did not understand where that came from since I was not old or anything. I said similar thing to a cousin of mine and she did not believe me.
But walahi, I feel I do not want to have children. I do not see myself bringing up children for such a long time( another 18 years).
am I selfish?
but at the sametime somalida would look at you differently. I saw them feeling sorry for childless old people.
If you just take a minute and reflect (critically) by setting aside the conventional wisdom on this issue, you will conclude that there are holes here and there.Shirib wrote:^^^ lool, why can't you just want kids. There is joy into having them. Everyone I've met says they love their kids more than anything else in the world, and it's not for insurance
Lamgoodle wrote:There should be a reason for bringing a kid to this world though.. don't you agree? Yes, there are rational reasons; insurance policy that provide you with an indemnity when you are not able to function but that is not a reason enough if you have accumulated wealth.greenday wrote:Waa caadi i myself dont see me as a "mother" but i know children are a blessing so
P.s. I can't overcome the fooling you subjected this odeyga shaalka watow
its just i have too many fears what if they turn out wrong? i mean no mother raises her children to be monsters/ being pregnant and giving birth/not being able to cope/ feeling hopeless if they have some illness or they get sick 
survival of the fittest, fittest depends on how you are able to reproduceLamgoodle wrote:If you just take a minute and reflect (critically) by setting aside the conventional wisdom on this issue, you will conclude that there are holes here and there.Shirib wrote:^^^ lool, why can't you just want kids. There is joy into having them. Everyone I've met says they love their kids more than anything else in the world, and it's not for insurance
Ha igu saminin sababtoo ah wiilkaaga inuu raaca ayaan ka cabsanayaa;greenday wrote:Lama how about this you tell me your name and inshallah hadaa wiil dhalo wakugu saminaa and we are even
Lamgoodle wrote:Ha igu saminin sababtoo ah wiilkaaga inuu raaca ayaan ka cabsanayaa;greenday wrote:Lama how about this you tell me your name and inshallah hadaa wiil dhalo wakugu saminaa and we are even
Seriously though; I kind of felt sorry for you. Single mother raising a boy whose father has abandoned him. Walaahi, I also thought about kicking the tenents of my houre in Southall so that you could move in for free.
Shiribow; now you are taking a perspective that closes the issue. If you say ALLAH's will who am I to disagree.
I guess you dont pay much attention to what people say because if you did you might have been able to tell i was bluffing based on my previous commentsLamgoodle wrote:I am a naive guy or as Northern European say "blue eyed" ; an aura of innocense and believing in what people tell me. You see, I have not had a bad time; I have always had the best of everything; education, money and blessings.
Yes, that is one of my major weakness. I believe what people tell me. I am always a victim of scums. I once sent 500 dollars to someone who said we were related. I later found out that that person was a liar.greenday wrote:I guess you dont pay much attention to what people say because if you did you might have been able to tell i was bluffing based on my previous commentsLamgoodle wrote:I am a naive guy or as Northern European say "blue eyed" ; an aura of innocense and believing in what people tell me. You see, I have not had a bad time; I have always had the best of everything; education, money and blessings.
habeen wanaagsan 
