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[quote="MAD MAC"]The guy didn't "play her". He probably saw this hot Somali chick, didn't know how to spell Islam, never learned that the Somalis aren't just "Africans", maybe ate one or two Somali meals - in short, he liked the nookie and the look and maybe even some of the superficial aspects of the girl, but didn't do any real homework. Next thing you know they're living together and he says "Shit, these people really are different. And the Somalis are total d!cks" (And I love you guys or I wouldn't hang out here, but let's face it, Somalis aren't the easiest people in the world to get along with). Course then it's too late.
As for the girl, she did about as much homework as he did. In fact, she KNEW he came from a religious Christian family, but she just ignored that fact. Not too smart.[/quote]
so mac you're telling us both of them were idiots!
On the other hand, a friend of mine did marry a Somali girl. They WERE smart enough to talk about things like religious and cultural differences. For her, raising the kids as Muslims was a show stopper. He had to agree to that before they got married. They learned a lot about each others cultures before they decided to pull the trigger and get married. Everyone has their red lines (obviously for me, raising the kids with just one specific religious orientation would be a no-go). And it is important to know what those are before you get married. My friend and his Somali girl have now been happily married for over ten years.
I actually feel sorry for her, I have noticed that some non-Somali guys seem to have an unnatural fascination with Somali women which sometimes stems from the fact that they are so difficult to hook up with, rather than any deep connection, but unfortunately some dudes will try so hard until a Somali chick assumes it must be love and to some people assume love conquers all only to find out it doesn’t. It’s hard way to learn a lesson though.
p/s:Never fall in love with someone who pays way too much attention to all the superficial stuff about you, be it beauty, brains, status, exoticness a la somaliness in this case etc because soon or later they have to deal with the real you.
No she didn’t do her homework. She said he was RICH and WELL CONNECTED and she LIKED the ATTTENTION he was given her when he was chasing her around not when they were together as couple that is why the chicken head sold her soul. She was very superficial not to mention stupid and ignorant. Him being Christian was given. That is not doing homework.
“My next man will bee 100% Somali†Are you kidding me. No Somali man will marry her asz with that little bastard. If she didn’t have a garac kid may be but not with the kid.
Basra rolled her eyes first and than agreed with the Donkey Man just because she simply going through the same situation and looking for a sympathy.
“He blame the idiot but not the Somali girl wallahi†Basra please…just keep your legs closed.
Dhaga.. ....I think again--u are obsessed with moi. You know--lets get this over.Lets do it once & for all.Lets get a room ONLY TO HUG.Then forgive each other & move on.
[quote="Basra-"]Dhaga.. ....I think again--u are obsessed with moi. You know--lets get this over.Lets do it once & for all.Lets get a room ONLY TO HUG.Then forgive each other & move on. [/quote]
Go to room with you why?
Hugging you will be suffocating with all that fat around your chest, stomach and all..