Do not tell the wifey--Are you crazy? What!! Do you think she will congratulate you, or shake your hand and give you a kiss on the forehead. Mayaa. She will blame everything on you and she will probley embrasse you and spread rumors.. She will most probley forgive the guy straight away and he will just continue.
The best thing to do is scare him off by telling your papa

(Aheem if you are close.Lol!) Otherwise, your brother..or a close male friend. Whatever you do dont act like your in another relationship and tooo involved else where--that makes them want you more *And we do that strictly when we're teasing/playing hard to get*--Ok?!.
Don't tell me he has kids?
