Virgins

[Biif Baaf]

[quote="Alluring"]Okay, I forgive your actions. But do not blame it on youth![/quote]



You forgive my actions? Cajeeb badanaa! Anyway, do you know what the Arabs call youth? Muqarama, meaning the years of confusion, trial & error. You either sink low or you rise above. Alhamdulilah, I got my shyt together b4 it was too late.

[Alluring]

Life is merely about choices, and age has nothing to do with it. People are always blaming their YOUTH for repugnant actions.

Honestly, there are small mistakes people can do in their youth, but losing their virginity is far beyond the accepted norm for childish behavior.

You would have to

1.) Think of doing the act

2.) Engaging in the act

I highly doubt it just HAPPENS!

[Biif Baaf]

Alluring: Yes, everything in life is about choices, but when you are 17 years old and you got all kinds of hormones and what not running through your body. It gets hazy, thank your lucky stars that you weren't born a man. We got a monkey the size of an SUV riding on our back. And being in the West only complicates things even more.

[Advocatar]

your not longer my hero bif baf.......I looked upto you man and now you come clean,


how could you!!!!!!!

[FAH1223]

[quote="Biif Baaf"]Alluring: Yes, everything in life is about choices, but when you are 17 years old and you got all kinds of hormones and what not running through your body. It gets hazy, thank your lucky stars that you weren't born a man. We got a monkey the size of an SUV riding on our back. And being in the West only complicates things even more.[/quote]

I'm 17!

I feel so accomplished

sorry bro

[Alluring]

Men using their gender as a scapegoat, never gets old.

[Biif Baaf]

Advo & FAH: Screw you both....

seriously though, I don't think any Muslim should brag about his sins, because the condition for repentence is not being proud of the sins one has done.

You got the MTV and the Ebony magazines and shyt...what is a brotha to do? walaahi, women don't know what they have.

[Regina George]

Is it wrong of me to discriminate against non-virgins? I'm being serious here. I don't have any respect for a man who's engaged in premarital sex...I just can't be around them ( even if it was just a "one-time" thing).

And dudes, contrary to popular belief, it's not any easier for a chick to remain chaste..So Alluring is right..being young, stupid, and having raging hormones isn't an excuse.

[Biif Baaf]

[quote="Alluring"]Men using their gender as a scapegoat, never gets old.[/quote]


Let's swtich bodies and I'll show you...hadii kale iska aamus. This has nothing to do with using gender as an excuse, it has everything to do with human nature. Men are more sexual than women, even Islam confirms this in many instances.

[FAH1223]

[quote="Alluring"]Men using their gender as a scapegoat, never gets old.[/quote]

'ism!

[Biif Baaf]

Ash: A chaste Muslimah can not marry a non-chaste Muslim man & vice versa, unless he repents. Because repentance wipes away all the sins that were commited. So, you have a valid point in feeling the way you do. Its difficult for any man to have a wife who was not a virgin, in many cultures, the man can nullify the marriage.

But you must understand that men have a harder time staying chaste than women, because of their biological make-up.

[Alluring]

Biif

Yada-yada-yada

That has nothing to do with the issue, the fact of that matter is, there are NUMEROUS men who can control themselves, and you mister failed miserably. Stop blaming it on sexuality, gender and age.

[Regina George]

[quote="Biif Baaf"][quote="Alluring"]Men using their gender as a scapegoat, never gets old.[/quote]


Let's swtich bodies and I'll show you...hadii kale iska aamus. This has nothing to do with using gender as an excuse, it has everything to do with human nature. Men are more sexual than women, even Islam confirms this in many instances.[/quote]

(Most) Women don't give into their urges. That's the difference.

[FAH1223]

[quote="Alluring"]Biif

Yada-yada-yada

That has nothing to do with the issue, the fact of that matter is, there are NUMEROUS men who can control themselves, and you mister failed miserably. Stop blaming it on sexuality, gender and age.[/quote]

*yawn*

[Alluring]

Fah why are you yawning?

Because I am telling the truth, that you men can not seem to handle?