I take it all back, the man can be the head of the household

[SultanOrder]

BV, obviously I'm talking about rational decision making. Girls/women put a lot more emphasis on how decisions affect other people, boys and men think more rationally, black/white.

Ur right. Women are more group-oriented and thus focus on the relational effects of any action/process. While men on the other hand are more individualistic and thus more concerned with the results, rather than maintaining existing relationships.

Exactly

[BlackVelvet]

Ultimately, whether a women will let her husband take the lead is not really a decision she actively makes. It's a reactive one that responds to her husbands raganimo. If he's fulfilling his role and shows leadership qualities then even the most ardent feminist will follow her man. By nature women find the responsibility that comes with leadership burdensome, so they're just waiting for a man worthy of being followed.

I agree. But instead of "reacting" to raganimo, marry nin rag ah who can step up when you need him to and is rag enough to sit down when you need him to

What am I missing

Black Velvet has more testosterone than estrogen flowing through her veins. Waa Carawelo reincarnated.

If that's what helps you reason through your feeling threatened by a female (through a computer screen) then yes, I have a strong 8 pack and tatoos too

[zumaale]

If that's what helps you reason through your feeling threatened by a female (through a computer screen) then yes, I have a strong 8 pack and tatoos too

Yasmine Cadeey, Gacaliso, that was tongue in cheek dee. You know I am a part time troll so please do not take offense.

[Jugjugwacwac]

I agree. But instead of "reacting" to raganimo, marry nin rag ah who can step up when you need him to and is rag enough to sit down when you need him to

U got it. Now good luck, cuz it's slim pickings out there. Just don't let that make u crossover into ajanabi territory if u can help it.

[BlackVelvet]

Yasmine Cadeey, Gacaliso, that was tongue in cheek dee. You know I am a part time troll so please do not take offense.

Oh no, ha ka walwalin, being called Carawelo is never offensive

U got it. Now good luck, cuz it's slim pickings out there. Just don't let that make u crossover into ajanabi territory if u can help it.

Let's all pray for Somali men to be niman rag

[Jugjugwacwac]

Let's all pray for Somali men to be niman rag

Go to the hawd. You'll find a caano-geel guzzling, tooray wielding, testosterone fuelled, virile geel-jire man. The last bastion of Somali masculinity is in the miyi. The city folk back home and in the diaspora have turned jileec.

[zulaika]

BV

See how easy life can be when u stop warring with men?

Relax and let him run the show...

[zumaale]

Let's all pray for Somali men to be niman rag

Go to the hawd. You'll find a caano-geel guzzling, tooray wielding, testosterone fuelled, verile geel-jire man. The last bastion of Somali masculinity is in the miyi. The city folk back home and in the diaspora have turned jileec.

Bro, BV is a proud Hawiye Irir, if they do not subscribe to being Irir, she ain't game.

[Jugjugwacwac]

Bro, BV is a proud Hawiye Irir, if they do not subscribe to being Irir, she ain't game.

lol, the hawd is Irir territory saaxiib. She'll be welcomed like royalty in Awaare, Gaashaamo and Dannood iyo meelo kaloo badan.

[0sman]

BV, what dirac were you wearing during your "absence"?

[zumaale]

Bro, BV is a proud Hawiye Irir, if they do not subscribe to being Irir, she ain't game.

lol, the hawd is Irir territory saaxiib. She'll be welcomed like royalty in Awaare, Gaashaamo and Dannood iyo meelo kaloo badan.

Ina Apti, Rageeyga! Allow ku dhowr.

[birtacalanka]

letting a man lead because you're incompetent
very sad

[GAMES]

Everything should be based on 50/50. The two partners respect each other and help each other whenever the other is down.

[PLATINUUM]

Wth has everyone smoked in my absence? who is this velvet creature that claims to be a woman but giving all the power to men. And abdi j becoming a muslim because he thought all muslims were terrorists and the rise of anti feminists on here.

smh...




ps did juls come back?

[BlackVelvet]

BV

See how easy life can be when u stop warring with men?

Relax and let him run the show...

Run the show...makes me nervous. One step at a time

The one thing I still can't get my head around is compromising your long-term plan by putting his needs ahead of your own. Still waiting for a eureka moment because it's impossible for 2 people to be heading in exactly the same direction at exactly the same speed.

Go to the hawd. You'll find a caano-geel guzzling, tooray wielding, testosterone fuelled, virile geel-jire man. The last bastion of Somali masculinity is in the miyi. The city folk back home and in the diaspora have turned jileec.

Lugooyo, mar hore maxa leygu sheegi waaye. I should pack my bags regardless and let myself be knocked over the head and dragged to a cave.