Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.

[xiimaaya]

Waba ceeb naag. School. Adisa

[1nemansquad]

This thread also made me smile; because its clear that we want or we marry for the wrong reasons. We are also 9 out of 10 look for the wrong qualities in a wife/husband. Marry for your Aakhira and the Aakhira of your children, don't marry for this Duniya, if that is the case 9 out of 10 that marriage is doomed from the go.

Education is important but truth of the matter is it doesn't make a marriage successful. There wasn't a better husband than our beloved prophet scw. If a brother is god fearing and has the ability and integrity to be respectful towards you ladies and provide for his family, I say eff Education. You be the Educated one in the family, its wonderful.
Just because a girl listens to Beyonce doesn't mean she is corrupt, take a look at your wife to be's mother; even if she isn't ideal at the start, if her hooyo is a wonderful hooyo then with Allah's blessing she will also be a wonderful hooyo to your kids and if she is a good hooyo then is without a doubt a good wife.

One more thing, in whatever relationship u are in, define it from the word "go" in terms of what you want out of it that way, things will be much easier on both parties involved as they'll be in it with clear consciousness & precise direction.

[Twist]

I really feel sorry for those women, most of the time they put their career first and once the years of 27-30 are reached they go through a mid life crisis. Whilst they were young and fair they'd have this airhead mentality but once the dreaded age has been met and they still have not done their number 1 job which is to reproduce they will settle down with the first loser willing.

I know ones who are in that situation right now.


And I feel like

[Tuushi]

Why do people make marriage seem as it is their only purpose in life?

[BlackVelvet]

stop over analyzing...marriage is calaf...and we all know there's 2 kinds of calaf, the one you wait for and the one you grab by the collar

talo, what respect does a girl deserve when she wants to vainly pursue studies until her late 20s like she has all the time in the world or something and then get hitched? ma rag baa u adkayn lahaa waxaas dee? gabdhahaas ookale duurka gal baan leeyahay, waaga ay gashaanti ahayd oo guurku u mudnaa bey diiday, hadaba markuu miin kasoo muuqdo oo ey weji gabowdo bey wax raadsanaysaa

[Twist]

Why do people make marriage seem as it is their only purpose in life?

OK, I made a self-promise to temporarily stop trolling for the sake of the coming holly Ramadan month so how are you, Tush?

[Tuushi]

Why do people make marriage seem as it is their only purpose in life?

OK, I made a self-promise to temporarily stop trolling for the sake of the coming holly Ramadan month so how are you, Tush?

I am not sure i trust that face following my comment. What is he saying?

Doing great Twist. U?

[1nemansquad]

Why do people make marriage seem as it is their only purpose in life?

Marriage is half your Deen. That alone makes it more beneficial than almost anything else you can achieve in life.

[Tuushi]

Why do people make marriage seem as it is their only purpose in life?

Marriage is half your Deen. That alone makes it more beneficial than almost anything else you can achieve in life.

Half my deen eh? I am not a religious scholar but i am sure it is not mandatory and doesnt mean i am less of a muslim than someone married.

[BlackVelvet]

Why do people make marriage seem as it is their only purpose in life?

Marriage is half your Deen. That alone makes it more beneficial than almost anything else you can achieve in life.

Half my deen eh? I am not a religious scholar but i am sure it is not mandatory and doesnt mean i am less of a muslim than someone married.

You are half as much of a muslim because you only have half your deen, you need to find someone else who is in the same predicament and borrow their half while they borrow yours and become whole muslims.

[1nemansquad]

You don't really need to be an scholar to know this, I'm not either. Basic knowledge. Research it for yourself

[Twist]

Why do people make marriage seem as it is their only purpose in life?

OK, I made a self-promise to temporarily stop trolling for the sake of the coming holly Ramadan month so how are you, Tush?

I am not sure i trust that face following my comment. What is he saying?

Doing great Twist. U?

Grace be to the Almighty. Just training and exercising my stomach for Ramadan by eating less & less day after day, since I was cantuugo-weyne & used to feast on every meal.

PS: As 1nemansquad mentioned, marriage is high in the Islam scale so you can't eat your ugali and have it at the same time, eedo. Intaad sheekadaa deyso inankaa ina adeerkaa ahaa ee kuu kululaa qaraabo kiil oo ka ducesyo, maalkan waa laga dhimanaa oo abooraa ka dambeeyee.

[Tuushi]

Bv

1man. Adigaa sheekada meesha keeney ee bring that ayat/hadith that makes me less of a believer.

Twist. Alhamdulilah. Ramadhan is here already.


Ina adeerkey iyo aniga iskuma saqajaano.

[Alphanumeric]

Ibn Taymiyyah never married.

[1nemansquad]

1man. Adigaa sheekada meesha keeney ee bring that ayat/hadith that makes me less of a believer.

Anas ibn Maalik (رضي الله عنه) narrated that the Messenger of Allaah () said:

Whoever Allaah blesses with a righteous wife, then He has assisted him in half of his deen. So therefore, let him fear Allaah in the other half