walle waa yaab

[suga_n_spice]

the other day i was talkin to a friend who's a newlywed, and i was shocked at what she had to say. she's young and is kinda goin through some marital problems, and we all know that's normal. everyone goes thru it. anyhow, she's like "i tell him to do something and he never does it, i'm so tired, but there is nothing i can do because he always apologizes and sayz he'll never do it again even though he does. so right now, i can't really be tough on him because i need him to pay the rent, but when i get my low income house i'll will handle his azz"

what happened to our values, our beliefs? since when is marriage so meaningless? why do we need government funds to discipline our husbands for us?

[AbdiWahab252]

Suga,

U need to leave OH

[STOP!]

ASK HER DID SHE MARRY A BOY OR A MAN?

[suga_n_spice]

abdi, i really do wanna leave, but this is my home. it's where i grew up, and it will alwayz b in my heart. meeshaan sheeko iyo war aan caadi aheeyn baad ka dharki walle.

stop, she blames herself for the way he acts because she said she married him that way.

[ms.naliaa]

She lets him get away with it thats why he walks all over her.
As if moving into another home is going to solve the issues between them.
To me; it seems that shes a control freak. You cant TELL a man what to do. You can ask him, you can encourage him..but u cant tell him like hes' ur child.

She needs to spend some time learning how to communicate with a man...

[FAH1223]

Suga,

U need to leave OH

i agree

[suga_n_spice]

nalia, she isn't a control freak cuz if she was, this would not be happenin to begin with. ninkaaga hadaad faraha ka qaado, don't expect him to behave. in a way men are like children. u show them who's boss!

seriously tho, rules and regulations should be established when the marriage is fresh

u guyz r right, ohio made me who i am, but it's time i spread my wings and fly away!

[STOP!]

nalia, she isn't a control freak cuz if she was, this would not be happenin to begin with. ninkaaga hadaad faraha ka qaado, don't expect him to behave. in a way men are like children. u show them who's boss!

WOMEN ARE MORE LIKE CHILDREN DEN MEN...MEN ARE THE BOSS OF THE HOUSE DNT GET IT TWISTED!

[Ka darag]

LOL I AINT EVEN GNA TELL U WAT IVE SEEN FIRST HAND COZ ITS FAMILY BUSINESS BUT BOY IS MARRAIGE MEANINGLESS NOWADAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[suga_n_spice]

nalia, she isn't a control freak cuz if she was, this would not be happenin to begin with. ninkaaga hadaad faraha ka qaado, don't expect him to behave. in a way men are like children. u show them who's boss!

WOMEN ARE MORE LIKE CHILDREN DEN MEN...MEN ARE THE BOSS OF THE HOUSE DNT GET IT TWISTED!

r u sure about that?! nimanka waa la sasabikaraa sidii ilmaha as far as im concerned

[ms.naliaa]

nalia, she isn't a control freak cuz if she was, this would not be happenin to begin with. ninkaaga hadaad faraha ka qaado, don't expect him to behave. in a way men are like children. u show them who's boss!

seriously tho, rules and regulations should be established when the marriage is fresh

u guyz r right, ohio made me who i am, but it's time i spread my wings and fly away!

Men are not like children...why would you marry a child?

I just think that the way you handle a man is completely different than the way you handle a woman. He has figuered out how to handle her...she hasnt figuered it out yet and until she does she'll keep hoping that he'll change.

[STOP!]

nalia, she isn't a control freak cuz if she was, this would not be happenin to begin with. ninkaaga hadaad faraha ka qaado, don't expect him to behave. in a way men are like children. u show them who's boss!

WOMEN ARE MORE LIKE CHILDREN DEN MEN...MEN ARE THE BOSS OF THE HOUSE DNT GET IT TWISTED!

r u sure about that?! nimanka waa la sasabikaraa sidii ilmaha as far as im concerned

WAA LA SASABIKARAA WITH WHAT?....NAC NAC?

[AbdiWahab252]

Suga,

U need to leave OH

i agree

FAH,

She should come over and live in the Great State of MD


Suga,

When and if I do ever make it to your city, we need to sit down and talk.

[suga_n_spice]

Stop, maybe
ok, jk, but seriously nimanka hadii aad hadal fiican kula hadashid ood dhaqaaleysid they'll be happy. u know the essentials

nalia, not like children of course, but similiar, but ur right he definitely has her figured out and if she's gonna have a successful relationship, she'll need to figure things out quick!

abdi, bal iskeen huuno. imaanshahaagi wuu dheeraadaye!

[SummerRain]

If she has a husband, maxaa low income uu gaye? Why is she setting her standards so low?