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is there way to make it halaal ? one nite nikaax?
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shaamboo wrote:is there way to make it halaal ? one nite nikaax?

Become a shi'i (shites). Nikah Mutah (Muta') is what you may want to consider...it is haran in Sunny's teachings though.
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The Somali Ukhti's Take thier Friend With Them To Meet The Akhi :lol:

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Du$ty wrote:The Somali Ukhti's Take thier Friend With Them To Meet The Akhi :lol:

True Story

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Du$ty wrote:The Somali Ukhti's Take thier Friend With Them To Meet The Akhi :lol:

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How can something so immoral be justified?
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shaamboo wrote:is there way to make it halaal ? one nite nikaax?
No. Because Islam is built on justice and it wouldn't be fair to anyy woman to be dumped after just one night of bonging.

That's why the Prophet (saw) encouraged young men to lower their gaze, fast as much as they can and marry if they're able to.

Promiscuity is nothing to be proud of, whether you're a man or a woman.
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beside haraam and zina etc, this is one thing i never understood, which is, how you allow for other what you wouldnt for your own family member.
illen qof walba aqal bo ka so jeedaye, just like yours
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hyperactive wrote:beside haraam and zina etc, this is one thing i never understood, which is, how you allow for other what you wouldnt for your own family member.
illen qof walba aqal bo ka so jeedaye, just like yours
Waa runtaa adeer. There's no living man that would agree to his sister being discarded after one night, unless kaasi uu yahay mid dayuus ah.
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hyperactive wrote:beside haraam and zina etc, this is one thing i never understood, which is, how you allow for other what you wouldnt for your own family member.
illen qof walba aqal bo ka so jeedaye, just like yours
sure qofwalba baraako uu soo baxay , but qofwalba sharmuuto mala dhalan.
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a while ago this guy we went grade school who is shia, we were discussing zawaj al-mot'a etc.

he wanted to convince me that was okay and umar banned it.

i asked if that acceptable in religion wise/islam, would you let your sister, mother to do to them?
he was like no, we dont do that to 3awil bess naas watiyeen= socially lower class than hiss!! aka poor families who want sell their daughters for money!!

adeer there's a lot of double standing going on in the name of religion, some times it's sicking. Allah kareem.

shamboo, if that's your logic then as they say: kama todaan to deen.
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Pre-marital sex and marriages for the purpose of 1 night stands known by both parties are haraam.

Just marry 4 wives and make sure your wrapped :up:
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Du$ty wrote:The Somali Ukhti's Take thier Friend With Them To Meet The Akhi :lol:

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I'm assuming her friend is a female, if so..Thats still not acceptable. Unless her friend is her father, brother, uncle or grandfather :|
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Du$ty wrote:The Somali Ukhti's Take thier Friend With Them To Meet The Akhi :lol:

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:lol: :lol:
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war aniga hal wax aan la yaabay.

nin kastoo somali ah waxuu ku dhahaa qoftaas anaa la socdo ana cunay. naag walba oo soomali ahna waxay ku dhaheey boyfriend waa xaaraan oo bacdayda aan qabaa.

ma anaa waalan mise cadan aa laga heesooyaa waaye sheekada.
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No girl wants to be shamed in front of other people...of course she will lie. Many of the men are lying too...Its also the same in this culture. 21% percent of women here say they have no sex at all...only 15% of men would admit to that.
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