Getting a husband from *back home*

[qoraxeey]

Is it a good idea ?


discuss

[qoraxeey]

there are many young women and older habro who are doing that in my town

and some are lucky . others not

[HELWAA]

Whats wrong with men back home, they are decent and loving.

[SultanOrder]

Wallahi i have met some great Men down there, inteligent, hardworkers, educated, all they need is an opportunity and they would thrive in the west.

[qoraxeey]

Helwaa

thats what I have heard

many girls do that now !

lakin all are not lucky ,, some are get used .. and most men lie , cuz they already have other wife and children from before

[qoraxeey]

PO

i get ya . but some are also heartless .. some women are looking for love
and they maybe are just looking for a chance to get out of africa

[CoolPoisons]

Belo

only Somali men from diaspora can get a wifey back home

not otherway round

dumarka in the diaspora are already struggling to get a man from Diaspora madaame asaga back home mid ka doonaya

[qoraxeey]

CoolP

why not the other way around

i've seen it alot

[SultanOrder]

some are good lovers and very appreciative, I'm talking about dhalinyartaa

[CoolPoisons]

dumarka from diaspora need to become 2nd or 3rd wives

They already outnumber the men and have to compete

[fisabililah]

assalamu aleykum,

If the two people are compatible, why not ?. then again coming from somalia to West is a big transition. not everyone adapts..

Also is this actually prevalent in the somali community, Women getting husbands from back home ?.

[HELWAA]

Helwaa

thats what I have heard

many girls do that now !

lakin all are not lucky ,, some are get used .. and most men lie , cuz they already have other wife and children from before

That how life is and everthing is qadar.You cant change ur destiny and Allah knows best.

[qoraxeey]

CoolP

thats why many women from here marry men from somalia , yemen & kenya

there are no men here in the west... other wise u have to be maybe wife 2 or 3

thats why they go to africa

here its only ciyaal suuq boys & married men

Helwaa

waa ruun wax kaste wa qadar . lakinse u cant help but wonder lolz

[qoraxeey]

assalamu aleykum,

If the two people are compatible, why not ?. then again coming from somalia to West is a big transition. not everyone adapts..

Also is this actually prevalent in the somali community, Women getting husbands from back home ?.

yes walaal . in my town i've seen it alot

one women 32 + never married .. got a man who lived in an arab country ( yemen ) , now they have 3 kids

[waryaa]

That's a dumb idea! How could u cross oceans to claim your Farah! There are a plenty of somali fish in your pond and all what u need is some skill. http://www.somalinet.com/singles. can be your starting point