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After the wedding...
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sexy-kitten
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After the wedding...
I have a friend who recently got married, she had a nice wedding with close family and friends. The wedding was over by 1 which in my opinion was tastefully done!She's now planning on a honeymoon. I gave her a few suggestions which made me think of my own wedding/honeymoon when I get married. Would you consider going on a honeymoon? Do you think its too western? If not, where would you want to go for your honeymoon?
Discuss!
Discuss!
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I agree about the time the wedding ends 12-1 is very good. If I had to chose a honeymoon it would be somewhere warm, sunny, great people that aren't too poor nor too rich, great food, and nice beaches, and a touristy place where I can enjoy good company. Somewhere where the nights are warm but the light breeze is cool and soft on the skin, the rooms are simply white, with a wide comfortable bed and soft cotton sheets, the windows are huge and the curtains are thin and easily blow in the wind, and if you are quiet you can hear the oceans. A community that is a mix of locals, and summer vacationers that come and stay months at a time, this way we can go back and see familiar faces every year.
Forget honeymoon I'm making this place my summer home.
Forget honeymoon I'm making this place my summer home.
Re: After the wedding...
after the wedding u get pregnant
and prepair for parenthood
many dont go to honeymoon anymore
at least we im from
and prepair for parenthood
many dont go to honeymoon anymore
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LobsterUnit
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Re: After the wedding...
I'm going to take Westlondon Shawty to Bognor Regis or Brighton pier for some traditional Fish and Chips.
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Rather than having a an expensive wedding. Why not spend most of it on Honeymoon and new Furniture? I find it it ridiculous to 15.000-50.000 pounds on a wedding.
Specially when i have seen guys divorce in a couple months.
Specially when i have seen guys divorce in a couple months.
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sexy-kitten
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Re: After the wedding...
Perfect Order, that sounds perfect! Have any destination in mind? I was thinking Sicily, Kaui, Jamaica or Italy. Nice getaway for 2 weeks. OR, a cruise would be nice staying 1 or 2 days in each 3 destination.
Qoraxey, that mentality is exactly what's wrong with many marriages. You can't just get married and BOOM get pregnant. Waayo? Why not get to know what its like to live with the person first? I would hate to get married and get pregnant in the first 5 months. Mmm, not happening! Then again, who am I to predict the future!
At least if you wait before having a child, you can build some sort of connection that way if God forbid we go our seperate ways, he can have that strong bond with our child. Maybe I'm just thinking ahead but no children for me in the first year and half of our marriage.
Kadarre, exactly what I mean!
Qoraxey, that mentality is exactly what's wrong with many marriages. You can't just get married and BOOM get pregnant. Waayo? Why not get to know what its like to live with the person first? I would hate to get married and get pregnant in the first 5 months. Mmm, not happening! Then again, who am I to predict the future!
At least if you wait before having a child, you can build some sort of connection that way if God forbid we go our seperate ways, he can have that strong bond with our child. Maybe I'm just thinking ahead but no children for me in the first year and half of our marriage.
Kadarre, exactly what I mean!
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Re: After the wedding...
It depends on my wife's age, if she's quite young like 20-24 we can go on a honeymoon but once she hits 25 thats when babies are made.
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sexy-kitten
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Re: After the wedding...
I mean nobody is telling you to stay on the honeymoon for 2 years.grandpakhalif wrote:It depends on my wife's age, if she's quite young like 20-24 we can go on a honeymoon but once she hits 25 thats when babies are made.
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Re: After the wedding...
In my view, Somali Weddings is a complete waste of Money. You only feeding ungrateful wedding crashers and bunch of old womans that talk bullshit!sexy-kitten wrote:I have a friend who recently got married, she had a nice wedding with close family and friends. The wedding was over by 1 which in my opinion was tastefully done!She's now planning on a honeymoon. I gave her a few suggestions which made me think of my own wedding/honeymoon when I get married. Would you consider going on a honeymoon? Do you think its too western? If not, where would you want to go for your honeymoon?
Discuss!
As for Honeymoons, I'd recommend 3 months backpacking Honeymoon through far-east ($5000).
NB: In humble view, Honeymoon worths the money. and is on my must do list.
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Just you and her. No outside interferenceJesteye wrote:In my view, Somali Weddings is a complete waste of Money. You only feeding ungrateful wedding crashers and bunch of old womans that talk bullshit!sexy-kitten wrote:I have a friend who recently got married, she had a nice wedding with close family and friends. The wedding was over by 1 which in my opinion was tastefully done!She's now planning on a honeymoon. I gave her a few suggestions which made me think of my own wedding/honeymoon when I get married. Would you consider going on a honeymoon? Do you think its too western? If not, where would you want to go for your honeymoon?
Discuss!
As for Honeymoons, I'd recommend 3 months backpacking Honeymoon through far-east ($5000).
NB: In humble view, Honeymoon worths the money. and is on my must do list.
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Re: After the wedding...
Somali weddings are waste of time and money, not to mention is tiring and loooong. Oh how i hate late weddings. Weddings should be done during the day, what’s with the night wedding horta? i think we the only nation that has weddings at night. I’m old fashion girl, anything after 9pm is too much for me. Have the wedding after salaatul dhuhur and no later than 8pm. By 9pm the couple should be at their new house, and 9am the next day they should be their way to the airport to a North African country for 2 weeks honeymoon. After two weeks, is back to reality. 
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Somalis blow so much money on the wedding that they do not have money left over for a honeymoon. Personally. If I was a girl, I'd go for a more modest wedding, and push for a honeymoon. Whats a one night party, but to take a trip to a exotic place, enjoy it for a couple weeks maxa aka fiican. Unlike Gaaloda, Somalis don't take out "Loans" for their weddings. Everything is cash. So at the end of the day,a typical Somali Faarax and His family are out of 35,000 minimum cash after Wedding and a possible honeymoon.
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Lord Diplock
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Re: After the wedding...
No need for a wedding just a honeymoon.
Re: After the wedding...
Lord Diplock wrote:No need for a wedding just a honeymoon.
Thats My thinking walle.
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Lord Diplock
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Do ninkah, then go away on a honeymoon. Wedding will attract many ungrateful people, who couldn't care less about you or your wedding. They are there to eat, meet people to date, talk rubbish about other people, or just to have a whale of a time.....It is waste of time and money in a nutshell.Murax wrote:Lord Diplock wrote:No need for a wedding just a honeymoon.
Thats My thinking walle.
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