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My wife and I have three children (the first born is not biologically mine) but we do not live together.
For one, she does not respect me — she often calls her male friends, whom I warned her against, just to hurt me.
Even worse, there is a time she met my sister and some of my friends and told them that since she is employed, she wants to be a single mother.
When I visit her over the weekends, she is never happy to see me. In fact, before, she used to invite a male friend over when she knew I was coming to visit.
Taking the children for a walk is a problem — she prefers that another person does this. When I do the shopping for the house, she is never happy, preferring that I give her the money. Small and petty issues can set her quarrelling the whole day.
She also does not respect my parents and family members. One day she called them and told them that she wants to be given freedom.
One of her male workmates died about two months ago and since then, she has been requesting for more money for upkeep, yet she used to be satisfied with what I used to give her. I suspect that she used to get money from him.My conclusion is that I am being treated like this because of these men and also because of her lust for money, which cannot support a home.
She does not even want to tell anyone that we are married. Before she was employed, all was well. Please advise.
