Here are mine:
*A deep baritone voice; talks in slang, but not in daily interaction.
*Takes a protector role, but isn't controlling.
*Capable of talking shit but only when we're bantering. Then, apologizes.
*Defines manhood for himself.
*A man who is intentional--thinks about the long term and delays gratification.
*A man who's active in his health; loves to hike and is willing to do mud runs with me.
*Holds me accountable.
*Likes being around children.
*Intelligent and well articulated but not in a douchebag kind of way. Understands that not everyone is privileged enough to further their education.
*Willing enough to do activist work with me.
*Willing to be an ally or at least empathetic to people who may not have the privileges he has.
*A critical thinker. Likes to question everything (who has a stake in this? whose interests am I fulfilling?)
*Had a similar upbringing (good morals, doesn't drink/smoke, respects his family)
*Willing to be vulnerable and open with me.
*Treats me like his equal NOT his subordinate.
*Is a complete gentleman in public but aggressive when we get home.
*Open minded in the bedroom (giggidy).
If he can seduce me in another language besides English and Somali.
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