Anyone who sends large sum of money back home to help out family is a moron

[KacdoonSool]

This ungrateful rats will turn on you if you think they are going to be good towards you for sending your entire salary you are being dumb
don't help out your own brother he will be the first one to stab you in the back in somalia

In the old days people were good, they were grateful, they had culture, they had moral and values. All that is gone now

Northern Somalis generosity was a positive thing in the past but now its bad the snakes will bite you trust me

[original dervish]

I think most folk recognise dependency and entitlement culture of the folks back home.
However, it's your duty to help out those in a worse condition than yourself. It doesn't have to be a large amount of money, certainly not your entire salary.
A few hundred bucks goes a long way.
Furthermore, you shouldn't be looking for thanks and praise......give for the sake of Allah swt.