     Khalid | Friday, December 22, 2000 - 10:57 am
How does one approach a beautiful muslim sister that's very religious without disrespecting her? I have nothing but good intentions for her. I see her once a week in the Masjid and I feel bad if I try to talk to her in the Masjid. May be I need to speak to the IMAM. |
| Anonymous | Friday, December 22, 2000 - 01:09 pm
what do you mean by good intentions for her? do you intend to marry her? May allah help you khalid I dont know how you could hook up with her but incase you do it make sure there is a third party present because a muslim man and a woman cant be alone together their third would be shaytan. |
| Aisha | Saturday, December 23, 2000 - 05:31 am
Assalamu Calaykum
Masha'Allah anonymos, U r absuletly right I agree it should be third person with u 2 and khalid I pray Allah to make easy for U if she's good for U ,,,,,,,Cuz u have to always ask god to show u the right path and if she's to the right path Hope Allah make easy for U and wish U the best bro. I just want to remind U all somethin before I go and that is:..............>
"Watch Your thoughts, they become words,
Watch Your words, they become actions,
Watch Your actions, they become habits,
Watch Your habits, they become character,
Watch Your character; It become your Destiny"
"Rabanaa Aatinaa fit duniyaa Xasana wa fil aaqirata Xasana Wa qinaa cadaaba Naara,"
Aamiin
Wabilaahi Towfiiq
Wasalaamu Calaykum |
| Jeego | Saturday, December 23, 2000 - 10:10 am
The guy want to talk the lady and you confuse him more? what do you mean third person? How can guy tell what he wants from Woman if there is onather person who was not to supposed to know if the guy gets the Big no? Very unrealstic answers?! Khalid no one ever succeeded asking help this morons unless your onather one? asking the Iman is big mistake? If he can talk to her so can you? deos the iman have licence to talk the lady alone? or he may decide to keep himself you never know man?!!
Listen its very simple You know what you want ok?
whenever the opportunity rises tell the woman what you want from her? after that your man enough to know what do next?!! if your to scared to do that your just wimp and simply dont deserve this woman? go and ask your mother to look one for you? |
| Anonymous | Saturday, December 23, 2000 - 11:30 am
Jeego may allah guide you. |
| ukhtifilah | Saturday, December 23, 2000 - 11:36 pm
Salaamu calaykum! aamiin anon! |
| Somalisister@ | Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 08:11 am
Salaam Calaykum
KHalid,,,theres somethin call Phone,,,,,,why don't u try to find her number,,,# and call I mean I am sure no one want to hear anyone in ur conferstation even though the relgion say it have to be third person to present with U and the lady so what's easy for U is callin her and telling How u feel before it's too late,,,,,we all want what's good for us ,,,,and if U really in love with her brother go for it,,But one ques I have for U ,,,,,,,,,Are U religious as she's? I mean she want religion person like her ,,,,,if U r than pray god to make easy for U every salat U pray,,,,,,May ALlah guide U and all of us the right path ,,,,,Aamiin
Salaam Calaykum |
| Anonymous | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 08:30 am
yes Khalid are you religious too? |
| Anonymous | Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 04:29 am
OK |
| unknown | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 07:13 pm
Salam aleyeykum
pry...istikara...
if you are religous ...and can take care of the sister...
- send some one related to you female like sister to tell your..cousin
-if you can't send or talk to her brother...
-if you can't ask imam...
-or last tell her father....
I don't advice you to get her phone and call her with out her parents not knowing I mean ....everything we should according Quran and Sunnah...
this chatting is done by some youth ...
talking in phone to know each other and father does not know...they laugh talk for hours...
I mean is this allowed....???
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if she reject be patient...
and
make Alot Duaa that Allah cures the love in you heart..its disease...
avoid seening her...
and know she is made from water..and soon she is going to be sand... |
| Nura | Friday, February 23, 2001 - 04:17 pm
Khalid,
I think you can talk to her in public, A place there's no privacy.
I got one suggestion, While you're in the Masjid greet her (I think nothing wrong with that).
Mean while try to tell her in gentle way that you're interested in her ( I think you can handle it from here)Insha allah.
Remember everything is (Qismah Wanasiib).
Wallahu yaclam.
Unknown,
Way to go , I see wisdom behind this
"know she is made from water..and soon she is going to be sand".
Salaam :-). |
| Anonymous | Sunday, February 25, 2001 - 02:53 am
to jeego: please stay out of this if you don't have some thing positive to say, and stop calling such to these ppl that you don't know. |
| Ukhtimuslima | Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 07:33 am
Asalaamu Aleikum
walaal Khaalid Ilaahay waxa sanbaan kaaga rajeeynayaa. walaal weey fiicantahay in waxa khaayrka ah laysku shegu rag iyo dumarba siiba raga. Walaal waa wax fiican in aad gabadha ahklaaqdeeda diinta ah ee Islaamka aad ku jeclaatay, waxabana lagayaaba in aay iyaduna sidoo kale akhlaaqdaada ka heshay laakiin aay gabar tahay oo eey kaa xushootay, hada kahorna walaal aneey sidaadaasoo kale igu dhacday.
Isku day walaal in aad e-mailkeeda ama telefonkeeda heshid si aay kuugu sahlanaato la hadelkeedu.
asalaamu alekum |
