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     | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 11:10 am Salaams' I'm kind in this situation you see...But I can't seem to come up with a solution!I think I've found my true love right here in this very forums. She goes by the name of Stranger. I love her ideas' and I just simply come on the net to surf because of her!The problem is that I don't know her and have no idea of what to do? P.S. Stranger if your reading this I would like to know if you have a wali? Salams from your brother in islam
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| | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 01:47 pm Can someone fall in love a someone who comes to this forums? !!!!!!!! How does this happen? I would like to know how. http://somalinet.com/forums_archives/4669/16593.html
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| | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 05:41 pm She is affiliated with Khalid bin Walid Mosque in Toronto. Leave your contact with the Mashaikh there. The problem is you need her real name. I can't help you with that.
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| | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 06:34 pm Salamu aleykum this is really strange It's really amazing to see this post... Brother how do you love some one from forums?!! May Allah help you. Love could be dangrous and Turn to disease, turn to Allah insha Allah. To Anonymous how do you know that about her, that she is affilated the place you either know the person, salamu aleykum ==========
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| | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 09:42 pm BROTHER first ask if she is married or talking to someone, then submit your proposal. fastest way to get this info is thru sisters network manager, TLG, she is like Dear Abby, for sisters on Somali forums. Good luck buddy!
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| | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 12:07 pm salamu aleykum ...... By the way, people don't joke about these things.. its serious thing... Joke should according Quran and sunnah, don't joke except something thats is not true. Internet now, lady could act like man, man could come with name of lady. salamu aleyum
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| | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 12:10 pm oops I mean don't joke except something that is true
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| | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 02:28 pm Salaam Aleikum Bro how you can fell in love someone you even don't know, that is unusual second if you liked her the way she posted articles may be she copy and past I like I do sometimes.
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| | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 02:46 pm Assalam alaykum wa-rahmetullahi wa-barakatuhu, I am the brother who posted this conversation and I am glad to see all your replies to my question. However, what saddens me the most is that I was not expecting to get this much negative critique from my fellow Muslim brothers and sisters. Moreover, what I meant' by love was that I love her for the sake of Allah (swt), it would be ridiculous to say I love someone whom I have never met! To the Brother/Sister who informed me about her whereabouts’ thank you for the information base. That makes everything much more easier for me because were from the same city inahallah if things work out I hope I’m not putting my hopes up too high my mother once told me (May god rest her soul) and I recall like it was yesterday “set goals’ that you can achieve”.In regard’s to the other commentaries’ I received keep in mind I am only doing this because it is something I feel solemn about. Jazaqallahu khairan wa-zadukumullahu bi-ilmin
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| | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 03:08 pm For the brother who is in love From one of her discussions I gathered that her father is not a muslim. See now you already have two leads. Insha allah I will see if there is a sister who posts by the name stranger at khalid bin walid.
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| | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 03:29 pm lol@Anonymous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You crack me up, bro....wink, wink. Your mother said shoot for the stars. What else did your lovely mom (our cousin) say, eh! I did not know that you grazed on both sides of the fence! lol. Typical somali always seeking greener pasture looool!!!!! Don't stop till you achieve your objective. When did my cousin pass away??? Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi Raajoon. If this is not a prank give me a shout at fresh2000_ca @ yahoo.com . My sister knows stranger. Although I doubt she is interested in getting to know a brother over the internet. She clearly stated in her other posts that she did not want this to happen. Stranger, walaal sorry for speaking on your behalf.
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| | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 05:42 pm Asalaamu alaikum, To the anonymous who refered to me as the "dear Abby" of Somalinet, I'm afraid I'll have to disapoint. I don't know stranger. And please, there is no sisters network to manage, a task i'm not qualified for anyways. salaams.
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| | Friday, March 02, 2001 - 05:51 am JB that was very rude of you. how can you make fun of a brother propsal for marriage. Islam say to help muslims in birr wa taqwa (in attaining good). I am disappointed in you.
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| | Friday, March 02, 2001 - 06:13 am WHAT A LOVE! good luck
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| | Friday, March 02, 2001 - 06:28 am Salamu aleykum Sultana masha Allah on your defense, But don't get upset on JB, you didn't understand JB JB truly spoke rude to brother... So lets make Case analysis(dectective work): 1.Maybe MR.JB is jelous from the brother. in this case we have to excuse him too, don't you see JB put his email there, don't you know when when one lover see another person who loves his "Truth", they act rude some times and do battles. Mr.JB put his email maybe he wants to get rid of the brother(mafia ways), so he could be the last. JB man this is not the way, you have to excuse the brothers for his love, talk to him nice manner. Also what you could do, ask him permission You should not be jelous from other people. 2. Case two: JB have connection with person who posted at the top, they know each other, or he knows who is the person, I mean don't think MR.JB will speak in that manner except a person he knows...(in this case he has to bring who is it)....or else people will think of the first one. JB, now you are "suspect two", you either bring lawyer or who done this..or you are in spot light. -------- Case under search...
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| | Friday, March 02, 2001 - 09:06 am Assalam alaykum wa-rahmetullahi wa-barakatuhu, JB, I cannot believe you would post such a message, full of hate and detestation for your brother in Islam. Has it ever occurred to you, it is that kind of attitude that is the source of the problem? Hate is a destroyer; it has never solved any problems. I hope you clean yourself of such a destructive energy. I had nor did I have intention of trashing your personality, as your own words speak for themselves. What goes around, always comes around, I guess. My intent was to talk to only those who had something to say worth replying to, or to those who made sense, but since I see how much the sinner is missing me, I will go ahead and try - against all odds - to enlighten him. I think the previous comment was taken to the very stretch of decency. Now, what this proves is the incoherence and contradictions in your posts. What I still can’t seem to come to understandings with is what you would gain out of ridiculing me? In the words of (Dorothy Parker) “I know that ridicule may be a shield, but it is not a weapon” (Dorothy Parker). On a lighter note, I hope you and I put all else aside and apprehend what brotherhood really means. I have forgiven you and I hope you have forgiven me. Were on this dunyah for only one sole purpose, which is to strive for the hereafter! Ameen! “Accusing a Muslim of doing an evil deed without proof is a major sin which deserves punishment. Talking about it to other people is a kind of gheebah (backbiting, gossip) which Allaah has forbidden and likened to a person eating the flesh of his dead brother, as He says (interpretation of the meaning):“… neither backbite one another. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? You would hate it (so hate backbiting). And fear Allaah. Verily, Allaah is the One Who accepts repentance, Most Merciful.”[al-Hujuraat 49:12]Whoever slanders his brother or accuses him of an evil deed has to repent to Allaah, ask his brother’s forgiveness, and avoid everything that causes harm to a fellow Muslim. Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever believes in Allaah and the Last Day, let him say something good or else remain silent.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 11/256, and by Muslim, no. 47). Abu Dharr (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: ‘No man accuses another of an immoral deed or kufr, but it will come back on him, if the person he accuses is not as he says he is.’” (Reported by al-Bukhari, 10/388). Accusing a Muslim of drinking wine is the same as accusing him of an immoral deed (fisq), and whoever accuses his brother of something he is not guilty of, Allaah will make him fall into the thing he of which he accused his brother. A man was brought to ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Abbaas, and he was told, “This is so and so, his beard was dripping with wine.” [Ibn ‘Abbaas] said, “We were forbidden to spy on others, but if something is obvious to us, we will accept it and act accordingly.” (Reported by Abu Dawood, 4890, who said it is a saheeh hasan hadeeth). It is not permissible for the Muslim to spy on his Muslim brother or to seek out his faults. If he accidentally sees him in a doubtful place or seeming to behave in a doubtful manner, he should not accuse him unless he sees him with his own eyes doing a wrongful action. He should advise and counsel him, then if he insists on doing that thing, and there is fear that he may harm other Muslims, or if one is asked about him for a legitimate reason, then he should tell those who have something to do with it about what he knows. But he should not broadcast it unless the person does the evil action openly, because this will only help the Shaytaan against him and stop him from repenting. And Allaah knows best”. Jazaqallahu khairan wa-zadukumullahu bi-ilmin
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| | Friday, March 02, 2001 - 10:05 am Annonymous calm down bro JB was only tryna be humerous! I mean muslims cant even be humerous? Brother I'm sure he did not mean to show any hatred for u in fact I know the brother is very sincere, so for God's sake have a sence of humour! Subhanallah!
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| | Friday, March 02, 2001 - 03:50 pm Asalaamu Alaykum. Abuhamza or shall I say, Sherlock Holmes, If I get a hold off you, I will keeell you! Akhi, Your are very perceptive. I think I’m already in trouble so I shall leave remain silent on both options, lol. Anonymous, Your getting all intellectual on me eh, what up wiff dat? I appreciate da effort ya made ta express yourself in uh manner dat I can comprehend. Let me return da favor an' speak yo' language aight an dat boil on mah ass. There iz nahh need ta speak ill about muh character. I thought we's wuz niggas. I taught ya how ta read an' write in proper english an' dis here iz da thanks I git! what 'chew trippin foo'. I mus' admit I’’m uh pimp-tight teacher though. I gots already stated if ya wants 411 on stranger just email me at fresh2000_ca @yahoo . Com. That iz all ah gots ta say fo' now an' if ya wants ta continue dis here discussion please lets conduct it via email. what 'chew thinking man?Besides if ya like uh sister ya should not propose ta her in uh public manner. I though ya had mo' style than dat. Give muh greetings ta yo' mudda, muh cousin. Until next tyme...keep in whack slap mah fro! Folks Just relax this is a big prank. But Anonymous you have to admit My American is getting better everyday......just like your English. LoooooooL
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| | Friday, March 02, 2001 - 06:44 pm Salamu aleykum Case is in process: JB said :I will keeell you! comment: you see, emotion and love sometimes could take the person to the extent he want to kill or fight any one who mention his love, even if they had nothing to do with the case. Can be this the emotion of Mr.JB? well we will leave the reader to judge. He then stated: >I shall leave remain silent on both options comment from case analysis says: this comments shows us, Mr.JB didn't object the case that was held against him. He said he had to remain silent, so there is possablity that case one to be True, from this statement it self, if its not true then prove option two. Analysis 3: Mr.JB emotion is expressed: >I appreciate da effort ya made ta express >yourself in uh manner dat I can comprehend. Let >me return da favor an' speak yo' language aight >an dat boil on mah ass what can this be interpreted: Case Solver said: well sometimes the person if they jelous they express their emotion in different language, Or they express their love in different ...ex: peotry etc... either volience or strange word..we see both in JB its well known JB used to be good manner brother and used to be speak in good language, this is first time We see he is speaking in American accent.. This could be form of emotion, that he so suddenly started to speak street languge and American accent. We have to excuse him, ------I think we should leave the person for JB, Anonymous look for someone else.
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| | Saturday, March 03, 2001 - 06:41 am May be stranger is his sister.
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| | Saturday, March 03, 2001 - 07:24 am May be stranger is the one selling herself here.
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| | Wednesday, March 07, 2001 - 03:27 pm Hello my fellow brothers and sisters in Islam. I would like everyone to know that Sister Stranger is already taken, BY ME. Anyone who has a problem with this, that's all it's ever going to be. I got her first, and I wish you others well in finding someone else. For the ingenious GG who created this discussion,  -, lol. NEwayz, kill this discussion cause the girl is mine. It's not my fault that "She keeps on passin you by"... aight? Take care people, and wish me and Stranger well...
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| | Wednesday, March 07, 2001 - 03:33 pm Hello my fellow brothers and sisters in Islam. I would like everyone to know that Sister Stranger is already taken, BY ME. Anyone who has a problem with this, that's all it's ever going to be. I got her first, and I wish you others well in finding someone else. For the ingenious GG who created this discussion, -, lol. NEwayz, kill this discussion cause the girl is mine. It's not my fault that "She keeps on passin you by"... aight? Take care people, and wish me and Stranger well...
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| | Wednesday, March 07, 2001 - 06:15 pm Somalilander, you wish! Dream on buddy!
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| | Wednesday, March 07, 2001 - 06:47 pm Me and Stranger have been going steady since the 6th grade and we plan On getting married as soon as my sweetheart is done her schooling .
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| | Thursday, March 08, 2001 - 06:32 pm Shame on you all talking about a sister like that! Have some manners and respect the sister's chastity boys! Grow up!
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