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SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Islam (Religion): Archive (Before Feb 2000): MASTURBATION
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Faysal

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I am suffering from excessive nocturnal emmissions which worry me every third or fourth day. due to which i cannot attend the fajr prayers on time. if i want to attend then i have to perform qusl in the cold season.even if i do so, my family members give me strange looks which makes me shy. coming to my question: i read in ascience magazine, that regular masturbation every 2-3 weeks prevents nocturnal emmisions. i want to know if masturbation is allowed in islam or not? if not pls suggest some remedy for my problem
your bro
faysal

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Yaska

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Hello Faysal,

You can't attend the fajr prayer on time because of shying to perform qusl...?what cold season are U talking about? you have nice warm water ruuning all the time, wouldn't U? secondly question is what causes your problem of nocturnal emmisions?

Islam protect cases before hand.. have you followed the its teachings? 1: Control your Eyes,
2:Control your ears, what environment you live?

Hello ! Hello ! faysal what do you mean I read ascience magazine? watch out what you reading, who wrote the story? to whom it may concerns?do you pay every garpage you got it?.

In order to say more, please give us more broad view of your life, it seems you respect the law of ALLAH..
your friend
Yaska

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Bisad

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lol at yaska

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Abdulmalik

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Salam alaykum!
I advice you to get married.....

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Tbone99

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ASLAMU LAYKUM!

TO FAYSAL:


MASTURBATION IS HARAM!

Even though the Quran or the Hadithz don't really talk about the REAL TERM "masturbation" it is still consider
Haram because Allah has forbidden us from getting into any unlawful sexual activities and masturabation is
one of them, and

that is why Prophet (saw) has advised young to marry, or if they cannot then they should fast, having no
control on oneself is by no means an excuse for
committing anything that is haram.


Brother if something is prohibited in Holy Quran, and from Mohammad (saww), then we shouldn't be looking
for any other sources.

The truth is that if you really want to find the truth then you will find it haraam.


Consequenses of masturbation:

There are midical reasons that masturbation can cause poor eye sight...and numerous others.


Wasalamu Laykum!


ALLAH KNOWS BEST!

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Anonymous

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to Tbone99
salam
dear brother, i've been following your comments and i really admire all that you have to say.
however, i think that you should do a little bit more research on this topic before you speak. or atleast give exact prove of a verse from the quran or a hadith.
some school of thoughts believe that masturbation is only halaal , if it is preventing you from engaging in haram activities(ie. fornication). and even then it is not to be done exessively.don't take my word for it because i could be wrong, i'm only human and i make mistakes. but inshallah, i will be back to give proof to what i said.so untill then, everything i said which was right was from Allah and only the mistakes are mine.
wasalam
ps. the best thing for you to do is to get married . your problem is one of the reasons why islam encourages marrige at a young age.

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Anonymous

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excuse my limited education but could u guys tell me what is mastrubation?

p.s. if ur gona reply to me please write in english cuz my somali is very limited too.

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AshadYChicK

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LoL AnonYz....

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Tbone99

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TO: Anonymouse:


W/salaam bro,

It is true that some Scholars said it was prohibited and some said it was OK. This is because each scholar uses Ijtihad to conclude whatever he concludes. It is apparent that there is no direct prohibition in the Quran or Hadithz that allows it.

Scholors:

{Ahmad ibn al-Hanbal} and {Ibn Hazm} both considered masturbation to be halal. Ibn Hazm permitted it unconditionally, while Imam Ahmad permitted it under two conditions: 1) fear of committing fornication, and 2) not having the means to marry. Among the Shia Ithna Ashari, Ayatullah Fadhlullah permits masturbation to relieve sexual tension, and to protect oneself from falling into sin, when one does not have the means to satisfy oneself with one's wife. It is better to masturbate than to fornicate. See, Yusuf al-Qaradawi, The Lawful and the Prohibited in Islam.

Although, one of the imams consider it halal that doesn't make it halal, we look at the imams when we don't find anything in Holy Quran or Ahadith, but masturbation is mentioned in Quran and Hadith, for youngsters masturbation is very attractive, because of the fact that it is the first sexual experience they can have, but Allaah has forbidden us from getting into any unlawful sexual activities and masturabation is one of them, and that is why Prophet (saww) has advised young to marry, or if they cannot then they should fast, having no control on oneself is by no means an excuse for committing anything that is haram.

There are numorous reasons as to why masturbation is haraam. From the Qur'an and the ahadiths:

The prophet didn't say it any way that it is ok. If it were ok He would not have told us what He did. And that is.

He said that if you fear you will sin (fornicate) then marry young. He could have said you can masturbate but he didn't. Why didn't he? And He also said that if you feel something for a woman you see then go home and make love to your wife so that you may not sin. Now again He could have said masturbate because your wife might think what's wrong with him that he comes home and makes love to me as the first thing then something else.


Aslamu Laykum!~

"ALLAH KNOWS BEST"

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Anonymous

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Tbonne
what about girls are they allowed too?

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Anonymous

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to Tbone99,
salaam,
dear brother, first of all i'm a sister(its ok, there was no way of you knowing that)
i did a little research of my own, so that i can come back and support what i said earlier, but i guess you beat me to it.
thank you
you covered pretty much all that i came to say, but you left out one thing.
the beauty of the following hadith is that when, we are stuck, like we are now, we can apply it to all things, and i think that this issue calls for it as well.
i think you know which hadith i'm talking about. its the one refering to : if we are ever unsure about whether something is halaal or haram then its best to stay away from it .
i hope that this helps clear up the matter at hand
again,i'm only human and i could be wrong. all that i said which was true came from Allah and only the mistakes are mine.
wasalaam

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Tbone99

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TO: Anonymous,

Dear sister,


I like to appologize to begin with and of course you right there is no way I would it know whether you were a boy or a girl. Thanks anyways.

And am sorry to beat you to it but there is no way I was competing or anything else like that, I just wanted to teach and preach right and help others.

Thank you very much anyways and Jazaka Allahkhayr.

Nice talking to you and May Allah increase our knowledge! Indeed Allah Knows Best!

wasalamu laykum

your brother in Islam,

Abdinasir

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