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Stay away from The zina!

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MrFaroole

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"And come not near into adultery, Verily, it is an obscentiy and evil away."

In this verse Allah prohibited us from even approaching adultery (zina) this educating us to the fact: Any cause that leads upto a Haram act is alse Haram. And this to be totally avoided.

Human instinct is such that no sooner do a strange man and woman meet in privacy than a sensation of mutual attraction permeates the atmosphere between them.
This attraction develops from stage to stage, from more effection to uncontrollable passion and ultimately into the irreversible stage, where it is almost impossible to control the soul (Nafs). and finally the shameful deed of adultery perpetrated ..

Thanx to all

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MAD MAC

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What if I'm in the same room as someone that I'm not attracted to? What if I'm with my friends mother (she's 60 and not my type). I can't speak for you but I don't walk around wanted to have sex wih every woman I see. Maybe you do, but not me. I'm a little more selective than that. What if my best friend is a woman but not a girlfriend. Can't we enjoy each others company without it being Haram? Why do we have to be so anal about life? I mean, if you want to live your life that way, fine. Who am I to say you shouldn't. But don't expect me to embrace your philosophies because it ain't gonna happen.

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umhaanim

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Assalamu alykum warahamtulahi wabarakatuh

To: Faroole, walaal, Allah hakuu ziyaadso hana kuguu daro mizaanka xasanaatka.

TO: Mad MAC,subhanallah, walaal, is the word of Allah a philosophy to U? Maybe u ought distinguish, ur priorities, and when it comes to Allah and His messenger (peace be upon him) ur answer should Be "SAMICNAA Wa ADacNaa" coz a believer doesn't object to the words of Allah and His beloved messenger (pbuh) as Allah mentions in surah AxZab "WAMAA KANA LIMUMININ WALAA MUMINATIN IDAA QADHALLAHU WARASULUHU AMRAN AN YAKUUNA LAHUMUL QIYARATU MIN AMRIHIM". Know that when Allah (swt) commands or prohibits something, either way there’s HIKMAH behind it and Allah (swt) knows where the tayyib lies. The same as for our beloved (pbuh), when he commanded us not to be alone with the opposite sex unless, their ur mahram. In this case, its prohibition, coz it's QULWAH (a man being alone with women whom is not his mahram) the consequences are greater and shaytaan is present. In such Allah (swt) warned us from fornicating and committing sexual acts and Sexuality has different forms doesn't necessarily mean Jamaacah. Thus, brother Faroole, is giving us a (nasiha) an advice so that we will realize the danger of Zinaa and it's different manifestations.

If I said something that harmed u, walaalo forgive me insha’allah, it wasn’t my intention.

Wallahu Yaclam Wa antul laa Taclaamun.

Peace

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