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!!!!??? IS IT HARAM FOR GIRLSTO DO GUYS THINGS LIKE EAT QA'AD AND SMOKE AND DATE GUYS THE WAY GUYS DATE GIRLS???!!!!

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Islam (Religion): Archive (Before Sept. 29, 2000): !!!!??? IS IT HARAM FOR GIRLSTO DO GUYS THINGS LIKE EAT QA'AD AND SMOKE AND DATE GUYS THE WAY GUYS DATE GIRLS???!!!!
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NEED 2 KNOW

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FOR A LONG TIME AND LONG AGO
GIRLS USED 2 BE MORE THAN WAT THEY R 2DAY
AND I UNDERSTAND TAT CS THEN THEY DIDN'T
KNEW WAT WE KNOW NOW .
BUT NOW WHEN WE GIRLS AND GUYS GOT 2 KNOW EVERYTHING AND I MEAN EVERYTHING ,WETHER
IS PRIVATE OR NOT, WELL... IS NOT SO PRIVATE ANYMORE WHEN U SEE IN THE T.V PPL HAVING ***
AND U WATCHING WIHT UR KIDS THERE'S NOTHING PRIVATE TAT HAS LEFT EVEN 10 YEAR OLDS KNOW ALL
ABOUT THIS NOW .IF ASK THEM AND THEY NOT AFFRAID THEY 'LL TEL U KNOW AND WE LEARNED IT SPECIALLY
IN THE WESTERN WORLD WHERE MOST OF US R 2DAY.
WAT WOULD OUR KIDS DO 2MORROW WHEN THEY SEE THIS 2DAY AS A MATTER OF FACT MORE GIRLS THAN EVER GET
PREGNANT IN EACH MONTH AND I'M TALKING ABOUT SOMALIANS ONLY.I WONDER WHY GUYS DO (LEAVE THE GIRL WHEN SHE GETS PREGNANT BY THEM) WAT THEY DO ALWAYS AND SEEM GOOD AT IT . I MEAN THEY AND MOST
OF THEM R DAMN TO DO A THING LIKE TAT WHEN THEY KNOW HOW HARD AND DEFECULT IT IS TO HER SPECIALLY WHEN HER FAMILY DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT IT.
ANYWAY ,SORRY I GOT CARIED AWAY .
MY QUESTION IS CAN A GIRL DANCE WIHT A MALE ,SMOKE DO THE THINGS TAT WON'T PUT HER IN DANGER WIHTOUT HER FAMILY WORRING AND PPL TALKING ABOUT HER AS SHE KILLED SOMEONE??!

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BI-LADY

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Word...What language is that?? LOL...

DONT TELL ME, english???? LOL ....Nah Uh

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jas

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yes of course girl can do what she want to do and how she wants to do it dame u

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Abdulkareem Ibn Adam

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Asalaamu Alaikum

My dear Sisters and Brothers,
This is very far from what you should be doing.
You were born as Muslims, I think, and that contains all the information about this subject.
You all should take care to protect some thing that millions of peole do not have.
Many, if they knew the essence of Islam, would give every thing to be in your positions as Muslims.
Islam is not a religion, but a complete frame-work
for your every day life.
Many Boys and Men think that because they are in the west, places like America or Britain, they do not have to practise their deen. This is the sadness of situation today. If you were all given the correct knowledge from your homes at the beginning, then I sincerely think that you would be some where else now doing some thing other than what you are discussing now.
I am a revert into Islam from Britain, and I have lived with the Somali communities for nearly Ten years. I have watched their children go from being completly ignorant to becoming educated upon the knowledge of Islam; But I have also seen many continue their lives living as the non-muslims live. With out ant rules or morals. Living for the day.
I hope that this little letter gives some encouragment to all those reading it.
Your Brother in Islam
Abdulkareem Ibn Adam
Mekkah

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Abdulkareem Ibn Adam

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Asalaamu Alaikum

My dear Sisters and Brothers,
This is very far from what you should be doing.
You were born as Muslims, I think, and that, Isalm, contains all the information about this subject.
You all should take care to protect some thing that millions of people do not have.
Many, if they knew the essence of Islam, would give every thing to be in your positions, as Muslims.
Islam is not a religion, but a complete frame-work
for your every day life.
Many Boys and Men think that because they are in the west, places like America or Britain, they do not have to practise their deen. This is the sadness of the situation today. If you were all given the correct knowledge from your homes in the beginning, then I sincerely think that you would be some where else now doing some thing other than what you are doing now.
I am a revert into Islam from Britain, and I have lived with the Somali communities for nearly Ten years. I have watched their children go from being completly ignorant upon Islam to becoming educated upon the knowledge of Islam; But I have also seen many continue living their lives as the non-muslims live. With out any rules or morals. Living for the day.
Please consider this, are you completly Happy with every thing????
I hope that this little letter gives some encouragment to all those reading it.
Your Brother in Islam
Abdulkareem Ibn Adam
Mekkah

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Iisho

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to need 2 to know
i think girl should be allowed to do whatever she feels is important for her without disrespecting her family
i mean comon you know a somalian guy will leave you after you are pregran so don't be stuped
kiss, go out to moves, dinner etc
but DON'T HAVE SEX WITH THEM THAT'S JUST BEING PLAIN STUPED
if you don't do it you don't have to worry about killing another live or disrespecting your family and your religion

by
iisho

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Anonymous

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My god....LOOK us...so..is only been what 9 years now..and we are acting like this...what do you expect in another 9 years......:(
I fell sorry for my ppl that's one thing for you sure. peace out

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Anonymous

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the people who are promoting the ways of the west should be ashamed of themselves,but allah will be your judge! please take time to look at the beauty of the religion of islam.then you won't need to imitate non muslims

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Anonymous

Sunday, July 16, 2000 - 07:00 pm
Assalamu Aleykum,
Whom ever asked that question i feel very sorry for her.I feel that she has not being educated more about her deen "relegion" but however, if she is a muslim i would encourage that please act now while you are alive and healthy.Tomorrow is no promise for any mankind.Please educate your self and fear your Lord who brought to this world in order to follow His orders.

All your questions are questions that are asked by non believers.So please be a good girl and obey the orders of Allah Subhana Wata'Ala.

your brother
Hassan

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Anonymous

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 12:04 am
I am a woman who is independant, have my own house, car , a high paid job. My past time is thai boxing and yes, I am a trained killer I also go out with men and women. Yes it has cost me my family but I live a better life now than ever, I will wait for my creater to judge me and will not accept others trying to label me.
Life is for living and Damn it is good !!!!

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Anonymous

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 01:23 pm
ANONYMOUS LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL YUCK..NAACAALAATUULAAXHI SHARMUUTOO QANIIIS

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Anonymous

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 01:04 am
a somali woman boxer hhaahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahhahahahhahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahha
u cracked me up very funny i must admit

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Anonymous

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 02:57 am
See, I made my point just there life is a barell of laughs, you look into yourself and learn who you are and what your are ,that is where it is at. I don't drink, smoke or do drugs I work hard and play hard and with the many silly people I see day to day I have to protect me. I don't see no Somali man running to help in fact most of them only know to harrase, I would love to meet one who is mature to give my time of day.
Laters, try and write in English next time and don't bilittle your self with bad language.

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ayanii

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 09:07 am
salama alaykum

need 2 know....

men and women are egual in some ways, but different in other ways...but either men nor women are allowed to date, smoke, drink at all. mixing with the oppisite sex cuz lots of problems and sin...so please try to live ur life as close to the quran and sunah as possible....this goes for me 2..i'm no saint.....hahahhha

about smoke.....smoking cuz cancer....why would u wana kill urself silently....i'm serious.....everything that is haram in islam is for our own benefit....and smoke is haram since it cuz cancer.....ur body has a responsibiliy over us that u have to fufill.....cuz in day of judgement ALLAH will allow the body to talk for or against u...u make the choice....

anyways

peace out.....

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HAMDI

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 10:00 am
INLIFE PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES IT IS BETTER OF TO LEARN FROM IT. REMEMBER ALLAH FORGIVES SO BE CLOSE TO GOD AND PRAY 5TIMES A DAY THAT IS THE FIRST STEP FOR HAPPINESS.

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BILAAL

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In the name of Allaah, the most benefient, the most merciful.

Asalaamu alaykum.. my dear respected brother and sister.....

Firstable, it is not shamed for any "q" ya have in Islam, ya have to be allow to ask if ya are serious.

But it is not good if ya knew the whole process and playin' with other beleivers and we dont' know wheither ya playin' or not, only God knows unseen "Gaib".

if ya want to know what Islam is, first learn "Aqidah" that would help all the basics of the everything in this life brothers and sisters..

If ya want to know more, ask ya self when ya gonna die do ya know the time i don't think so ..

when ya get out your home, do ya ever think that you would come back safely?

when ya want to sleep did ya ever ask your self that ya would wake up like ya do nowadays i dont' think so sis and bro?

that is for me today
I'll back another time

wabilaahi tawfiiq
asalaamu calaykum

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