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     | Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 04:32 am We all want to find a nice guy who can treat us right, so boys this is for you, listen carefully. ways into a girls heart: Don't 1)Don't tell a girl you love her on the first day, she'll never believe you. 2)Don't tell her she looks like your old girlfriend coz she'll think you are using her coz you miss you your girlfriend 3)Don't touch her on the first date coz she'll think you are after one thing Do's 1)Take her out to places where her family won't see her. 2)Fish and chips are a big no no, take her to a nice resturant with a nice meal. 3)Buy her gifts that she'll like, not football games. A ring or neckly will do fine. 4)Phone her every two night not every night.tell her how beautiful she looks compare to the stars. Do this and your on your way to finding a beauty.
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| | Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 05:08 am Looks like sombody is talking from experience. Better take some notes down boys -this could come handy. ( 
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| | Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 05:35 am loooooooooool hani u joker, hey da girl is rite some bastards don't even phone u...ooh sorry honey i forgot lol, well if a guy respects ya then he'll treat ya rite.....peace out.
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| | Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 02:06 pm TO MISS SOMALI THANK YOU SIS. MY BOYFRIEND NEEDS TO TAKE THIS NOTE.. HA HA HA BABY I LOVE YOU.
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| | Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 02:35 pm TO MISS SOMALI I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT THEY NEED TO WRITE THIS STUFF DOWN IT MAY HELP THEM. AND IT SEEM YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT MAYBE FROM EXPERIENCE IF THAT RIGHT YOU GOT A GOOD MAN. I HOPE IT LAST. TO PINK. GIRL PLEASESSSSSSS
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| | Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 04:20 pm pink and hanna G E T A L I F E .ITS THE SAME PERSON POSTING ALL OVER THIS PAGE.
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| | Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 04:50 pm TO ANONYMOUS. LISTEN YOU NEED TO GET A LIFE BECAUSE I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHO THE •••• IS MISS PINK. AND BY THE WAY WHAT HELL MADE YOU THINK WE ARE THE SAME PERSON IS'T BECAUSE WE ARE IN THE BEHIND ONE EACHOTHER IF YOU ASK ME YOU ARE THE ONE WHO NEEDS TO GET A LIFE BASTERD. AND NEXT TIME KNOW WHAT THE •••• YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT OK MR. OR MISS ANONYMOUS.
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| | Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 05:16 pm TO ANONYMOUS WHAT AT HELL ARE TALKING ABOUT TELLING MAN HOW TO ACT!!!! DID EVER HAD A BOYFREIND I DONT THINK SO!!! HAVE YOU EVER BE KISS I DONT MEAN BY YOUR UGLY COUSIN I MEAN BY A GUY I DONT THINK SO!!! HAVE A GUY EVER LOOK AT YOU AND SAY BABY YOU ARE HOT I DONT THINK EVEN IN A THOUSAND YEAR!!!! SO GIRL YOU GET A LIFE DONT TELL AS HOW A MAN SHOILD ACT WHEN YOU NEVER HAD ONE . BUT FOR ME I KNOW YOU KNOW NOTHING BUT SPEAK WHAT YOU HAVE HEAR WHAT SOME OTHER SOMALI BITCH SAY. PLEASE DONT START WITH ME OK GRANDMOTHER WHO WHAT AS YOUNG BUT SMART SISTER TO BELIVE HER S.H.I.T.. SO BEFORE YOU JUMP AND TELL AS ABOUT YOUR MADE UP LIE THINK ABOUT MISS SOMALIA WANNA BE.
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| | Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 04:08 am Ways to Make Your Girl Happy : 1) Call her once in a while (becareful of her folks) 2) Listen when she talks. 3) Surprise her with a candlelight dinner on her birthday. 4) Side with her in her arguements. 5) Tell her she looks good. 6) If she says do I look better than so and so, Say Yes without hesitation. 7) Be honest with her. 8) If she opens up to you, do the same. 9) Show that you love her not only in words but in action. 10) Comfort her when she is upset, Praise her when she is is feeling proud. Its not about spending the big bucks, women nowdays make their own money. Its the thought behind a gift. Gentleman.
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| | Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 04:25 am oooh gentlemen im already fallen inlove lol well good advice i guess some of the brotha's need ur thoughts n opinion i mean u rite we don't need money coz we earn ourselfs, so we need comfort, bit of a laugh n just chill wit someone u can relate to n understand...peace peepz.
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| | Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 04:35 am Gentelman: we may try to criticize guys but bro..........we can't beat this one... . u said it just rite........Finally...........there is a brotha who knows us, as we should have been known... 
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| | Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 04:50 am Gentlement , Hey where have u been hiding?. We need more brothers like you.You right its not about spending money its how you treat your lady. To all keeping (
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| | Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 05:04 am yea sister there is another nice brother here. i get miss somalis note being practising for a while lol, it works. i am just kidding. sister you have to know there so amny somali men out there i am not talking about boys who are wanna be's, but real man who treat there women with respect. i know lots and lots of themso i would say do not generals or mix up boys and man. i am one of the man and i am single too. lol keep in touch sisters
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| | Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 06:38 am Thanks for the comments. There are plenty of nice guys out there. Some of us are in cities where there are no Somali women. I believe in honesty. Whatever you put into a relationship is what you will get back. A man should not see his girlfriend as his girl but as his best friend. Communication is key to any successful relationship. People should be comfortable to communicate and express their feelings. If you love your girl, show it. Don't hide it. Hani, I actually hid in a city with 0 Somali women for nearly 5 years. In that time, I wished for a nice sister (single) to move into town. That never happened. Hibo, All that I know, I have learned over the years. At one point, a boy must become a man. Some guys can't get out of the so-called "Player Phase Age 14 to Age 17." Rahma, I hope you meet such a gentleman. I know how it feels to put 105% into a relationship while the other person doesn't want to put in a lot of effort. Well, I got to run now. I'll pop by later. Gentleman.
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| | Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 07:19 am Gentleman....yu should be prescribing "get over with it" pills to the so called playa's....some bro's just get stuck in one stage of life....one of my freinds still tries to lead tuggish lifestlye of late teen wearing baggy jeans and jerseys with big caterpillar boots on and of coarse the funny walk......i used to do all this but iam not 18 anymore......unfortunately some bro's never pass dat stage.....on the bright side girls....not every bro is in that state.....there are good gentlemen out there.......n about relationship.....i would agree commumincation is the key to succesful n healthy relationship...and of coarse honesty.....it worked for me and my somaliqueen whom we are about to tie da knot peace
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| | Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 10:40 am ok ok guys I am Mr:nice guy,I open the doors,Don't swear,Polite,honest,forgiving(to a certain extent),fun loving,And I don't demand sex before marriage,I say the nicest true things that are in my mind,If she's wrong I let her know if I am wrong am man enough to admit my mistakes,I got no time for games nor the he said she said business,TRUST, HONESTY and respect are the three things that make a relationship work.With all of this yet my love life seems to be fruitless!sometimes I ask myself am I too nice?Should I be touching them?..lately I begin to think that somaliwomen are not for me.
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| | Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 10:07 pm Dear Confused I'm pretty much the same in terms of description. I had so many relations with somali women. I always stick with simple and few principles which are TRUTH, OPENESS, CARING and COMMUNICATION on top of ROMANCE. I always thought being nice is not going to take me anywhere. In the material world I'm kind of average person Done 4 year college degree. At least no woman would leave me for not coping with the mainstream if you know what I mean. I looked at myself and everything seemed always right from the female's prospective of course whether it's look. humour ans so on. However I almost came to a conclusion where I thought I don't belong to a somali woman at all. At another times I thought there was no such thing called LOVE. Guess what one Sunday in Toronto early this year my luck, the beauty of all, the thrilling surprise of ages, the Somali born baby witha passionate look knocked the door with an open heart and smiles. To make a long story short I'm engaged islamically and planning a big wedding sometime next year. ALXAMDULILAAH! The most astonishing part of all is I'm caliming that I'm in love after not realizing for so many years What I'm saying is being "Mr nice" pays it off but only with much patience.
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| | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 05:19 am I think i'm in love with gentleman, you just talk about how i would like to be treated and the type of men that i would like. Brother get in contact with me.
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| | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 05:33 am Miss and Rahma i know you are the same psychopath,why dont women get yourself an occupation,you all seem desparate and pathetic,is your biological clock clicking on ya heads?Tick Tick Tick.
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| | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 05:47 am Women are good for nothing but fucking and sucking,I mean most women are too dumb to even have a conversation with,case in point these fat cows posting illogical and inconsequential drivel that no one is interested in.The only way to keep any women happy is to •••• the piss out of her.The only thing their feeble minds can understand is dick and more dick.I know Iam going to get a lot of responses from these intellectualy challenged whores but alas!!I will not be able to read them because I have absolutely no interest in what any of them has to say. Not a sermon,just the facts.
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| | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 07:13 am Hi Miss, I am flattered by your comment. What can I say ? So tell me where are u from ?
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| | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 07:36 am Gentleman: seems many r fishing u out....lol.. I am out though I got a gentleman at home... But hey u never know...don't let these down the drain.....tie the knot when miss rite pops up... Commmunication is the KEY.. Folks.. take notes!! When u hate him/her ...say so..don't hide it.. when u love him/her spit it out.......I do that in poetry n make sure he reads it. he says it bluntly .. I guess we r different ha?
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| | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 08:00 am girls i politely advice you all to rush into the (GYM),and stay healthy'cuz we as boys are loosing attraction for somali girls'cuz you all got big ASS and skinny LEGS + belly, 4real.and one more thing plzee girls stop being a materialistic.and plzee i noticed one thing about you girls,when having sexy plzee don't turn off the light'cuz it makes us blind dude and we can't see yr beauty. girls sexy is not only to drawn yr pie but it's also to visualize yr whole body,aight. i love u all chics,stay strong and healthy yo,peace
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| | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 09:36 am How about working your bellies,men are the ones with belly problems,jerk. and one more thing ...We like the lights OFF for one good reason.....NOT...to see your ugly groaning facial expression when you are CUMMING..which lasts exactly 51 seconds.Now you know.
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| | Friday, December 01, 2000 - 04:41 am To Gentlement -----Looks like you touched a nerve Which town is that?---------I am moving soon and who knows we might be neigbours. Lol. We all know that are brothers are not romantic -there are some but very few. We can make them be romantic you know teach them things they dont know or have no expericece of. I believe in honesty -the two people should be completely honest with each other-thats seems to be the problems of our relationships -we not completly honest with each other and we seem to have a communication breakdown. To confused, I , myself is Miss Nice, i am honest , kind , polite , fun, has a great sense of humour and personality ---------been told this over million times believe me. I have realised that our brothers complain about us even some of us are nicer than others------you just cant please some people huh. Anway dont change being the way you are i am sure there is a girl out there just waiting for you to come along. Who will appreciate all that you are and all you do for her. My conclusion is this, We all know that there is no such thing as a perfect person. So my advice to you all is that when you find a guy or a girl -you can turn them in your princess or our prince-if they are not romantic teach them , if they are not polite show them how to be polite , if they honest with you do the same -----i think you get what i am trying to say so work together in order to have a good relationships or marriage. (
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| | Friday, December 01, 2000 - 04:54 am to gentlemen: nigggaman i understand everything but whaz up with candle light dinner ha? u forgetting we somalis. •••• man is like u lost in the jungle
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| | Friday, December 01, 2000 - 07:20 am Aniga, I am Somali. Being Somali, does not make me less romantic or caring than someone who is not Somali. Bro, realize one thing, we have the most beautiful and caring women in the world. The love you get from a sister can not be compared to anything you might get from a woman who is not Somali. Believe me, I have been there and done that. East or West, Somali women are best. Hani, thanks for the flattery. If u became my neighbor, I'd be a lucky man. There are none in my area. Well if you do arrive, I'll throw you a Welcome Party. Gentleman.
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| | Monday, December 04, 2000 - 10:38 am To Gen, I am due to arrive tomarrow-----lol. You sound like nice person and therefore would like to know more about you (friendship only) so here is my email , drop me a line or 2 -----Hani2u@hotmail.com (
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| | Monday, December 04, 2000 - 01:11 pm Hani, I'll drop u a line soon. Its great to have friends. The best relationships start off as friends. I'll write to u soon. Have a nice day ! Yours Truelly, Gentleman.
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| | Monday, December 04, 2000 - 01:25 pm ssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
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| | Monday, December 04, 2000 - 03:23 pm BROKENHEARTS MADE BY SWEETMAN GIRLS PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM HIM MOST GUYS FINDOUT THAT GIRLS LIKE SWEETGUYS AND THEY JUST MADE UP THEIR WORDS SO WHEN IT COMES REALTY AND LOVE IS HARD TO HANDLE...THAT IS JUST ME CALAF MOOGIYE RAGABA MACASHAQOO/THAT IS SONG AND IT'S THRU.. GENTLEMAN:I KNOW THERE IS NICE GUYS AROUND BUT ONE Q? FOR YOU WHERE YOUR WORDS COMING FROM? DID YOU READ MAGAZINE OT ROMANCE BOOK IF NOT I WILL GIVE YOU CREDIT FOR IT AND YOUR HONEY WILL BE LUCKY! JUST ONE MORE THING PLEASE GABADHAHA HANAGAWAALIN GABADHAHA WAA BEER JILICSANYIHIIN THANKS COME AGAIN
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| | Monday, December 04, 2000 - 03:32 pm LOOK GUYS.I DONT BELEIVE IN THIS CALLED ROMATIC BULSHIT.I OLSO DONT BELEIVE IN •••• AND FORGET.IF YOU LIKE A WOMAN AND SHE LIKES YOU DONT WASTE YOUR TIME AND MONEY ON WESTRENT IDEAS.GET MARRIED WORK FOR YOUR FAMILY.MOST OF COUPLES WHO DATE LONG TIME WHEN THEY GOT MARRIED THEY DEVORCE.I BELEIVE LOVE COMES AFTER YOU MARREID.THIS ROMATIC IS A SHAYDAN(SATAN)GAME AND GOD DOENT SAY TAKE YOUR WOMAN TO A RESTRAUNT KISS HER,MAKE A LOVE THEN MARRY.LOL YOU ARE A LOST GENERATION
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| | Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 03:16 am OOOOhhh, you got told Genle, Askari go come teach these people something about love and allah, they need it most.
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| | Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 07:04 am Askari, We are no longer in the Nomad World. Back in the day, marraige was more of a straightforward business arrangement. You would pick a woman on how strong she was. Could she build a good tent ? Is she child-bearing ? Did she come from a powerful family that you wish to forge blood ties to ? Nowdays, we don't live in the Nomad World, I may not know about you Askari. Nowdays, marriage is more for love. Life has become less harsh than the early part of the last century. Marriage is more for love. It is possible to build love with in a marriage. But it is better to know a person better before you marry her. Can u get up next to her each morning and like the way she looks at 6AM. Can u stand how that person has an annoying laughter ? Marraige is tough. No joking matter and it is true a lot of people divorce. But you must be positive that this is the person u want and better be damn sure before you have kids. That is why I don't believe in having kids until 3 years into a marraige because if you do divorce, it is easier since there are no kids involved. Gentleman.
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| | Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 06:50 pm Any man that has to fallow a list of dos and don'ts could never win my heart. Besides why are you all trying to change these guys, it will make it really hard for us to find our diamond in the rough, when all of them are wooing us with the same tactics. I mean honestly, don't give them any hints, unless you want to create monsters that will swoon every girl off her feet and bring her tumbling down when she comes to her senses and realizes that he was a snake in Shepard's skin.
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