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     | Wednesday, December 20, 2000 - 03:30 am I am somali girl who wants to meet nice somali guy but sis/bros how do ya find mr right now days people are not what they seem to be?
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| | Wednesday, December 20, 2000 - 05:18 am I think you can find Mr right in ur dreams, and mr wrong in life...LOL Just kidding :-) Why don't you tell us what is Mr right for you? and then, see what net visitors will tell you!
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| | Wednesday, December 20, 2000 - 07:40 am by falling in love with Mr:wrong
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| | Wednesday, December 20, 2000 - 07:46 am You can find him at the intersection of Destiny and Calaf.
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| | Wednesday, December 20, 2000 - 06:33 pm Get Mr. Okay, jaafjaf, toosi, get him matching socks and voila, there you have Mr. Right!!
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| | Thursday, December 21, 2000 - 03:40 am Hey, Guess what? Mr right is the one mr. wrong who you see every day, if only you approached mr. wrong nicely and told him that you think he is your mr. right, then you will never regret. Go girl........ do it.
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| | Thursday, December 21, 2000 - 05:18 am MIIMI has the right IDEA.....JAAFJAF, TOOSISO and there u have it
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| | Thursday, December 21, 2000 - 11:50 am TO NOORA HOW DO YOU FIND MR. RIGHT? YOU DON'T FIND HIM HE FINDS YOU.
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| | Thursday, December 21, 2000 - 10:26 pm MR RIGHT IS HERE NOORA.IAM KIND,SHY I PRAY 5 TIMES A DAY I WORK,I DONT LIE.BUT THESE DAYS MOST OF THE WOMEN LIKE MEN WHO LIE THEM AND USE THEM.SO IF YOU NEED ME TELL ME I GIVE YOU MY E-MAIL.
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| | Friday, December 22, 2000 - 07:40 am Ahmed stop Just answer the question aight
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| | Friday, December 22, 2000 - 12:52 pm Date as much MR WRONG'S as you can find girl....I mean All the Faraxs saf ka mar.........Then U'll find your Jem in the Dust..........or was that in the Jaad.....somewhere hidden and waiting for U.. MIIMI LOL......HA HA HA FUNNY Jafjaf.......With Skoobo and istirasho coz hoovering can cause brain damage......
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| | Friday, December 22, 2000 - 01:07 pm the only thing you need is dick,why would you care if its mounted on mr.wrong or mr.right as long as you can ride it like horse.
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| | Friday, December 22, 2000 - 04:10 pm noora it could be mr. right sitting next to you perhaps. if not he'll come alone. don't look too far as they say there is someone for everyone. i strongly believe that.
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| | Saturday, December 23, 2000 - 01:59 am astaak furullah ya rabul allamin.my Allah forgive me for what i said above.
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| | Saturday, December 23, 2000 - 08:56 am lol@mimi Please girl can't you understand the myth of Mr Right is pathetically indoctrined in our dreams.Wake up!Look for Mr Succssful and Mr rich...the 'right' will follow...in time.lol
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| | Saturday, December 23, 2000 - 09:51 am HEEEEEEEEEH PPL COME DOWN... VERY FUNNY PPL IN HERE.. SISTA NUURA YOU DONT HAVE TO LOOK FOR THEM BELIEVE ME IF YOU WORTH TO BE A WOMAN..NICE MAN WILL FIND YOU IN YOUR WAY LIFETIME...BUT WHEN YOU TRY TO LOOK FOR THEM..NICEGUYS DONT LIKE GIRL WHO LOOK FOR THEM/ I TELL WHAT TO DO A MAN THAT YOU THINK HE WILL FIT ON YOU JUST GIVE HIM ATTITUDE THAT WILL MAKE HIM TO STOP WHATEVER HE IS DOING AND COME TO YOU SO HE CAN KNOW AND JUST ADD LITTLE BIT OF (SUURO) AND YOU BETTER LOOK GOOD AND BE UNDERSTANDING PERSON...THAT IS JUST MY IMAGES.. YOU JUST WAIT YOUR TIME!!! DONT MISS WITH MR JAFJAF AND THEY STINK CIGARETTE IT WILL MAKE YOU SICK... I HOPE THAT WILL HELP YOU HONEY..HAVE NICE ONE.. GOOD LUCK FROM YOUR SISTA BELLO
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| | Saturday, December 23, 2000 - 11:15 am BELLO, YOU ARE STUPID...yes!..wait, wait, and wait until you get old and run out of eggs. you dumb. GIRLS, DON'T LISTEN TO HER. GO GET YOURSELF THE MAN OF YOUR DREAMS. KEEP LOOKING. Let me tell you what the real men like me want. We like girls who know what they want and go get it right away.
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| | Saturday, December 23, 2000 - 12:04 pm Mr. Right is like Santa Clause. And if you think SanTa clause do exist, just watch M&M comercial on the TV. The comercial goes like this : Two character cartoon of M&M, one yellow and one red, are having conversations about Santa Clause myth. Yellow : "so you think that Santa Clause would like the M&M chocolate?". Red: " i dunooo. you see i never met the guuuyyyyyyy (Santa Clause)". same goes to Mr. Right i don't think he does exist. But hey as many others say keep looking. Khalil
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| | Saturday, December 23, 2000 - 02:06 pm Lol@miimi
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| | Saturday, December 23, 2000 - 10:42 pm THIS IS A FUNNY SH.I.T...U GUYS CRACKED ME UP!! WOW! WHAT A CREATIVE AND FUNNY PPLE!! WHAT WAS THE GIRLS NAME? I GOT TO SCROLL UP TO CHECK YOUR NAME..SIS...YEAH NOORA..SEE SIS..MR RIGHT IS....HMMMM..IT COULD BE ME OR THAT GUY WHO YOU ALWAYS SEE IN SCHOOL ..IF U GO TO ONE..OR AT YOUR WORKPLACE..IF U AINT LAZY AND IDLE CHICK....OR IS THEY GU WHO ALWAYS...... I DON'T KNOW..THERE ARE A LOT OF MR. RIGHTS AMD MR WRONGS... MR RIGHT COULD BE MR WORNG TOMMORROW AND MR WRONG COULD BE MR RIGHT LATER. MR RIGHT IS RESPONSIBLE, INTELLIGENT, GREAT, HUMBLE AND TIGHT BRO..AND MR WRONG IS WONDERFUL, RIGHTEOUS,ODD, NICE AND GREAT..THEY ARE ALL THE SAME...SEE THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS HE IS JUST ODD...THE MR. WORNG GUY...SO JAFJAF OO TOOSI TOOSI TO QOUTE THE SIS AND VOILA THERE U HAVE MR RIGHT. DON'T WAIT HIM TO KNOCK YOUR DOOR FOR U AINT THAT LUCKY..ACTUALLY MR RIGHT DON'T KNOCK THE DOORS. HE IS LIKE U IN A WAITING SUSPENSE... BUT U CAN'T DEFY THE LAW OF MATTER..OPPOSITES ATTRACT...THAT IS UNLESS U EXPERIENCE MR WORNG ..U WON'T SEE MR RIGHT. MR. WRONG IS LIKE THE DEVIL..HE HAS TO COME TO U BEFORE THE ANGEL. HE GOT TO WOO AND BREAK YOUR HEART...THEN COMES MR RIGHT....THAT IS HIS JOB..TO MEND THAT BROKEN HEART..... I HAVE BEEN TO WONDERING THIS WHY IS EVERYONE SPECIALLY SOMALIS ARE ALL COMPLIANING AND SAYING THE CAN'T FIND THE ONE.. I THINK THIS IS A MOCKERY..IT'S LIKE OUR OBSESSION WITH QABIIL..WE ALL SAY WE HATE QABIIL AND WE AINT INTO IT AND BALME AND COMPLAIN HOW OUR SOCIETY IS PERPETUATING. AND THEN...MR. RIGHT AND MR WRONG COME INTO PICTURE...SIS AM NOT MR. RIGHT AND I DON'T WANNA BE AND I AM NOT MR. WRONG AND I DON'T WANNA BE....I WANNA BE WHAT U MAKE ME AND I WANNA U BE WHAT I MAKE U..I MAKE GOOD..I WILL COMPLIMENT AND SUPPLIMENT U. SEE MY MOM MET THIS MR. WRONG AND MY DAD MET THIS MRS. WRONG AND THERE THEY MADE EACH OTHER MR AND MRS. RIGHT. WHY THEY DIDN'T KNOW EACH OTHER... THEY FOUND EACH OTHER..THEY HAD THEIR PERCEPTION PRIOR OF THEIR MEETING. BUT THEY WERE NEVER IN RUSH TO FIND THEIR DEFECTS OR NEGATIVE ASPECTS..AND WAA IS JAFJAFTEEN AND IS TOOSTOOSISTEEN AND VOILA..THERE THEY ( TEN OF US ) THE HAD..SO...U GET TO BE WILLING TO RIGHT THE WRONG AND COMPROMISE..AND DON'T THINK U ARE THE ONLY RIGHT OR LOOKING ONE. SEE RIGHTNESS IS IN THE HEARTS OF THE BEHOLDER OR THE DREAMER....LOL!!!!!!!
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| | Saturday, December 23, 2000 - 10:49 pm THE ABOVE MESSAGE WAS CONCEIVED IN A COLLOQUIAL MODE...IMPPORTANCE IS U GET TO UNDERSTAND THAT WE ALL WANT GOOD THINGS TO HAPPEN TO US AND WE ALL THINK WE ARE THE CNTER OF THE UNIVERSE....IT AINT LIKE THAT...EVERY ONE OF US IS ENDOWED WITH SOUL, BODY AND MIND...WE ARE OUR OWN INDIVIDUALS.
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| | Sunday, December 24, 2000 - 01:32 am damn!you people are goooooooooooooood.keep it up.
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| | Sunday, December 24, 2000 - 10:36 pm awesome !keep it rocking!!! amadeou
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| | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 02:26 am there is no such thing as Mr right take what you can and enjoy it while it last.
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| | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 02:28 am DICK you are so right
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| | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 02:29 am DICK YOU ARE SUCH A DICKHEAD FOR TAKEING WHAT YOU SIAD BACK
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| | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 02:31 am DICK you are so right
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| | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 09:54 am Adviser.....lol RUN OUT OF EGGS....OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH THAT IS FUNNY,,,,,,,HILARIOUS INDEED.(  ( (
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| | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 10:20 am THEY ALL BACK HOME BRING HIM HERE DUST THE CIID OF HIM GET HIM NEW MACAWEEC NEW BACKORAD GOO SHALA AND THERE U GO. MR RIGHT
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| | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 11:49 am I once found my Mrs. Right, leaving massage on the bathroom wall...Maybe ya should try the same sometimes.
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| | Monday, January 08, 2001 - 07:15 am PEOPLE i justed wanted to say thanks for the messages i am sorry i couldent relpy to ya all be4 i was ill any way i am gald that people have massaged me and told me what they have thought about my topic. i am glad to know that there are mr right out there in the world. i am nice girl and i really don't go out there and look for mr right, i just meet the wrong people for some reason:}
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| | Monday, January 08, 2001 - 09:51 am TO NOORA LET ME TELL U SOMETHING I'M MARRIED WOMEN WHEN I MET MY HUSBAND HE DIDN'T HAVE MONEY, HE WASN'T ROMANTIC MAN ETHIER BUT I CHANGE HIM I MEAN IT HE TURN TO BE THE CAN OF GUY I WANT AND WE MARRIED FOR THREE YEARS PLUS TWO KIDS SO MY DARTING DON'T WAIT ANYTILL U RUN OUT OF POTROL AND CHANGE CLOTHS AND TECH HIM HOW TO HALD SPOOM AND ECT........... WAGTGA HA ISA LUMININ HANA KU DADAGI WARAABAYAASHA QAARKUUD. WUU ISKA IMANDOONAY.///
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| | Monday, January 08, 2001 - 10:17 am Firstly u people r funny i am still cracking up Doesn’t Mr Right mean perfection? So do u believe that there is a perfect man out there in the world for u only? Helllllllll noooooooooooo, there is nobody in this world who is perfect everybody have their good and bad points that is what makes them real. So the definition of Mr Right can actually mean Mr Wrong, no body wants to be in this perfect relationship were he understands u, love u endlessly, no arguments, no fuss, because it takes out the fire and admiration in a relationship resulting to Mr Right becoming Mr Wrong. I believe that Mr Wrong well eventually become Mr Right, because we all love a bit of fire that Mr Wrong supplies and when he does something special such as a bringing u a bunch of flowers when u least don’t expect it, it seems much more rewarding and loving coming from Mr Wrong that Mr Right. However Mr Right can be ur every day guy that u see in the street and ignore, so in general we need to look deeper into the persons soul and we will eventually find MR SO CALLED RIGHT.
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| | Monday, January 08, 2001 - 11:39 am MR right is ,with no disrespect to anyone, your social worker, your cable guy, your grocery clerk and all in between. But pleazzzze don't confuse mr Right with your cozin or uncle.
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| | Monday, January 08, 2001 - 12:27 pm SomaliCream,can I kiss you babe? You must be 1 in a billion Stay positive,may be someday,who knows? somewhere,when you expected me the least We might pop into each other Until then I will always love you chaw for now
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| | Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 02:44 am hay all ya know what they say that love is blind and nobody knows who they gonna fall in love with so ya might be firends with one guy and you would never think about him that way untill one day hahha the point is that we are all looking for mr right or miss right and yeah nobody is perfact that is true. hay secret thanks and thanks for all ya
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| | Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 02:52 am hay there mr daadir i must say thanks for the message but bro what made ya write all that ya must have a lot to say but thanks again any way have ya met miss right or are ya still looking or are ya waiting in the dark corner:} later noora
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| | Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 08:29 am Thanks secert admirer i was just expressing my point of view, good of u to notice, and what is this u beeing in love with me??????????? u hardly dont even now me bro, but i like the compliments. peace and love to u all somalicream
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| | Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 03:51 pm SomaliCream, You just geared my upswing! Mr/Ms Right, hmmm.Some ppl fantasize about a person who conforms to their norms, habits, level of understandig, attitude, and sensitivity. But, obviously the person who is fantasizing about Mr Right is actually looking for their miror image, that's to say I want me and myself only...Why? Simply because nature has taught us that is the best way to avoid incongruity, and again we're experts on how to deal with ourselves! One final thought, I quite well see the point of fantasizing about Mr/Ms Right. But take it from me(experience), you wouldn't wanna end up with either Mr/Ms Right. As they are Yes men/women who would not contribute to your personal growth. Ever heard the expression "stuck with the dough" That's the Mr/Ms Right. Also, too much indifferent and positively skewed Mr/Ms Wrong kills la joie!
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| | Friday, January 12, 2001 - 05:48 am Sagittariouslol You even have opinions on this?lol
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| | Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 06:53 am Sagittarius Exactly what part of my opinion got u geared up? anyway I am guessing u don't actually agree with what I am saying, at the same time I don't agree with your comment. Tell me why would any human being look for someone who is just like them?????? I personally believe that would be boring, could u imagine falling in love with yourself? it would be very secure and predictable something that does not add to a relationship. I would not like someone who is identical to me, thinks a like, speaks a like, etc that is just so sickening. I personally believe that people generally look for partners who are different to them and not a self image.
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| | Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 08:55 am SomaliCream, Don't read me wrong! Looking for Mr/Ms Right in simplistic terms means someone that you can deal with. Look, how many educated, gorgeous looking partners have we met in our lifetime? and yet they are too different and don't conform with our personal character(system)and we let them go. I am not advocating to fall in love with one's self, but most of us unconsciously are that way. My point being, if someone is looking for Mr/Ms Right they are looking for the perfect picture, and it is a must and inner yearning that perfect picture conforms to our system. So what do we end up with? We end up with, an imaginary vision created by our subconscious mind that reachs out to contort outer perfections. So, basicaly if you read between the lines, I am against the Mr/Ms Right, and agree with you that maybe the one we think is Mr/Ms Wrong could be the solution only if we weren't in love with ourselves. Sagittarius
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| | Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 09:16 am Do you feel as though you've dated bits and pieces of your ideal mate? Like the scientist out of Frankenstein, you've wanted to put together all of the good qualities of former boyfriends or girlfriends. "I'd give him Ahmed's sense of humor, Farah's eyes, Mohamed's honesty, and Asad's income." Or are you unsure of what exactly you want? "I'll know Mr. Right when I see him." One hundred boyfriends later, you're still searching. In casual dating relationships, people tend focus on finding someone who will make them laugh, who is fun to be with and/or highly physically attractive. While these characteristics are important, they are not an adequate foundation for building a life together. Compatible goals for life, financial perspectives, spiritual outlooks, and emotional maturity are essential in maintaining a committed, lifelong relationship. No one is perfect and you can't expect to change someone, just as you would not want him or her to change you. How can you know if someone is right for you for the long haul? A good way to begin is by evaluating five general areas of compatibility: emotional, spiritual, intellectual, physical, and financial. Objectively, honestly assess yourself in these areas, as well as what you expect or desire from a future spouse. Emotional The emotional element of a person can include their self-esteem, respect of others, emotional stability, expressions, style, and many other things. An individual must have healthy confidence in himself before he can love another or truly be loved. You need to find someone who will believe you when you say, "I love you," who believes he/she is worthy of your love. Maturity and emotional stability also fall under this category. If evaluating a potential mate, ask yourself: how does he/she handle anger? Is he/she prone to unhealthy or prolonged depression? Spiritual Spirituality does not simply include religious persuasion (although that is a very important part.) It extends to a person's outlook on life, perspective on death, and ethics. What values or beliefs are sacred to you? Do you expect your future spouse to agree? What values do you expect to be instilled in your children? Does you religion prohibit you from marrying anyone outside of it? How would marrying into another faith(tribe lol) affect your family dynamics (your parents, for example?) This is an often overlooked, but very important aspect to consider. Intellectual The intellectual side of someone includes their strength of personality, level of education, sense of humor, ambitions, learning styles, and thoughts. At times men who are very intellectual can be misunderstood as being cold-hearted or uncompassionate. What do you expect from your spouse in this area? The extremes of this element include those given to over-ambition or laziness. Physical This aspect includes outward appearance, physical features, and attraction. It is an aspect that we, as visual creatures, may over-emphasize. It is important to remember that each of these elements is related to the others. (For example, isn't it amazing how you meet someone who at first glance is stunning. After a few moments of conversation, however, their personality may be a complete turn-off. Suddenly, they no longer look so nice.) How important is this element to you? It's important to remember that physical appearance changes as we age, get haircuts, put on/lose weight, etc. Financial The financial part of someone not only includes their profession and income, but also their spending style, savings, debt management, and attitude towards money. With money problems accounting for a large majority of arguments for couples, knowing how a future mate deals with money is an important issue before deciding on the "one" for you. Considering these five important elements will help you get started in your quest for Mr/Ms. Right. Remember that these are not all-inclusive, nor is compatibility in all of them a guarantee for success. There really is no way to measure the attitudes of trust, honesty, forgiveness, and tenderness so necessary for a long-lasting relationship. Compatibility in those areas is up to you!
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