     YAZ | Monday, January 01, 2001 - 11:32 am
I'M 14 AND HAVE DATED SOME BOYS WHO WERE NOT SOMALAIN I DON'T THINK IT'S A PROBLEM BUT I HAVE NEVER TOLD MY MUM ABOUT IT JUST IN CASE SHE GOT ANGRY I STILL DATE. BUT DON'T TELL HER IS IT WRONG?? |
| Cockney-Gal | Monday, January 01, 2001 - 11:54 am
If it was not wrong to date why cant u tell ur mum??? Come on girl, get a grip!!
Now as u r a muslim u should know that dating full stop is wrong. But in the eyes of Allah it does not matter what race he is u r still commiting a big sin!! - although through the eyes of somalis the answer to your question would be very different!!
Somalis and probably most cultures belive that u should stick to ur own kind!!
But obviously pple have different opinions, now as a muslim and a 17 yr old girl i can only advice u to stop dating any guy cos it aint worth it!!(trust me)
But i dont know whether it would be better to date a somali, cos u know when it gets out u will be the 1 with the reputation not him.
Hope this helps!!!
Just 4 the record i am not encouraging her, i am just trying not be judgemental, cos the sis came here 4 advice not to be attacked!!
PEACE+ LOVE 2 ALL!!! ESP. My London+Uk peepz!! |
| ????? | Monday, January 01, 2001 - 12:02 pm
I think it's wrong so stop now.
and don't tell ya ma she will get angry.
trust me i know from expence.
peace out. |
| Moneyjane | Monday, January 01, 2001 - 12:08 pm
i would neva go out with a somali brotha.. cause ya'll f*ucked up in one way or the other. das my word and i'm out. one! |
| Ubax101 | Monday, January 01, 2001 - 12:54 pm
no it is not wrong girl. |
| Kamal | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 05:14 am
yaz you need to wash your legs drink you milk wear your bagama,
and go to bed that's what u need to do
and stop worrying about guys at this young age
damn,boy u know dooms day is close when a 14 years
old somali girl talks like that and adults like
ubax101&money jane gave her such advice......
and now if u all all excuse I'm going to the mosque waiting for "qiyama" |
| Basra | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 05:27 am
kamallooooooooool
Yaz its wrong only because you are 14, which is under age.But if you trun 18 -then you are free to marry who you want ONLY if he is Muslim.Its not a must he should be Somali?Good Luck! |
| MAD MAC | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 06:17 am
Personally I think Somali women dating foreigners is a great idea. Esspecially if they're short, non-Muslim, white guys. |
| MUSMAR | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 09:50 am
LOL KAMAL LOL LOL LOL |
| Miskiin-Macruuf-Waryaa | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 09:53 am
Salama...
"Is the first place Dating Xalaal source game? Whether be s/he a Soomaali or not?"
Wondering.
It never amazed me how we luck to learn our Light--our Faith.
__________________
Mac-Salaama!! |
| Anonymous | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 10:15 am
Mad mac,
Actually many somali girls think white guys are cute,but are afraid to admit it.I think you know why.lol! |
| HANNA | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 10:23 am
IF THEY LIKE
EACHOTHER
THEY'S NOTHING WRONG WITH IT..................
BUT IN MY OPINION I THINK IS BETTER
IF YOU WILL DATE SOMEONE OF YOUR OWN RACE.
I DON'T SEE THE REASON YOU HAVE
TO DATE SOMEONE
ELSE IF YOU OWN PEOPLE ARE
JUST THEY WAITING FOR YOU
WHAT'S THE POINT OF DATEING OTHERS.
THAT IS JUST WHAT I THINK. |
| durgal | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 02:21 pm
Reer baadiye hada baraneysa shukaansi.
Look, somali dating system was very challenging, no easy scoring you now what i mean. It takes weeks to get laid, and even then she must have been out of her mind. I remember this friend of mine he was waiting this girl for about months, we thought he was going to score, but Ramadan came,so he was out of luck. I like that kind of dating where we had to make all sorts of moves, and all Mrs Somali had to do was to wait and keep her dignity. Look I am still talking about Southern Somalia. but, As you move to central and nothern somalia dating becomes whole different game, sometimes it settled in open fights, sometimes it takes years of hard work for one to get lied. Any way dating somali women was itself an experience. Here women are sluts, if somali women want to become sharmuuto then date whoever you want. |
| Idea | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 02:38 pm
Yaz...i don't think you should date now or later.
Put two things in ur MIND:
1)Your Religion.
2)Your Education.
May Allah bless you |
| musmar | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 03:08 pm
what the •••• is wrong with u ppl
she is 14 for god sack
the only ones who made sense up in here are
warya,idea, and kamal
the rest of u need your heads to be examamined foooooooooooools |
| xamaali. | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 07:22 pm
Basra retracted...little bit..I am flubbergusted..she couldn't say...Yaz could date after eighteen... Well, Basra...You are the one who needs to get married...so that..we don't have to deal..with your...dreamful essays...and the little insecurity about yourself.
All the more reason to avoid...the americanized version...of somali chicks. a very grim future for the somali society indeed.... |
| SomaliCream | Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 05:08 am
Yaz
come on girl be real u should not be dating and worrying about guys at such a young age. Personally i have no problems with somalis dating outside their race, just as long they r Muslims. Dating a Man in general can effect your repetation dont matter if he is somali or not they all the same. So i advice u to take some time out and find out who ur as a person before rushing and trying to grow up so fast. There r others things to worry about in life??????? |
| DICK | Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 02:28 pm
YAZ
WHAT CAN I POSSIBLY SAY HERE.MMMM! PROPERBLY NOTHING. AH! ONE THING POPPED IN MIND.SAVE YOUR ENERGY,COZ YOU GONNA NEED LOTS OF IT IN FUTURE.DONT LET THE OLD GIZZERS AND THE PENILLY DEPRIVED WOMEN ANARCHISTS MISLEAD YOU.YOU HAVE GREAT TIME AHEAD OF YOU AND ALL THE SEX YOU NEED IS WAITING FOR YOU,SOMEWHERE AND SOME OTHER TIME IN FUTURE.SO DONT BE HEISTY.ENJOY YOUR CHILDHOOD.ADVICE FROM DICK.TAKE IT. |
| sulkha | Monday, January 08, 2001 - 01:54 pm
Sis, There nothing wrong with dating out of your race, but what is wrong is dating at your age. You are 14 years old, you should be playing with Barbie not BOYS. You should ask your mother or older sister( if have one)for an advice about boys. |
| Anonymous | Monday, January 08, 2001 - 03:49 pm
y'all hypocrite....Yaz get a life, like school and sports.....boys....not!
ciao |
| NOORA | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 06:54 am
i think that ya should ask ya slef why ya mother does not want ya to date first of all and sis i am not beining funny but ya only 14 when i was that age dam i didn't even know what dating was about.
think about when ya have girl and if she does what ya doing know well all i can say is that now days people are not what they seem to be but i have went out with people who were not somali and i only went out with one he was inden and i am not ever gonna do that again our man are more careing and thoughtfull but then ahain it depounds on what type somali guy ya meet at the end of the day all i can say to ya is that stop dating untill ya know what dating is all about coz sis some thing might happen that ya might like eg ya might end up having a baby and then ya well be thinking
so please wake up and smell the coffe ok
by the way i am not thinking that ya are sleeping with this but it might happen |
| Brother G | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 07:34 am
I see alot of ugly things going on ottawa, little
somalian girl smoking weeeeeeet, gaving head. I feel sory for your family and for yo'all. Someone told that there was a young somalian girl who strip, I didn't beleave it, but I saw it. I just walk away. I feel sory for her.
peace
one love |
| Kandi | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 10:45 am
BrotherG you should of found out who she's and tell her parent what their little girl was up to.
And the 14yrs old child, baby girl stop watching Rick and Jerry. What kind of bull sh$t are you talking about dating she says. Do you homework, go to dugsi, drink milk and go to bed. Watch Barni if you have to, but get dating out to your airhead. What you need if older brother or sister who would beat your sorry ass, and watch every move you make. I wish you where my sister I would beat some sence into you. You couldn't able to date Somali guy let along any other boy. If you keep doing what your doing you'll end up pregnant and your live if oooooovvvvveeeeeeer. So be carefull and tell you mamma your dating boys so she can put a lock in you Kintir and throw away the key |
| LAMIA | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 01:48 pm
YAZ THIS IS JUST AN ADVISE TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WID DATING GUYS FROM OTHER RACES THE ONLY WRONG THING IS THAT YOU R ONLY 14 14 14 REMEMBER THAT. LOTS OF GUYS WILL TRY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU. IT DOESN'T MATTER IF THEY ARE SOMALIS OR NON SOMALIS THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. JUSS HOLD ON UNTIL YOU ARE 18 OR SOMETHING TAKE YOUR TIME AIGHT.
PEACE |
| Mr.Nice | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 02:08 pm
Yaz, Listen to me sis, I am a brother with lots of experience. By the way you asked the question, I couldn't help but to speculate in your furture. This is how you are going to end up.
You probably had sex by know, cuze you are experimenting.
When your 15 you will probably had several sex partenrs.
When you become 16, you are well know ass Yaz Blow
When you become 17, you been around with every body including you freindly Cambodain neighbors, and will get pregnant not nowing who the father is.
When you become 18 had three consecetive abortion.
When you become 19, i rather stick my dick in the toilet, cuze u'r pussy is the size of ozone layer.
I AM RELLY SORRY TO SAY THIS BUT YOU WILL DIE OF AIDS WHEN YOUR REACH SWEAT AGE OF 20. REST IN PEACE. |
| sulkha | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 06:36 pm
Kandi,
brother, locking her kintir is a the not the perfect answer here and won't solve her problem. I know alot of girls without Kintirs who still go out on dates and have sex. What Yaz needs is parenting. She needs to talk to both of her parents. Mom. and Dad are responsible to teach their little kid about SEX. They should not deny that their little girl is a teenager now and have those feelings, which is a normal thing.
Good luck yax |
| Sirrus | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 06:50 pm
For the love of Allah,
what is the world coming to. I guess it was a parent's dream when they thought coming to this country would give their children education and access to great jobs. I DIGRESS, now what you have is 11-15 old boys smoking weet, drinking alcohol, sleeping with every girl in their sight, somali or non, not to mention filling up the prisons. Just as equally you have somali girls as younge as 14
"dating" = sleeping with boys, striping and giving head. Is there even an end to our pain and defamation. Can some one answer this question, what did somalis do that was so bad to deserve this pain.
In there is an old african saying. If you find yourself in town of one eyed people, you remove one of eyes. If we come to land where 14 year olds are deflowered, people sleep with the death, eat real crap, fathers sleep with daughters and mothers with their sons. Guess what our children are removing their eye as the saying goes.
May Allah bless and have merci with those somalis in Somalia. Yaz I hope you started this as a joke, if not, I see you growing up just like Mr. Nice listed.
Ladies as somali women if you feel like dating other races, black, white, red or yellow, by all means go ahead. If we somali men tell you not to you will do it just cause we told not to. There is an insect which ends up in pieces after sex, try telling that insect not to, generation after generation lose their life and no body can stop them. Yaz, 14 year old sister, I can't hold you, date, have sex, you will learn the horror when it is too late. |
| Basra | Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 06:47 am
Xamaali
Out of all the responce in the room,you thought maybe i was the one you needed to respond to.Please loool...are you going to force me to marry? Pls keep on Xamaaling,it fits your station of class status lol. |
| Arawello | Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 07:28 am
The young sister ( above)
Darling first of all you are too young to date, okey?I understand when you are at this age with a mixed enviroment you do not thibnk about race and I think we should not care the race of the other poeple. But now your problem as I understand is not about race but should you be dating ?
Darling there something you should think about. not only are we muslims and therefore not be dating in the first place but is ut good thing to do.
sister when the boys like your age date with you they are not gonna marry you. they only want to play with you and latter when they grown up they will look for someone else. do you want be used???
I teel you somethink you should do; but tellme abit more about what you are looking for.
Your;s sister Aro |
| HIGH ST | Friday, January 12, 2001 - 08:36 am
LOL
HONEY MARKAAN DA DAADA JIREY DATE MA AQAAN.
DUGSI QURAAN IYO SCHOOL AYUU DATE KAYGA AHAA.
TAKE MY ADVACE STUDY HARD KA FAA IIDEYSO WAQTIGA MY TEACHER AYAA DHIHI JIREY WAQTIGA WAA SEYF IN TA AYSAN KU GOYN ADIGA GOY.
YOU ARE 14 SUBXAANAH U ARE TALKING ABOUT DATING.
JUST BE CARE FUL.
SHALAAY WEY DANBEEYSAA KUWII SHALAAYA ILAAH NAGAMA DHIGO. AMIIN |
| yaz | Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 10:48 am
thanks for the advise all.
most of the things you said waz really nice and helpful but the rest waz ••••. lol.
anyways i know u probably thinking that i'm a slut but i ain't i came to this fuckin country when i waz 2 and know nothin about somalia sadly to say i don't leave wit me real parents for some reason.
and i know about datin coz i've dating from when i waz 8 and me parents don't say nothin about it.
but this boy is a special case. |
| DominoPizza | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 12:00 am
If I date a somaligirl that dated a foreigner, then first thing I will tell her "get out of ma face" and get a hiv test? thats it
pizzaboy
15yrs dating every somali gal that get 12) |
