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dr.romance

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 08:41 am
Hi!
This place is being served by dr.romance so if you have problem concerning...Love and Relationships and you need someone to talk to feel free to use just ask for help from dr.romance,coz im here to listen and to heal.

yours,dr.romance
thanx!

P.S If somalinet network is not working just contact me using this address..

wwp.icq.com/95433488

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Anonymous

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 09:06 am
WHAT MAKES YOU THINK YOU CAN HELP OTHERS AND MADE YOU SO EXPERT IN LOVE$ROMANCE !!!!!!!!


PEACE

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Abdul

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 12:21 pm
Hi!
Anonymous
Never turn your head from love and later wonder why you have such a stiff neck.

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dr.romance

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 12:30 pm
To
Anonymous!

Love is a powerful addiction for the human soul. Even people that have not experienced it, yearn for the chance to give and receive it from someone special

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dr.romance

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 12:44 pm
To
Anonymous!
The hardest of all is learning to be a well of affection, and not a fountain; to show them we love them not when we feel like it, but when they do.

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lulu

Monday, January 08, 2001 - 03:48 am
Bro...only god can solve people's problems, no matter what they are. So all i'm trying to say is don't rock other peoples hearts.

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ILHAM

Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 02:32 am
MY LAST LOVE WAS TWO YEARS AGO
I'M 18 GOING TO BE 19
TELL ME DR.
WAHT IS WRONG WITH MY
LOVE

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Rahma

Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 05:21 am
Dr please tell me why mrX left me few years ago and calling me now when I moved on with my life?
what's with guys that makes them want us more when we find someone else?

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Basra

Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 05:59 am
DoctorRomancelol

Can you tell me why i love Ice-cream more than Love or Romance? lool

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dr.romance

Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 02:26 pm
To
LuLu!
Thanx sis but remember Life is to be fortified by many friendships. To love and be loved is the greatest happiness of existence.

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dr.romance

Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 02:37 pm
To
ILHAM!
Love goes toward love, as schoolboys from their books; but love from love, toward school with heavy looks.No matter how hard things seem, true love will aide you through it.If it is really love, you can see yourself standing in their eyes, part of the abstinence that is worth dying for. If you long for that recognition that will not part by distance, in time your dream will be replied.Being in love is a wonderful feeling but being loved and appreciated in return can be the most wonderful experience that can happen to your life.

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dr.romance

Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 02:48 pm
To
Rahma!
I'm really sorry to hear that story of u and MrX,let me tell u one thing here,Choosing a love and then being strong enough to live up to your commitment of love is the essence of love.Losing an illusion makes you wiser than finding a truth.So here is a question for u do u still love him?if ur answer is no,Why waste your time hating when you can enjoy your time loving.and if ur answer is yes then Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt, but it's the only way to live life completely.

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dr.romance

Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 03:01 pm
To
Basra!
First of all the way you feel or as u said that you love ice-cream,that it ur own decision its upto u to continue or to give up,but on the other side about love i can tell u,The most horrible thing that can happen to you in life is to be without love, toilet paper coming to a close second,and im sorry to say this but its the only way to describe ur problem.

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KAMILA

Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 03:14 pm
DR ROMANCE
I'M YOUNG GIRL WHO CURRENTLY IN LOVE WITH THREE GUYS AND HALF ....WHAT YOU THINK I SHOULD DO???

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Hibo

Thursday, January 11, 2001 - 05:20 pm
Dr. Romance......looooooool.... I loved ur response to Basra's Q... however let me see if I can do any better..........
Why do I love so many men at the same time...........this is for real no joke.......lately that is what I have noticed in myself.......?? Can u help.......?? At the present I love 4 guys.........they all mean the same to me.........u know "the world"

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dr.romance

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 05:05 am
To
Kamila & Hibo!
thanx both of you it seems you girls share the same problems here so ill answer you both in the same way.to love more than one man is not a good idea at the end of the day someones gonna get hurt,and also there are more risks than you girls should know im a fraid if this secret of yours gets out you gonna end up a lone both of you.If you love two people, you don't love either one enough.You know you're really in love, when you have love for that person and only that person. You want to be with them in every waking moment, and you'll stay with them through thick and thin.

Kamila & Hibo!
girls Once you find someone you really love try your hardest not to lose them because you will never get over the feeling of loneliness.

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Basra

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 05:44 am
Hiboloool

Still wishing me to find that love? loool

DoctorRomance,
I am not saying,i dont have love, i do-from my adorable parents,and some of my siblings,anyway-my point is i am not alone,i have plenty of people in my life who love and i love them,so the element of lonlyness is out of the question.Romantic love can come later when i am not on the cellular phone,or watching a nice romantic movie,or involved in studies.In short,maybe i am not ready for Love?

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Anonymous

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 05:47 am
I feel your pain dr.romance

can you help me? I love a guy I've meet over the net and I can't be sure if that is real love. How can it be? dr romance am I sick or does love over the net exist and is it similar to the love you have in real life??????

A confused sis

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Rahma

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 06:04 am
Dr I don't like your advise, and the reason is your telling me to give a chance to someone who hurt me before so he can hurt me again just because I love him, what's love get to do with it? the man doesn't know the word commitment and it shouldn't make any difference if I love him or not we all have to learn when to move on and keep the past in the past.

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dr.romance

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 07:08 am
To
Anonymous!

Finding love used to be limited to only people that you knew or friends of those people. Now you can find love anywhere in the world by being online. The online world lets you meet new and exciting people all the time. But you have to be very careful my dear coz in this crazy world there animals and human beings.So here are ma tips

Tips For Meeting Your Online Love:
When it comes to common sense, online relationships are no different from a "real" world relationship. It's important that you use it!! If you pay attention to your instincts and the signs around you, chances are you're not going to run into many problems. Through the course of my own Interent relationships I have found there a few basic tips to keep in mind before and during meeting your online love.

1. Make sure to talk to as many people as possible (as often as possible) who actually know your online love in the real world. This may sound a bit different, but it establishes what type of person they are and also what type of friends that have. Just like in a "real" world realtionship you can tell a lot about a person by their choice in friends. Doing this also lets you know it is not some pscycho hiding out somewhere.

2. While each situation varies, know your online love for at least 3 months before meeting. Doing this gives you both a chance to really get to know each other and make sure this is something you want to do. Typically, as a rule, you will find you will really "know" a person by 3 to 6 months. This is great tip to follow to really protect yourself... especially from your emotions!

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dr.romance

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 07:33 am
To
Rahma!
Dear sis i think you miss understood me there,but ill give u this chance again first of all i really respect your decision as u 've decided to move on but please do urself a favor tell that poor guy the truth that Time has passed, the season has changed, but those r the words he needs to hear from you.No matter how smart someone is, they'll never realize what they have, until it is gone.

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dr.romance

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 07:45 am
To
Basra!

Now let us play hide and seek. Should you hide in ur heart it would not be difficult to find you. But should you hide behind your own shell, then it would be useless for anyone to seek you.It does not bother me to say this isn't love, because if you don't want to talk about it then it isn't love.I hope to hear from you next time when you are ready.Till next time Good luck.

yours,Dr.Romance
Thanx!

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Staar

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 01:16 pm
Dr. , I am very impressed by what you write and your valuble advices which you give for free.
Do you have a Phd in love or were you devoted in learning the theory and the practicals of love all your life ?

Anyway ,let me get to my problem .
I used to like this guy from my univ. and I all the time we were together ( which wasnt long at all) i was trying to change him to the better because there were certain traits that i disliked in him and was a priority for me when it comes to choosing a mate.To cut a long story short ,he did something and i took it so seriously that i ended our relationship quickly just like that,by gathering all the negative things about him and putting it before my eyes , they were also based on assumptions , which i think wasnt fair at all.
I was loyal , and he didnt look like loyal, did i do the right thing ? That i dont know .
One thing i know , he wasnt what i always wanted .
So was it just a excuse i was waiting for to end this relationship .
What do you think ?


Salam

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Troublegirl

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 11:00 pm
HIBO
LOL @ 4 at a time......Give them a ticket and tell them to stay in line.....Ha ha ha ha ...... Girl I been practising the same thing lately.....So many well-wishers and every morning when I wake up I say to myself Im doing the right thing coz Ima marry the best candidate...coz-------------------------->"Gabar kun ay koodisaa Kowna wey kala baxdaa".....right. Somebody created that phrase just for ME

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dr.romance

Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 03:39 am
To
Staar!

First of all i'd like to thank you for understanding how hard ma job is in here,secondly ill also like to help you see through your problem coz from ma point of view there is nothing wrong to the decision you took as you see we have to learn to live in reallity this life so many things have changed,is not the way our parents use to live we have choises to make and what ever you choose people should accept and also respect ur decision,to add few things here i'd like to say,Two souls meet and discover they were not meant to be -- hence, they part. You attract people by the qualities you display. You keep them by the qualities you possess so if u think that is not a good responce,to me i think you've tried your best,Some say love is life, but i dr.romance say love without hope and faith is an agonizing death.So till next time good luck sis and if u think of coming back again then be ma guest.

Dr.R
Thanx!

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KAMILA

Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 06:38 am
DR LOVE I JUST WANT TO THANK YOU FOR THE VALUBALE ADVICE YOU GAVE ME..... BY THE WAY ARE U COMING TO TORONT ANY TIME SOON CAUSE YOU SEEM TO KNOW WHAT YOU DOING.
ARE U SINGLE BY ANY CHANCE???

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rose

Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 06:54 am
lol what funny responses.

dr romance, first of all i think you should define "infatuation" for these girls who "love" multiple men at the same time!

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Hebel

Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 09:55 am
Guys my rubber doll is running out of warranty, and may get very upset if she does, what should I do?
.
Romance the soap and make her jealous or should I make an appointment with a Jiffy Lube?

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Hibo

Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 08:51 pm
DR.Romance: thnx but no thnx.......u haven't actually answered my question quite right.....I did love some guy.......n I still do.......but the point is.......I love too many....now what should I do......??

Basra: I am always wishiing u well......u know that!!....

TroubleGirl we r on the same boat sis.......wlc aboard.......those I didn't support or believe in the notion of urs......yet I started to give it a try.....n believe its not working as it should be........seems liek I am falling in love every eligible bachelor I meet.........whats up....with that.....damn......I thought I was supposed to just play around.....n not be bugged with all this infatauted feelings for "mutiple men" as sister Rose put it........huh ain't she smart....she picks on u yet sarcastisly.......great job.....Rosy....!!

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KOWNEYN

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 06:09 am
BISMILLAAH AND SALAAM TO ALL


I love but am afraid to choose
for women in general my love is not confused
but to pick one means there others to loose
to do such my heart has since HER refused

What does attract us to them anyways?
Is it just how their body reflects the rays?
Is it an ordor or perhaps words they say?
is it their tenderness and sexy ways?

Is it the eyes that with one look enchant?
Something about them they use to demand
So no matter how hard I try to resist them i cant
Ya Allah! did u give them our heart, the command?

What secret weapon, yaa ALLAH, gives them this might?
Is it the hair and how it reflects the light?
I am attracted but what was it that i liked?
Is there a specific quality i just cant fight?
Is it the seductive smile that does delight?
or is it the face when it shines moonlight?
Is it their wit when its often bright?
What is this, my lord, the weapon that gives them might?
What is it about them that I just cant fight?
What gives them this power, this right?
Why does my senses leave by their beautiful sight?
Why am I, my lord, in this helpless plight?
Why do they intrude when i did not invite?
Why do they take away my sleep and peace at night?
Why am I lonely except when I am holding her tight?

Kowneyn

Who can give me answers...Inshallaah we will continue it and will add some more but this time with some answers.

To be cont....

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dr.romance

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 07:05 am
To
Kamila!

Well come back!,its so hard for me to say this to you but u left me with no choice,i hope this wont hurt you sis,before me giving you ma answer to ur question,i got a question for you what happened to the three and a half guys who love you?

yours,Dr.R
Thanx!

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dr.romance

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 07:10 am
To
Hebel!

Everything in life that we really accept undergoes a change.When in love: be fair and honest, even when it hurts.

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dr.romance

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 07:22 am
To
Hibo!
well come back,you really did'nt understand what i said up there but i hope this time ill make a little bit clear and hope u'll see through this situation your getting urself in.let me say this to you.Infatuation brings aggravation. One sided love brings pain. Two sided love brings bliss.

yours,dr.romance
Thanx

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Miss Shakespeare

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 07:34 am
Kowein


Men do love but are afraid to commit,
for men in general my love is not confused
but to pick one means his love for eternity
to do such my heart has since HIM refused

What does attract us to them anyways?
Is it just how their body reflects the rays?
Is it an ordor or perhaps words they say?
is it their roughness and manly ways?

Is it the eyes that with one look enchant?
Something about them they use to demand
So no matter how hard I try to resist,
Ya Allah! did u give them our heart, the command?

What secret weapon, yaa ALLAH, gives them this might?
Is it the muscle and how it attracts trouble?
I am attracted but what was it that i liked?
Is there a specific quality i just cant fight?
Is it the seductive smile that does delight?
or is it the face when it shines moonlight?
Is it their wit when its often bright?
What is this, my lord, the weapon that gives them might?
What is it about them that I just cant fight?
What gives them this power, this right?
Why does my senses leave by their Handsome sight?
Why am I, my lord, in this helpless plight?
Why do they intrude when i did not invite?
Why do they take away my sleep and peace at night?
Why am I lonely except when I am holding my teddy tight?

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dr.romance

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 07:41 am
To
Hibo!
well come back,you really did'nt understand what i said up there but i hope this time ill make a little bit clear and hope u'll see through this situation your getting urself in.let me say this to you.Infatuation brings aggravation.Two sided love brings bliss.

yours,dr.romance
Thanx

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DuH

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 10:29 am
dr.romance

define romans? put it in english please,no italian.DuH

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MATRIX

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 11:07 am
YO DR.ROMANCE:

THERE'S THIS GIRL I LIKE IN MY SCHOOL AND SHE'S VERY PRETTY BUT THERE'S A PROBBLEM I DON'T KNOW HOW TO ASK HER OR WHEN TO ASK HER. I'M ALSO KINDA NEW TO DA SCHOOL AND THERE ARE ALL THESE ORTHER GOOD LOOKIN GIRLS BUT I JUST CAN'T GET THIS ONE OUT OF MY HEAD. NOW I'M WANNA THOSE GUY'S WHO TALK ALOT BUT EVERY TIME I'M NEAR HER I JUST GO ALL FUNNY AND QUITE.I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP MAN

PLEEZ.

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Kowneyn

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 12:01 pm
Bismillaah

Miss shakespeare its unfair:

I will believe you have equally strong feelings on this issue when you express it with your own words without using mine as a template. My questions are really deep and more serious and your insertions did not do it justice because from your insertions I can see u perhaps thing its something superficial that causes this attraction. But I will be honest the first twist of words did ring true. Although its not right to say I am afraid to commit, its true that i want to make the right choice. And even if you read such fear into my lines, you cannot extrapolate to all men. I do wonder sometimes if I will find someone who will ever rekindle love in my heart that is exclusive on top of the the general love that I have for the opposite gender. Fa inna bacdi cusra yusran, inna bacda cusra yusra... verily there is after hardship ease... So I have faith but also I have hidden knowledge which if revealed to the un initiated tends to baffle them this gives me hope that I will find the peace I seek. That my longing for that state of harmony which comes from unity with a loved one will come and then been committed is not even a question but a duty. Moreover, the uncommitting males you know probably are so because they are playing the field. Alxamdullillaah, I have gained the upper hand over the evils of uncontrolled sexual passions and believe you me this was one of the greatest victory against my self (nafs) and want no part of such destructive lifestyle. Therefore, u see my non-committment is because my heart is looking for some person that is different from the once I have met.

Finally, re: the general love or attraction between men and women...is far from superficial traits...and its truly mysterious!!!

Salaaam

Kowneyn

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lonelyheart

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 06:21 pm
love is not something you need help with however heartbreak is.
i like what the doctor is doing here but i dont see a reason for it.
i read a book which said "true love does not show where it doesnt exist neither does it hide where it belongs".
my point is love is always arround as....the love from our parents,siblings,relatives,friends and sometimes strangers however the love from someone who was created for you in this world is remarkable(meaning soulmates).
when love arrives you dont ask your self if you are ready neither worry or distrust instead u let go,it's like a brand new freedom in your own world.
so ladies and gentleman please dont ask for help in love just wait and open your heart.when true love walks inn you shall now what to do and in the meanwhile be patient and give the doctor a dosage of real love.

oooo romance is something you create not something realistic and i have prove.however it come with the package of love.

ooo i almost forgot,there is a lady think who said she is not lonely coz is she is surrunded by the love of her family and friends.actually i think she used the term parents and sibilings.
i dont think the doctor responded to that correctly and i completely disagree with the lady.
sweatheart,the love of parents and siblings is a given.espcially in our cummunity most of us grow up in a loving home with wonderfull parents.however our siblings re not the best at all times but we always have a bound with them.and can count on them when we need them.however you could be surrunded with family and friends but yet be lonely.
noo your not lonely for a family's love but someone is affection and careing.the opposite sex if i may add.we all need those arms that we can run to,or those jokes that we heard over thousand times but yet they make as smile like we heard it for the first time.the long walks,candle light dinner or just a night in a warm fuzy place with someone in your arms.so there is plenty of defintions for lonelyness however when we dont have someone to love (a man or a woman) w are cooned with loneliness.
i wrote a poem about this and it's in the poetry section it's called "TILL TODAY I AM STILL IN SEARCH OF MY SOULATE" read it then u might agree with me or disagree however is fine.

good luck in finding true love and your other half as i am still in search of mine.

yours lonely heart

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lonelyheart

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 06:29 pm
ooo the lady i was speaking of was basra....sis i am sorry i didnt mean to be rude i just couldnt recall the name.i think i had a long day at work sorry sis.

yours lonelyheart

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ubax

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 06:58 am
I love this guy and never told him how I felt about him, even thought he kind of told me that he liked me but did not believed him at the tim. Annyway I want to tell him how i feel now and i am sure he has someone now but we still talk to each other on the phone, also he lives in another country.

Please i woul be greateful if u could help me on whether i should tell him now or move on and forget about it .

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Anonymous

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 07:33 pm
dr romance I for one seriously need your help,
I'm in love with this guy and don't know how to tell him.Whenever I see him talking to a girl I
get jelous,I can't tell him i'm in love with him
cuz we've known each other almost all our lives but he treats me as a friend,sohow can i express my feelings???????????????

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Anonymous

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 11:59 am
YO ANONYMOUS I GOT A GOOD ONE;

S-T-R-I-P

LATERS.

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dr.romance

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 10:38 am
To
DuH!

Amor vincit omnia"
Love conquers everything.
Who says love is only one language.

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latifa

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 04:42 am
salaams 2 all,

kowneyn....i love the way u express urslef, and i admire the way u have learned 2 get the upper hand of ur passion. but plz answer me this...y is it men find it so hard 2 commite, i mean as a female i know that if i was 2 love a man i'd be very simple....love him and be there, yet me being so simple....yet i'm still sinlge. all though i'm not looking 4 a boyfriend...coz its totally against our religon...i just want some 2 love and have the same love in return. as 4 marriage....if i found the right "1" i would, coz u wanna be with them and the only halal way 2 do that is through marriage...which brings us back 2 the 1st prob...lack of commitment from our brothers.
and 1 other thing kowneyn....have u found the right "1" yet....if so y r u afraid 2 commite 2 her

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Anonymous

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 11:59 am
Dear Dr. Romance, I would like to thank you for take the time to help people.I know that it not easy however, I am hoping that u would help me with the problem i have. Which is that i am in love with this man.We want dated for 5 months then that end. I still have feels for him and want him back. What i am trying to say is, is it the right thing to do?

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dr.romance

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 12:30 pm
To
Those Who Love And Are Afraid To Say ...Love!

When you love someone, say it. Say it loud. Say it right away, or the moment... just passes you by.To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.So start telling those ppl You Love now or you gonna let the moment pass you.

yours,dr.romance
Thanx!

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dr.romance

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 01:05 am
To
Anonymous!

First of all iwanna thank you for posting your issue here.To meet and part is the way of life. To part and meet is the hope of life,but the problem is does that guy still Loves you?,from my point of view is that,that guy does'nt need to be given a second chance,coz if he really Loved you he could be the first person to try and patch things up,in this world,The great tragedy of life is not that men perish, but that they cease to love,so make sure that he is willing to solve this problem with u or you gonna get hurt.

yours,dr.romance
Thanx!

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Angel

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 04:48 am
Dr romance

I need some1 like u in my life right now cause i broke up with some1 i was with 4 2&1/2 yrs and im really heart broken, i still love him and would do anything 2 have him back i know that he loves me cause he always calls me to make sure im fine & he always tells me he loves me even though its being 6 mths since we broke up i find it hard to feel comfortable with other man cause i always compare them to him and they never seem to be the same.
he loves me & i love him but something is keeping us apart and i can't figure out what it is, i cant see myself loving some1 else cause his my 1st love and im hurting so bad cause i love him soooo much


what should i do?

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UnStable

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 10:09 am
Dr. Romance
I am very unstable woman, who doesn't know what
she wants out of life. I have two men in my life. One is in love me and I am in love with the other one.The one i love, we are having poblems nowdays, and i just don't know who to work them out. While we were having this problem this guy come into my life and asked me to married him. I don't want to married someone i don't have know how i feel about them.What i am ask u is what am i support to do with my life and how can I work this problems out.I wish things could be simple.

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dr.romance

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 02:11 pm
To
Angel!

There are moments when lovers need to be apart, in order to love better and more completely.Love is not the saying of the words but the giving of the self,let me give that guy an advice here he should know better that A woman's love is a man's privilege, not his right.

yours,dr.romance

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dr.romance

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 02:17 pm
To
Unstable!

You may only be one person to the world but you may also be the world to one person,coz If you love two people, you don't love either one enough,Love is not the one where you can picture who you are going to marry, but the one you can't live without.Love is to share your life with someone you love and love forgets mistakes.

yours,dr.romance

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Staar

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 07:18 pm
To Angel,

Dear sis , have you ever seen a table with one leg or have you ever seen a building standing without a firm good base ? No , i believe not.
Relationships are just the same. Its very natural to mention love always when your involved with someone, but is that it ? You can know you love him and he can tell you he loves you and actions only determines how sincere his affection is towards you .
Everyone of us know what we want in a person, does your guy fulfill them , at least does he fill the gaps that allows you to be with him in future. Does he complete you ?
If you share more than just love and by that i mean , communication , understanding ,honesty , trustworthy , then dont loose someone because your not committed to him physically , you can be committed to him emotionally and you wont know it until he's not there anymore . Its true , you dont know what you got until its gone.

Salaam from Staar .
To Doc , mind if you hire me for a while , i'm jobless ...dont worry , i wont ask you for love oops i mean money ....i am just volunteering.,..
lol.....

By the way doc .. thank you for the response ..i mean the confirmation ;-) .
Mind if i ask you a question ...
In every woman , especially in this age , when it comes to relationships or men , we are insecure .
Th truth is , its very hard for us to believe a man because naturally they are born liers . So , what do you think ?

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LONELYHEART

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 12:48 pm
"LOVE IS NOT".....

love is not a blinder
it's an eye opener
those who are blinded by love
did not have a sight before

love is not a mystery
it's reality
those who mystify love
were already living in a misery

love is not a game
it's a gain
those who gamble with love
are already loosers

love is not a jungle
it's a field of romance
those who are restless in love
never had a rest of mind

love is not a struggle
it's a victory
those who wrestle in love
are already captives.

yours lonelyheart

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ISMAHAAN

Monday, February 12, 2001 - 07:57 am
to.DR romance. my name is ismahaan I HAVE BEEN IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY FOR A LONG TIME HE LIVES IN SWEDEM AND I LIVE IN UK.THE THING IS HE BROUKE MY HEART BY MESSING WITH HIS EX AT THE SAME TIME HI WAS WITH ME,NOW IT HAVE BEEN SIX MONTH SENS WE HAVE BROKEN UP OR SEEN EACH OTHER BUT I STILL LOVE HIM AND I CANT STOPP THINKING OF HIM,I AM WITH SOMEONE NOW BUT I ALWAYS COMPER EVRY GUY WITH ME EX.HI WAS THE FIRST GUY IN MY LIFE AND I JUST CANT FORGET HIM.I CALLED MY FRIEND IN SWEDEN AND SHE TOLD MY THAT HE WAS GOING TO MOVE TO THE UK,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FILLING IS GETING STRONGER EVEN THAT I KNOW THAT HE HURT ME BEFORE.AND THE GUY I AM WITH I DONT HAVE ENY FELLINGS FOR BUT I DONT WANT TO HURT HIM CAUSE I KNOW HAW IT FEELS BUT I CANT LIE ENYMORE I JUST WANT MY EX BACK .LOVE FROM ISMAHAAN

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