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Would you marry a non vergin girl? I need opions!!!!

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Mr.IAMCONFUSED

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 01:46 pm
I recently found out that the girl I am about to marry to is not virgin.
I love this girl, but I think her being a non virgin doesnt help. And I am beginning to think other wise.
I need your sinceriest opoins brothers and sisters weather to marry her and not.

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Honest

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 02:39 pm
whaz up confused !!
dont confuse yourself even more,If you love this girl forget about who she fucked before as long as she is gonna be your wife and a faithful one.
see we all make mistakes maybe the guy she lost her virginity to was the one she thought she would have married.I believe that things like that should not be a problem, my dad told me once you can marry a prostitute and make a lady of her if you are nin rag ah.

p.s. if you really would expect an answer from thhis page for something so important like this maybe she should not marry you.

so judge the girl for her better qualitys instead of stupid errors like this one.

honest.

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Anonymous

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 07:47 pm
hey the unvirgin the better atleast you dont have to struggle to get in with your 4 inch willy.

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DuH

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 07:56 pm
4 inch willy bitch.DuH

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Troublegirl

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 12:59 am
It must be a challengeless ordeal for ya my brother. I understand men always want to conquer unconquered territory. I bet that's what drove Columbus to America.

What is with you men anywayz?......We give you a fresh, unopened woman...U struggle & can't open her.....We then go along with your plan & give you a very opened woman that reminds you of 7/11, U still complaining........I give up I tell ya.

Psssssssssssssssss

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SNOOP

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 02:16 am
YO DO NOT MARRIE HER, MAN SHE HAVE BEEN FUCKED IN THE PUSSY AND THE ASS,..... NO AHUH.......

U R PUTTING WHERE ANOTHER DICK HAS BEEN NO NO NO MY BROTHAR....

AND SHE HAS LICKED HEAD TO TOE.........

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Trooper

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 07:33 am
Mr. Iamconfused, i don't think you should get married at all for now. First, work on your confidence and 'how to be your own man'. Once you are able to base your self esteem on your character and abilities and not what other people think, then marry.

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Rahma

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 07:44 am
I don't see what the problem is. Are you virgin? If not stop the nonsense and marry the girl if you love her.

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Idea

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 09:16 am
wow,
If you are doubting now...you will later.
As trooper said...better to work things out between you and her be4 u get married.

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HonestGirl

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 09:50 am
Mr. Confused.......if u r already confused about the girl u wanna merry....how could u possible say u love her and that u wanna share life with her......brotha like Honest said it shouldnt matter what she was b4......what matters is what she's gonna be later....if u love her u should love her for all that she is…..not half what she is…na’ mean…
Even allah 4gives mistakes bro……why couldn’t u 4give the woman u love!!!

Honest……..if all brothaz were like u and ur dady…….nobody would suffer this life!!lol

lata

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advisor

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 12:52 pm
I have 1 ? for you. have you ever slept with someone? if yes than stop being a hypocrite and marry the damn girl!

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Ice-Man

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 03:19 pm
LoL @ Troublegirl. I Think you are talking about me......LOL... No comment the topic


Later

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Mr.Smooth

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 04:32 pm
Listen to a bro, brother;
If the girl you are about to marry already tasted a dick then if you dont live up to the expectation of the guy before you, then you are in trouble. Because when you are at work she going to be with me or the next brother.
Listen brother if you are going to marry a non virgin somalian girl, you better be in bed then the guy she lost her virginity to.

It is real simple, you were not the first, so what you wished to experience with her for the first time is gone. All this talk of love is bull ••••, trust me your dick must be as bigg or bigger then the guy she lost her virginity to.

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lonelyheart

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 05:32 pm
DEAR CONFUSED,

i have to say this stupide and none sense.if u are basing ur decision on this ppl whow have no idea how the woman is like then u honestly dont love her and i that advise u shouldnt marry her.

a marriage is the biggest step u could ever take in ur life and it must start solid.as i can see ur having questions right now,it shouldnt be that way.

if u loved her enough it wouldnt take u a second to consider her ur wife.but clearly i dont see that please either work on the trust and maybe a little bit of faith.you are not ready for marriage right now as the others said already.

however when u love someone u dont see their past u only see their future with u.it's rear to find true love as it's to find a good person to share life with.if u have been soo lucky to have found that please don't throw it away.

yours lonelyheart.

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shushu

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 09:57 am
Thanks advisor, u read my mind.

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NINXOON

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 12:24 pm
TO MRIMCONFUSED,
WELL, AS YOU KNOW BROTHER WHEN U MARRIED SOME ONE U HAVE TO BE ABLE TO TRUST EM.AND U WOULD BE ALSO HOPING THAT SOMEDAY YOUR WIFE WILL BECOME"THE GOOD SOMALIAN MOM " THAT WE HAVE COME TO LOVE AND RESPECT.HAVING SAID THAT I'M GONNA PRESENT U 2 PROBABLE OR MAYBE POSSIBLE SCENARIOS.
IMAGINE U GOT MARRIED AND AFTER 6 MONTHS FROM YOUR HAPPIEST DAY IN YOUR LIFE, YOUR COMPANY SEND U FOR SEMINAR IN ANOTHER STATE,SHOULDN'T U BE CONCENTRATING ON UR WORK,OR SHOULD U?
I COULD SEE U BACK IN UR HOTEL ROOM THINKING HUUUM
IS MY WIFE SCREWING MY NEXT DOOR SRILANKAN FATHER OF 2 NEIGHBOR,OR MAY BE SHE IS DOING THE TURKISH CASHIER AT THE PIZZA PIZZA?? IS SHE MESSING WITH MY FRIENDLY CAMBODIAN NEIGHBOR ?? NO, NO IT COULDN'T BE "HE JUST HAD HIS PROSTATE REMOVED AND THINK THE POOR GUY CAN GET IT UP EVEN WITH HELP OF THE MAGIC BLUE PILL" BY THE WAY IS THE INDIAN GUY AT THE LOCAL7/11 LAUGHING WITH ME OR AT ME WHEN I GO THERE EVERY NOW AND THEN????IS THE MAIL MAN DELIVERING JUST A MAIL OR MORE THAN THAT????

THE SECOND SCENARIO IS EVEN SCARIER THAN THE FIRS.. LETS FORWARD THE DATE TO 2018.. YOUR TEEN DAUGHTER WHO THINKS SHE IS IN LOVE EVERY TIME A BOY LOOKS AT HER TWISE ...SHE COMES HOME ONE DAY FOOLISHLY THINKING SHE IS IN LOVE WITH THIS UGLY ASS HAITIAN BOY, SHE CONFINED THE STORY TO "SO CALL YOUR WIFE" YOUR WIFE SCREAMS AS LOUD AS SHE COULD SAYING"HAITIAN"??!! AND SHE CONTINUED HER VERBAL ASSAULT "COULDN'T DO BETTER THAN THAT ?" DAMN... BESIDES THEY HAITIAN ARE KNOWN THAT THEY COME TOO QUICKLY ANY WAY...GIRL DROP THAT ZERO AND GET U A HERO FIND U A MAN WHO WOULD TAKE CARE OF HIS BUSINESS IN BED UNLIKE PEOPLE I KNOW " SHE MEANS YOU BY THE WAY IMCONFUSED" GIRL GO AND FIND U JAMAICAN OR SOMETHING OR BETTER YET TRY MY ALL TIME FAVORITE WEST AFRICANS BOY OH BOY THESE BASTARDS KNOW WHO TO MAKE THE GIRL SCREAM THEIR HARD TO PRONOUNCE NAMES I' M TELL U GIRL.

IN CONCLUSION BROTHER :A GOOD SEEDS CAN ONLY BE THE PREFECT FOUNDATION FOR A GOOD TREE. IF U KNOW WHAT AM SAYING ."THERE IS A SUCKER BORN EVERY DAY ,DON'T BE ONE"
I'M OUT ...........SALAAM

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T-GIRL

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 05:03 pm
NINXOON
LOL........U watch too many Tarantino Movies, U made me laugh mate.

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Rahma

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 05:49 pm
NINXOON What the hell is wrong with you. Why are you giving bad name to the non virgin girls. Your nothing but a ignorant bastard. How would you feel if every girl you meet says I don't want you because you had sex with someone before me, wouldn't you think she's being silly and she should put the past where it belongs in the past. It's clear you have some problem concerning your manhood, because if you were a real man you wouldn't be thinking like that, a real man doesn't compare him self with anyone else and he surely knows his woman would never bring anyone else to his own bed.

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Rahma

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 05:57 pm
Mr Smooth your just like a Ninxoon you both have to deal with your problems concerning your manhood before you post in a public place.

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Uptown.girl

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 06:28 pm
lol@@@ninxoon, move out of the ghetto man, why are you still living among the immigrants....can't afford the rent or you live in a rent-free project house?

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NINXOON

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 04:14 am
TO RAHMA I'M GONNA ELUDE BACK TO WHAT U SAID"WHY ARE U GIVING A BAD NAME TO A NONE VIRGIN GIRLS"
CAN U TELL WHAT'S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?! BOY OH BOY..... WHAT IN THE HELL THIS WORLD IS COMING TO ?!! EXPLAIN THIS TO ME , HOW COULD U POSSIBLY GIVE A BAD NAME TO A HOE? SHE ALREADY A HOE ! ANY WAY U LOOK AT IT ,FROM THE LEFT ,RIGHT BEHIND,IN BETWEEN....AND WHAT UP WITH THE"LET'S KEEP THE PAST IN THE PAST SHI T" DAMN.. YOU NEED TO QUIT WATCHING THEM SOAP OPERAS MAN, IT SEEMS THEY MESSED UP YOUR HEAD........WARNING : SOMALIS DOOMS DAY IS DAY IS AROUND THE CORNER ..SO IF YOU U ALL EXCUSE ME I GOOTA RUN TO THE MOSQUE....

TO UP TOWN GIRL
THANK U FOR YOUR CONCERN SWEETHEART. BUT THE THING IS I MAKE MORE MONEY TO BE EXCEPTED IN A SECTION-8 HOUSING ,AT THE SAME TOKEN I MAKE LESS MONEY TO "REACH THE AMERICAN DREAM" U KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT : THE BIG HOUSE UN THE SUBURB,THE 2 KIDS, THE DOG ,THE WHITE NEIGHBORS lol..........

MR SMOOTH
I LIKE THE WAY U CAME A CROSS BRO

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Geeljire2001

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 05:57 am
To mr.confused:
Man do you know that we are in 2001. How do you expect that every somalian woman is virgin? Love is what matters.And you have to remember that it is not always easy to find a girl that u love and hoping to have a future with.We have face the true sooner or later.What about if a girl is not virgin.Does she has not the right to have sex?So marry tha girl. Love is love.And by the way the Quran have not forbidden to marry a "touched" girl.
Good luck!

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Rashiid

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 09:44 am
How The girl lost her Virginity through SEX or some other accident..

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SUMMERTIME

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 09:57 am
Geeljiry2001

IS YEAR 2001 MEAN ANY THING TO U EXCEPT MARRYING A HOE. DOES THIS YEAR HAS ANY THING TO DO WITH LOSING VERGINTY.. (HIGH CORRELATION MAY BE U TELL ME) U AINT GEELJIRY NOR A MAN.

NINXOON
LOL
U FORGOT ONE SCENARIO.

EVERY TIME U HAVE $EX WITH HER SHE WOULD TELL THAT THIS REMAINDS ME WITH THE FIRST NIGHT I SPENT WITH Mr.BLACK RAMBO THOUGH HE CAME AS QUICKLY AS U DID...DAMN IS THAT WHAT THEY WANT.


TO BE FAIR SOME GIRLS HAD A BAD LUCK, THEY MIGHT BE RAPED DURING THE CIVIL WAR IN SOMALIA, OR SOMEONE PROMISED TO MARRY HER AND TOOK ADVANTAGE. WHAT I AM SAYING, SEE THE CIRCUMSATANCES FIRST BUT DON'T EVER MARRY A HOE SHE WILL NOT CHANGE, TRUST ME

PEACE OUT

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NINXOON

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 11:23 am
RASHIID YOU ASKED HOW DID SHE LOST HER VIRGINITY AND WETHER IT WAS THROUGH AND AN ACCIDENT OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT ... HUUUUUUM LET ME SEE...

POSSIBILITY # 1 : ONE DAY SHE WAS WALKING IN THE PARK NEAR DOWN TOWN OAKLAND ,CALIFORNIA AND SUDDENLY SHE TRIPPED OVER A COCK, AND SHE STARTED RIDDING THE SH IT LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW ,NEEDLESS TO SAY THAT SHE NEVER MADE THE EFFORT TO STOP THE COCK FROM PENETRATING HER KOOCHIE........

POSSIBILITY # 2 ONE DAY SHE WAS LAYING ON HER BED RELAXING , LISTENING TO SOME MUSIC WHEN SHE SAW HERE SISTER EATING A CUCUMBER SO SHE ASKED HER SISTER TO THROW THE DAMN THING CAUSE SHE WANTED A BITE HER SISTER RELUCTANTLY COMPLIED AND THREW THE CUCUMBER TOWARDS THE DIRECTION OF HER SISTER GUESS WHAT THE CUCUMBER WENT STRAIGHT FOR THE TOUCH DOWN "IF YOU U KNOW WHAT AM SAYING" NEVERTHELESS LESS WITHIN 5 MINUTES THE GIRL WAS NO VIRGIN....

POSSIBILITY #3 ONE DAY SHE WAS WACHING THIS PORNO MOVIE ,AND THEN WHEN THE NIGH FELL SHE WENT TO SLEEP AND AROUND 4 AM SHE HAD THIS CRAZY ASS WET DREAM ,WHERE SHE WAS SLAPPING SKIN WITH MR.MARCUS
GET THIS THOUGH: WHEN SHE WOKE UP IN THE MORNING THE POOR GIRL WAS NO WHERE NEAR VIRGIN..SHE HAD LOST HE VIRGINITY DURING A WET DREAM!!!!!!

POSSIBILITY # 4 AND THIS MAY SOUND CRAZY BUT I GUESS NEVER SAY NEVER, WHEN THE GIRL WAS BORN SHE WAS ALREADY OPEN LIKE 7 / 11


BY THE WAY T- GIRL I FORGOT TO ASK YOU THE FIRST TIME AROUND... IS TARINTINO AN INDIAN ACTION STAR????

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rose

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 11:54 am
To love someone truely is to be able to forgive them anything. Good luck bro.

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Anonymous

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 08:34 pm
IF YOU R NOT CIRCUMICISED, CAN YOU LOOSE YOUR VIRGINITY THRU EXERCISE..?

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TJK

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 08:54 pm
Just chech brotha, if she is an HIV positive.OOps many of you will answer, well may be she used Condom, if that the case go and visit, General Hospital In Toronto, and let me know what you have seen.Warning brotha, they all lick, suck, or what ever, watch them out, after they all were thrown out from Jamaican Gettos, if you think I am on harsh on your lover, once again brotha go and visit that hospital, and I know you will appreciate may comments.This is not bull-sh, I have been refered by may teacher, and what I have seen was, way out from the truth.90% are Somalian women, 10% are Somalian men, don't ask me where thay have got it, do't know.Be care full, and kick the bitch, to her former, Jamaican, opener.Sorry brotha If i am too offensive, just telling you what i have seen.

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Rahma

Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 03:00 pm
NINXOON guy can be hoe too if he's having sex with different girls, so I guess that makes most of our men hoes.

Rashid LOL. I think she was fingering her self what you think?

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mr.k

Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 04:18 pm
rahma i think you are a certified hoe!!

a guy can't never be a hoe..we stick and move..
we don't loose sh it ......

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John John

Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 05:08 pm
Dear Confused brother.
Onething I wanna remain you is that, We as Somalian man always misunderstand our girls. I have a girl friend we both grew up here in Canada, I have never ask my lady or even think about to ask such questions. You must understand brother, this hole can sometimes get open by just accedent, and we should not make judgement of it. On the other hand, we as guys have usually messing around with other girls,and we want to get virgin girls, that is unfair for my opinion. I rather to be with girl, who knows what she is doing when it comes to bed.
so my advice to you is if you love the girl, and you willing to share your life with her, don't even think to have such thing in your head.

peace all of ya

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Anonymous

Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 06:29 pm
Rahma.......... tell me some thing logic sister.
is it true some thing has to go in to loose it......

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NINXOON

Monday, January 22, 2001 - 10:51 am
TO RAHMA HOW COULD I GUY BE A HOE COME ON GIVE ME A BREAK "A GOOD SOMALI GIRL" SHOULDN'T LOSE HER VIRGINTY THROUGH PRE-MARITAL REALTIONSHIP...INSTEAD SHE SHOULD WAIT AND WAIT FOR PRINCE CHARMING TO COME AND GET HER WITH HIS WHITE HORSE TO THE PROMISELAND...IF PRINCE CHARMING DOESN'T RING HER DOOR BELL WELL TOO BAD THEN ,SHE SHOULD ABSTAIN FROM SEX STRAIGHT UP..

AND NOW RAHMA IF YOU EXCUSE ME MY HISPANIC GIRL FRIEND IS CALLING WE GONNA GO ON A DATE.....

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SOMSAX...

Monday, January 22, 2001 - 01:52 pm
i LOVE THAT SPOT ON WOMAN'S BODY,,.. I EAT IT, LISK IT, AND SUCK DA JUICE OUT OF IT....YOU TALKING VIRGINITY,,.,HONEY,,I LOVE NO MATTER WHAT COLOR IT IS,,. YOU SHOULD FEEL PROUD OF IT,,,LOL

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Muna

Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 07:00 am
ninxoon loooooooooooooooooooooooool
if i die laughing i will sue u ,u carrrrrrrrzy
lol

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SOSA

Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 07:47 am
LOLOLOLOL@ NINXOON
keep up the good work son. i am looking forward reading some more of your crazy stuff . lol

Rahma: shut up u don't have point to make.How the hell can u gave non virgin a bad name..She became hoe the day that she opened up her legs, are u trying to hold on something that u lost years ago?

Mrconfused: u can't turn hoe in to house wife..

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Barwaaqo

Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 07:16 pm
Assalamu Calaykum
I’ve been reading what you people posted here, and to be frank Ninxoon (brother the name some how doesn’t suit you) and with the exception of some of you Ninxoon is the one with a brain here(quite interesting with a name like that, wouldn't you say?). Come on Rahma let’s talk girl-to-girl, seeming how these gentlemen don’t understand were your coming from! Rahma my dear sister let me see if I understand you correctly…………if a girl lost her virginity, we shouldn’t disrespect her? I’m I right on that, if not then you have my sincere apologize. However let’s go back to the topic if a girl loses her virginity before she gets married (with the exception of rape ofcourse) then………….I’m sure you all are familiar with the term Haram (please excuse the spelling). So let us all stop arguing about this and go back to the Quran! were you shall all find all the answers!

Assalamu Calaykum

Barwaaqo

Ps Mr-i'm-all-confused, Brother go back home and find yourself a decent Somalian sister! That is my advice to you. And I was just wondering as to how come you don’t write back!

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NINXOON

Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 02:07 pm
BARWAAQO, SISTER THANKS ALOT FOR YOUR COMPLIMENT .YOU ALSO BROUGHT UP A GOOD POINT ,ABOUT THE PERSON WHO POSTED THIS MESSAGE IN THE FIRST PLACE AND THE FACT THAT THEY NEVER RETURN TO DISCUSS THEIR VIEWS.AND THAT LEFT ME WITH NO CHOICE BUT TO SUSPECT THAT RAHMA HAS TO DO WITH THIS SOMEHOW......SO ,RAHMA IF IT'S YOU WHO POSTED THIS MESSAGE I STRONGLY SUGGEST THAT YOU ASK GOD FOR HIS FORGIVENESS, I ALSO ENCOURAGE YOU TO ABSTAIN FROM SEX "BORN AGAIN VIRGIN" AND WAIT FOR YOUR SOULMATE TO ARRIVE...WE HAVE TO TAKE THINGS IN TO CONSIDERATION THOUGH GIVING THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE A SHADY PAST AND UNCERTAIN FUTURE YOU MIGHT WANT TO AVOID BEING TOO PICKY ABOUT YOUR DESIGNATED CHOICE, I MEAN A 60 YEARS OLD GRANDFATHER, MIDDLE AGED MAN WITH 2 WIVES, BOLD SKINNY DARK AS HELL WALKING WITH A LIMB BROTHER ... YOU NAME IT , THEY KNOCK ON YOUR DOOR THEY GOOD TO GO AS SIMPLE AS THAT....GOT IT ? I HOPE SO......

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