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WHAT IS WRONG WITH SOMALIAN GUYS THESE DAYS........... ..WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD ONE'S.............I NEED ANSWERS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!

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lonelyheart

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 10:13 am
Sometimes i feel like i have all the aswers to all other people's problem however when it comes to mine my mind goes blank.
One of the biggest problem i have is somali guys,i dont understand them and i dont think they understand themselves either.
They lie,cheat,and they want to have sex with the female however they also expect to marry a vargin lady.
Now how do u want to have sex with other ladies are'nt they going to be someone's wife as well?
Why are they intimeded my a successfull women who have their life together such a wondefull career?

Most of my poems talk about love but for some reason i can never imagine the kind of love i talk about with a somali guy.

For one they are not romatic at all,have no clue on how to threat women,the cummunication stinks,and they see love as a sickness instead of believing in it.

Now don't get me wrong i dont think all men are the same however the horrible one's are greater than the good one's.
i just need someone to prove me wrong and tell me what is wrong with u guys and is their really some nice gentleman out there for me and the rest of the good ladies who have their life together but just need someone to share it with them.
I love somali guys and i know i will end up with one when the time is right however i am starting to loose faith in our men.i have no intentions of dating outside my race but i also dont want to date a somalian looser i rather stay single as i am now.

Please comments are wlc i need ur opinion on this matter.

yours lonelyheart.
P.S.Thx in advance for ur kind words and precious time.

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DuH

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 10:31 am
lonelyheart

What i dont understand is how you continue to show us how weak and desperate you are.Bitch move on with your life,get a little self esteem on the way and a wig.You look ugly.DuH?

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Alipapa

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 10:41 am
duh,
you are my boy ! right there, is the answer i wanted to say. Yeah! Thanks to lord that i planted some trees in somali soil. And if i die tonight, i won't be poping up from my grave out of ire for duh and others are keeping my revolution alive.

Again you are my son, duh, and i proud of you. lol.


Alipapa

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Ice-Man

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 10:54 am
To. Lonely

I understand your concern. I hope you will meet a Good man not a loser as you mention

your comment were sincere and funny Thanks

Later

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devils_love.

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 11:29 am
Dear Lonelyheart :

Have you ever heard of...Good things happen to
those who wait...well I want you to keep the faith
and insha allah.Mister Charming will come rolling.

It is fact that there are not alot of good men around...regardless of their race...and it is the same with women...not many good women around either. Just bear in mind that destiny is not sometimes kind..but we have to aim for the best..so that we can settle for better...

LonelyHeart...I wish you all the luck..and I am positive....ALLAH....has something in store for you...keep the faith.

devils_love.

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Anonymous

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 12:02 pm
DEAR loneyheart, how can you judge all somali men on the couple of loosers you dated? You have judge each somali man on his own merit. I understand were your coming from, I know alot of somali women who feel the same way, I know somali men are not romantic, I believe all somali women should be treated like the queens that they are. You can't say we can't be romantic, cause you don't know me, the way I treat ladies, especailly my somali queens. Anyway I hope this message clarifies that we are not all the same. I hope you find the one your looking for, who treats you the way you should be treated, like the queen that you are.

ASH, "THE LADY LOVER"

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Anonymous

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 12:04 pm
DEAR loneyheart, how can you judge all somali men on the couple of loosers you dated? You have judge each somali man on his own merit. I understand were your coming from, I know alot of somali women who feel the same way, I know somali men are not romantic, I believe all somali women should be treated like the queens that they are. You can't say we can't be romantic, cause you don't know me, the way I treat ladies, especailly my somali queens. Anyway I hope this message clarifies that we are not all the same. I hope you find the one your looking for, who treats you the way you should be treated, like the queen that you are.

ASH, "THE LADY LOVER"

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lonelyheart

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 12:38 pm
duh and alipapa are example of the guys i am talking aboutbut they need more help.duh i am not deseparate neither am i weak.i ahve everything i ever wanted at 22 yrs old and i am very attractive however u misunderstood me.

to ice man and devil's love........thank u soo much for ur kind words walaalo,i know with a little patience things will get along.i am no hurry and i am not looking for someone now actually i am getting ready to go back home for 3 yrs then maybe i will consider marriage.i know there is someone out there for everyone.i also believe in distany,i know i have someone wait and we shall arrive when the time is right.
but thx bro.

ash bro i didnt not judge all somalian men,coz i have a brother who is so wonderfull to women and to me as his little sis,my dad another remarkable man.i know there is allot of one's out there i just asked where they dissapeared to.i know i will the right guy and whatever he might be i will know he is the one for me.nothing comes perfect but u can always compromise i know in times it might be hard when ur heart is on line.

ladies and gentleman please dont misunderstand me i am not looking for anyone right now,i have enough with my work and school i barly have time to spend with my mom.
i just wrote this topic so that i can know,i have met allot of women who have been hurt.and it's not fun at all and i pray that i will not be in the postion or pain and i pray for all of u.

yours lonelyheart.

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soulbrother

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 01:05 pm
All men are not the same,your looking for man in the wrong place and the wrong time. I think thats you main problem.


where is your location anyway....

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Alipapa

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 04:45 pm
lonelyheart,

For the good things of God,i didn't say anything about you that could make you mad.did i?. i just announced how proud i am of my boy-the damn duh. if that is a problem, please let me know. And just for the record, if i say there is a good guy waiting you, i am lying you to the bones. I don't have a clue what is the fate has for you in the store.

And one more thing before i go, let me play the devil's advocate here and visit the world of cynicism. Ok? here i go:

Why, For nobody's sake, do we have to believe you are a good person and would expect you a good guy?. Please convince us on that. We cynical cult would like to ask this question because evey bitch claims to be queen here, in somalinet, and expects some good guy growing her backyard or showering her form the skylike some kind of magic rain when in fact she is the last bitch who deserves to get a good guy.( i am not saying you are one).

Alipapa

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SAGAL

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 07:01 pm
LONELYHEART!
MEN DON'T LIKE DESPERATE BITCHES. WHERE IS YOUR SENSE OF SELF WORTH. BITCH FORGET ABOUT THE "AU NATURALE" AND VISIT "MAC" COUNTER.
•••• I HATE DESPERATE WOMEN LIKE YOU.

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LONELYHEART

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 07:37 pm
AAAAHHHH SAGAL I WILL KILL U I SWEAR BITCH THIS IS NOT FUNNY.THEY ARE GOING THINK SOMETHING ELSE U DONT UNDERSTAND THIS PPL THEIR WAKOOOS LIKE U.
WALAAHI IF U WERENT MY SIS U WOULD HAVE BEEN DEAD SAGAL AND U WILL SOON 2 DOLLAR WHORE.

OOO AND ALIPAPA,
U SHOULD JUDGE SOMEONE BECAUSE OF THEIR ACTIONS AND WHAT THEY WRITE ABOUT BRO.I AM NOT SAYING EVERYONE HERE IS PERFECT SOME ARE HORRIBLE LIKE MY SIS SAGAL OVER THERE.BUT I AM JUST SAYING TAKE THE TIME TO NOTICE THE DIFFERENCE AND GIVE CREDIT TO THOSE WHO DEREVE.MOST OF ALL JUST BE NICE.
NOW U BE THE JUGDE ALI.

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Visitor.

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 07:48 pm
Lonelyheart.

Women make themsleves victims and complain later. You are better off being alone than being cheated or dissappointed by some rag tag you trust in romantic swing that never lasts long. Think about marriage if you are serious. Relationships thrive only in marriage if you want the truth. Otherwise, a guy can do to you whatever he wants once he achieves his needs without any feeling of responsibilities. There is always another girl with romantic tendencies whom he can prawl with. Does he need to worry then?. I guess not. EASY COME EASY GO.

Women don't like good guys for a fact. It is not fun to be good anymore. The expression of goodness AND the list of qualifications some women have is way far apart. They are confused.

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