     disillusioned_bro | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 11:03 pm
Asalamu Caalaykum brothers and sisters
I am a 23 year old student at U.T(university of Toronto) majoring in Software engineering. I was born in beautiful Erigabo in present day Somaliland. All I remember is that we were well to do family. My father was a successful business men who was a co-owner of a prosperous foreign fishing company. We owned a large estate, several cars/boats, two house-maids and a beach resort in Mayd. Our Fairy-Tale lifestyle changed in 1987. My father was fired from his job and taken in for questioning. He was charged for collaborating with the SNM rebels(at the time we called the SNM mujahideen, but they were feared and despised by the national government) Since he was a respected and well known business men, he was released shortly afterwards. When I was 13 the civil war reached our peaceful city, forcing our family in to exile, first in Egypt, then finally in Toronto Canada. Since we were Isaqq we used my mothers Darood connections to pose as a Warsengeli family and evacuated the country. Back then, I did not know the reason why we had to leave. On my 17th Birthday my grandmother from my dad side came to live with us for a short period. My grandmother was a wise old woman and she would frequently tell me stories about ina Abdille Hassan(The Mad Mullah). One day she asked me if I know my Qabil; I confidentely replied Isaqq. She then proceeded to ask me if I know what my sub-qabil was; I was utterly bewildered. She then asked me If I knew what clan my mother was; I answered "Isaqq, I guess". That day I found out I was Habar-yoonis of the Musse Care sub-clan and my mom was Dhulbahante of the maxamoud Garad sub-clan. This was the begining of my clan awarness and the negative consequences were almost immediate. My grandmother later asked me if it bothered me that my parents were of two different clans; I responded "ofcoarse not, it never bothered me before I found out so why should it bother me now". However deep down inside I couldn't bear the fact that my mother was from a different clan and the possibility of her fostering ill feelings towards me. Since I loved my mom so dearly, perhaps even more then my father, I decided to confront her. I stirred up all my courage and asked her "hooyo does it bother you that I am not the same clan as you are", she laughed and replied,"You are my Son; You and I are one in the same, no other affiliation could be stronger then that of a mother and her son". I breathed a deep sigh of relieve and decided to discard clannism as ignorance and bigotry. About a year ago I met a young, bright and absolutely gorgeous girl on campus. I discovered we had alot in common. We liked the same old movies, the same novels, same favorite actors, writers, food recipies, restaurants, a deep respect for Islam and Islamic literature. We shared a deep hatred for abortion, censorship of the media and same-sex relationships, We also from the same hometown of Erigabo. Obviously, we automatically clicked and started to date. This girl penetrated my soul like no other. We went to the movies, played mini-golf, laughed, sang, danced and even almost kissed on more then on occation. However, there was one thing we did not have in common; she was from a different clan. This revelation had no effect on me but when I told her my clan I could sense some un-easyness. Regardless of this petty factor we were truly in love and I decided to propose to her. But, first I had talk with my Parents and I told them I had met a girl I truly loved and that I thought she was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. My parents, especially my mom, were very delighted. When I told them she was Warsengeli of the rer Garad sub-clan my father replied "thats great, out two people have a long history of intermarriage", and that we were traditionally culturally linked.
Unfortunately, when she told her parents about her thoughts, she recieved a totally different reaction. Her parents said it would not work and they are advising her to marry her ex-boyfriend who is from a totally different cultural background. Although he is the same Harti sub-clan as her, he is a Majeerteni from Galkacyo and he speaks with a southern dialect. Her father went as far as threatening to disown her if she acted on her will to marry me. This girl as sweet as she is decided to follow her parents wishes and to give up true love in order to satisfy her old and ignorant parents. Last I heard, her and her ex-boyfriend are engaged.
Therefore, in conclusion, i would like to ask the Somali Diaspora if they feel this girls parents just in their judgement to deny me the one true love of my life soley based on my clan affiliation. As you can see clannism has tore me apart the same way it has torn our country apart.
When will this endless bigotry, ignorance and stupity end. When will we be judged according to our good deeds and merits and accomplishments and not by birth, clan affiliation or stereo-types.
Clannism is a virus that has engulfed our national psyche. This virus has no cure, because once an individual is infected, he/she never fully recovers. However, there is a vaccine called tolerance and Iman. If anyone truly believes in those two princepals, then perhaps they will be spared the trajedy of losing someone they truly love
Wa Billahi Towfiq |
| Concern sis | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 01:51 am
Dbrother.
Let me tel you that, your story bring a tears on my eyes.....walaahay I did cray walaalo! I feel you,I myself many times face a situatiom simillar to yours, and almost halve of my life spend this question....why?? why calan is that importand to our ppl?...why can,t they see what clan does our Land N ppl?...why can,t they see beyond calanism.? what is the solution of this desease?...how can I safe my future children this desease? N many more questions.....guest what, I am stil seariching to understand and I can,t.....So believe me I came up the conculusion and I am ready to safe my children from this Canablism desease....I decide to marry out of Somali race but Muslim race! in that way I don,t have to deal all the heart breaking my children may face....I have enough!
However, my advice to you is, move on.. I can see you are very brigh young man...think positive and don,t give up....you are stil young and this experience it may hurt for a while...but I hope it will not put you off for long...since you belong Somali race.....this kind of pain it is part of us....and it seems hard to scape....my point is....you are not Alone..you got know this was not your fault at all....just think how you can safe this from your children....the only answer I got this canablism is Islam....Study Islam and u will understand a lot mmore about this planet....trust Allah....and Allah (swt) will help you!
your muslim concern sis |
| Mr | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 08:56 am
Assalaamu Alaikum,
Disillusioned_Bro please accept my sincere condolences. There is always hope, and you must realize that not all people share those sentiments. There are decent Somalis still amongst us. However, the sad reality is more often than not, even marriages within the same Sub-Clans are deemed deplorable because they are not the same Sub-Sub-Sub Clan. May Allah shower us with his mercy!
Wassalam Wa bilaahi Towfiiq |
| DuH | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 09:18 am
Lets skip all this crap and get to the point.The point is everybody belongs to his own tribe.No inter-tribal marriage.I dont feel sorry for you because you are isaaaaaaq you should find your beautiful fellow isaaaaq.DuH? |
| guess | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 10:49 am
HI there.....
I feel sorry for what happened to you....but hey if the woman loved you more than anything....she wouldn't have left you in the first place.........she could to follow her heart as they say.........
In addition.........why tell the guy's accent, it seems that you are pretty jelous about him,,,,,,,,and if he has an accent so do you.......stronger one indeed........( |
| Hassan | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 11:22 am
Respect to disillusioned bro, concern sis and Mr.
I have also lost someone I loved, becuase her parents thought I was not good enough for her. Why do somali parents think they can control their children lives?, why are somali girls scared of their parents rather than their creator?. Bro, forget about this girl, move on, and trust in ALLAH(SWT). |
| Durgal | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 09:33 am
Good one!
Anyone who supports or listens his or her clan just because he belongs to is UNCIVILIZED,JAAHIL,REER BAADIYE SUMEYSAN,WHO DOES NOT BELONG IN NEITHER MUSLIM SOCIETY NOR FOR THAT MATTER ANY SOCIETY. |
| Jidali | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 10:02 am
Salamu alaikum,
Dear my fellow City man,
First of all, allow me to express my deep-seated abhorrence about this loathsome situation you found yourself in.
I am also 23 years of age, and was born and raised in the same city as you "Beloved Ergavo". Also I currently student reading Law at Harvard Law school where I am in my first year. We have all these in common, but we haplessly came from different tribes, I am your Abti. I am Mohamoud Garad, Nalaye Ahmed Sub-clan, and my mother is Warsengeli, Rer Garad same as the lady you are allegedly calling her you're beloved. So, there you are we have all these in common.
I thought People of Argavo have forsaken this idiotic behaviour, but it seems as though I am oblivion as to what Somalis are up to these days.
Brother, the only think I would advice you to do is to abandon this idea of marrying only a Somali girl. I am sure you are okay looking " and since you are from ergavo and you are the son Nalaye Ahmed lady I would have thought you are" then you can find truly intelligent Muslim girl. That is what I have decided to do, I am going to marry Lebenese Girl in the 2002 Insha Allah.
There you are, plenty fish in the sea.
Good Luck
Jidali |
| FATIMA | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 10:13 am
TO DISILLUTIONED BRO
FIRST OF ALL, I'D LIKE TO CONVEY MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY OR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES TO YOU. HOWEVER, MY ADVICE TO YOU MAY COME AS A SURPRISE BUT BELIEVE IT OR NOT YOUR SEPARATION WAS PROBABLY FOR FOR THE BEST. I DONT DOUBT YOUR FEELINGS WERE SINCERE AND YOU MOST LIKELY WERE IN LOVE BUT, I PERSONALLY FEEL THE MOST WISE PERSON IN YOUR STORY WAS THE GIRLS FATHER. I MYSELF AM A BY-PRODUCT OF TWO DIFFERENT QABILS AND MY LIFE HAS BEEN A NIGHTMARE. I AM MAJEERTEN AND MY MOM IS HABAR-GEDIR. MY FAMILY MEMBERS ARE CONSTANTLY BICKERING AND BITCHING AT EACH OTHER OVER ISSUES IN SOMALIA 400,000 MILES AWAY. TRUST ME BRO, A YOUNG, EDUCATED, INTELLIGENT AND MAY I ADD VERY ARTICULATE BROTHER AS YOURSELF; HAS NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. IF SHE REALLY LOVED YOU, THEN SHE WOULDN'HAVE LEFT YOU FOR THAT FILTHY MAJEERTEN MAN(LOL) ANYWAYS YOU HAVE A VERY PROMISING FUTURE TO LOOK FORWARD TO SO DONT STRESS YOURSELF OVER THIS GIRL. GO AND FIND ONE OF THOSE PRETTY ISAAQ GIRLS IN HARGAYSA OR BETTER YET TAKE
CONCERNED SIS EXAMPLE AND MARRY A DIFFERENT RACE THAT HASN'T BEEN TOUCHED BY THIS SCOURGE CALLED
CLANISM; BECAUSE TAKE IT FROM ME BRO, INTER-CLAN MARRIAGES DONT WORK........PERIOD |
| Someguy | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 10:45 am
Disslutioned bro,
I don't know if I should feel sorry or anger for you.
You beleive in Qabiil so much, that you said you had to confront you own mother. I felt disgusted after that comment. You said the one thing you didn't have in comon with her was that she is from another CLAN.
I feel sorry for you in the sense, no Muslim brother should go trought that, but seems that yourself beleive very strongly in Qabiilism.
I hope this experience will not only make your feelings on Qabiilisim just stronger |
| diiriye | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 11:12 am
Somehow I agree with someguy. First you say, Ceerigaabo lay in somaliland instead somalia and secondly he mentioned ex-boyfriend. you did not tell us the true the reason you girl did not married you. As computer software engineer student do you have time to date girls? Still Somali marriage each other. Only few parents stop the will of their children. those of who advising outside Somali marriage, you should know, it has more problem than Somali inter-clan marriage. |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 12:12 pm
Deeepest sympathies, condolances, move on? NO> If this girl was truly the love of you life, why didn't fight for her. Why didn't you break down those walls of ignorance her parents lived behind, why didn't you face them? It was not she who should have gone to her parents it should have been you! Boy you still have a chance-go to her. Imagine what life she may lead whithout you? |
| Ice-Man | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 12:57 pm
To Disillusioned Bro.
I will Congratulate the Father for being honest and caring his Child, You want us to believe that you are a "Holy guy" who doesn't preach clannism, what you posted here is testimony what is in your Heart
You said I asked my Mother "Does it bother you we are not same Tribe " Hello. I don't remember Asking my Mother what Camp She belongs to, Nor do other Somalis ask, if you forget Your Mother is your Mother Not Tribe, and you went too far to defame"Da Girl" her family by calling them a Tribal minded in the mean time calling your father and mother A good, Allah fearing no malice in their heart, I am sure your families are good decent couple, but give respect the other family too, don't label them they are solely responsible your failure to marry that girl, We don't know the fact why the Father refused the marriage, it could be many reason. Maybe the father don't want to see in his house Lying, Thieving, conniving Master Software Engineer who can't be a good husband for his Daughter.
Those of you, who are crying and sending Nursery rhymes here Don't be liberal here, why feel Sympathy For this Guy, and not Midgaan People . I am sure they suffered more and received more rejection due to marriage among Somalis? what's so special about Him and not them?
My Last Question why most of you call other people Tribalism when you disagree them?
How come Liberalism . Conservatism , communism Confucianism and even Define revelation"Religion" are ok with Somalis. but the one they preach in their heart and even kill Their fellow Somalis act as don't exist when they feel other people will label them as uncivilized. if they preach Tribe? Most of you are Hypocrite
Later |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 01:58 pm
Concern sis and Jidali guy,
I don't think the answer to stopping tribalism among somalis is to marry non-somalis. What will marrying outside of your people accomplish. You will marry a non-Somali to avoid tribalism, your kids will follow in your path and marry non-Somalis, 2-3 generations from then they won't even identify themselves as Somalis. You're just running away from the problem, not solving it! Why not educate your kids instead, my parents did, and honest to God the qabil of my future spouse-to-be is the last thing on my mind. |
| Moh_Luv | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 02:18 pm
Way to go "ICEMAN" !
I SWEAR I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT ANY BETTER!!
Why show sympathy to this fella when the whole story he posted here seems pure hatred towards a certain clan and he puts himself(+his family)as the good guyz? !!
i smell a rat here.... there's gotta be more to this story than the bare bones sketch givn here looking for sympathetic hearts to shed tears!!
bro (+those who care), if u have learnt a lesson from this so called tragedy.... stop this whole Qabilism bullsh*t. and stop da name callings.
peace.
1 LUV TO SOMALI PEEPZ ! |
| Honesita | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 05:17 pm
Ice-Man...MohLuv......brothaz i dont smell what u guys r smellin'......
The guy said he was confused when he was young....at the age of 17 he of course would ask a lot of questions........and maybe he was not smart enough to figure out that his mother is his mother b4 she belonged to any tribe......so please....give da brotha a break.......i agree he sounds too much into qabiil......and i say that cuz he mentiond too many sub-clans......but he aint fakin' his story.....cuz it happens to lots of somaliis.......its a real life fact....and the thing about midgaans.....they r called madhibaan bro........midgaan is the big time bad name......and truth is that it is an ugly tradition we somaliis have.........and i dont think we gonna get rid of it in a while.....so get over it and stop bringing it up cuz it just hurts more pple's feelings.....
And to all of u out there sayin' inter marriage between somaliis is wrong.......SCREW YOU GUYS.........how da hell u gonna tell me that marrying my somali brotha could be more dangerous than marrying a person i share no culture with...............
Me 2 my parents r from 2 diff. tribes but i neva gave it a second thought...........u know what too pple....clanism exists only when u make it exist..........
Also stop talking about clan like its something really bad...........we r from diff. clans and tribes just so we can get to know each others.....like Allah subxanahu wa tacaalaa said........not so we can HATE each others......
And maybe the girl's father said no because of the brothaz qabiil.........it is a fact that exist in our culture.........how could u tell her to do what her parents told her not to do........who lasts more........a man u just met or ur family who raised u.........even if they r wrong.......u cant leave ur family!!!!
Am i right or what pple?
Much Luv to all somaliiz!!!!
adios |
| SUMMERTIME | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 06:14 pm
TO THOSE WHO ARE AGAINST THE SYMPATHY
HAD HE NOT MENTIONED THE QABELS INVOLVED WOULD YOU SHOW SYMPATHY????
THE GUY WAS SO HONEST BUT SOME OF YOU THINK HE WAS NOT FAIR FOR CERTAIN QABILS.
THE WHOLE TOPIC HAS BEEN TURNED TO QABLISM, IS NOT THAT FUNNY? |
| Jeego | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 06:18 am
disilusioned, ok man the problem was not, what kind of tribe you belong, simply the girl prefered other guy its clear the girls who are living in the west don't give a toss about their parants preferences, how many girls are maried daily to foriegn man? Blame the game don't blame the tribe. You maybe nice guy but in this case you have been played and still parking on the wrong tree and very very DISILUSIONED!!! |
| JAMA | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 08:58 am
DISILLUSION BRO
YOU IDOOR SON OF A BITCH, GO AND FIND YOUR OWN IDOOR GIRLS. THANK GOD THE GIRLS FATHER SAID NO.
YOU ARE SICK BASTARD AKING YOUR MOM THAT QUESTION
THIS IS WHY I HATE IDOOR, THEY ALWAYS WANT PEOPLE SYMPATHY WHEN THEY ARE THE TRUE BASTARDS. |
| CEEYROOW | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 09:27 am
Man honestly, i don't think you are for real.
i also despise the whole story of yours. it's really fake and has nothing to do with tribalism.
you are also a very prejudiced typical somali.
ERIGABO..am sorry but hey isn't that a provincial place in northern somalia?
plus ciyaal gobol, no matter how hard they try, they will alwys be caught in clan affiliations and prejudices.
i was born and raised in XAMAR CADDE, am older than you..am 33 years old and i am also a computer engineer graduate. i have somali sisters in my school back then and i haven't even had a chance to date. even now, that i am working, i don't have enough time for that.
your story line is kind weak bro. we are all somalis, somalis intermarry from each other and today's parents are more open and actually happy to see their sons and daughters marry good decent somalis.
we don't have to find excuses for our weaknesses and i think mr, toronto U going fella, you are not good at this dating thing, and the guy u blaming for your break up is more romantic and likeble than you. ( am not majeerteen nor daarood, so don't blame me with siding her ex becouse...)
i still don't understand. me, honestly, i can date any somali. am hawiye and i have no biases and no hatred in me. my parents taught me better.
i have daarood cousins and my older brother is married to isaaq girl from kenya.
they have no problem at all. we are all tight. we don't picker, fight or even talk about qabiil. it's not part of us. we are one big happy family. blood ties and family is the most important things. my nices , nephews, cousins, uncles, aunties, awoow, ayeeyo are all from different clans. when we have some kind of gathering like big SAB, every one comes and brings their kids.
the neighbors come, people of different accents conversate, laugh and gossip togather. we have fun and we take our time togather.
see hargeysa is represented, merka is represented but above all most are from xamar..that does not mean they are all hawiye. don't associate xamar with hawiye only. the hate, clan politics and all that negative side is for us nothing.
if i find a girl and we end breaking up, that does not mean she was from different tribe. that is really a lame excuse.
i beleive two somali mature, educated couples can get along, date and marry regardless of their tribes.
i would also like young somalis to grow up and stop lying to themselves.
there is someone for every one and birds of the same feathers fly togather. |
| SPIKE_LUU | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 09:48 am
dis_ilusioned bro:
"mom, i have question for you...does it bother yoou that i am from another clan..?"
Mother: " what son? you asking me this now....oh how glad i am to tell you...i ws dying to tell this but i wanted to save you from this,...."
dis_ilusioned bro: " mom what is it?? "
Mother: " ok son, you are not who u think you r..you are not even isaaq...let me tell you, see son, when i was young before i met you daddy ( who is not your biological dad anyways...but i will explain this later and i hope you will understand ),....i was young , i was this beautiful and all the guys from ceerigaabo were after me..i was very beautiful and popular..then ..."
dis_ilusioned bro: " mm..mom....what you trying to say ? "
Mother: " son listen to me carefuly....this really is the right time...ok, see, i was this gorgeaous woman..and all the guys were after me...
i was even wild and i used to..you know ..ok i was kind sexaully active and i used to see a lot of guys....oh son, how i enjoyed life those days..."
dis_ilusioned bro: " please, mom..i don't wanna hear this...."
Mother: " just shut up and listen... you are not isaaq nor daarood....your father was.....this guy..he was from afgooye..u know deep south..and he has been brought to build houses for people....he was a kind of architect..he was very skilled..he was dark and sexy, very mascular and i liked him and i used to •••• him.....was he good....then i got pregnant and snce your dad was well to do family..i wooed him and married him...so son..your real daddy is from afgooye..his name was MAYOOW...and ...i think he is WANLAWEY..OR IS IT HAWIYE..OR JAREER...do i care son...i don't know and back then i didn't care....he was just this awsome sex machine...."
dis_ilusioned bro:" damn...mom..you were a hoe..••••..i hate u..oh ...."
and he leaves for school crying and meets the girl and she says
GIRL: " yo, am done with you nerd..you aint that sexy anyways and u aint even romantic...thanx for the movie, the math tutoring and all that..my boo is there..see that skinny tall xamari guy...i adore him...bye..am breaking up with yo..."
dis_ilusioned bro: " OH MY!!!! am doomed...•••• bitch..women are hoes....my mom sucks....am gonna be a faggot...." |
| Broter | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 10:24 am
You know what? I did not ask my mother if it bother her if we were from different tribes or clans But I am 75% from her clan or tribe. Why? I came from her firstly, secondly and thirdly. Period. |
| Galool | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 12:36 pm
Disillbro
What a little liar you are! How can you approach your own mother and ask her whether she believes in Tribalism? I have never heard such a load of BS since a moron called Monkey-vomit kissed his own arse and thought it was his mothers teat!
Do you really believe we will fall for this little nonesense of yours? As it happens I know all of the clans you mentioned, and there is ABSOLUTELY no way they will interact with each other in the way so treacly described. It simply wouldn't happen!
Boy, I think you have been watching too many second-rate Indian movies, so get a life! |
| Alipapa | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 03:38 pm
oh man this is crazy. this is the funniest topic i came across here in somalinet.
Ice-man, moh luv and Galool,
good catch! the bastard faked and fooled all the other morons out there who shed some crocodile tears. He reminded me Bob Marley's song " you can fool some people sometimes, but you can't fool all the people all the time".
Let me tried to show how the bastard contradicted himself.
At one point he wrote;
" My father was a successful business men who was a co-owner of a prosperous foreign fishing company"
But to his woes he contradicted here.
"My father was fired from his job and taken in for questioning ".
So who fired your dad? the government or his co-owner?.
Again at one point the bastard wrote.
" my mom was Dhulbahante of the maxamoud Garad sub-clan ".
But then again here he is.
" Since we were Isaqq we used my mothers Darood connections to pose as a Warsengeli family and evacuated the country. "
So you are posing your mother's daaroodd as a clan but you weren't posing dhulbahatte as subclan which your mother is?. But you are posing as a wersangeli? why?.
another place the guy some of you are giving all those sypmathy wrote,
"That day I found out I was Habar-yoonis of the Musse Care sub-clan and my mom was Dhulbahante of the maxamoud Garad sub-clan".
Here he is again.
"However deep down inside I couldn't bear the fact that my mother was from a different clan."
Dude,
Tell you what! as far as i know issaaqs are the most tribal minded somalis. And in case you wondering when this tribe saga will stop and you can get any girl you wanted, just see issaaqs and how they are biased against all other somalis.
Nice try but this made story didn't make the cut.
Spike_Luu,
that was the funniest story i read in year.
Alipapa |
| Jeego | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 08:28 pm
Spike-luu
ahhhahhh
are you related to Awgoombe?!!! Well I have friend who is Isaaqq who looks like very much reer Shabeele but with northern accent? I am bit suspicious now?!! |
| Amazed | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 08:46 pm
salaan dhamaan,
I wonder why every time the somaliland or Isaaq are mentioned first pepole to cry are the Darood. even in this case wich is a relationship the Daarood turn it nito tribal issue????
What do u know or care about his , family back ground, or his dad use to work or if he posed as a Warsangali rather then Dhulos???? the point he mad was a bout tribes??
Or u are just jealouse cause he got laid by a Darood chick??? .
I do beleive this story, nothing wrong with perfaring your own caln, i know the father still remebers the war, and he knwos better.
But why trun the whole story into..tribal one. The girl did the right thing she listened to her dad, if she gambled and married him and he left that faqash pussy tommorrow and married another Habar Yoonis, where she would go???? i think it was a wise desion.
I my self had a Warsangali girl friend..and now a Majeerteen one, so wahts the big deal better your Darood sis date a somali guy then a Jameekan, u should thank god Daroods..
bye |
| QALDAAN | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 05:49 am
most northerners in these days were not really romantic and they used to consume a lot of QAT,which kills your sexual appettite and shrinks the male genital organ aka PENIS, plus the women in CEERIGAABO, SANAAG are very sexy, tall and all horney. their men have negelcted them. so it aint really that impossible to beleive the story of SIKE_LUU ( i read it and it cracked me up)
so i think my disillusioned brother have to do some soul searching and try to find his real father.
SPIKE_LUU...man yeah r u awkoombe??? |
| H.J SIS | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 06:27 am
SPIKE LUU LOOOOOOL!!!!!!
THAT WAS THE FUNNIEST $%^& I EVER READ
C'MON GUYS HAVE SOME PITY ON THE GUY
HE CAME HERE LOOKING FOR SYMPATHY AND UNDERSTANDING. ALL THE LADIES RESPONDED ACCORDINGLY BUT ALL THE GUYS ARE EITHER CRITISIZING OR DEFAMING THE BROTHER.
DISILLUSIONED BRO
FORGET THAT CHICK. IF YOU WANT A REAL WOMAN WHO KNOWS HOW TO TREAT A MAN FORGET ERIGAVO GIRLS
COME TO BURCO AND FIND A REAL BEAUTY
BYE |
| LaddyA | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 07:16 pm
what's wrong wanting to marry your own tribe. I'm Isaaq, and i will only marry isaaq guy, that doesn't make me qabilist. I have friends from all sort of qabiils and I like them all very dearly. But marrying from your own qabiil is less complicated than going out side your qabiil.
Here is my adivise to you bro. Get yourself somebody from your own qabiil.
ALL THE BEST |
