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     | Friday, February 02, 2001 - 02:58 am I'm a 19 yr old somali girl and i just wanted to know how should a somali girl approach a somali guy that she like's without coming across as cheap or easy? I'm just a little confused, may be the somali brothers outthere can help me(without insults, i'm being serious)if i don't ask i will never know.
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| | Friday, February 02, 2001 - 04:27 am cano,look my name zakaria aka zak, I am from London, 20 years old, if you like someone just approach him without looking like a hoe. I would like to hear from you, asap.
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| | Friday, February 02, 2001 - 04:39 am TO ZAK THANKS SIS FOR REPLYING I JUST WANT TO KNOW WHAT DO U SAY? SHOULD U WAIT AND LET HIM APPROACH YOU FISRT OR IS THIS THE OLD WAY? I JUST FIND IT DIFFICULT TO TALK TO SOMALI BROTHERS EVEN IF I DON'T HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR THEM. WRITE BACK SIS, I LIVE IN ENGLAND TOO
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| | Friday, February 02, 2001 - 04:43 am Cano...you are flying in the "MilkyWay" Zakaria is not sis he is a bro. Now you know!!!!
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| | Friday, February 02, 2001 - 04:51 am SORRY, ZAK MY MISTAKE, AND THANKS SOMALIPSYCHO FOR CORRECTING MY MISTAKE, BUT LET ME KNOW WHAT U THINK. PEACE OUT BRO/SIS PS SORRY AGAIN ZAK WRITE TO ME
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| | Friday, February 02, 2001 - 01:19 pm Canno, Just approach him directly! If he's good enough he'll respond positively, otherwise there are a lot and better'n him guys around. I think, now you know what guys go thru to make the first move all the time! Infact, there are guys who appreciate if the girl makes the first move... maybe he could be one of them. So check it out. Bon chance.
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| | Friday, February 02, 2001 - 01:37 pm Cano checkout the links below they might help you inshallah http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/bukhari/ http://wings.buffalo.edu/sa/muslim/isl/hadith1.html#TOC http://cwis.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/muwatta/ http://cwis.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/abudawud/
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| | Saturday, February 03, 2001 - 03:24 am Salaamacaleykum, cano marka ugu horeysa it depends on waxaad ka rabtid wiilka, ma waxaad ka rabtaa mustaqbal mese, in aad waqtiga ku dishit? Marka labaad waxey ku xerantahay, do you know how he feels about you? haduu ku rabo wiil soomaaliyeed, asigaa kuu imaanaayo, I promise sis. haduuna dan kaa laheyn, oo uu arko in aad adiga rabtid,in uu kugu dhee dheelo ka jaab. soo iska ilaali macaaney, wiilasheena waa ey dhibadenyihiin. Lakiin halmid ayaan kuu ogahay, haduu ku rabo asigaa kuu imaanaayo,that is if his intentiona are noble... salaamacaleykum...
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| | Saturday, February 03, 2001 - 05:28 am CANO MAKE SIMPLE EYE CONTACT, MAYBE A LITTLE SMILE (DHOOLO-CADDAYAS).
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| | Saturday, February 03, 2001 - 05:37 am Talk to him nicelly and he will respond positivelly, also it depends where you are if you living in northern america is different thing aight. Just watch what you say and make sure he is a men not a boy.
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| | Saturday, February 03, 2001 - 09:46 am Say Hi! you can always start a confersation by asking him about him self everyone likes that. simple stuff like which school he goes or where he works and how he likes what he does. Bye.
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| | Monday, February 05, 2001 - 12:24 am I just wanted to say thank you 4 all youre responds. to ABAAY i'm ashamed to say that i can't read somali but i think that i have an idea to what you are saying thank u. i'm a girl, and to me my repuatation as a somali girl means everything to me and that is the reason why i had asked you this quesion. thank u all my brothers and sisters may ALLAH reward you all.
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| | Monday, February 05, 2001 - 03:55 am TO ABAAY i just wanted to say that i agree with you i have sort of read it and to my surprise i understood everything that you have written (after a little while) and i totally agree with you, if i was to leave it with the guy to approach me i'll know whether he is intersted or not if he is intersted then he will approach me so it saves me the embrassement of approaching him when he is not intersted. I hope it makes sense, thank you again my brother and may ALLAH bless you with he's mercy.
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| | Monday, February 05, 2001 - 04:42 am cano i think there were many ppl before me who gave you great advises as to how should do, but i want add one point and that is if you feal something for him and waite till he aproach you it may be too late , that dos not mean he dos not like you he may not know how you feal about him so you have try to tell him you are intersted in him ether diectly or indirect i hope it works out for you don't just waite him to make a move,
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| | Monday, February 05, 2001 - 06:05 am TO KAMAL, I JUST WANTED TO SAY THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR ALL YOU'RE TROUBLES WITH THE WEBSITES. MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU IN BETTER WAYS INSHALLAY.
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| | Monday, February 05, 2001 - 06:15 am Walaalo I just hope you took a look at least and found something there that might be usefull to you... inshallah... knowledge is power... There is nothing more beautifull then a virgin on her wedding night... May allah[swt] gaurd you agains the evil minds of the youngboys.. Salaamu calaykum
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| | Monday, February 05, 2001 - 07:08 am to kamal i totall agree with you brother and i intend on keep myself pure and clean like all beutiful somali girls should be. thank you brother again and keep in touch. peace broters and sisters
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| | Monday, February 05, 2001 - 09:16 pm Salaamacaleykum, Cano!! It was nice to hear that you understood, my advices, and I´m a sister, not a brother, doesn`t matter, wait for his respond and Insha-Allah, it will work out.Be smart sis. Salaamacaleykum!!
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| | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 12:06 am I AM REALLY FASINATED BY THE WAY YOU TWO COMMUNICATE SO I CAME UP WITH:- KAMAL DO YOU TAKE CANO AS YOUR BELOVED WIFE WILL YOU HONOUR HER BE WITH HER IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH FOR RICHER FOR POORER TILL DEATH TAKES APART ANSWER(KAMAL SAYS I DOOOOOO) NOW CANO SAME GOES TO YOU WILL YOU TAKE KAMAL AS YOUR BELOVED HUSBAND COOK FOR HIM WASH HIS CLOTHES RUB HIS ASS MASSAGE HIS FEET SCRUB THE TOILET HAVE HIS KIDS TILL DEATH TAKES YOU APART ANSWER(CANO SAYS HELL YEAHHHH BABY YEAHHH) I NOW PRONOUNCE YOU HUSBAND AND WIFE MAY YOU LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER(I AM SURE YOU WILL)
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| | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 02:44 am lol @ Ruff Ryder,now tell me what will she gain from him, I mean just being with her is not enough, Guess U r sharing your dream wife huh,but if u don't rub her ass,someone else might. C ya
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| | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 02:50 am Ruff Ryder..... wof... in the southern part of the USA they call that "gunshot wedding" i think....  ... cano is lucky to have family like you... 1. condition though i have enough love for 4wifes can she handle that???
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| | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 02:56 am the guy suppose to approach you not the other way around straight up........
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| | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 03:41 am TO KAMAL I CAN HANDLE U WITH NO PROBLEMS I'LL SATISFY YOURE EVERY NEED AND TRUST ME U WON'T NEED THE OTHER THREE, WHAT DO U THINK OF THAT UH? AND TO RUFF RYDER U R SO FUNNY AND IF WE DID GET MARRIED YOU'LL B INVITED TO THE WEDDING SO DON'T WORRY C YA
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| | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 03:49 am my god how did you know i wanted to hear exactly what you said.... I thought about adding... unless she thinks she is woman enough to equal 4 women... hahahaha i think we know each other...... Correct me if i am wrong! Love you babe If we don't know each other then you remind me of a close friend of mine... who can read my mind like that!!! still amased by answer
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| | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 05:51 am to KAMAL And i'm not really just saying that i think if a girl can satsify her husband then he won't go looking 4 other wives cuz youre giving him everything that he needs and more wouldn't u agree with? that is the mistake a lot of somali girls make if a man comes home to a clean house smelling of unsee and u looking good and good baris and meat he'll b happy u know what they say in England the way to a mens heart is through he's stomach, i think that says it all. write back asap c ya
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| | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 06:11 am any man who has all he needs in 1 woman will never have the time to look at another and vice versa... i am a good cook myself but i think you didn't mension pasta! i like rice and pasta eqaully... meat i only ever cook lamb... i hope you like indian food cos that is my influence... i make serious chicken curries mild,medium or extra hot... what is your pleasure? P.S. i hate messy peeps can't stand a sock in the wrong place... of to flex a pit back in an hour... later
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| | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 06:56 am u know wha u r smart girl cano in this world if u dont ask no one will tell u tha right thing keep askin, jus like u ask ur teacher u get me peace out
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| | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 12:48 am KAMAL would u as a man agree with this British saying like i said b 4 "THE WAY TO A MANS HEART IS THROUGH HE'S STOMACH"? i agree with it. i also like indian food medium not too hot.I was surprised whan u said u like pasta just as much cuz i thought somali men loved meat and baris cuz everytime some one comes round to our house and i cook my mum always says make sure u make baris and meat, Especially if they r men. i was just wondering R u a student? c u later
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| | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 01:06 am Walaalo i was hear to advice to do the right thing... to keep the perspective. Yes i would advise noone to talk to me when i am hungry... i act like a lion... Rooaaaaaaaaaarrrrrr. Honest. i agree with you that any man who can or can't cook will apretiate a good meal... we have many weaknesses but that is another depate... I would like to inform many people that discussing life and sex is not haraam as long as there is perspective and niya is noble... please feel free to ask for there is no excuse for making mistakes when you have all this wonderfull people around you... lata
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| | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 02:39 am IT IS GOOD TO HAVE PEOPLE TO ASK ADVICE FOR EVEN IF U DON'T KNOW THEM. AND FROM NOW ON I WILL ASK FOR A LOT OF ADVICE FROM BRO/SIS IN THIS FORUM (HOPE THEY DON'T MIND). I WROTE 2 U B 4 MY LECTURE AND WHEN I CAME BACK TO CHECK YOU ALREADY REPLYIED I WAS SURPRISED CUZ I WASN'T EXPECTING AN ANSWER THAT QUICK. U STILL HAVEN'T ANSWERD MY QUESTION THOUGH. I WAS JUST WONDERING ARE THE MAJORITY OF THE PEOPLE IN THIS FORUM in AMERICA? C U LATER.
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| | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 02:52 am I am in the UK... Suppose to be conducting research so i spend 9-5 sometimes 9-8 in my office this is my window into the world outside It most def is not a good idea to give me internet access totaly missusing it... but i would probably do less work if i didn't have it... hope that answers your question. Suspect people logon from all over the globe.
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| | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 03:42 am THANKS IT DOES, HOPE U GET SOME WORK DONE. IT'S GOOD TO TALK TO SOMEONE FROM THE UK CUZ THE MAJORITY OF PEOPLE R AMERICANS. NICE TALKING TO U TAKE CARE
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| | Tuesday, February 13, 2001 - 12:20 am no1 on this net understands what i mean on each site i look i see cano then kamal or kamal or cano basically they stalk eachother on the net flirting rubbing it getting along just fine take my advice go to the bed i don't wanna see that on the net anyway cano that kamal wont satisfy your needs but i know someone who will ruff ryde you till death does you apart i am not being funny or anything but i couldn't stop noticing the love on the net
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| | Tuesday, February 13, 2001 - 01:16 am That kamal left m8... Ruf paty... sometimes the weak must fall, face down hehehe can i be substitute... hehehe he is nomore ahaha mortey adois suckout!!!!!!
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| | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 02:58 am RUFF RYDER what makes you so sure that Kamal can't satify my needs and you can? what have you got that he hasn't. and by the way as far as i'm concern we are not flirting we are TALKING. isn't that the whole purpose of this forums?. Beside's i'm not that desperate that i have to flirt with men on line i have a little bit more respect for my self then that my brother. c u
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| | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 07:56 am cano and kamal, i advice to continue your discussion. u two are much compatable, u share alot common things and it seems u guys injoy answering each other. hay who knows u might fall for the fate. i really liked the way comment each other no abuse or bad words. it was refreshing to read clean comments for a change
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