     CONFUSED-SISTA | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 04:15 pm
PPL I HAVE A PROBLEM, CURRENTLY THIS PROBLEM IS NOT MAJOR BUT IM AFRAID THAT IT WILL GET OUT OF HAND.
IM 17 NOW AND HAVE PROBLEMS WITH MY SOMALI BROTHAS. IVE NOTICED THAT THEY ARE AFRAID TO APPROACH ME. I COULD FIND A POSSIBLE ANSWER IF THEY THOUGHT I WAS UGLY, BUT THEY HAVE VOTED ME THE BEST LOOKING SISTA IN MY AREA, I COULD FIND AN ANSWER IF I THOUGHT THAT THEY THOUGHT I WAS CHEAP, BUT THEY C ME AS A SISTA WHO RESPECTS HERSELF AND IS DECENT, I COULD FIND AN ANSWER IF THEY THOUGHT I WAS UPMYSELF, BUT I ALWAYZ HELP MY PPL AND NEVA THINK IM BETTA THAN ANY1 ELSE.
I HAVE HAD THE GIRLFRIENDS OF SOME OF THESE BROTHAS APPROACH ME TELLNG ME THAT I BETTA STAY AWAY FROM THEIR MEN, AND I LATER FIND OUT THAT SHE HEARD HE LIKES ME. SO IM THINKING IF A BROTHA LIKES ME Y WONT HE APPROACH ME, IT CANT BE BECAUSE HE IS SHY BECAUSE I KNOW THEY AINT SHY.
I HAVE BEEN TOLD BY MY GIRLFRIENDS THAT THEIR BROTHAS AND THEIR FRIENDS BROTHAS WONT APPROACH ME BECAUSE THEY THINK I WOULDNT GO FOR ANY OF THEM BECAUSE I NEVA APPROACH THEM OR ASK FOR ANYTHING. I DONT GET THIS BECAUSE I HAVE NO REASON TO APPROACH THEM.
WHITE GUYS AND ARAB GUYS APPROACH ME FOR A DATE BUT I DONT WANT THEM, I WANT MY SOMALI BROTHAS. RITE NOW I KNOW I DONT NEED A MAN, BUT WAT AM I GONNA DO WEN I GET OLDER. AM I GONNA BE FORCED TO MARRY AN OUTSIDER, BECAUSE I WILL NEVA APPROACH ANY GUY FIRST, THATS JUST MY CHOICE.
PPL PLEASE TELL ME WAT I SHOULD DO? AND PLZ NO STUPID COMMENTS. I WANT TRUE ADVISE, ESPECIALLY FROM MY BROTHAS TELLING ME POSSIBLE REASONS. |
| TOOMBO | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 04:30 pm
Bitch u r only 17yrs old U should be drinking milk and brushing ur teeth and going to bed at 10pm.....stop worring about boys at this age for •••• sake. also u should be votes the bitch of the area. what else they voted for????????? |
| Somali-Yankee | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 04:38 pm
disregard the last guy comments....but sista yu are still young....think of your future.....love will come naturally
peace |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 04:50 pm
Its all about your ego. I look this and i look that,i'm full of myself,they dont aproach me they c me,mygirfriends say to ME stay away from their men blah blah blah....can't you see the pattern here? Who can approach a girl who is inlove with herself.I woulnt? |
| kamal | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 05:00 pm
Worst person to advice you but i cant avoid the itch to speach. At 16 this girl liked me and i liked her, used to visit her house cos her bro was my best mate, we spoke eye to eye without words. we both knew and we both kept it to ourselves, she found a way to become best friends with my sister and visited my house one day i knew she was there but left to play football any way. I returned home and entered my room and on my bedside drawer i saw an envolpe it had a kiss from someone with lipstick. I opened it and started to read
" Dear kamal
We both know the score, ever since i lied eyes on you i been thinking of you, i know you like me from the way you look at me but i can't understand why you have not spoken to me. I think you are cool and i want to let you know that i fancy you...
Love S
kiss kiss kiss"
This was 11 years ago so i am sure the words have lost their grace since then, occupying some corner of my head.
anyway
I got so pissed off, i swear i took it apart and shreded it with my hands and put it at the bottom of the dustbin... came out of my room and my lil-sister had a grin on her face... naa nana na na kamal's got a girl-friend....just what i feared i went storming to her house her brother was not in i could not enter the house then so i left... week later i went over to see my mate and i was in the sitting room he had to go upstairs to get changed cos we had to go somewhere. She entered the room i pretended she was just a ghost... she came nearer... my heart race faster. she sat next to me no words... i sank my attension into the TV i felt a cold hand placed on mine... i was frosen to to to move it... we heard footstep she jumped i continued to watch the tv Liverpool get white washed by some small team called Tottenham... shame.
I returned the next day it was late at night we were watching tv in the sitting room she was in the kitchen, i made an excuse to get a drink so he said get it yourself the kitchen is there. Entered the kitchen she was quite i walked past her disturping her washing up and got a clean glass just washed turned the tap to fill it to the rim, drank it an plotted to walk right back to a game most interesting Man.U vs some •••• team, she pushed me i looked at her and wanted to kick her, but just shock some water of my hand on her face, still silence in the air, she moved near to strike me i grapped both her arms we end up her agains the fridge chest to chest i could feel her breath her heart beat....lips touched 1sec 2sec 3sec 4sec time had slowed beyond believe... i let go of her and went back to the game with her agianst the fridge i was charged and without sense for a while after........ my first kiss...
She made it happen i would never have had the guts by myself...
thankyou for taking the time to read...
I hope Confused sista understands i am not asking her to go out and do what happened to me... walaalo i fear allah[swt] but i shared it because i felt the need to be heard "there i personalise it again"
allah guide walaalo |
| SUMMERTIME | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 05:34 pm
KAMAL SAID IT ALL
U R JUST 17 YEARS OLD, BY THE TIME U BECOME 22 THINGS WILL CHANGE AS WELL AS UR EXPERIENCE.
SO, THINK ABOUT UR FUTURE NOW.
OK. TAKE IT EASY SIS. |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 06:24 pm
Kamal did i tell you ; that was disgusting. |
| kamal | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 10:49 pm
Some people have figured out that they can piss me off real easily... i'll ignore that statement... i know many people hear and i am the only one with his real name... there is no comparison between me and them... they hide i don't cos i don't fear any part of this here creation and somalis are part of that creations... small minded i ain't just realistic to the point... if i must waste my time then i do it with honesty.... take it or leave it...
anonymous why do you hide are you more afraid of me or your god almighty allah[swt]
??? |
| Honesita | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 12:24 am
ConfusesSistah.........girl i dont know what those pple r thinkin' when they say u r still young..............17 is not too young to date in my case............but sis if the guys r not approachin' u......maybe its something about the way u look at them.........if a guy thinks u're too good for him.........maybe its true....but dont be so full of urself........and in ur case....its not oneguy that u r interested in......is it every somali guy in the city......get to know them as friends b4 u decide u wanna date them sis..........
and then i think somali men r faaaaaaaar from bein' afraid.........where i live.....somali guys wont hesitate a minute to approach u........and we girlz get da kick out of rejectin' most of them..........
Kamaal........lol........ur story had me on the edge of my seat.......what were u gonna do when u rushed to her house..........tell her brother!!!!??? oh my goodness......
adios |
| kamal | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 06:14 am
Supplimenting...........
00000000 Milneyse dartaahey
dil kidraar hooo najeee
Milneyse dartaahey
dil kidraar hooo najeee
Namiloo humsee saada
Kahi biyaar hooooo najeee
Kahi biyaar ho najeee
Kahi biyaar ho najeee
00000000 Milneyse dartaahey
dil kidraar ho najeee
Milneyse dartaahey
dil kidraar hoooo najeee
Namiloo humsee saada
Kahi biyaar ho najeee
Kahi biyaar ho najeee
Kahi biyaar ho najeee
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| bluepage | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 12:28 pm
may be u don't use make up at all.i also thing u don't try to approach guys too. |
| Mercutio- | Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 03:52 am
listen to JO!!
90th MINUTE INJURY TIME LOOMING!!
ITS JARI LITMANEN ONE TWO WITH SMICER BACK TO ROBBIE FOWLER EDGE OF THE BOX HE CURLS IT TO TOP RIGHT HAND CORNER!! FOOOOOWWWWWLLLLLLEEEEEER ITS ONE NIL TO LIVERPOOL AND THE EUROPEAN CUP IS GOING BACK HOME TO ANFIELD WHERE IT BELONGS.
LOOK AT THE FACES OF THE REAL MADRID SUPPORTERS!!
A BROTHER IS ALLOWED TO DREAM RIGHT!!? |
| FUNNYMAN | Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 04:34 pm
TO CONFUSED SISTA!
SO WHAT CAN WE BOYS DO WHEN WE ARE IN THE MIDST OF DOZENS OF GIRLS EACH REQUIRING IMMEDIATE AND URGENT ATTENTION AND THEY ALL WANT US TO KEEP OUT FROM GOING UP TO THE NEXT GIRL?!!!!!!!!!!!. |
