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HOW CAN I LET A GIRL KNOW I AM NOT INTERESTED................??????

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): General Discusions: Archive (Before Feb. 16, 2001): HOW CAN I LET A GIRL KNOW I AM NOT INTERESTED................??????
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LUDC

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 11:13 am
I have this girl who lives in the same city that I live and is very attracted to me.
I was told by her girlfriends and herself too.

I am not interested in the girl, but don't know how to tell her, cuase I don't know come across as a
rude person. I don't want her to start hating me after this.
I have being in N. america, u.s over 12 yrs, and have dated only 2 somali females. I ended up braking up with both of them for simple fact of not understanding them. One was brave enough to ask me to get engaged with her.
Of course, I declined the offer, cause of my age.
I am only 21 ya'll and ain't ready to bring this train to stop.

Anyhow, anyone have an idea about this chick, and how I should tell her???????????????

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T-GIRL

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 12:06 pm
There is an art used nowadays besides mimming.......which is called "TALKING". It requires the movement of your lips with momentary lapse of the tongue. TRY IT SOMETIME

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yasmiina

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 02:07 pm
you do not date with someone unless you want to marry them so please do not waste somali girls time and do not date untill you reach age 25. i'd like to ask you whay do you go out with somali girls if you do not have any intentions to get married. bye brother.

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Basra

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 03:02 pm
loooooooooooo@Tgirl YOU GO GIRLFRIEND

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TTC_PLAYA.

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 03:12 pm
LADIES SORRY BUT MY BROTHA 3 WORDS OKAY "GO YO' HOME"

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kamal

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 03:22 pm
T-girl...... sounds like ur discribing a snog?

Man just let her see you one morning before you have brushed your teeth and just say "HELOOOOOOOO"

:O
:O

GRIN GRIN GRIN GRIN

:O
:0

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Honesita

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 05:37 pm
Its so simple.........do everything she doesnt like.........plus........b4 u go see her......eat an onion.......not cooked nothin'.....i told a friend to do that once.....and it worked....he was 4ever greatful to moi!!!! And if u dont get along with somali girlz........maybe u jjust betta off bein' with who eva u feel comfortable with.......even though i'm sure there r a lot of somali girlz who r outthere that u can understand and like very much...

lol@tgirl......word of the day is TALKING huh...

adios

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LUDC

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 01:17 pm
Mixed answers, I like that.

Obviously it shows everyone's opinion. It seems that most of the guys do agree with one another and so do the ladies.

I want get back one thing that one have said.
I have no problem with dating a Somali female, the simple fact is that I have only dated 2 so far in my young life.
I came here at a young age and the schools that I went to, the teams that I have joined and the neighborhood that I have lived had no somalis at all.
So, it really made a difficult interacting with one when one came across.
So, ladies don't get me wrong here.

I beleive that somali females are the most beautiful breed on this planet we call Earth.

One doesn't just go head and get married to a stranger Yasminn, besides I am at a time where I am not even thinking about that sis.
I want be able to present myself in a way that not only satisfies me, but also my significant other.

Besides, great looks attract me to more than I can ask for. When u are 6'4 and weight 205lb.
There is nothing u can do, but live your life.

I am trying to live the life that I have imagined, and hopefully someday down the line, one will be deserving enough to b my significant other.
In the meantime, I have to find a way to really give the hints to this.

Any more suggestions??????

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Delilah

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 03:06 pm
Yes, how about being a man and telling her up-front?...you are not a wimp are you now?
Girls prefer honesty to wimpy politiness ya know!

Keep it real kid.

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Anonymous

Sunday, February 18, 2001 - 03:27 pm
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Just say get of my life
you are ugly bitch and
I am not interesting

simple is dat......

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Todays-girl

Monday, February 19, 2001 - 12:14 am
LUDC...The only sisterly advice i can give you would be an honest one and believe me like Delilah had said honesty is the best policy...so please do yourself a favor and your sister... and tell her straight up....is no use telling a lie although one little white lie might not be a major life changing now but it all starts with one lie and the rest is history...besides the sooner you tell her the sooner you get on with your life...

Peace

p.s. what you said about not being able to "click" with somali girls well...whatever your reasons might be ..when you meet the one person you were meant to be with somali or non-somali you will would just "click" despite the fact you might not have a history of communication links or not.

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