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"You Can't Handle the Truth!" CAN YOU?"You Can't Handle the Truth!" CAN YOU?
     | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 11:45 am The Session: "You Can't Handle the Truth!" The Game By Alexis Aquino It's been publicly established that "men are dogs," but we all know women can be bitches. Most women think they have men figured out, while most men stopped trying to understand women years ago. Men are stereotypically considered to be the players and women are stereotypically considered to be the ones who desire commitment and stability. But how much of the stereotypes are really true? Six men and women, both single and attached, met to talk about this in this week's Session. In a society where both men and women have the potential to be dogs, who has the loudest bark and the biggest bite? What do women want? "Good d!ck. Plain and simple, all the other sh!t is secondary." -Lee "You have to have the full package. You can't just be good in bed, but lay up in the couch eatin' Doritos all day. You have to have ambition." -Summer "Women want to be satisfied and fulfilled. Women come from more of a storybook type mentality. She's looking for what she's prepped herself all her life for, which is a perfect man and that perfect man doesn't exist." -Reggi "We want someone who can give to us emotionally. Not someone who comes in when he wants to and not be asked where he was." -Michelle Is there a perfect man? "He does exist. You are looking at him. I could be the perfect man for every woman if I wanted to. You meet someone, you find out what they want, and you make it happen. It's not that hard at all." -Chay "We don't want anything funky. I don't want you to just conform to what I want. I want you to be what you want and be able to love that." -Michelle "You can't have a relationship that's not built on trust and honesty." -Sandy So, what do men want? "Men wanna have a good time." -Chay "I wanna hot one when I get home, I don't want any questions; 'where you been, where you at, where you going?' As long as the bills are paid and you're satisfied and you're happy, and everything is on in the crib, you should be happy." -Lee "Ideally what we want is partnership, and that partnership differs for everybody, but I think we are socialized to think in terms of being practical. I'm payin' the bills, I'm keepin' you happy, we go out. So for us, we're thinking, 'Yo, I'm a good man,' but for a woman, that may not be the case." -Reggi Who has the most game? "Women. Their 'G' is tighter than ours. A nigga lies like this. We wanna go out on Friday, we start arguing on Wednesday so we can hang out all Friday night. Girls start planning two, three months in advance. I'm going on a ski trip, I'll be gone for the weekend. But she's out f*ckin' this nigga and that nigga." -Lee "We can't sit around and act like women ain't got game. Women operate with a team theory. They have their point guard who is their W2 cat. He's working hard, he's around, he's taking care of things. You got your two guard, that's the star. She might just want him around, something new, something a little innovative. Your swing man comes through whenever you feel it, to bless you and then step aside. A rebounder, that's their safety, they know this cat is waiting around, he'll be there for you. He's ole' reliable.' You got your center who kind of stays in the cut and does whatever she needs him to do. But, in the end, we running around kicking our game but we don't know what position we are." -Reggi "Ideally, a women wants all of those men in one. If we could have that then we wouldn't need to have all these different men." -Sandy "Women do have just as much game as men, but they don't get caught." -Summer While in the past it has been perceived that men have more game than women, the playing field has leveled off and the modern day woman of the 2K and beyond seems to have just as much game. With this new found popularity for the independent women's movement it appears as though women are finally striking back. But at the end of the day, most women would rather have a man to lean on and laugh with than a pillow and an Oprah re-run. So, like the old saying goes, "Whose zooming who?" Who really has control?
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| | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 12:13 pm Damn it! give me a nintendo and see if i even remember the word woman. Wakeup ppl MrRight or MissRight are scaraficial lambs... what examples they are to our generation... we all have only our immediate sourounding to look at for guidence. If a man or woman want to find their perfect parterner they need to find someone willing to scarifice for them... simple... there can possibly be two happy partners... equally happy... one has to always be sacrificing more then the other. otherwise there will always be conflict and choas and no peace... Simple just tell me i can rely on you for ever... you will forgive me when i upset you on your moody days for no apparent reason... you will not take me for granted... you will appreciate my uniqueness and not always be looking for the negative aspects of my personality.... you will put yourself in my shoes before you judge me on my actions... I say i can sacrifice my whole time, money and patience and body to serve your every need... what can you offer me?.... or just simply can you be a woman for me? can you be my friend? can you be a soul mate? can you read my mind?... i guess you can't read me! Us guys want: -freedom while in a relationship -freedom at home -time to play -time to breath -chance to be a man -chance to be a boy -chance to be a dady -chance to be the husb -chance to be the friend There is no formula to perfect man/woman... simple turn me onn i'll be your slave if you will have me... for ho i am -don't try to change me -don't ever say i am getting lazy -don't get too self confident -don't ever change your personality let us still have our childhood -dream -aims -games -friends man can servive whether you let them or not! The woman realy do have the resposibility of making sure the nationalty survives... we will survive
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| | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 12:28 pm loooooooooooool ghetto this is what my man says...damn him honey i am home..........like hater girl cares. by the way ninxoon believes me and you are same just cuz we haves something in commen, the truth about somali menzzzzzzzzz hehehehehehehe hate
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| | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 12:36 pm Ghetto: lol...........men & women should watch the show called........Men r from Mars....women from Venus..........there is alotto learn trust me on that!! all we women want is for u to be urself....is that so too much to ask??
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| Got_Me_a_101_game-planned...Ill invite you all to the wedding | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 12:59 pm Hibo... you don't get it the damage is already done when you somali girls marry theguyss... What guysz get married? Those that have been breaken in... why complain when the all the men who get married are all di-masclinated to be even classed as a marriege material!!! You kill the boy in a man and the result is what most girls complain about... .lazy fat, bot belly pig husbands .un romatice, surprising they can get it up .use less around the house, well how did u choose? ................. men are doomed if be and doomed if they ain't what you want cos you all nagging either way. The answer lies with the men... to tolerate and make you believe you will get a million dollar man and all your dreams... all the bloody farax have figured the trick out it is the men who are loosing out cos they ain't cunning enough! period... we real men need to wiseup and let you have the fake lifes you all are looking for... Join in on your dream fantcy! Click.
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| | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 01:10 pm forreal piccasso? I got your point,and maybe we are both from Jupiter, cause I couldn't ask more for my man, and wouldn't want him to treat me or treat him more than like you said. I guess it's all about personalities who is right for who.But everything these people talked about its true,the question is when do you want to be like this and when do you want to be like that and to whom.
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| | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 01:15 pm I only have one comment.Lee is a PIG! LOOOLGHETOGIRL
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| | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 01:15 pm I only have one comment.Lee is a PIG! LOOOLGHETOGIRL
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