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     | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 10:14 am i am lost. am young kid i don't know jack my mom is illiterate my dad is illiterate my parents are separated my mom fools around with some other somali guys my dad is on qat 24/7 we live on welfare i live in a ghetto. i use drugs i have criminal record. i don't have future in here. my sis is a junkie too she too belongs to a gang. my other brother is in jail what is going on with my family we have 4 young siblings they too will end up this way. i know that for a fact cos i see nothing getting better for us and for the whole family.
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 10:23 am Where do you live? Which city?
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 10:24 am well if u already now that u are lost, u aren't lost still u getto boy. see what i mean is that when people know that they are lost they will change their live right away, but if they don't know that they are lost, they will never change untill they die, cuz they thought that what they doing was right!!!! u get me! now go tell moma what i just told u.
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 10:27 am Damn, don't We got a attitude. :policeman For LOST soul: You sure you lost. Tell me how did you post this message????
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 10:37 am I HAVE A PC MY DAD BOUGHT TO LISTEN SOME BBC AND SOMALI RADIO ••••. THEN NOW HE IS GONE, ME AND MY SIS ARE THE ONLY PEOPLE WHO USE IT. YEAH I KNOW AM I LOST BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT? THAT IS WHY I AM POSTING THIS AND I LIVE IN SAN DIEGO, I WANA LEAVE HERE AND GO TO MY COUSINS IN ATLANTA OR MINNEAPOLIS BUT I AM SCRED FOR MY YOUNG BROTHERS AND SISTERS. MY SIS TOO WANNA LEAVE. CAN WE LEAVE MOMMY ALONE TO HANDLE ALL OF THIS. SHE IS THE ONE WHO PUT US THROUGH THIS AND MY DAD HE DOESN'T CARE OR HE IS JUST IGNORING IT. WE ARE LOST AND BELEIVE ME WE ARE!
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 10:52 am He who knows and knows not that he knows is a fool,,die bro,,sun iska cab,,aaqiro qeer ka heleesaaye,, rer inkaaran baad ka dhalatey,,acuudu bilaahi,,u talk laughingly about your mom ,,•••• ye punk,,eev if ma mom is pitch,,bro,,i wouldnt bring her name here bro,,i would change her life for da better cause she is ma mom,,u are a loser,,get up and do something 4 your mom,,instead of coming here insulting your mom,, She brought u here in this earth through pain and thick how dare u come here calling her a pitch dating a man,,what a an appreciated mom!! waryaahee,,istaag oo hooyadaa u shaqee, nacas yahoow dulliga ah,,..allaa dhaan dhaankan baan nacay iyo wixii la mid ah..
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 11:07 am LOSTBOY, Hang in there bro. You'll get out of this with Allah's help. You did nothing wrong to deserve it - you are the victim of your parent's actions and I am so proud of your strength to face and talk about the problem. You are not lost! At least you know that the path you are on is not the right one.
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 11:18 am Advocate - Is your mother a saint? Are you 100% sure that your dad fathered you? You need to grow up and get some language skills before you open that ugly mouth of yrs. The real lost person is the one who's lost and not aware of it! Just like you. Lost boy, I would advice you to leave that city. make sure that your sister comes with you.
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 12:09 pm dear lost soul, you know you are in the wrong way because you already acept that. now what you need to do is to be brave enough to take the right path, it is not easy to do the right thing so hold on. i dont think you should leave your mum, how old are you? if your dad is not around then you will have to be the right role model for your younger bro's and sis. what you need to do is to get your sister on your side, make her understand what is going to happen, maybe going away to your cousins is the easy way out? if you get her on your side, try to make her understand that you only get to live life once and all what is at stake. you two could help each other and your mum, the only way you can get through this is to stick together. however if your sister cant' do it, or she wont co-operate, and she doesnt listen to you, maybe you should send her to your cousins?? i mean it would be much better if she was there to help you. make sure you know what your bro's and sis are doing, help them with their homework and teach them the right way in life. i know this is probably too much for a young person, but bro believe me it will be worth it. and remember to have them respect you and listen to you , you have to first show a good example, a model that they can mould themselves by. all i have to say is no matter how hard things are, for a few months, maybe even a few years, it will pass. BE BRAVE & STRONG BRO AND PRAY, HAVE TRUST IN GOD AND FIND REFUGE IN PRAYERS. I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST OF LUCK.
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 12:29 pm i tell u man, stick around face it. running away will not solve anything. u have free money coming in so take advantage of it, because it will not be there for ever. but u do now is go for the school, learn something. drugs u can quit anytime u want,believe me it is been done before.but knowlege is the key to every thing. Go and put your ass to school and also all your bros & sis. and do't worry things have a funny way of going write when u least expected. All i know is that school and knowlege do wonders my bro. stand tall my brother. and be man for your siblings
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 12:45 pm Run man. Get outta that life! The sooner the better.
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 01:03 pm lily well said dear,this person said all that i was going to say. lost soul please have faith in Allah,this is a chellenge to test ur strenght. i promise it will pass but u need to have faith turn to Allah for help and pray. God is listening. be strong dear and i wish u all the best. your sis lonelyheart
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 01:09 pm Salaama Aleikum Hello Lost Soul, Bro, you didn't lost Allaah guide you to become Muslim, just you need to improve relationship between you and Allaah, houses built without remembering Allaah always have tragedy and calamity , so I advice not to move out your family share with them pain and become role model.
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 01:31 pm i hate ppl who hav no objectives in life. Of course i dont blame you but as you are well aware of your predicament, you shouldnt talk about it thinking that your mom is to blame. You know that your mom is illeterate and cant do anything except to look to the future expecting that her children will come to her rescue. But what you dont understand is the fact that your mom should have to keep you alive in this confusing world by doing anything possible within her capabilty. She wakes up in the morning with the role of a father and a mom hoping and striving to make life easier for you. At the same time since you seem to be an adult teenage, you desperately talk expecting time to correct the situation, That aint so bro,,since you are the sole man in da houz, you shouldnt get involved in drugs and etc. Howecer, the present option for you is less talk and more action, bro. Somalibro if my mom is a pitch, i would appreciate her for being ma mom, for being the cause of my presence in this beautiful world. I would appreciate her for being there for me when i was vulnerable. She did what she had to do cause of the baby at her back who is looking up at her for nourishment. Whatever my mom is ,,she is and i feel proud of it.. So get lost garac yahoow xaaraanta lagu dhaley.. eey baad tahay,,continue whoof whhoooooooooooof,...
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 02:56 pm hey let's take it easy here. The guy asked us for advice. Well the first thing you should do is take care of everything that you can control: yourself. Meaning stop taking drugs and try not getting into more trouble. I can on and on ...but let me just tell you that you usually end up like the company you keep.So ditch those gangstas you hang out with. If you're actually for real and not some punk kid messing with us I'll giv you more advice if you need it.
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 10:42 pm The (Un)Real Advocate, Please stay out of this. Evidently you only read part of what Lozt Soul posted. Even if you do not believe. THIS IS NOT YOUR EXPERTISE JUST STAY OUT OF THIS FOR ALLAH SAKE. Little Lozt Soul, You are not lost as the wise one above told you. You must have faith as advised above and you must remain strong. Know that there comes no difficulties without a way out. Time is an amazing thing. However, when the opening comes you must recognise. Example, Allah provided you the PC before hand and you recognised it. Similarly you shall encounter endless openings, oportunities and the like. Do not panic, remain focused and keep remembering your Lord all the time. Also be thankfull to him and ask him not why this way, but rather to make you understand the wisdom and oportunity. I can fill this whole page for you, but let us take one bite at a time. Do not panic our prayers are with you and we stand by you. Leave an e-mail. I can get you help in San Diego for you and your siblings.
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| | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 11:48 pm GUARDIAN SOMALI NGO, is an organization based in UK, but have branches most of western countries. We try to help Somali communities in variety of ways including help for families survive in this society. So my friend we can send someone over to you and try to figure out things with you and your family. Our closest office is in Santa Barbara, CA. You could let us know if you are ready to recieve us. We have also very succesfull rehabilatation programs for young lost Somalis. Hope to hear from you positivelly, GUARDIAN
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| | Saturday, February 17, 2001 - 01:11 am This is The Time when I Call Somalis MathFucin' FoolZ...........Hey This Guy Is MathaFucker Ghetto All He Know Is 2 Fool Dummies Like Ya Ain't No body Talkin' Abt His Mum & Dad Plus his All Fuckin' Family Like That.... ............Do Ya All This ••••........? Am Out & Peace 
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| | Saturday, February 17, 2001 - 07:50 am Lozt Soul, Bro you made me cry. I pray for you and all your family. My advice to you; Do not give up hope. Go to your nearst Mosque, there are a lot of muslims who went through the same problems. But now get their lives back. How old are you? it may be a better idea that you may go and see your cousins and tell them the problem. Is your criminal record very bad? speak to your lawyer if you have one? if you do not, let me know I will look for something else that you may find useful. Insha Allah.
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| | Saturday, February 17, 2001 - 08:44 am lost boy hag on dont leave ur mum in •••• stay and do wat u can 4 her b da man of da house
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| | Saturday, February 17, 2001 - 10:09 am I AM LOST TOO WHO AM I? I CAN'T TAKE NO MORE, U IDIOTS GO BACK HOME U ONLY DIGGING UR OWN GRAVES.DOES IT MAKES A DIFFRENCE FROM MOVING ONE CIY TO ANOTHER? I DOUBT IT. OF COURSE U LOST 'CAUSE UR IN A WRONG PLACE IN WRONG TIME. WHAT A TROUBLED FAMILY. THEY PUT THEMSELVES FAR AWAY FROM ALLAH, WHAT KIND OF HELP THEY WAITING? GO BACK TO ALLAH.
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| | Monday, February 19, 2001 - 02:38 am somalibro you are so stupid its unbelievable, is it possible to get any thicker , i ask why does somli need to grow up, is it because you think you have experienced the big bad world. maybe you need to do some soul searching .
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| | Monday, February 19, 2001 - 01:39 pm lost soul,i have been thinking about this,listen dear i am sorry for what is happening to u. i want to help,walaahi if u are serious so am i. including money wise or whatever else u need. listen whatever u do dont leave home,ur sister and mother need you. i want to help please email me nabiha87@hotmail.com i provide whatever u need to help u get on ur feet.i know the postion u are in and its not easy have faith dear. please email me ASAP, i dont need anything from u in return just for u to be honest with me about the situation.there is many things i can do for. i met kids like u b4 but anyways just email plz. your sis lonelyheart (nabiha)
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| | Monday, February 19, 2001 - 02:24 pm lost soul I HAVE ONE THING TO SAY TO YOU BRO,ALTHOUGH YOUR STORY REALY TOUCHED ME I DON'T KNOW IF IT IS TRUE BUT IT IS I HAVE SOME HINTS FOR YOU HERE GOES THE LIST 1)HAVE FAITH IN GOD! THAT'S THE MAIN ONE AND I HOPE ONE DAY YOU GET YOUR LIFE AROUND AND DO WHAT YOU WANTED TO DO ALL THE BEST FOR YOU MY BRO ASALAAMU CALEEYKUM
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| | Wednesday, February 21, 2001 - 10:26 am You got my sincere sympathy
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| | Wednesday, February 21, 2001 - 11:17 am Bro what U need to do is say the ashada: Say ash-hadu Allah ilaaha illalaahu wa-ash-hadu mohamada-rasululaah! AT least start there.....do u believe in Allah? if u do then fear him and he will reward u. Put a goal in your mind, u need sort ur family out I'm sure u are old enough to understand this, I understand u need guidance from ur parents and they aint givving that but at least u can try and guid THEM and ur younger brothers and sisters. You need to realise that they look up to U and whatever u do they will do too. Do this as soon as possible!!! FEAR Allah.
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