     Saamiyah | Friday, March 09, 2001 - 09:44 pm
Hi people i need your help here.
i am in big mess and it seems i can't get out of it.
it's about me and my co-worker.
it's about me and my boyfriend
it's about me and my career.
i work as customer service representative and i work late hours--the third shift from 4: 00 pm to 1: am. My co-worker is this sexy black guy. we are the only ones working that late. we get little calls from our clients. we have a lot of idle time and we pass time togather talking and just flirting. we talk about everything and we found out we have feelings for each other. we are so attracted to each other and then one night we had a very crazy sexual experience. He seduced me and i felt for it. after that, i felt guilty and i wanted to stop it but i can't since i enjoy it.
the problem is the black guy is married with two kids and i have a somali boyfriend i want to marry.
i never had sex with my boyfriend and he thinks am virgin. he also thinks am faithful to him. that is why am so worried. i also can't quit my job. i get paid well and i have to send mioney back home to my mother in Boosaaso amd my young sisters in Yemen. i need this job but my problem is i can't stop this sexual affair. i tried to change the shift but they said no. I am also worried about my boyfriend. he lives in another city and he loves me to death.
Please help me out? how can i end this and how can i face my boyfriend? would you think if he finds out that i was wild and sexually active that he would marry me? please i need your insights and please don't insult me cos i know this is slutty but hey am human being. |
| Honesita | Friday, March 09, 2001 - 10:38 pm
Samiya.....sistah its all up to u and only u....
What is more important to u......ur job and the money u make there.......or ur boyfriend that loves u.......!!
U said the guy loves u to death......what about u.........to me it seems like u dont give a
sh!t about him.......cuz if u did u would not have the affair no matter what.......and if u did love him u would be honest with him in the first place and tell him that u r sexually active........sis what u do is totally up to u.......and if u dont trust him enough to tell him ur deepest secrets.......why bother and say u gonna merry the guy............!! Am i makin' sense sistah.......!!! Sis if u build ur relationships on lies from the begining....what do u expect later.......dont dream so high cuz i'm sure u and ur boyfriend r gonna end up hurt...!!
By the way........may Allah (swt) guide u...!!
adios |
| aamino | Saturday, March 10, 2001 - 12:38 am
•••• him and suck his dick, at least, ye are ahwiye nacalaa kugu taalo,,,hooyadaana hamar iyo balcad bey fadhidaa dhilo, naa soo ku noqon meeysid naag majeerteen, aabahaaa wasee.
orodnoo hawiyee aa uraayo oo adoonta la seexatee, la seexo, walaahey naag oo majeerteen ah ama reer bari ah waxaas ma sameeseen walaaheey ee dhilo yaheey ureeso boosaaso haku daba dhuuman,,
waa hawiye majeerteen ka maseersan nacala abuug sharmuuto,
nasiib daro aa kugu dhacdey laakiin na sheeganoo ooo magaceena dhoor.
adoon aan jeclahay kulahaa, yaa ogaaado butaaanooyinka oo new yoork iyo la ka qaraabto waaye.. too oo farxiyo moorto la dhaho maa tahay oo hiv ku dhacay?
walaahay taasaa u hadal eg tahay.?
iyo fartuun iyo caasho yariiseey kuli hawiye waaye LA beyna sharmuuto ka yihiin.
nacala abuug,
bifadlag boosaaso mar danbe ha soo hadal qaadin |
| T-GIRL | Saturday, March 10, 2001 - 05:07 am
SAMIYA
Sweety U need to get going coz if U are finding it hard to control your urges, U need to find another job and stop this Haraam. Be honest with your man and don't indulge in any kinda sexual activity with any1, B4 U get married. It ain't worth it sis.U R hurting far too many people in this little game. U R hurting yourself, your man, your colleague, and also his family. Axcuudublieyso and always stay away from HARAAM
Aamino
She says she's from BOOSAASO.......R U retarded mise waxbaa kuu dhiman? Don't bring Qabiil into this, Duliyad yahey. If U can't advice the sister take your inferiority complex and shove it up your.....******* U catch my drift
HONESITA
Whass up sis?
PEACE |
| daacad | Saturday, March 10, 2001 - 07:07 am
For a minute I was under the impression that it was Iman speaking, well as they always say, one bad apple ruins the rest.
coming back to this issue, sis i would advice to stop indulging this act of sin, it would only ruin ur relationship with ur husband to be, plus where are u gona go after he realise that u have been unfaithful to him.
This nigga ain't gona give a monkey about u, plus he is already sorted with a wife and kids.
Well believe me every day i see and meet ppl who are attracted to me, but it doesn't mean that i'm gona go and sleep with them.
how about diseases, and the rest of other things that these non-muslims are carrying??
Control ur desire and sexual urges, believe me we all want get laid but, reality isn't like that.
i would also wana know if this what somali women do, cos i had a girl friend and she wasn't willing to do it before marriage.
so my question is are somalis women been fukced by others?? coz they think if somali guy does it with them, then somali guy would take it the wrong way and think that she is slut??
so is it ok with non-somalians?? |
| WonderS | Saturday, March 10, 2001 - 07:13 am
Come. on Samia
Are we watching a "Jerry Springer" or whatever they call....or there is Muslim Sister who is really in lost Path? Sister let me tell u this...I jus assume that since u said u r somali...u r also Muslim....right? having S** b4 marrige is Haram!...Full stop! whether, he is American or Somalian that does not matter sis.....Ok let me not Judge you, as I am not the best Judge here, but all I see is, u r worrying about your Bfrien and what he will say 2 you.....but what about Allah sis? what about Akhira sis? Sis I almost Cry when I read your Massege......if it is True sis, I will advice you to get out this sitiuation Asap...don,t sell your Morals and belives....Allah (swt) will provide 4 you a better Life.....u may say how?....ok he will insha,allah.....but u need to take some actions......u need tolook 4 another JOB.....and stay a way as far as posible whit this environment......Ask Allah 4giveness and please don,t do it again.....subhanalah sis.....that out of our believes.. |
| Anonymous | Saturday, March 10, 2001 - 07:42 am
you got to put limits on your quest to explore your wild side. don't fall for temptations. what I'm getting thru is, you say the guy like but you are unsure if you are ready yourself.. that is how I translate. if your love was great for that poor guy, you would cheat on him. yeah blame yourself being a human... that is a lame excuse.
well first of all, confront whom ever you having affair with that it must stop and it doesn't feel right... you every heard of what you do hunt you later ponder on that..... |
| DuH | Saturday, March 10, 2001 - 07:52 am
i dont care about your problems.I read between lines,you have no respect.This makes you an expereienced Hoe.DuH? |
| anon | Saturday, March 10, 2001 - 10:53 am
samiya = qaali= angry nigger = NINXOON |
| Dhoore | Saturday, March 10, 2001 - 12:20 pm
Another hoe crying for attention....
Bitch, Ya fucked up what f... are you doing with
monkey. plus ya said he is married..I feel sorry
for dat poor Somali Guy...
Girl where is your dignity? the only thing I can
say is Allah(SWT)will make da judge
peace and respect Yall..not those bitches who disgraces us..... |
| Anonymous | Sunday, March 11, 2001 - 10:14 am
sometimes i am so scared of getting with somali sister. i wanna marry a somali sister but there are a lot of our sisters who are gone crazy and wild. some have lost their culture, religion, morals and dignity. some are playing double standards and hypocrites.
it seems like like these sisters are short sighted. they will disrespect their own brothers while they are being disrespected and insulted by niggers.
i once met this beautiful somali sister. i thought she was all decent and good girl. after we talked she told me she does not like somali guys cos they are skinny and don't have built up muscles and physique. she said she likes guys who look like Genuine, Usher and Joe. i didn't know who they were at the time since i don't watch Tv and i don't follow HipHOP music. the girl was about 25 and she behaves like a teenager. I told her ok sis, i understand that somali guys ae not your type but do you know you are lost and you are trying to behave like gaalo people. the girl left me. aafter a year i saw her. she was so messed up, had piercing in her tongue and was into drugs. she was with some rude nigga and who was calling her a bitch. she was running after him and he was like bitch catch up...
i felt sorry for that sister and i happen to know her family. they are very decent normal somali family but their girl have gone wild and astray and there is nothing they could do about it cos here is america.
so the question am asking is what is going on with our somali sisters? why are they doing this disgrace to themselves and why are they so easy for non somalis and why they have left their religion and culture??????? |
| Anonymous | Sunday, March 11, 2001 - 10:40 am
does this girl leave in columbus |
| The Law | Sunday, March 11, 2001 - 11:27 am
To the girl who is commiting adultery.
My view is that your boyfriend should leave you and that you and the black guy should be stoned to death. How can you do such a thing? I have never heard suck a stupid thing in my entire life. In the first place are you allowed to have a boyfriend (assuming that you are Muslim), secondly which is not the point if you have a boyfriend why are you having sex with this other man. He could have AIDS, HIV or anyother God for sake illnes.
You can be compared to a hoar. Why did you not get married? for marriage is a shield against these sort of things.
I advise you to leave this job and REPENT TO YOUR LORD WHO IS THE ALL SEER AND ALL KNOWER. May God have mercy on your soul. |
| Mad-Man | Sunday, March 11, 2001 - 11:40 am
Poor Ninxoon....... everwhere he turns.... real niggaz flushing sh*t at him!
I think this isn't Ninxoon cuz he must have learned a lesson>>> dont be fooling with da wrong kind of crowd!
I was gonna say pretty much was Honista+T-Girl had say.... but they put it in better terms! Good luck Samiya...and hope u get to do da right thing!
Ninxoon+his crew(which is himself under different aliases)..... watch out 4 da DAWGS!!.
Mad-Man! |
| like it is!! | Sunday, March 11, 2001 - 12:13 pm
What is with these people and blaming somalian girls and their actions when you are doing the exact same thing if not worse!!!!! Aleast somalian girls have enough respect to keep their dirt behind closed doors...while all of you guys are doing your •••• anywhere and everywhere!!!!!
WE ARE ALL VIEWED THE SAME IN GODS EYES.
Who gives you the right to judge when you are doing the exact same thing!!!!!
To saamiya there is no problem with having a good time with the guy your with as as long as you are honest and truthful with your boyfriend...maybe you guys should'nt be thinking about marriage just yet but have your fun first!!!!! and don't feel bad because he is doing the same thing. |
| Anonymous | Sunday, March 11, 2001 - 12:27 pm
uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuf, sill soomaali waa dhinteeeeeeey suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuqaaaaaaaaaaas buuxaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, uuuuuuuuuuuuurteeeeeeeeeeey. nacala abuug, •••• aa gacan galey ,,ar meeshaaaaan •••• oo soomali waaa ku urey,,waraa naagahaan soomaaliga waxaa idin dhahaa ma taqaaanaa siilkiina iyo sheekadiina meel walba aa looga sheekastaa,
haye marka kale maahinoo, xayawaano o uraayo aa naago iska soo dhigaa oo magaciina cunaayo idinkana buuuuuufis idinku dhacyee naaaag difaaaac aa idin qaadeeeeeeeeeeey, •••• sooomaaili waa dhintey baqti buuu nuqdey,llllllllllllo |
