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SomaliNet Forum (Archive): General Discusions: Archive (Before Mar. 13, 2001): :( Why do Men Cheat?
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Anonymous

Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 01:47 am
My man doesn't cheat. Other people's men might cheat, but not mine. He loves me." Sound familiar? Sure it does. The sad truth is, MEN do cheat and your man may be cheating on you. Is he is, or is he ain't cheatin'? In an effort to provide you with accurate information, we went to the source. The information we're going to provide you will be eye opening, hopefully you'll learn some valuable lessons.

We are aware that some women also cheat, and at the end of this article, we will provide a form for the ladies to tell us why they cheat. It's only fair, right ladies? Communication is very important in all relationships. Ladies, the men are about to communicate with you. Will you listen?

Men cheat because they can. They cheat because it's exciting. Different. Fun. They also cheat because the relationship/marriage that they're in right now is boring and dull.


"She just let herself go."
Drastic weight gain and wearing the same old ugly sleep shirt to bed every night can be a major turn off. Many men complained that the woman they fell in love with used to take extra special care of her looks, wardrobe and hygiene. "She always puts on any old thing, and doesn't even wear makeup or fragrance anymore."

"Sex? What Sex?"
"We used to make love 3 to 4 times a week. Now that we've gotten married, I'm lucky if we make love once a month. She always has a headache. When I am lucky enough to get her in the mood, she just lies there. I wasn't being satisfied at home, so I went elsewhere."

"I needed a change."
"Our relationship was b-o-r-i-n-g. Everyday, the same thing. Up at 6:30 a.m. out at 7:30 a.m, home at 6:00 p.m. Dinner at 8:00 p.m. Bowling every Saturday. She never wanted to do anything different. I was sick to death of the same old routine."

"I cheated because I could."
"I'd stay out late with my boys, she never cared. Well one day my boy hooked me up with his girlfriend's friend, it's been on ever since. I just tell my boo that I'm out with my boy, she never questions me."

He just might be cheating if...

He goes away without you, often.
He comes home late, often.

He starts to stay out all night.

He doesn't keep his word.

Lately he has a headache.

He talks about a female friend, a lil' too much.

He gives you very expensive gifts for no apparent reason.

He joins the gym, and goes religiously.

He buys a pager.

You get hang up calls at night.


Many men are visual, and are attracted to attractive females. Attractive doesn't have to mean drop dead gorgeous; it can mean someone who is reasonable fit, clean and full of life! Look into the mirror. If you don't like what you see, chances are people looking at you won't either.

http://www.aalize.com/archives/13.htm

Can you relate?

modey

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Anonymous

Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 06:14 am
Mmmmmmmmmm......talking from experience huh.....all those nights he said honey i am working over time huh. Glad am not married and even if i was i dont think he would cheat on moi , if u keep him satisfied he wont have to look else where right.

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anon

Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 08:49 am
because they are dickhead jerks!

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Honesita

Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 12:10 pm
U know what.....when i read cosmo magazine and i try to compare......i just get tired of it and say for god sake we r Somaliis....not white Americans.......u know the difference right!!!

Why do Somali men cheat......cuz his girl said waryaa idhaaf kuma siinaayo...!!! That makes sense.....right..!! Why does the Somali husband cheat.....cuz waa doqon diintiisa oqoon..!!! That makes more sense right....!!

Ok now lets see:
Why do Somali women cheat.......cuz "naag 1000 bay la sheekeeysataa, midna way kala baxdaa".....that is not cheating.....that is nasiib finding....lol...!! Why does a somali wife cheat........cuz she is a big lax that needs to learn diinteeda...!! Doesnt that fit us somaliis better......!!!!

adios

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Alipapa

Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 12:18 pm
Simply, it is their nature. Like i said before, marriage is not more than instuitionized-female fantasy of keeping the naturally free-raoming men in prison.

i don't who he was but irememer one writer wrote before " men are bulls and the bull can fucck any cattle".

Alipapa

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Anonymous

Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 12:49 pm
Honesita

You should be asamed of yourself.Why do you insist on talking like a man.

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H-NEDO

Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 01:11 pm
HOUNSITA,
DO YOU THINK THE NASIIB CAN BRING US TOGATHER?????

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jama

Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 02:21 pm
the nature of human being to eliminate temptations are hard to come by. we are obsessed satisfying desire which might as well route us to a dangerous phat. we envy to inflict wound upon ourselves which would harm our partners. in order to eliminate the problem we must express ourselves to further prevent disasters situations..

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AMERICAN GAL

Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 03:16 pm
U KNOW THEY CHEAT CUZ SIMPLY THEY DON'T WANT U....
BUT IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE SITUATION..
LET'S SAY U ARE DATING... AND U ARE A VIRGIN SO U DON'T WANT TO GIVE IT UP TO THIS GUY BECAUSE U ARE NOT SURE WHERE IS IT LEADING....HE BEING A MAN NEEDS TO RELIEF HIMSELF...IS THAT CHEATING?? IF HE HAS SEX WITH ANOTHER GIRL BECAUSE U ARE NOT GIVING IT TO HIM...WELL I WOULD SAY NO...
BUT THEN LET'S SAY THAT WHEN THE TWO OF U ARE DATING HE KISSES ANOTHER GIRL...THAT'S CHEATING TO ME BECUASE HE CAN KISS ME WHY HE GOTTA LOOK FOR ANOTHER ONE... HE DON'T HAVE TO ..
SAME GOES FOR THE FEMALE FOR THE SECOND SITUATION BUT NOT THE FIRST ONE...
U CAN SAY I AM OLD FASHIONED I GUESS.
BUT IF A GIRL HAS SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY REGRADLESS OF HER HAVING SEX WITH HER BOYFRIEND/SPOUSE THEN SHE IS CHEATING...
HOPE I HELPED..
CIAO
AMERICAN GAL

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Honesita

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 07:56 am
lol@AmericanGal.....sistah u said if he has sex with another woman cuz u refused to give it to him that is not considered cheating and u r ok with that..!! But if he kisses another woman u would get mad..!! Correct me if i'm wrong......sex with no kissing is like baasto with no suugo.......Right..!! So...!!!!!!!!!! But i do agree witha...some what..!! lol

Anonymous..........say what!! Why should i be ashamed of my self.......and what do u mean i insist talking like a man.......!! No comprende mama cita....!!

H-Nedo.........lol........u neva know...thats why its called NASIIB..!!

adios

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Anonymous

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 12:26 pm
My-my BOYS and girls! Pull yourself together! We ALL know why men cheat; it's simply because they are thinking with their brainless head... 24/7!

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the boss

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 07:28 pm
hi all

are the ppl whos talking
smalian or wat bcuse it is
draeving me craze ppl what hapen
too or islam ppl no sex befor maraj

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