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LADY

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 02:14 pm
Lately i come across some somali men in the forums complaining and lamenting about us ...somali ladies. How come they sleep around with other men? How come they're not educated? How come they don't appreciate us....blah blah blah....SAME OLD STORY AGAIN AND AGAIN...
HERE IS MY TOPIC..... WHAT DO U GUYS HAVE THAT IS SSSSSSSO IRRESISTIBLE?
A) ARE U EDUCATED? OR GOT MULA AS IN $$$$?
B) IF NOT WHAT DO U GUYS HAVE THAT SETS U APART FROM OTHER MEN?
C)WHAT MAKES U SPECIAL?
I'M SURE MOST OF THE FOUL MOUTH BOYS CAN'T HANDLE THE GOOD RELIGIOUS GOD FEARING SOMALI LADIES WITH EDUCATION AND NOT TO MENTION LOOKS(WHICH IS THE MAJORITY).
SO GUYS HERE IS YOUR CHANCE TO CONVINCE US WHY WE SHOULD GIVE U THE TIME OF THE DAY AND MAKE AMENDS FOR PAST MISUNDERSTANDINGS...

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hotboy

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 02:25 pm
i won't answer until you tell me what you've got

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BEEF-BAAF

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 04:01 pm
WE DON'T HAVE TO CONVENCE ANYONE.
OBVOUSELY..YOU'RE NOT EVEN CONVENCED THAT
WE ARE GOOD FATHERS,BROTHERS,HUSBANDS,GRANDFATHERS
JUST LOOK AROUND YOU, THEN YOU WILL ANSWER YOUSELF
I DON'T KNOW WHERE YOU LIVE,,,BUT EVERY NATION
HAS IT BEST AND WORST...AND IT SEEMS YOU JUST
SEEN THE BAD ONES,
AND I'M NOT HERE TO IMPRESS YOU OR ANY OTHER
SOMALI WOMAN....IF YOU THINK WE ARE NOT GOOD
ENOUGH FOR YOU(PERSONALY),,,THEN BABY YOU NEED
TO MOVE ON.IT'S ONLY ONE PERSON THAT WE MISSED
I'M SURE THERE ARE ALOT OF SOMALI WOMAN WHO
BELIVE THAT WE ARE GOOD FOR OUR WOMAN AND FAMILIES

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MANNEXE INDHA SUQAAR

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 04:11 pm
TO THE LADY;-
MANNEXE IS NOT THE ONE WHO IS GONNA BUY U A HOME BUT MANNEXE IS THE ONE WHO IS GONNA RENT A MTEL FOR U ON NITE!
MANNEXE IS NOT THE ONE WHO IS GONNA BUY U A CAR, BUT MANNEXE IS DA ONE WHO IS GONNA RENT CAR FOR A DAY!
MANNEXE IS NOT THA ONE WHO IS GONNA PAY YOR MEDICAL BILLS, BUT MANNEXE IS DA ONE WHO IS GONNA PAY THE MOVIE TICKET!
GIRL U NEED TO SEE ME CUZ U REALLY UNDERSTAND SOMETHING FROM YOR (G SPOT).
DA TAA TA TA!

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Me

Thursday, March 15, 2001 - 01:26 am
blablabla
ding dong
ping pong
regarder moi
look at me

another bitch!!!!
that is all

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LADY

Thursday, March 15, 2001 - 10:05 am
To hotboy u didn't answer the question...which is your choice...if u have something constructive to say then do so
To beef..i did not say ALL somali men...i SAID those in the FORUM (more like ME below) who think that they have every right to call the ladies bad names. I have no prob with somali coz i'm somali...
To Mannexe..i'm sure you can wine and dine a woman but so can every man....that won't keep her attention for long...so work on the things that have importance..perhaps more like mutual respect.
To Me...my point exactly....you just proved how illogical and foul you are. i'm not here to insult anyone nor to belittle them but rather exchange ideas on how to improve this crumbling forums...something you're not capable of.
HOPE THIS CLEARS UP THE AIR FOR GOOD!

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SomeDude

Thursday, March 15, 2001 - 12:39 pm
lady,

I am afraid that you got the whole story in reverse. The point is not that somali men convincing somali women to give them chance to prove any damn thing. Simply it is not the case nor it ever was. It is Somali men turned their back to somali women. It is because the time proved that somali women in the diaspora live in illussion world of their own. They expect too much,produce nothing, comsume a lot, mixed fantasy with reality, bought westren propaganda of women's freedom, confused, lost what they want in life.

Any sane somali man who wants to have good and successfull life here in the west decided to stay away from somali women's troubled minds. And it is facts that somali men are mostly hardworking, family oriented, and honest who can fit westren society easily and can have woman of any race.

Let me tell you my own experience, i remember playing for somali team in soccer tournament some where (name with held). It was final game and many somalis came with their families to watch the game. I remember out of 22 players, 9 came with 9 non- somali girl friends/wives( whites, japanese, chinese, philipino, iranian). On the other hands,It is sad facts that somali women don't have more choices when it comes to marrying other races. It is because of religion, pressure from their parents and even cultural difference that they aren't able to make the cut. It is they, somali women, who need to prove to somali men that they should be given to one more chance.

And about God-fearing part who cares if fear God or not?. I personally don't give a damn if you are christian or muslim who prays late prayers (salaatul leyl) all night long. And i don't think any sane somali man living in the west should care. Besides we, men, enjoy the privillage of marrying non-muslim women and can get away with.

And Somali men maybe skinny assed and inexperienced in relationships but believe or not somali men's temptation is irresisstible.

Needless to say, in these days, in this world, the uggliest man can get the most beautiful woman.

It is kind of that attitude, the one that doesn't allow you to see the facts of it is somali women who need to wake up and change their attitude--not somali men, that made somali women living in vain.

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Y-BUG

Saturday, March 17, 2001 - 07:28 am
somedude! WAAD URTAY!! who is stoping u from marrying who u want? tell it to ur girl coz we don't want to know!! i u don't want a somali girl than thats u, but don't go around steareotyping the sisters like that, answer me why DO u hate them so much? i'v noticed that all the guys who visit the net have one thing in common, and thats PERSONAL ISSUES AGAINST THE SISTRES!

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deymo

Saturday, March 17, 2001 - 09:46 am
Y-bug set off your high F***ing horse! let the man speak in peace what is with the "WAAD URTAY" the man spoke clear clean cut. Why jumping up to defend the sisters you think they need your assistance? this is 2001 wakeup they are equal to if not more educated and wealthy! they can defend themself without your hair a55 intervention...

I hate ni99ars who try to speak out of ignorance... look kid sorry i spoke so harsh to you but we grown men are paving the way for future generations by raising these type of issues and dealing with them today so you won't have to have the same problem when you reach our age...

There is a problem in the community called disfuciona familia... these disease pushes apart, through some unseen force the, young women and men of our community hence the reason why you see brothers always up in arms defending the male perspective so as to insure that the message is clearly understood... so far every thing we say falls to deaf ears... in this medium blind eyes..

My advice to you is to be carefull around gun-ho malis so so aight bro... peace grow fast and you will be ok sony... :O.

To -->Lady

WHAT DO U GUYS HAVE THAT IS SSSSSSSO IRRESISTIBLE?

-big brown Flute

A) ARE U EDUCATED? OR GOT MULA AS IN $$$$?

-MsC in Aicraft Flight controls.

B) IF NOT WHAT DO U GUYS HAVE THAT SETS U APART FROM OTHER MEN?

-virginity

C)WHAT MAKES U SPECIAL?

-no disease, excellent health, prime beeeeef

How about you....

-Ever readup the meaning of LADY in the dictsionary?

-are you the right weight for your height?

-Do you have any Iman?

-Are you familiar with the term "scavenger by name scavenger by nature"?

-Please check your pants... who are you lying to your a man??? shyte... bloody shemales everwhere...

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T-GIRL

Saturday, March 17, 2001 - 01:19 pm
Deymo
Way to go dude.........Great way to speak to a woman....I wonder what was missing in your growing experience?......Hey looks like there is a dent in your MSc......coz they forgot to teach you manners when they gave you the "IDIOTS GUIDE TO THE INTERNET". Go figure

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LADY

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 11:17 am
thx sis T for coming to my rescue....i guess it's useless to carry a conversation with the likes of him!
deymo......i wasn't asking about your prime beef but about you as a person!
so don't give me $hit for peing polite AND I SURE AM A LADY!
y-bug thank you for putting some sense into whatever he was blabbling about!
salam all thnx!

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Sirrus

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 11:51 am
Lady

Sis all I have to say, is you need to grow up a little, a real lady doesn't say guys what do you offer, what do you think is, the main Market.

Try to answer your questio first...

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SomaliCream

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 12:01 pm
All i have to say is when is the gender war going to stop? I don't blame the ladies for getting angry, as most of the somali men in the forums disrespect women, us women can't get our opnions cross unless we get called bitches, •••• ect. Do you men blame us for losing faith in somali men? when are we going tp be able to have a decent conversation, talk about worldly issues, exchange ideas and opnions, without the name calling.

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ymdoe

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 02:36 pm
Hey look you dump a55 holes. It is a man who started this link aight.... i ain't even blaming no ladies for noing so jump... f***ing Dinosaurs...

yada yada yada... when will the wars stop?

when i see real somali women thats when... all i witness in this place are a bunch self absorbed bumba clats...

The war will stop when we develop a system to differntiate the men from the women! damn bloody full stop... there are a lot of men in here

HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

SOMEBODY HEAR MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

sh*t

T-girl sit on it aight... i ain't got no need to to be thought any manners...fool

LADY wanathink... yeah right...cunt read what you posted you tramp..

somalicream... please tell that it is lady like to post something as stupid as this post expecting to get a possitive response from the brothers??

Bloody marry-go-round in this forums...

BraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaAAAAAAAFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFff

ooooooooooooohhhhhh that was chicken curry medium hot... wait till i fart on your stupid faces.....

I won't want to but i'll probably have to repeat myself very soon too a very similar posting...

I got nuf love for somali sisters and i got nuf hate fro somali brothers who pretend to be sisters just to cause a fight..... i like to be cool but you folks are pushy and sometimes you just got to fight fire with fire to exhault the oxygen supply... sometimes you just have to spit into the wind because you are just tired of it constant facial slaps.... but i won't piss upwards into sky even thought it seems to piss don't a lot in this bloody country...

Truth... there are people who get borred easily and they are responsibly for majority of faul posts and replies..... so give us a break...real ladies
the bad guys are actually girls pretending to be guys... ok... and most bad girls are actually guys... what does that make em? VERBALTRANSEXTUALDEVIANTS... :O

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Alipapa

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 04:57 pm
Thanks someDude for excellent posting. You really made some records straight.

Lady,

Your topic made me laugh, "can you handle it"?. What a desperate topic!!. Are you trying to stir things up or what?. What kind of question are you trying to pose here?.Where did steal from this phrase? Do you really understand what you are trying to say here?.

Why would anybody even bother to handle it? Why for God's sake any somali guy would even bother handling some confused and wild somali bitch who needs to be handled like hot iron?. why doesn't every somali guy would go and find good-natured female who doesn't need to handled but needs to live in peace instead?.

For sure a lady, who understands how the world works doesn't post such crap. Only confused bitch who only knows some pick-up words would do it.

Alipapa

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somali-sis

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 05:18 pm
To somedude;

When I surfed in here, I really did not wanted to reply, but your posting made.

It is amazing how easy it is for you to put us down and expect us to do the opposite.
You talked about how you have the option to marry non-muslim and get away with it. It is okey you can, but realize that you have to make her take your religion, that is if you are muslim.

Besides what makes you think the somali women are not cabable of finding muslim men who are of different race? if my memory service me right, I remember hearing some somali men who were complaining about how the somali women had taken on some foreing men. Like "why do somali girls like jamaican or blacks or Whites." It is just so shameful to see our guys pimping around with any kind and then coming back to find sweet virgins to marry.

What makes you think that it does not hurt us as much to see our guys going around wiht non-somalis? And here you are talking about how proud you were to see your brothers going around with non-somalis.

If you are saying we are women and should take what ever you decide to give us, then no way, because we do have our own options.

Think about what you are saying and think about all the people you are going to offend.

Have a nice day and please keep in mind that we are some of the values that you would claim you have when asked. Or you can go ahead and beg foreings for women.

Your sister

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Bodhari

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 05:42 pm
Lady sure I can handle
I think you in wrong place on earth , if some dates with Somali man didn't work for you don't come back and hunt all Somali men ..keep trying believe me there is master right for you out there , I Love Somali women .and I hate to see my brothers bloody fools and dupes .. the girl is crying out for Somali men are you there gentlemen and available...damn it ..the most precious women on earth are Somali Women..and I mean it from my heart....''''''''bloody brothers

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Lady Khalifa

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 07:08 pm
Obviously we are all missing the point here-this is particularly directed at the self-delusional comments about the difficiencies of the Somali Women. Let me straighten this out:the American Female poses a wonder to the Somali male-she has become the symbol of the american way, she has become the easiest ticket to the exotic life that they've yearned to become apart of, she in other words offers them what Somali women are often unable to give-a life untinged by that silly thing we call morals. I speak not of every Somali man-no no-but I do speak of the many who have chosen to shun their female counterparts-who have been taken by a lifestyle of immorality, shirking their Somali sisters, and in essence whoring themselves for but a taste of that American dream. As "somedude" quaintly put it-"And about God-fearing part who cares if fear God or not?I personally don't give a damn if you are christian or muslim who prays late prayers " Ahhh...the burden we women must carry.

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jaber

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 08:42 pm
bitch kalifa

spare us your moral lecture will ya

speaking of morals we all know how low somali females have sunk in the Western hemisphere so dont even go there miss soon to be a whore

somali sis

what options do you have beside the jamaicans african-americans and west africans and some old and ugly looking white men?

what man in his right state of mind would date a mutilated nagging black bitch..

somali men have options thats why you see them with different women when all you can come up with is a filthy jamaican..seriously I dont blame somali men for leaving your confused ass alone

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Sagittarius

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 09:35 pm
Ladies and Gentlemen of the forums.

I have been observing this gender warfare going on for quite a while now in this forums, and yet I haven't seen a concrete result coming out of it, so why doesn't everybody get along with their lives and date whomever they want to. Afterall, we live in the free world, where anybody can date whomever they want to, but I suspect the case is not so with Somalis, they love each other so much to the point they would want to slaughter each other for a forced love! Ouch

Firstly, the blame goes to the person who started this discussion, as she was trying to pick on a fight here, and I think she probably got what she wanted, so deal with it!

Secondly, I believe Somalis given the chance of anonymity behind their computer screens, and the ability to write in english, the topic of gender warfare has became the most debated issue in these forumss. I wonder why is that! And the only explanation I could come up is, maybe Somalis did not live in a multi-cultural societies, and when suddenly they are exposed to these multi-cultural societies, they still want to act like they are still living in their same old mono-cultural society, which in that event makes them SUSCEPTIBLE to suffer from CULTURAL SHOCK!

Again, cultural shock in its most sever symptoms exhibits itself when you don't accept your neighbour, or you believe they are about to grasp your throat at any moment, which in reality is not true. Yet I ask myself, how come Somalis have killed so much among them, and still trust each other so much in the western world! It's just a pure fantasy to believe that you can conduct your behaviour as you were still in Somalia, you live in a multi-cultural society, and it's a must to adapt your personal behaviour accordingly to this society's system value. Here, in the west racism was prevalent until it was proven wrong, and now you Somalis come along, and want to further disenfranchise your fellow oppressed man, wether Jamaican or African American in this case.

Truthfully people, you're just being racists nothing more, and maybe percieve yourselves in any manner you deem appropriate, but the fact remains that you are the black sheep among the white sheep herd. Finaly, let's not take freedom of choice from each other, and let everybody be happy with whom they see fit to fulfil their happiness, if a woman doesn't love you for your personality, it's indeed very hard to convince her to love you otherwise by nationality or being both Somalis. Also, the same goes for Somali women!

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Mad-Man

Monday, March 19, 2001 - 11:16 am
Sagittarius...
Nicely put! i agree 100% with whatever u said above, with no dispute on the culture shock!
As it has been mentioned above, date whoever u wanna date and stop insulting one another! Personally i dont give a damn whoever the femalez date....its their own choices and same goes to the malez !
Loggin into this site and cursing the hell outta each other won't do nothing besides keep a distance between us! This is a free world, do ya own things and stop judging everybody on the acts done by a handful!
We had it enaf with this gender warfare and i think its about time we burry the hatchet!
am not sayn we shouldn't discuss on this kind of issues, but we ought to do it in a more civilized manner!

BTW.... this site has lately been attracting maniacs with the ambitions of causing nothn but trouble! Perhaps its the nature of our ppl to fight no matter the means!... if we ain't fighting among ourselves in real life, we do it via cyber! this is outrageous.

Ok...this is funny...>>>i was on paltalk the other day and this fella pointed out that Minnesotta govt issured free pcs to all somaliz living there.. and this could have somethng to do with the idea of maniacs aka anons starting either tribal issue or gender war ! hahaha hahaha! (I dont mean to insult anybody!)

Mad-Man!

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bef-baf

Monday, March 19, 2001 - 11:22 am
mad-man
were you one of the recipiants??????

if not
then shut the f.u.c.k up
you are not making sense..dump ass
instead of making fun of somalis
go enroll in ESL classes
low life flight 13

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LADY

Monday, March 19, 2001 - 12:15 pm
Once and for all i'm here to clear the air of any misunderstanding that might have occurred with my topic. I'm not here to antagonize anyone...I have better things to do with my time. Nor am I here to insult people. One of the many reasons that i posted this question was not to fuel a gender debate or war ..because God knows we have enough of those in this forums but rather let the guys express their status on the war against the ladies in this forums.It seem we can't get into a peaceful conversation without bandering each other and that's a sad thing. I'm new to this forums and i came across some nasty stuff....this was my way of getting some polite answers to see where you stand. But obviously it was a failure!
Again it was not my intention to mislead anyone, so i hope there is no hard feeling!

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Big_Bow_wow

Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 09:42 am
Lady Lady...
what can I say girl...except this u aint even worth back seat of my car now what.
In addition, I have got all the thing 23yrs brother can have u know.. the car, the apartment, the education, and the J.O.B. The ? is why would I debate a lady like u who I can flip flop her ass on stairs in her momz apartment...shooot... u need to come correct trick.
pleeezebleevit

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Mediator

Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 11:12 am
Whoa, quite a debate here, i thought i'd interject with my few words of wisdom. As a 24yr old somali man, living in ottawa for the past 11 yrs, i have seen both sides of the sex war. Somali sisters frustrated with somali guys in the dispora, their lack of ambition, physical short comings, flight 13'ish tendencies, their conquer the world mentality and come back to a prestine virgin, their double standards, and often their misconstrude lack of respect for women. Again and again i see sistas complain, like a broken record. Now thats one side of the coin, to be objective in this debate, you must analysis the other side of the arguement. I often hear guys complain that the sista's are "slutty", easily influenced, into other cultures, narrow minded, materialistic, confused, and a boat load of other short comings. Its truly pathetic to see how large the gap in communication and understanding really is. Both sexes have to assume responsiblity, and see the bigger picture. For as to move on and rebuild our nation, we have to build functional families, with LOVING, and GOD Fearing parents. BOth of us have to come to a common ground, cuz really the blame lies on both parties, "takes two to things go right! takes two to F@##$ things up". Generally, from what i've seen, their are amazing guys out there, but their existance is masked by the scrubs and lowlifes, and same goes for the ladies. SOme of the great guys have withdrawn into a shell, not knowing how to deal with our independant and upcoming sistas. And for any guy to disrespect a sista, her honour, anywhere (net,etc) by backbiting, he is doing a disservice to his mother, sister, aunts, and more importantly has an overdue payment with Allah! My advice is primarily to the brothers, lets get educated, by education, i don't mean, get a paper that'll be framed on the wall, but actually exemplify your education and be more open minded within the boundaries of our religion. Show ambition and dissatisfaction with the satus que, improve your communities and your families. Treat your moms with the outmost love and care, cuz if you cannot show her love, no other woman has a chance. Be confidant in who you are, and you'll standout in a croud no matter what you wear or look like. And for my sisters, ease of the pedal when it comes to the feminist idealogy, cuz Islam liberates! DIstinguish between the bad aspects of our culture and the good aspects. WHen analyzing a brother, look at his potential, not the bling bling. THe content of his heart, if you can get to it, is more important than what car he drives, how unlike Shaman Moore he is, just look in the mirror and see if you are perfect! chances are your NOT! only Allah posses perfection! SO lets imbrace one another, i know its sounds corny, but we are all putting up unnessary barriors. NOthing brings more joy to me when i see a young somali couple, doing their thing, surviving in harmony, overcoming the haters, cultrual roadblocks, everything, wish there was more of that, instead i see somali sistas in bad situations that don't need to be mentioned, and brothers on corners blazed up. In life, the good are few, the bad are plenty, and the ugly.... well no comment.

till next time, peace and one love

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ahmed fuutoyeare

Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 12:56 pm
mediator,
keep it short next time fool
and we didn't ask you how long you been there
so get to the point next time

man, you just sounded like fat basra

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SweeTsis

Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 01:46 pm
hey somedude,
what hurts me the most is how much u hate ur somalisisters, they are ur blood, same culture, and religion.
N, speaking of religion, what made u say that somali men shouldn't care about the religion of their women?
I think the fact that somali sisters are practicing the religion and they are hidden from the shaytan's eye, made u upset and complain about the somali women.
also its the guys who really need to change their characters towards the religion and start practicing it, in order to achieve what they want.
most somali girls don't want a guy who pretends to be the so called ' yo guys', they want someone who respects their religion, someone who practices the relgion and dresses according to the suna way of our prophet (peace be upon him).
Please note that we don't really care whether they are attractive or not.
these facters is what makes us attracted to them:
their respect to the religion 'islam'.
the character of islam 'Khuluq'.
if they are responsible and mature.
if they can afford the financial support of a family
if they are both educated in knowledge of Islam and the knwoledge of Dunya.
and when it comes to love they should appreciate the fact that they have a muslim sister who is willing to give them respect, love and most importantly children.
in return they should respect her, love her nad treat her with kindness twice as much for the pain she is going through to have a child.
of cause the sister should show love, kindness and cherish the love of her husband.

i would like to write more but iam running out of words.

Please somedude, think twice before posting something immature and unreasonable.
i think u should change ur attitude and life style before looking for somali women and getting rejected.
please get the audacity to approach a somali women with dignity.
religion is presures and time is presures, so don't waste ur time abusing ur sisters with no paricular reason.
concerned sis.

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sheikh cabdi

Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 04:09 pm
this gender war has become routine and boring. lady may be new to the forums,cuz this was a hot issue couple of months back. when you come with such an offensive manner, expect to get reaction from the men lady, cuz no one likes to be put down. the impact of the exodus from the homeland , and the transformation of the somali ppl in their respective western countries will have a devastating impact if these ppl ever go back. live in the west is difficult, and ppl will assimilate inthe long run. what i hate is why the hell guys point fingers at the girls when they themselves dress, act sing , and talk like the jamaicans and the afro americans they despise? why the double standard? why the hypocrisy ? if everone is proud of his or her identity then things would be better. are we having the white men in the south mentality who justified their violence against african americans cuz they were protecting their women from the african american man? well let's wake up and correct ourselves. for the fanatic girls like "lady",if no somali can meet your requirement, neither the jamaicans nor african americans can meet your requirements , so i suggest a muslim chinese, indian or white man,for they have education ,descipline, and above the desire to achieve their goals. i may be generelizing but a bathetic topic deserves some pathetic responses, not as the haters in here though!!!!. well anyhow "lady" start something better please sis. peace n love for the rest

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Hibo

Friday, March 23, 2001 - 03:46 pm
Sag: I couldn't agree any more bro....one word describes them all......"Liars".....They r only lying to themselves,...using these screen as a discreet to the reality they live in...so don't let them...drag us along!!

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Xoogsade

Friday, March 23, 2001 - 06:01 pm
Sagitarius:

What a wanker you are!!! Always going on in that pompous way of yours about how Somalis should be accepting multiculturalism.

It is the duty of every Somali to reject the evil and polluting influences that are so easily to be found in the west.You obviously are a lost child who has embraced western liberalism and indeed fastened its noxious ideas to your weak mind. And you want to pollute every one.


Only the weak and women submit to the imperatives of the dominant majority? Are you a weak man or a woman? Please tell us?

Oh how I hate the assholes who adopt every new idea that comes along.

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Sagittarius

Friday, March 23, 2001 - 07:13 pm
Xoogsade,

You migth have had a very good point, but your abusive language discredited your intelligence!

I wonder, did anybody drag or haul your abusive character to these lands? Or you just came along only God knows how! Anyhow, if you'd feel safe and respectfull where ever you call home, then you wouldn't have left...that's a sound reasoning. However, you came here with the good will and gesture of this new society that adopted you unquestioningly as a new member of their society, and you only repaid by still clinging to your tribal rituals to show respect. Aren't you forgeting one simple fact, that if it were not for multi-culturalism, you'd still have found your abusive character where you rightfully belonged among the dead, if it were not for the gun, you'd have been dead by now only God knows how.

You don't have a shred of intellect, for me to engage in a dialogue with you. Thereby, I will still test some grounds with your reasoning. Can you tell me Dear Fellow what you mean by "Only the weak and women submit to the imperatives of the dominant majority" I will tell you what you mean. You honestly believe that women are not intelligent enough to go out with other men of different cultures. Quite contrarily, it would be very absurd how any one woman will go out with you, when you still subscribe to the stone age reasoning, that Somali women should go out with you solely on the grounds that you speak the same language and have somewhat cultural assimilation. Thus you gave yourself a preconceived notion that finally turned up disappointment. Dear fellow, don't blame women or a guy like me, we know what we buy into, and whom we can play our tune with, unlike you, who maybe have lost his girl friend because of uncharacteristric behaviour!

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Anonymous

Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 05:50 am
Sagi ta raas clat.

Divide and convert all somali people as soon as possible!

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Real-Xoogsade

Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 05:57 am
Shut up false Xoogsade.

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Switch_ mode_ sqaud

Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 06:20 am
Not at all credable mister Xoogsade. You seem to have totaly misjudged the visitors of this forums, we are not total morons or half wits like you. We are able to distinguish between rational people and totaly irrational idiots who seem to be oppsessed with the idea of making a total fool of themself. It is most disgusting to see you in this forums endlessly aiming to making some else feel bad or embaresed. Dear brother please for the sake of desency growup and evaluate you conversation and you aim. It does you no servie to spend so much time and effort on meaningless issues and attacks on the innocent sisters and brothers who just like are here to pass a little bit of time. It takes less words to say i love you relative to the essays you seem to write to express your hate for everyone.

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