     ayan | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 02:11 pm
hello,
i met a wonderfull guy on the net about 5 months ago.we both agreed that we were meant for each other and spoke of marriage.
he wants to marry me but i would like to be the first to get down on the knees and pop the question."WILL U MARRY ME"?.
I havent met him yet in person however i have no question in my mind that i will even love him more than i do now.
we are meeting in couple of weeks,and i would like to pop the question not to mention that is his dream.for a woman to ask him to marry him.
so i was wondering would u guys be kind enough to give me some tips into what i should do on that night.
i already wrote a poem,but i havent decided the location since we are meeting in his state.
well i hope u guys give me some ideas here,and plz be polite..i am not here to be judged.
thx in advance
yours
ayan |
| Miskiin-Macruuf-Waryaa-Aqiyaar | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 02:29 pm
Salama...
Are you a Muslim?
If yes, there is no question anything but a boy-girl-fried exists in that community.
Are you a Muslim, again?
If yes, only Allaah {S.W.C.} alone deserves to be bowed, prostrate, or kneeled down in humility. Only, again, Allaah alone deserves that.
Are you a Muslim, again, again?
If yes, there is no 'will you marry me' thing exists. Or is it a sentence thing, properly.
Are you a Muslim, again, again, and again?
If yes, you should have kept this private matter to yourself or to near ones than to publicize it. Feel shy about it. Feel humble about it. Muslim woman--nay a man also--shouldn't speak things like this in public, let alone a huge crowd--for coming back again and again for anytime they want to view--like this.
And that is my conclusion. I am your brother, and I take that I give my obligated advice.
__________________
Nabadeey!! |
| Honesita | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 03:39 pm
Ayan why do i have a distinct feeling you are ninxoon personating to be a girl.WHat a freak.Learn how to spell 'propose' b4 you embarras yourself whatever you are ! loool |
| zig-zag | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 04:08 pm
HONESITA,
and who ask for your 16year old advise??
this is an adult forums ,,,,and since you are
a child who is in high school..you need to stick
with your PG-13 friends..and leave adults alone
come back in 5 years when you become an adult.
plus, why do i see you in every topic with your big filthy stinky mouth...do you know how to shut up...i never seen a child like you
do you have a father or any male figure in your
house...and if you have one..then he is doing
fuc*ed up job....
so kid go to the library and do your homework
and isn't time for you to go to sleep?????
are you trying to be bitch jr |
| Anonymous | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 05:00 pm
zigzag,
even though honesita is in high school but she is alot maturer than you and well educated.
maturity is mind not age.and lets not forget you didnt even go to primary school let alone high school.grow up boy it s about time, you leave your "zig-zag" life and be a man.
honesita
ignore this looser.he is even worth of your words. |
| Anonymous | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 05:07 pm
correction:
he is not worth of your words! |
| NINXOON | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 06:00 pm
HONISITA
IS IT THAT TIME OF THE MONTH OR WHAT!! CAUSE IT SEEMS EVERY TIME YOU ARE ON YOUR PERIOD YOU LOOK FOR NINXOON AND THEN YOU PRECEDE TO TAKE YOU (PMS)
ON HIM.................
ANON
YOU AIN'T EVEN A MAN ENOUGH TO COME UP WITH A USER
NAME THAT SHOWS THE PUNK THAT YOU ARE........ |
| AYAN | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 06:48 pm
HELLOOO I SAID NO INSULTS....OOH MY LORD I ASKED FOR AN ADVISE HERE.
GGOSH WHEN R U PPL GOING TO GROW UP????
ANYWAYS I AM NOT NINXOON,I AM A WOMAN SEEKING IDEAS.MAYBE I SHOULD I HAVE STICKED WITH ME AOL PALS.
AYAN |
| Anonymous | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 06:55 pm
ninxoon,
lol you forgot to change caps lock!
man get a life psycho or go to mental hospital for help. |
| Honesita | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 06:41 am
Zig-Zag.......the new daba naagees of Nagxoon i guess........i have not commented on this post b4 and suprisingly i see my name up there.....what a shame......!! And you mista have the nerve to judge me and call me a kid..........brotha first of all mind ur own damn business....second of all what is ur problem if i'm still in high school.........at least i'm doin' somethin' good for my own a$$ aight........i dont know what u do and i aint gonna say u're a broke ass cuz u could be a 30 year old who is tryin' to act like he's 14 years old..........all i can say is.....i'm younger than you yes.....but walaahi i'm a lot more maturer than u r and a lot more respectful...!!
Anonymous.......thanx sis/bro....age is nothin' but a #.......and i can see that clearly in Zig-Zag....!!!
Ayan......sistah i cant say nothin' betta than what Miskiin Macruuf said.......but on the down low......dont propose to a guy u have not met yet........i know u wanna do it after u meet him......but first see how it goes......pple online r not the same in real life....trust me on that girl....!!!
LaTa |
| Anonymous | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 07:15 am
Ayan, let's just hope for you that it's not OLD Johnnyjake out on the "chicken-run" again...heheheh! You muslim girls buy everything...lol! |
| layla | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 10:35 am
ayan- i think you should first see the guy don't rush thinks if he is right for you then propose!!!! |
| ninxoon | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 10:51 am
honisiat
you ain't making no sense , so get the hell out, bit ch ass.....
ayan
thank you for clearing my good name. |
| Idiris | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 11:13 am
You go girl. just follow your heart girl.
Let me tell u onething, i am married to a
girl i never saw before we got married.
even when the meher happin, i still did not
see her. we did not even had that many
conversation before we got married.
and to tell u the truth, i am madly in love
with her now and three beautifull childern
we have.enough about me, let us go back to u.
my advice is take the chance and marry the boy.
But men like to be the one who asks the girl,
so wait for him to pop the Q., but make sure
u encourage and be kind to him if he is not
all u thought he will be. anyway i think
u r a romantic girl and like to make it a
special occation, so indulge yrself and do
ask if u have to, but word of advice do not
let yr antenas down, men could be creul
sometimes.
i am kind of curious how i will react if a
girl pops the q. on me...waw that is different |
| Hibo | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 03:28 pm
U r a go getter...........get him.......but do me a favor...never ...I mean NEVER get on ur knees...specially for Somali Guy....They r not worth it...trust me.. I thought they were till proven wrong...so dear take my advice...n don't drag ur dignity down the dirt. But do pop the Q if u think he is the right guy!! U see I am not a hater afterall... but I do have my reasons. |
| Hadrawi | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 04:39 pm
if he is Somali man you don't have to propose him don't cut the Somali tradition ,[ caado la jabiyaa caro Alla ayey leedahay] that is if you want long lasting happy family ..first he should ask you than if you agree he should go to your family tradition way ...I think you will be blees both of you......trust me....and if he is not Somali kick his ass and say you want marry me and drink your shaanbeeeyn good lucky |
| Curious | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 01:18 am
Hibo, what happened with you and Devils Love??
Poor girl, he didn't turn out to be the one you thought he was? MEN!!! Ahhh.... I know what you're talking about.... Sorry to hear that... |
| DHILEY | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 10:30 am
HIBO HEHE DID YOU ACCIDENTLY SAT ON HIM WITH YOUR HIBOBOTAMUS AZZ HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE FAT GIRLZ CAN'T GET LOVE... WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. SHAME GIRL, EVEN THOUGH WE ALL KNOW HOW YOU INVENTED IT ALL WHILE HE WAS AWAY AND WE HE RETURNED HE ASKED YOU TO STOP PRETENDING TO PLAY HAPPY HOMES WITH HIS NICK NAME UNLESS YOU LET HIM PLAY WITH YOUR NICKERS.... AHAHAHAHAHAA |
| Aliyah | Tuesday, April 03, 2001 - 01:57 pm
Ayan
abaayo i thought uwere lesbian as ur recent letter. |
| foxy | Wednesday, April 04, 2001 - 03:05 am
I thought she was a les tooooooooo or is this another ayan |
