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     | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 06:09 pm What does love mean to you(btwn 2 people.) Not Sex!!! My favorite song goes like this: "don't know why he loves me don't know why he cares Even though I really didn't deserve it I'm still glad that he cares He sent loving arms down from the sky He loved me when I didn't even love myself why me,? is what I keep asking myself Just coul've given this gift to anyone else."
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| | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 06:33 pm love means to get married and have sex three times a year.
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| | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 06:54 pm ooh curious,those lyrics sound like my kind of song. do u mind telling me the artist and the name of the song plzzz. what does love mean to me??? well,love makes me complete,i look into his eyes i see my soul,myself 40 yrs down the road but still inlove. he makes me happy,when i touch him i can feel how much he cares,he is my shoulder to cry on,my strenght when i am weak. he looks into my eyes and he sees my wonder,in his arms i am in heavan. but all these is a feeling u get when u are in love.but there are different types of love. however that is how i feel about love. well i will wait for ur answer about the song. yours ayan
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| | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 07:30 pm present day love is about agreement,sharing everything equally. Doing your time in the kitchen and in the laundary. These days love is about how you hard you ••••, and to women is how thin they can get to get their asses bursted. Otherwise the love of romeo and juliette is long ago dead,,this is twenty first century, so be realistic and avoid all emotional complications about love.. waan ku jeclahay after three years with two kids, he walks away , declaring three talaaq, so hell to love mythology and live your life as u wish.
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| | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 08:09 pm flying NUN-"3times a year,"looooool AYAN- Thanks for sharing that hon, it's meaning is different for everyone. For some the physical is more important than the emotional being. That song is by 702, called "What more can he do?" This is how it all goes: CHORUS what more can he do, tell me what more can he do he sent loving arms down from the sky cause he cares so much for you & I BRIDGE Whenever in my imagination Did I ever see so clearly That someone has so much concern for my life Till your love came & found me You loved me when I didn't even love myself CHORUS I really didn't have a reason To love me so much right from the start I haven't done a lot of things that I'm proud of but that is just the way of your heart why me? is what I keep asking myself Just could've given this gift to anyone else You made me realize that I was special too That is something you really didn't have to do BRIDGE Don't know why he loves me Don't know why he cares Even though I really didn't deserve it I'm still glad that he cares
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| | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 10:56 pm I Agree with you Lady Mafioso!!! You tell'em like it is Girl!!......so, they can stop fantacising.
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 12:56 am I agree allow the emotional love thing... is all a joke...too painfull and only gets you all confussed about your priority in life... The real thing to me is... about everything that i do for you... on a daily basis... my consideration towards you... making that cup of tea when you tired...massaging your shoulders while you lie on my lap after a hard days work... taking my turn to place the ready made meals from the market in the microwave... and dumping it in a plate and serving it... TV dinners in front of the 6 0'clock news... understanding what you mean when you start the day with a head ache... and bringing you toast and coffee in bed... It is about not looking delibrately and plainly at other females while you are next to me... it is about holding your hand in puplic.... it is about my willingness to feel embarced,shy,afraid and angry without fear of judgement from you cuz you would understand and not try to correct me or react but be real about my emotions... not expecting me to hide em some where deep.... it is about appretiating the conversations we have together and not minding the long silent moments of total sirinity.... It should be the second type of surrender for the first is to your lord... second type of surrender is to your other half... surrender in every way... without it or the misuderssating of it leads to certain doom...... Jaceyl waa cadow... watchout... it kills... it should be banned cuz when you drink it and drive you are a potential danger to the puplic 
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 01:21 am To Curious! Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love is a gift, not an obligation, follow your heart and always trust the person you love.Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence.No matter how hard things seem, true love will aide you through it,anyway i can go on and on talking about Love,i'll let you with this few words for the time being. yours,dr romance Thanx
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 05:53 am Modey & dr.romance Thanks for answering the question.... I think love is what you make it to be. To me, Love is not jealous or conceited;its not proud or selfish; it's not ill mannered; it's not irritable;it does not hold a grudge;it's not happy with the evil but happy with the truth; it never gives up; it's faith, hope and patience never fail.. BEATY &LADY MAfioso If you only look for surten things in life, that's what you'll get...so have some faith or you'll end up with exactly what you were thinking of.
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 01:49 pm The best decision I ever made in life was to fall in love. What a whirl wind, what an experience and what an emotional roller coaster. Love made me switch from R'n'B to Somali songs, love made me take care of myself......for the one I love......So to the one I love I SAY I used to cry myself to sleep at night But that was all Before he came into my life I thought love had to hurt To turn out right But now he's here It's not the same It's not the same He fill's my life He gives me Love More love than I'll ever seen He's all I got He's all the love I got in this world But he's all the man that I need And in the morning When I kiss his eyes He takes me down And rocks me slow And in the evening When the moon is high He holds me close and and won't let go......He never lets go He gives me love and he's all the man that I need
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 02:41 pm LOVE mean to me is get girls in the bedroom and start kissing from head to toe until girl get wet and turn on.....that 's the meaning of love... **girls tell what turns you on****
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 03:19 pm Love is it??... I once believed in the word called "Love". We come to believe of its existence only through the fairy tales we hear from the past. I once was a believer but after touching base with the thing called "love"... i am no longer a follower. The path of love lead me to heartache & deciets. Nothing lies beyond the world we seem to call love except those that has rotten in its Hell. This is my song... Have u ever been in love.... Been in love so bad... U would do anything to make them understand.... Have u ever found the one u dreamed of all ur life.... U will do just about anything to look in to their eyes... Only to find that one won't give their heart to u.... Have u ever??... Who ever knows the exact answer to this Q is the only one that can tell u what lies beneath those glittering, embroiderized "Love'. That is my opinion. I once defined myself as a "love addcit"...but after experiencing it... I have changed my mind...to me.." Love" is just a game....most ppl use to achieve their goals...My advice...don't buy when a guy...especially a Somali guy tells u ...he loves u...coz...he surely doesn't know what he is saying....probably it means nothing to him....to them ...love comes & goes...
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 03:24 pm Girl in LOVE, That's my song baby, I haven't heard it in a long time. Brings back memories. are u truly in love?
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 04:59 pm Hibo, Welcome back Sis, About love, umummm. I liked your definition of love as a game, but then I will be in trouble if I admit your version as the truth. However, love can be many things for many different people, and that's a one big reason there never existed a one true universal definition of love, anyhow we all expereinced love in different colours, but if you realy look back, and look into your present love situation, you'd only find that, what we call love is what never worked out, but that we have and somehow working..we just say "Hey I am in a relationship and it's working" As if we're at any time afraid to lose it, and when we finally lose it we say..Ooh Geez I was in love and lost it! Also, about the Somali love thing, I think it isn't pretty much related to culture, as I have experienced from other cultures where everyone was trying to blame their own folks for lack of caring and being insensitive. Nor it's a gender thing where both men and women claim the other party is so and so and responsible. Therefore, it's a game in a way, but those who know how to play it well come out winners, and those who lose that game always lose it for some reasons, which I won't limit to but include self conceitedness, self confusion (not knowing what they are expecting from a partner) and finally perfectionism, where everybody thinks they can have a perfect partner, when in fact ourselves aren't perfect. Thus I only have one advice for the lovers; set your degree of tolerance and taste from the get go, and try to patch up things when something goes wrong, and never be deluded that love is smooth and eternal. Once a wise man called Ben Sweetland said "Success is a journey, not a destination" Try to substitute love for success and you get "Love is a journey, not a destination" And you get your answer.
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| | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 01:40 am Uuhh, Hibo, you made me so sad... :-( What's wrong with men nowadays... We girls just want love, pure and simple. And men... they LOVE playing games... What happened to the old fashion, romantic Lover Romeo???
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| | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 03:10 am ALL U NEED I am very much, head over heels, crazy and going coo-coo in Love sweetie........Guilty as charged. Hey I was going through Whitneys old tunes and I absolutely 4got about this classic. Wow it sure touched a nerve and it is so true to my feelings. Im listening to it as I type. HIBO Hi hon......Haven't seen ya in a while...Cyberly speaking ofcourse. I don't know what to say about the experience U had but I can tell you one thing sis........Not all Somali guys are the same. Let me tell you the first time I went out with a guy .......he made me believe I was the jewel he was waiting for, the apple of his eyes, and that I was "it".......if ya know what I mean. He tried every possible way to get in my panties and when I said I'll only lose my virginity when I get married, he took it casually and guess what......the next day the man came knocking on my door with a freaking ring.........I was taken aback with the tremendous shock of realising that a man will do anything to get a piece of punani. Well needless to say I got heartbroken, dissapointed, coz U never anticipate that kinda thing to happen in real life.......I never in my wildest dreams assumed someone would take the liberty of going out with someone just to get laid. I was sooo upset and guess what.......I didn't get mad.....I got even......I dumped him in public........at a wedding and one of my school friends at the time helped me out and made the guy believe that I was dumping him for my friend.......Wow I certainly got a kick outta that. The ex still calls me and he thinks I am a hard knocks gal and he respects moi. Sweeetie wallahi I was off men totally. I thought if my first experience with a man was a nightmare I shouldn't bother. But now I am with an absolute prince. He is caring, loving, and best of all is, he isn't in a hurry to get in my knickers anytime soon. So there are SOMALI GUYS who are truely very exquisite, mature and precious......So sis don't give up on them.......All U gotta remember is that "Somali Men are like stones Scattered everywhere But true gentlemen are Like Diamonds Precious and rare." Never give up giving up............... PEACE Yours truely Miss Troublegirl
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| | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 04:56 am Hibo That is so Sad Girl, don,t Give Up... what happen to DEVIL's? is he dum you or u did to him? I was waiting some weding Invitation Cards...let me know.
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| | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 05:25 am HIBObotomus and TRARANCHELA-gIRL... i don't know what is wrong with you but i won't diss your versi0n... "somali men" you come in contact with dude and we are all to blame for your lose of mental stability... "in you panties"... hello what the fuch you talking about cuz it is all about that! or are we suppose to aim for your ears or something...common you freaks we wan it, we need it, we gota get a peice of it... sh1t... that is tha whole reason it was invented ... to get people to simply fuch.. why else do you think it should exsist??? If you ask around this forums... i bet you anything the guys know wat a gwan! somali men ain't the problem it is the few girls who are expressing stupidity...get real... no man is gona marry to make you happy and ease your existence... men want to fuch...simple... it is in their nature to fall for that simple reason...if a guy falls for other reasons... it is still gona endup in wedlock hence sextual intercourse... just admit the facts... All you girls are saying to us is don't fall for us cuz...we'll fuch your mindup... i have fallen for a mali girl and it ain't a pretty thing to do or happen to any human... i have fallen for a non-mali girl and i swear life was a lot sweeter then you could imagine... if mali girls are gonna worry of guyz aiming to get their V i don't think they will ever feel real love... cuz love leads to loss of V... comprende??
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| | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 08:04 am to hibo i feel for you sis not that i have ever been in love but somehow what you wrote pierced my heart..(i have tears in my eyes as i type)it trully saddened me to see you thinking like this..such a believer you were hibo (just judging from your love poems and that nick you had what was it "love addict?"  i'm thinking after reading your comment i'm lucky i am not inlove cos it isnt worth it! i wish i could give you a hugg but like missT said..keep hope alive. i believe sometimes it is the best way to get over hurts.BEST WISHES
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| | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 08:41 pm Sagittariaus.. Thanks.....that is so true,,we do say,"yeah I'm with someone" and then when it ends say,"Oh I was in love"...mainly I think to avoid getting hurt...I wouldn't let friends see that he had the best of me right?? Girl-in-love Girl, I've been in a similar situation...where as soon as I mentioned I wasen't that type, he proposed....I knew he was only after one thing...after all he was a self proclaimed player...he wouldn't get married ten years down the road..hmmmm, why was he then proposing?? But I agree with ya 100%.....Somali guys are not all the same and we shouldn't let one or two bad apples spoil for the rest.. Hibo.. My dear.....I am sorry about your experience....but just know, you are much wiser.. That's life sweety.No pain,no game....I've been through that and feel ya competely... Let me tell you what worked for me; I didnd't tell my friends about it when it ended, so they wouldn't sense my pain, I bought all those male bashing tapes, I got rid of anything that ever reminded me of him...and still had the strength to tell him off when he called..... Through all of that......I have the strength to still believe in love...though it hadn't happened yet....so have some faith sweety and do what I did...maybe it'll ease your pain.. It worked for me
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| | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 08:50 pm Love means Lots Of Vapor Evaporation. Thus Love is a sequence of Heart felt tears to heal the soul from over stressed hormones.I am not too biological am i?
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| | Sunday, March 25, 2001 - 03:52 am Hibo........welcome back sistah..miss ya.....i was very touched by ur definition of love......and i cant say nothin' but i agree with u big time.....and i'm sorry for what ever happend to u...!! Sistah i only know u through this forums...and i know u're a sweet, intellegent girl and any guy who loses the chance to be with u....is a very unlucky.......maybe he was born on the 13th.......so be patient and dont lose hope in somali brothaz.......some% of them r goooooood!! The joy u get from love is un-imaginable......... but the pain is even worse...........i heard it takes a day to love some1.....but a life time to forget them...........and the ones that love u the most can hurt u the most....!! I too realized that bein' honest and showing love to 'most' somali guys wont get u nothing but pain and broken heart.........!! Curios........girl i wish i can follow ur steps easily with no fear or regrets...!! Salaam
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| | Sunday, March 25, 2001 - 04:36 am Sisters common honestly... when you somali girls love it is like half cocked red meat... kinda wet driping with blood... from experience.... yes i cuased as much breaks as i been broken... but i am stronger as a result... i am calmer...more stable... it was a growing expereince... walaahi at times it would have been better to end it all... but i am here and i can laugh about it...you see if you ain't never been in love and hurt you can't tell you know or appretiate true love... i don't trust... that i can't help... i don't aim to get trust... that is not important... i have no agenda...realy...so when a girl starts talks of relationship... straight away i tell her where i stand... i am not interested in cyper... but they always get the wrong idea... Crab aside!!! I don't think i would not believe or expect to hear the mension of love from any somali female period. If i did meet one that shared my direction in life and just happened to be on the same boat on this journey i am bound on, i would consider an arrangement that would suit the both of us to enhance our experiences on the voyage. The love part would occur from the all that we both contribute to ease our need!!! Love the chemical! Love the physical!Love the emotional!Love the Biochemical!Love the ElectroChemical!Love the spritual!Love the sub/consious!Love the friend!Love the Enemy!Love the eternal...they do happen and come and go... so i seek the real ever lasting...."humaness" which i beleive encompasses all that which i will need from a partner in life! I do agree "Love is what you make it"... It is not bought given and shouldn't be fought for i am talking abou the type that the ladies are talking off...Most times when you are recieving it you don't even know about it... girls please...men too got feelings... we just are not allowed in real life to show our hurt... -when we give it and it is ignored -when we tell it and it is scorned -when we share it and it is thrown -when we have it and it is deplored -when we are sure it is the real thing and it is rejected for fear that we have other intentions When it is real, we don't ever think of ourselves, we give and expect nothing in return just to hear the voice of the capturer. I have wasted much emotional energy but i got no regrates! i know exactly what these gilrs lost out on.... and i mean that... looking back they lost... a lot more then i did... that make sme feel better... and i suppose it should make all you females better about yourself for you ahd something real to offer and they blew it away... so it is their losss... *snif* Know i got tears for no reason... best end this aight... much love... dadyahow
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| | Sunday, March 25, 2001 - 04:36 am Sisters common honestly... when you somali girls love it is like half cocked red meat... kinda wet driping with blood... from experience.... yes i cuased as much breaks as i been broken... but i am stronger as a result... i am calmer...more stable... it was a growing expereince... walaahi at times it would have been better to end it all... but i am here and i can laugh about it...you see if you ain't never been in love and hurt you can't tell you know or apretaite true love... i don't trust... that i can't help... i don't aim to get trust... that is not important... i have no agenda...realy...so when a girl starts talks of relationship... straight away i tell her where i stand... i am not interested in cyper... but they always get the wrong idea... Crab aside!!! I don't think i would not believe or expect to hear the mension of love from any somali female period. If i did meet one that shared my direction in life and just happened to be on the same boat on this journey i am bound on, i would consider an arrangement that would suit the both of us to enhance our experiences on the voyage. The love part would occur from the all that we both contribute to ease our need!!! Love the chemical! Love the physical!Love the emotional!Love the Biochemical!Love the ElectroChemical!Love the spritual!Love the sub/consious!Love the friend!Love the Enemy!Love the eternal...they do happen and come and go... so i seek the real ever lasting...."humaness" which i beleive encompasses all that which i will need from a partner in life! I do agree "Love is what you make it"... It is not bought given and shouldn't be fought for i am talking abou the type that the ladies are talking off...Most times when you are recieving it you don't even know about it... girls please...men too got feelings... we just are not allowed in real life to show our hurt... -when we give it and it is ignored -when we tell it and it is scorned -when we share it and it is thrown -when we have it and it is deplored -when we are sure it is the real thing and it is rejected for fear that we have other intentions When it is real, we don't ever think of ourselves, we give and expect nothing in return just to hear the voice of the capturer. I have wasted much emotional energy but i got no regrates! i know exactly what these gilrs lost out on.... and i mean that... looking back they lost... a lot more then i did... that make sme feel better... and i suppose it should make all you females better about yourself for you ahd something real to offer and they blew it away... so it is their losss... *snif* Know i got tears for no reason... best end this aight... much love... dadyahow
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| | Sunday, March 25, 2001 - 11:32 am GUYS GUYS GUYS.. dont be fooled, im here to set the record straight for all of y'all searching for love. See, im convinced we're all being brainwashed. BRAINWASHED i tell yah. No lie. Everywhere u turn, theres some form of love/sex being advertised, in movies, in songs, in shows, even in god-dayum MILK COMMERCIALS. I dunno, but i think its all a conspiracy. Is love really out there? N hey, if y'all know where its hiding, let da whole somali NATION in on da secret cuz hell we need it! P.E.A.C.E
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| | Sunday, March 25, 2001 - 02:02 pm lol@@@Conspiracy theory!
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| | Sunday, March 25, 2001 - 02:19 pm HEY ALL; LOVE TO ME IS TO HAVE SOMEONE YOU CARE FOR DEEPLY AND SHARE THEIR LIFE WITH, NOMATTER THE HARDSHIPS OF LIFE. SOME ONE WHO LOVES U TRUELY AND DEEPLY WILL SHOW U THE RIGHT PATH TO JANNAH NAD TEACH HOW TO WORSHIP ALLAH ALONE. LOVE IS RESPECT, CHERISH, TRUST B/W TWO PPL AND REALLY WHAT U MAKE OUT TO BE. LOVE IN THE PAST IS ONLY A MEMMORY, LOVE IN THE FUTURE IS MERELY AFANTASY, ONLY HERE AND NOW CAN WE TRUELY LOVE. WISHING Y'ALL LOVE AND PEACE.
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 03:43 pm love is when his the last thing and the first thing on your minde. constantly appearing in almost every thought you have. love is when he makes U sad, smile, fearfull and hopefull all at once. loves is when ur heart misses a beat when ever u set Ur eyes on him. love is when u hate him so much but U still think his cute. love is when every other guy, just doesn't seem right..love is when can't see Ur future with out him. love is when Ur heart just doesn't listen 2 U. when U fight the feeling but it keeps creeping back at ya"  love is crazy...love don't make no sense! why am I talking about love, i guess it excuses my silliness Peace, love and happiness
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 08:06 pm Oh I got something to educate y'all bout on the fragile issue of LOVE...see, if youre tryna determine whether yo man loves u or not..you'll know if he gives u the last piece of his food. U know how men are with they food..so that'll tell u alot about him. U know U can get a man thru this stomach RITE! They werent lying y'all.. I STILL THINK ITS A CONSPIRACY (this info straight outta "The Brothers"...jus tryna help y'all out tho)! One
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 10:26 pm True love is in the tears...ladies... this is a fact... when a grown man cries for no reason he is gotto be a great actor or he has been robbed of his heart! Honestly i would not tell a woman about the real thing "love"... i would use the word in a different context... to probably express other things like... my physical attraction or need for her...For a nation that has been pre-conditioned to suspect their male's emotions, only a fool would express his emotional convergence on one female to her... Stupidity is rewared with a lot of pain...  been warned...simple rule... If she is -white tell her right... -black best bluff your way to safety...
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| | Wednesday, March 28, 2001 - 02:34 pm Sweet sis and Amina Thanks for sharing that girls, Love is a feeling and fragile I guess... Honesita girl...follow that plan,We need to be strong without showing any tears...specially when we are mistreated,Right? Conspiracy. Loooooooooool.I am cracking up.... hey, You might be right, it could all be a conspiracy.. Modey You are confusing me bro. One minute you are talking about how nice you would treat a lady, the next minute you are talking about her being a sex object....Damn boy, make up your mind.....woman all want to be treated the same black,white,brown, yellow, or green...They all want an honest man...Not someone who would waste their time with lies when they could've been looking for the right one... PEACE
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| | Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 10:21 am The definition of love has so many unique and different meanings, the love I have for my family differs to the love I have for my favourite CD at the moment it is (musiq soul child, I just want to sing, just so I inform u). Love is a contradiction; it can bring you happiness, pain, pleasure, and insanity. I believe that u truly have not felt real love until u feel heartache and pain, that is when we realise why love is so unique. Personally I know when I am in love if am continually smiling, crying, singing, hurting, and happy. Love is when you feel complete satisfaction emotionally, mentally and you can even say physically, love is when you have reached your goal in life, and end the search for happiness. You need to feel all the true emotions that surround love and its power to be truly happy. One of my favourite songs about love is Musiq Soulchild and the song is called “LOVE”, and Jill Scott does a wonderful song called “He Loves Me”. Personally those two songs define the meaning of love so beautifully and differently.
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| | Friday, March 30, 2001 - 01:34 pm RESPECT, TRUST AND HONESTY
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| | Friday, March 30, 2001 - 05:27 pm LOVE is a harmless... somehow a soothing form of a mental disorder.....And it is effect is best described by AMINA....and best Explained by SAGGITARIUS.
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| | Sunday, April 01, 2001 - 07:02 pm hmmm live is great when you have an unstable mind... hahahahahaha It is my duty to remain unclear and without a specific opinion... hey hey heeeeeeeeeeeyyyyyyyyy it is my damn right to be Bi-opinionated!
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| | Sunday, April 01, 2001 - 08:40 pm Thnx folks...walaahi I don't know what to say... Sagi: Thnx bro....but trust me....I am not blaming all men ....for..my dad..happens to be one...a true gentleman...My experiences r just my guiding light......through the darkened roads of life.....n love. Does it even exist I begin to wonder???....As u said...I will make it a success,....n concentrate more on my future than someone else's.... T-Girl....Oh girl... I missed walaahi... I see u changed ur nick....nick crisis aa ku heysta...he...lol... but yeah sis.. men r not worthy of us....though all of them ain't the same. Honestia: Hey habo...I missed u too...I am busy these days... but I will dropping by sometimes... I might come to Ohio...it will be great to meet with ya...why don't u give me ur email... or here is mine...drop me a line would ya.??....Bellisema@myself.com Curious: Love is a simple poker game sis... only those that have.... mastered the tricks...last... I am no player.... so I call the "QUITS".... Suuubaneey: That was a long time sis....love addict... I once called myself....for I strongly believe in every sense of the word...but not any more... Wishing those that r still in the game......BEST OF LUCK....I am gone with the winds....Apparently my kind of love is too much....for somali guys....to tolerate...n...gaal r no options...so I am screwed..BIG TIME!!
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| | Sunday, April 01, 2001 - 09:22 pm LOVE MEAN: 1-MIGRAINES 2-LITTLE RUG-RATS 3-LIVING WITH A PERSON U CAN'T STAND FOR 30 YEARS 4-DECEPTION 5-LIES 6-JEALOUSY 7-EXTREME PAIN 8-ETERNAL SADNESS 9-WEIGHT GAINING/HAIR LOST 10-TOTAL= LIFE IN PRISON
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| | Sunday, April 01, 2001 - 11:40 pm Love is unique and every one's love experience is different , but most of us make the mistake of loving the wrong one. but something i learned is that u can't love anyone there are some pple who can be loved and deserve to be loved. I believe falling for the wrong one will make u strong and realise more whom to love. Those of you like to know more about love there is good book called science of love.
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| | Monday, April 02, 2001 - 02:25 am YOU ARE ALL CLINICALLY INSANE.LOL! KEEP UP WITH THE DREAM.
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| | Monday, April 02, 2001 - 04:54 am Curious walaalo the right one is always there real close to somali girls... they just never notice us! curious do you judge me on my words i use on this forums? If you realy knew anything about me you would realy be in love with me! no lies, well most likely, who knows you could be the 5% who are not realy looking for MrPerfect... I like those that can stand me, under every mood! you run the moment i lie a little or tease for fun huh? I repect people who have real endurance in every aspect of their lives, including relationships! Do you have and enduring personality???
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| | Wednesday, April 04, 2001 - 03:31 am Hey Ayan arnt u the lesbain on one of ur previous letters,coz i cant work u out,what r u into?
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| | Wednesday, April 04, 2001 - 10:04 am I think love is overrated, and it dies after mariage and three kids anyway........ from experince..........you can prove me wrong.........
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| | Wednesday, April 04, 2001 - 11:19 am Modey: u intrigue me bro, and that's something i don't often get from my brothers. Hmmm, ur an interesting person, or is this just ur internet personality....guess i'll never know! Anyhow, I understand what u meant by endurance. I like a man who can hang in there you know? Like if i tease about something, he'll think i'm mad and he'll run away. If i act or talk funny or sarcastic things he'll think i'm wierd. TO ALL: I don't know....i think i'm one of those lost 1's where love is concerned. Could u help me because i don't want to be lost forever?
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| | Wednesday, April 04, 2001 - 02:59 pm Hibo I can't believe you given up on loveloool Love to me means Convenience -:The right time and place becomes thy quest,trust,fond,devotion,sacrifice,extending and complete regard.Thats how Love means to me!loool
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| | Thursday, April 05, 2001 - 12:55 am I agree with you Basra... hell that is a first...don't leave out the Endurance part!!! Hmmm SWEET~PRINCESS this is me or shall i say a part of me!!! but carefull unless you have seen me around before...and met my other moods!!! Endurance is everything... i don't care about anything else... Appearance is relative... one can be cute/pretty around one set of people and ugly around another group of people!! Communication is a must!!! Attitude can help to bridge all the gaps... In short give me realistic female and keep the love for the jokers...I think any female that is going to cry about every little thing best stay away from me...as long as a guy don't cheat or hit a woman... they got no reason to complain about... other little male mis-behaviour... boys are always boys... SUGAR AAAAAAAAHHHHH HONEY HONEY YOU ARE MY CANDY GIIIIIIIRL AND YOU GOT ME WANTING YOUUUUUUUU HONEY AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHH SUGAR SUGAR AND YOU GOT ME WANTING YOUUUUUUUUU Sugar Sugar - The Archies....... ANY 60'S FANS???
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| | Thursday, April 05, 2001 - 02:59 pm Basra: That was my LOST THOUGHT of the devil....itself....but now...its nothing but a LAME EXCUSE....to get what we want in life...so sis.. I leave it for u to figure......its good...to know it from..personal....experience.... n YES indeed... I have given up... I lost my hand in the game....Good luck to u ....sis..
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| | Friday, April 06, 2001 - 12:16 am Sitting at home another lonely night wish you were here so i could hold you tight pain in my heart cos i'm a lone........... So what does love mean to me ..........well love means when i will sacrife my life for them when i want to spend my whole life with them and when i ...............................
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| | Friday, April 06, 2001 - 12:33 am Hibo you used to sound so intelligent, why are you falling apart all of a sudden walaalo? Sometimes you can't force puzzle pieces together. I wonder if a white person asks what the meaning of love is from a somali perspective? Cos we somalis seem to consider everyone else's perspective of what love is! Somali love has grown out of need and purpose not emotional hocus bocus... Man needs a woman for.... ray..ray...ray Woman needs him for...so...so...n...so Love=needs??? Love is not the problem, cuase if it don't exist it could always grow! the question is then of needs? I tell you what happens to you when you fall in love...god forbide... You will have a constant submergence in thoughts of wonderfull moments with your other. The world stops to allow you to reach a conclusion to every day dream you get! I like the part where your stomach feel warm soo warm you could swear there is a fire in your gut! your sweat gland switch to produce an unfriendly odour all of a sudden! you forget to go for your lunch break! sometimes people can stand over your desk asking to lunch but you don't hear them! then you jump to pretend all is well. You smile a little and hate em inside cos they dragged you away from your dream! night becomes as bright as day-light! you could swear the stars are out just to greet you. Trafic lights turn in time just so you could pass without stopping. Time is not enough to achieve a single task yet every moment away from them is like a life time... you spend much time taking long enhales of air and holding your breath till you see me again. You feel no pain and you find joy in every thing you do. All of a sudden you help everyone that comes your way..from family to faw... the world is your paradise... hmmmmmmmm Smiles come without permission and tears follow, your life becomes like the weather we British are used to!I hate the part where your heart feel under so much stress, it feels like it is going to burst... when you can't help yourself stop the bloody thoughts so you could get a few minutes shut-eye.... ahhhhhhhh *sigh*.....You could easioly run from them at times just to avoid dealing with the pain..... only to remember what you would miss...sweaty palms and nervous laughter... utter stupidy in conversation with em... even when you got a degree in psychology... nothing helps you from making an a55 of yourself infront of them.......Sometimes it all comes crushing down like hell on earth!!! Just for you this one time... I figured it out I was high and low and everything in between I was wicked and wild, baby, you know what I mean Till there was you, yeah, you Something went wrong I made a deal with the DEVIL for an empty I.O.U. Been to hell and back, but an angel was looking through It was you, yeah, you It's all because of you You are the reason You are the reason I wake up every day And sleep through the night You are the reason, the reason In the middle of the night I'm going down 'cause I adore you I want to floor you I'm giving it up No more running around spinning my wheel You came out of my dream and made it real I know what I feel It's you It's all because of you You are the reason You are the reason I wake up every day And sleep through the night You are the reason, the reason In the middle of the night I'm going down 'cause I want you I want to touch you I want to floor you You are the reason, baby You are the reason You are the reason I wake up every day And sleep through the night You are the reason, the reason Dedicated to a sister Hibo... The Reason - Celine Dion ****** Been there so many times Hibo... always getup and get ready for the next round of this fight sister... ru going to admit that i am tougher then you??? Comprende?
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| | Friday, April 06, 2001 - 01:32 am Hi all , To hIBO......Macaaney i was once in your situation but i never once lost hope, so please dont lose hope ..for i believe there is someone out there waiting for you to come along, someone who includes you in their prayers. I have seen all ur comments (all most all)and your poems and you seem like everymans dream , so keep you head up and hope for the best. I never believed in somalia man but i never lost hope .i know i deserve the best and ill shall get it .Inshallah...but i aint giving up not yet. What do you do when you sometimes fall down or something ......you get up right .....so now think of falling and getting up again,,,Hope you get drift. We all need and deserve love whether we are rich or poor , ugly or pretty , fat or skinny. I hope you find your Prince charming. ( Here is something 4 u remember; No mountain to high for you to climb All you have to do, is have some kind in faith No river is too wide to make it across All you have to do, is believe when you pray And then you will see the morning will come, in everyday will be bright as the sun Hold on to your fears, cast them on me I just want you to see I'll be your cloud up in the sky I'll be your shoulder when you cry I hear your voices when you call me I am your Angel, and all hope gone I'm here No matter how far you are, I'm near It makes no different who you are I am your Angel, I am your Angel I saw your tear drops and I heard you cry All you need is time, seek me and you shall find You have everything and your still lonely It don't have to be this way Let me show you a better day Then you will see, the morning will come And all of your day will be bright as the sun So all of your fears just cast them on me How can I make you see And when it's time to faced the storm I'll be right by your side Grace will keep us safe and warm I know we'll survive And when it seems as if your end this growing year Don't you dear give up the fight Just put trust on the sky
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| | Friday, April 06, 2001 - 02:21 pm L=Loosers O=Old V=Vission E=Empty Love is nothing but .. Empty vissions Of Old Lossers
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| | Saturday, April 07, 2001 - 11:32 am Salaam ppl Hibo...I am sorry to hear about your experience of love, and as someone already said, it's their lose... however sis, you shouldn't hide away from love just because of one/first experience...it's true that first experiences stick with you and you are unlikely to forget...for example my mum married my father, they were in love, however a couple of years later they divorced...she then remarried to the most amazing man in the world...and they have been married for nearly 12yrs now...and I swear I've never seen ppl more in love then them...lol they even hold hands when they walk done the street (something I've never seen from another somali couple). You see, my mum did love my father...but her true love was my step dad...I believe that you can love someone or be in love with someone, the later being the true love...It's kinda hard to explain....but to me, you can love lots of ppl whether it be your wife/husband etc or you're in love with someone....that someone being your soul mate...and I believe that you are yet to find your soul mate... ps I hope you can understand what I'm trying to say...
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| | Saturday, April 07, 2001 - 04:46 pm This is a good topic but I have to say something about somthing that was very troubling. If they gave out awards for"the most stupidist,non english speaking and/or wrtitng retards" it would without a doubt go to Mr./Ms. Anonymous who made a stupid comment about what love means this is what he/she or both said-"L-Loosers(I think its safe to say he/she means Loser) O-Old V-Vission(does he/she mean Vision?? who knows)E-Empty" I did not know what to say about this -at this point I just sat there and shook my head and wondered if this person has ever heard of the word "SCHOOL" but thats none on my business. So the lesson today(do u have your notebooks handy?) is before you try "Enlighten" us with your wise words about "what love really means to you" Go to school and learn to use your spell check people. Its really not that HARD you just look for the button that says"Spell check" and you click what is called the Mouse(no its not a real mouse its the...well you all know what I'm talking about-I hope) and Oh my god everything is A ok and ready to be sent-spelling correct and everything-technology these days. That is all. This Lesson was dedicated to the winner of the"stupidest dumbest award...None else but Mr/Ms Anonymous PS learn to become bestfriends with your mouse and your "spell check" button and that will do you wonders! PPS-oh and at the end he/she has the nerve to say this-"Love is nothing but .. Empty vissions Of Old Lossers" which in translation means STAY IN SCHOOL(and use your spell checker)!!! Just lookin out for my somalian brothers and sisters Peace
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| | Sunday, April 08, 2001 - 05:08 pm L - Lust O - Orgasm V - Verbal E - Emotional
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| | Sunday, April 08, 2001 - 05:42 pm What does love mean? That is an interting question to ponder....Love is not emotion nor is it a feeling....Love is RESPECT. Loving someone is treating each other with care and respect.
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| | Sunday, April 08, 2001 - 06:53 pm True love is unconditional, without boundaries nor restrictions. If you love someone today, you love them forever. Not today, not for two years, or however long the relationship will last, but forever. Lastly, you love them even when they are at their lowest.
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| | Monday, April 09, 2001 - 11:09 am True love does not exist.....
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| | Monday, April 09, 2001 - 01:34 pm Just give me 1 day and i'll it to you! it is 10inches long and smooth in your mouth, slightly painfull first time and then it is joy for ever.
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| | Monday, April 09, 2001 - 04:21 pm Assalamu Aliakum, I believe most of you have said it all. However, the ultimate love is the one towards the almighty. Furthermore, one who does not love oneself cannot love another. Ladies, if you want to know if the man you love is capable of returning it, find out how he treats his mother and his creator! Wassalam Wabilaahi Towfiiq
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| | Monday, April 09, 2001 - 05:01 pm To me love, in western mythology is an idea of self delusion fueled by idle talk and perverted cinematics. True love to me is simple and comes with time and a lot of hard work. The love between a man and a woman, is sacred, an act allowed only in marriage.
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| | Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 12:46 pm Wow....u know...its amazing... how things can take a turn... Not along...ago... I was advicing folks...who lost Hope...not to loose it.. Now its my turn...I guess..I am utterly owe great gratitude to the ppl....mainly My D.O.E, Hani & Muslimah... Walaahi..u don't know...how much u have lifted my spirits. To be honest... I don't believe in love I used to...but not any more...but I know...somewhere someone is waiting for me... There is this friend of mine...from UNiv. ...she always says...the universe was one big round ball... we were complete humans. But with the satan's help....we angered God... who in turn....split the world...into perfect halves. So somewhere in this world...lives our other perfect half...till we meet then...no relationship..will work..U know...for ur sake's I will give love another chance...n see what develops...but for now.. I am gonna be on my own..till I figure out what is it that I want. No more...games...for me.. I do..truely appreciate ur...encouragements...U don't know....what u have just done... I owe u all.. My heart goes out to all of u... I love those songs too....
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| | Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 12:07 am Sis Hibo I sense that u beleive that there is 1 person for every1 .. i utterly disagree with u if you wait he/she will never come but you have to seek. that is bull that there is 1 per 4 every 1 and love exists and u can't deny and it is the most powerful emotion man/woman can feel. i loved once and i know how it feels but i don't know how it feels to be loved cos i never been loved completely.
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| | Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 07:40 pm Looking at the way we first met I cannot escape and I cannot reject Baby UR the one U still turn me on U can give me Love again.
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 06:10 am What love mean to me? Well love have different meaning to every one, but i will tell you mine. To me love is finding that person you want share the rest of your life for sick and healt for poor or riched, that person that you want hold her hand, and you dont want let her go cause she mean every thing to you. when you had bad day at work and you get home thing will be differend cause your baeutuful wife will be there with beautiful smile on her face and that smil will change every thing it will make you smile, it will make you forget every thing, that moment the worl is profect cause she made it so. love is sharing every thing, doing the house work, such as cleaning, cooking, love is communication, taken your wife out to the park taken her places she never been before telling her how much she ment to you. well those of you thinking wuz up with this guy and wife, well i'm not married but that is what our Diin sayed love is marrich peach out
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| | Friday, April 13, 2001 - 01:51 am LOVE THE MOST AMAZING AND ANGUISHING FEELING IN THE WHOLE WORLD. WHEN U R IN LOVE AND UR LOVE IS RETURNED IT IS THE BEST FEELING IN THE WORLD SO SWEET IT CAN TAKE TO HEAVEN BUT WHEN UR LOVED IS NOT RETURNED TAKES STRAIGHT TO HELL IN A HAND BASKET. BUT GUESS WHAT IF WE WERE NEVER HEART BROKEN WE WOULD NEVER APPRECIATE "REAL LOVE" WHEN WE FINALLY FIND IT TOO. ALL I CAN SAY IAM IDEALISTIC AND A REALIST AT THE SAME TIME. IAM AN IDEALIST BECAUSE I CAN'T HELP BUT BELIEVE IN LOVE AND SOUL MATES AND ALL THAT HAPPINESS BUT IAM A REALIST BECAUSE I HAVE SEEN LOVE FAIL SO MANY TIMES AND TURN SO HURTFULL AND CRUEL. AM I STUPID TO BELEIVE THAT THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE THAT GOOD MADE FOR ME AND I FOR HIM, IAM NOT SURE BUT I HOPE HE EXISTS. I WOULD LOVE TO FIND ONE DAY MY SOULMATE, BUT IF HE DOESN'T CAME ....WELL. ANYWAY ALL AM SAYING IS DON'T LOSE HOPE, WHO KNOWS WHAT WILL HAPPEN. TO SISTER HIBO WHO KNOWS MAYBE UR PRINCE CHARMING IS OUT THERE LOOKING FOR U, LOL. AND TO ALL THE CYNICS OUT THERE IT IS UR LOSE IF U BELIEVE THAT LOVE IS CRAP AND THERE IS ONLY LUST AND PHYSICAL LOVE. LOVE COMES IN ALL KINDS OF WAYS; THE LOVE U FEEL FOR A PARENT IS PRECIOUS AND IF I CAN FEEL THAT WAY WHAT IS STOPING ME FROM BEING ABLE TO LOVE A MAN ANY LESS BUT DIFFERENTLY AND COMPLETLY. I BELIEVE ALL IS POSSIBLE. LOVE BESBASO
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| | Friday, April 13, 2001 - 05:39 am At it's most extreme!!! When two people fall inlove and achieve a synchronous heart beat and are able to complete each others sentences. It is possible i assume that these two half can become so interdependent and inter absorbed that the world around them can cease to exist in their eyes. It is my assumption that they could neglect all duties and worldly goals to find satisfaction in one other. To the point that they are one and they would disown all and every other member of their own families. They would abandon all they have to be with each other and to ensure they don't loose it. They would not Know sin or taboo between eachother, there would be no limits and that means they would abondon all believe in deen as well. They would kill for each other to maintain what they have together, lie, cheat for eachother and most likely have to run away together to start afresh away from family and freinds who would otherwise compete for the time they don't want to share with anyone else. Their stomach would synchornise eventualy since they would eat the same, they would start dressing the same and smell the same they are one. They have not time for anyone but each other. Awake together and sleep together, share the same moods and start having the same facial expressions sooner or later! They would in essence be their own little new race. They say that there is a telipathical link between the halfs that make a whole from birth a nought is tide between them and it exists until death. Most people who keep on divorcing just have not found thier other half, because you are already in a relationship with someone in essence and it is your marriege that is a cheat against them...*deep* Since there is a telipathical link between me and my other half... i hope she can hear me!!! I am too weak to wait around for you honey and to lazy to look for you, so forgive me for i have settled for that which was available to me at this moment... i hope you too will do the same and live your life to the fullist and stop waiting cuase faith is playing a hide&seek game on us both. Don't be bitter, or feel cheated be practical like me, we all have needs and my needs are more physical and need quenching for like a flame they scorch my insides to a crisp! Release yourself from this bondage that was not ours by making and feel alive from this day forward, your needs should also be met and your flames extinguished by a suitable suiter, who is willing to compromise with you and appretiate your gifts to the fullest. Forgive me and regret not for in her eyes i see you and in her voice i hear you, she is you because i modelled her on your unseen image, unheard voice and unfelt emotions... we are one no more... reality cheats us and time steals our youth so be free my other half and feel free to bond with the closest there is to me like i am willing to do... Gosh i have never spoken to a gost before!!! That was the most extremest view you could have of love... i could have made it a bit more graphicaly disellusioning... ok i'll make it a bit more... out of this world... Love at it's deadliest extremes...... be prepared now i warn you.... To love some at the most extremest setting and assuming you have found your other half... imagine they are dearer to you then your own dear life!!! imaging you life and their life is nothing if not one and everything that stops you both merging into one other is your bodies... your bodies become an obsticle to your need to merge into one being... image that you 2halfs are in desperate need to merge and feel you are one and the same... how could you achieve this oneness????? Image one could consume the other totaly and then there is only one body!!! Sick.....  Well this is not commen but many have done what would not make sence to any of you at all... they commit suicide together and assume that in spirit they can merge into one and be whole... I think i will run now i have entered a no go area for somalis... i don't think any of you are menatly developed enough to have any understanding beyond this point.... and i really mean it... ahhhhhh you say what is developed about canabilism? That was not the issue... the issue was of the unificatin of two souls... merging of two spirits... so don't go cussing me for expanding your mental envolope of the subject of "Love" ORITE? Peace and please don't eat your lover... well at least don't bite or chew ok!!! I know some of you are easily impressionable so please don't do anything silly after this lecture any different then you always do... Enough said good nite!
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| | Friday, April 13, 2001 - 06:41 am OH GOD....OH MY GOD.... I'M CRYING, TEARS R POURING FROM MY EYES. I HOPE U BELIEVE WHAT U R SAYING BECAUSE U HAVE JUST MADE MY BELIEVE MORE DETERMINED NOT GET MARRIED UNTIL I'M SURE I HAVE FOUND MY OTHER HALF. FOR WHAT IS LIFE WITHOUT LIVE BUT AN EMPTY SHELL OF EXISTANCE WITHOUT JOY AND LAUGHTER. IF U R LEING U DESERVE TO BE WHIPPED. DOESN'T MATTER TO ME BECAUSE WHAT U WROTE IS BEAUTIFULL AND INSPIRED. IS IT MY UNDERSTANDING THAT U R MARRIED BECAUSE U SOUNDED SAD AND REGRETFULL, I HOPE UR PLIGHT IS LIFTED AND GOD HEARS UR PRAYER AND SENDS UR OTHER HALF TO U BECAUSE U HAVE A BEAUTIFUL SOUL AND U DESERVE THE UTMOST HAPPINESS. STILL CRYING BESBASO
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| | Friday, April 13, 2001 - 01:10 pm Are you saying that you are down with the breakup of this dudes family? What are you nuts? whatif it happens to you? Yo don't take advice from no virgin, what she know any she is totaly innocent and inexperienced.
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