     MR.stoner | Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 12:28 pm
HI ALL,
i've been smoking weed for good 13years now...
and i'm proud of it by the way.....
i'm 28years old and i came a cross this sweet
lady that i love and cared for.
we have been togather for good 3 1/2 years
and we are planing on getting married in
september 22.2001.....but there is a big problem
when we met 3 1/2 years ago she knew from day one
that i smoke marijiuana..she didn't mind me smoking at first..but since the begining of this year and since our wedding day was set....
she all of the sudden aginst smoking and she
doen't like it any more seen me high and happy
what buggs me the most is i never missed day
at work(without an excuse)i never disrespected her
in anyway or shape..i don't have any other
bad habits(such as drinking,or chewing jaad.or smoking cigerites).now she wants me to quit smoking period no negotioning or comprmising
she even went as far as saying if i don't quit
by our weeding day she will leave..my answer
was LEAVE NOW...
we haven't talked in a month ...now
i'm going crazy to find out that she walked out just becuase i smoke a joint or two a day after
work..is that too much to ask????????
she always tells me that i'm the perfect somali
man when it comes how to treat a woman
anyway,i don't want you ppl to say if you love her, go after her and drop that joint!!!!!
but in the same token..why she can't put her
little power trip a side and come back...
i know for sure all of the females going to be
in her side..but i'm hoping you ppl would understand...
by the way:IS WEED HARAM OR HALAL?????
and please don't answer this question unless
you know for sure(100%)
p.s/ if you planing to answer me
please be respectful and NO FOUL LANGUAGE IS WANTED HERE..thank you in advance..one love |
| spike | Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 12:48 pm
it is very hard not use a foul language at u.
do't u know the difference between girl friend and wife. now u r going to biuld a family not friendship, kids are coming to picture. so she is write bro, u have to grow up and leave the joint behind, just because you handle your weed smoking
now, does not mean you will tomorrow. brother
you play when you are single, when you get married
you leave the sh*t behind, because in the middle of the night you might have to get up fix a bottle for the little one or take the baby to emergency or fix a dipper, if u r hight, u aught gona tell between the joint and milk.
brother anything that makes you impaired is harraam |
| mohmed B | Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 03:04 pm
MY ADVICE TO YOU IS:
i think she found out the wedding date and she
knows it's for real now...so she want to
change completly and make a diffrent person
than you are...i think she want to take over
the power of the family from the man to the woman
and i hate to tell you this ,,,but if she knew
from the begining what she was getting involve
with..why she didn't back out then?????????
my advice is if you don't want to quit smoking
pot...and she doesn't want to come back to you
let her go...there are many more fish in the ocean
but don't let her walk all over you at this
early stage of your lifes.....good luck bro
p.s/i don't know if it halal or haram???
ask a shike in your mosqe... |
| memories | Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 03:35 pm
Mr. Stoner, if she new the deal from the begining, she shouldn't change the tune now just because the wedding date is set.
Personally I hate weed/alcohol and khat. I tell this upfront to men we talk and let me tell you my decision has been tough! tough! Couple of years ago I met my soul mate. He was into alchol and the occassional weed. I told him that is not going to work. He promised to quit. He didn't keep his promise. I left. It was one of the toughst decision of my life, but there are certain things which in my book are not negotiable.
Your lady friend is under the impression that she can change you. However, the only person who can change you is you, if you want to change your smoking habits that is. After 3 1/2 hears, it is kinda hypocritical of her to get moral on you.
Good luck. |
| SULIMAN | Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 03:37 pm
LET HER GO
I SMELL A CONTROLING WOMAN ON THE HRIZON
RUN BROTHER RUN...IF SHE GET YOU WHAT NEXT
DON'T PLAY SCOORE
DON'T WEAR SHORTS OR HATS..
HAND WASH HER THONGS AND G-STRINGS
LET HER GO FIND ANOTHER VICTOM..
AND IF YOU CAN'T GET OVER HER...THEN
THROW THAT JOINT OUT THE WINDOW
AND LISTEN TO YOUR BABY..AND GOOD LUCK |
| stoner | Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 06:51 pm
memories,
than you sister
i'm glad you understan, but i know my self and i
know that i'm not going to quite, so why lie now
and have problmes later.
i'm just hounes about what i do and what i like
and after all these years,,,,,,she just decided
NOW....give me a brak
suliman,mohamed b,spike
thank you all for sharing your views and opinons |
| SAMIA_89 | Friday, March 30, 2001 - 03:22 am
MR STONER,
SMOKING WEED WHILE YOU ARE A TEENAGER IS PROBABLY A COMMON THING TO DO BECAUSE LATER IN YOUR LIFE YOUR GONNA HAVE TO QUIT. LOOKS LIKE TO ME YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH. YOUR FIANCE WAS STUPID TO LET YOU IN HER LIFE WHEN SHE KNEW YOU SMOKED WEED,THAT IS ONE THING THAT IS TRUE. BUT NOW, BEING THE SMART PERSON SHE'S TRYING TO BE, SHE REALIZES THAT IT IS WRONG. "STONER", YOUR NOT ONLY HURTING YOURSELF BUT YOU ARE HURTING YOUR FIANCE AND JUST IMAGINE IF YOU HAD KIDS! YOUR GONNA HURT THEM AND TEACH THEM SOMETHING DISGUSTING. WHEN PEOPLE GET MARRIED THERE ARE THINGS YOU HAVE TO QUIT IN ORDER TO MAKE THE MARRIAGE WORK. IF SMOKING WEED IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE "ONE" YOU SAY YOU "LOVE", MAYBE YOU AND YOUR MARIJUANA SHALL HAVE A WEDDING FOR YOURSELFS AND LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER. YOU DECIDE, BECAUSE THE CHOICE IS UP TO YOU. YOU SAID YOUR NOT GOING TO QUIT, LOOKS LIKE TO ME YOU ALREADY CHOOSE YOUR FUTURE PARTNER.
TILL NEXT TIME TAKE CARE. |
