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My Boss has a Crash on me!!!

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Confused

Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 01:46 pm
Dear brothers and sistrz;

I am in bad situation and I am really clueless on what to do. I am 27 years Somali, Alxamdulilaah...I recently graduated from a university and started my first prefessional job as a computer Technical Support. I like it and I feel I am learning a lot. But this is the bad thing about this job. My boss/supervisor has a crash on me. She is this old white lady who, let me guess, is around her late 50s. I have been tryin to ignore her but it is getting hard by the day. She gives me all kinds of signs but I pretend that I haven't noticed anything. I really like my job and I don't wanna leave it but, this is making me feel uncomfortable. She even envited me to her house one time. Man, it is really hard. She would ask me things like how is her new hair cut, her dress, her new skirt...Other than that wild crash, she seems to be a fine person. The person before me who is a girl told me she is the best person to work with and I have to be fortunate to work with her. But what am I supposed to do about this crash thing? Nobody in the company knows about it. I told her all kinds of things in order to divert her attention, like we, Muslims, aint supposed to have sex unless we get married, that we don't drink alcohol and that we should be honest and straight forward. But she is still coming at me. Any suggestion people??

Confused

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Anonymous

Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 02:29 pm
Go to your HR department and report her for sexual harassment.

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1/2 and 1/2

Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 03:07 pm
shag that lady...and become a supervisor youself

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diasporagal

Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 03:18 pm
lol@@@1/2&1/2.
Man, tell her you have a fiance. Have one of your girl relatives call you at work often. Ask one to stop by the office intorduce her the boss. Tell her how committed you are. If all this fails to stop her advances. Do the 'James Bond a la Linda Tripp thing'... tape record her and report to human resources office. If you don't want to go thru this kind of hassle. Just look for another job.

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Nubian boy

Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 06:14 pm
TO 1/2 AND 1/2 YOU ARE STILL A BABY, GROW UP.


TO DIAPORAGAL WELL DONE SIS 100% AGREE.

TO CONFUSSED THANX BRO TO LETTING US KNOW YOUR PROBLEMS AND ISHAA ALLAH IT WILL END WITHOUT COMMITING A ZINA. DON'T DO IT. DANBI IYO ILAAHEY CARADIISA HA KASBAN INTAAD QOF BINI AADAM AH RAALLI GELINEYSO. SOMETHING LIKE THAT HAPPENED TO ME BEFORE, BUT I WAS NOT STRONG LIKE U AND I RUN AWAY THE VERY FIST DAY.
BRO IF DONT LIVE IN USA LEAVE YOUR E-MAIL I WILL SEND YOU A VERY SOPHISTICATED VERY SMALL DEVICE THAT U PUT IN THE RECIEVER MOUTH PIECE THAT TAPES EVERY THING. DON'T DO IT. SHEYDAAN YUU KAA XOOG BADININ.


NUBIAN BOY

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Alipapa

Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 07:43 pm
i see nothing but a sexually frustrated motherfuckeer wadaad who got the best situation that any person can be but just running from his shadow.
Look dude assuming what you are telling us and what the other lady told you about your boss are both true, you don't need to do anything other than being happy and doing your work. Why do any 50 years old professional woman are having crash on a poor-rookie-network administrator from the third-wrold?.

So,you are trying to tell us just because she asked your opinion on her new hair cut, her new skirt and her dress, she has some kind of crash on you?????. what a sexually frustrated jerk !!. What else do people talk about in the work places other than commenting their new clothes, hair cut, new relationship, what they did last weekend and other blah blah..? .

Telll you what dude, that is perfect and very normal conversation that workmates can converse today. co-workers to go pubs, barbaques, golving games, casinos and guess what idiot? that is what is called "fitting the organization's culture". today's trend is team-work oriented trend. Whatever you told us can't be understood that your boss has crush on you.

My best advise to you idiot, try how to play the damn game. Never mention religion stuff in the conversation. go to pub but drink soda. Go to barbaque but say i am not included the beer. go to her house happily, handle your frustrated dick and don't drink the champagne. this is the rule idiot. " if you don't drink, this woman will not even try to make move on you even if she wants to, so don't drink". I am afraid that you are going to rape since you are frustrated sexually wadaad. be civilized, pretend you know the rules and just hang on there. it is only your stupid head playing silly sex tricks on you. the lady is just being kind to you. And rent a hooker. will you?

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Sagittarius

Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 07:57 pm
lol @ Alipapa

That was hilarious!

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CRASH

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 04:37 am
SHE HAS A CRASH!!!!!!!!!!!!
DAMN BETTER MOVE OUT OF THE WAY BEFORE
SHE RUNS YO ASS OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OHH LOL U MEAN CRUSH LOL IDIOT!!!!!

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Confused

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 05:36 am
To:Anoynmous, 1/2 and 1/2, diaporagal and last not least to the Nubian brother, thanks for your positive comments and suggestions. I really appreciated. The 1/2 and 1/2 brother, brother aint gonna shag a women who is da same age as my mom. May be if I turn to a weed head like my nigga AliPapa I would do something like dat.

To: AliPaPa, brother I thought I shared some private matters with yo so that u can offer a piece of advice to a brother. I bet I am more open-minded than you. I get along with my workmates cuz this is the century of colaboration not competition in the work environment. I have been here for about 5 months and I have already made plenty of friends in the company. And guess what, aint Wadaad...I respect my religion and culture, but I am hardcore nigga to the bone. Ya, this is more than a passionate supervisor. This is woman who one day gave a day-off to all the other employees except me so that me and her would be alone at work. I respect the woman and I told you that in my earlier entry but what she is doing is more than being nice to a rookie from the third world. Brother Ali, I didn't know that your self-steem is that low. What made u think that a Western woman can't have a crash on rookie from the third world. I remember my first day her, all the African-American sisters were all over me, telling me how nice I look and how they are happy to have here. Ya, I think u need more self-confidence building lessons. I am not here to call names and stuff, but brother, a fake azz nigga like yourself prevents descent and hardworking brothers and sisters from exchanging their views and ideas in a civilized way. Before you call names, u gotta to take sometime and see what's going on.

I gotta to mention my sister diasporagal again cuz she actually mentioned something that I was about to do. But instead of havin' one of my girl relatives pretend to be my girl, I have a real one, who is ready to fight for her man. I am planning to bring her over and introduce her to my boss. May be things will take another path.

Anywayz all those descent and smarts Somali peepz, much luv to ya.

Confused

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Alipapa

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 12:05 pm
confused,

The problem with you is you are just another hyper somali dude. Why are you reading my tone and the name calling part of my posting?.why don't you read the part of the damn content and the great advice i gave you instead. I thought i gave the best of me.

And about low self-steem part, i bet you didn't get at all. 50-years-old woman is in middle crisis. If she is alone, things can get worse. At that age, women mostly don't seek sex.

However, they do seek compagnion. They do enjoy men's company and intelligent conversations. And if they have the meaning, they join social clubs. And instead of hanging out with rookie nigger, they date 65 years old veteran who give them good image when they are with and make them proud to be seen with. And mind you confused, if they need one night stand, they can rent 25-years-old scot or gigaloo.

Keeping that in mind, now tell me why would your boss would ever bother to approach you- a rookie from other culture who can force her to hid or to be on the run?. If that woman would have been 25-30, i could understand that. What i am trying to say is western society has classes. and you need to understand that. I am not saying, you can't attract some sister not blondes or any other race.

It is possible that she saw your insecurity and your rookieness, and she wants to take advantage of you. But then again, women don't rape. Thus, everything will comes to down to how you react.If you play your cards well, you can retain your job and make this woman to leave you hell alone(that is if she wants you). Don't panic just hang on there. Of course, she won't ever do any stupid thing. she knows the rules and all sexual harrassment policies.

Lastly for your info, i never take a single puf of dope nor any other things.nor am i a pothead.

Alipapa

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Exfile

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 01:52 pm
Confused,

I agree with what Alipapa saId to you.I think he is being straight forward with you.In my opinon i dont thinK it is wise to panic and creat unnecessary enemity between you and your bose.Remember she is your bose and could find so may ways of you loosing your job.Dont trouble yourself taping her unless you are ready to go all the way to court with her.Bringing your girl to work or letting her phone you would only creat some kind of recentment between you and your crussh....Asuming she wants you as yu said.

RULE NO 1...never make a woman jealous...specialy when she has some kind of power over you.Women are revengeful....When they openly show you interest and you dung on them....Be prepared to see the worst side of them.

I can only see two option open for you.Either shag the old bitch....or play some mind game with her and buy yourself some time to get out of this shithole.Aproach her in the presence of others...and show her sign of interest.Just play little game with her old mind.....Trust me she would avoid you like a plaque....Fearing that others would find out.Let the hunter be the hunted.WHY WOULD YOU LOOSE THE JOB YOU LOVE.JUST COS YOU COULD NOT HANDLE AN OLD BITCH.

If i were you i would just shag the bitch and ask her to give me a raise....take time off whenever i want.BUT MAKE SURE YOU USE CONDOM....GRANDMA WOULD SUCK YOUR BLOOD....AND YOU WILL AGE IN NO TIME.

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Anonymous

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 04:07 pm
Ali papa

You are Gross!

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