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Basra

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 06:09 am
Do you think you find yourself too much of a selective kind?I mean 'picky'?
Girls is it only me or is every girl out there has this syndrome?The quest to search for the IDEAL-MAN, the one with all the qualities and not married.The single guy who is educated,cute,reserved,morally together,compassionate and a good sense of Humor kinda guy.Am i the only one putting on a block stamp on men who approach me out of good heart i am sure,but that i dont return their infatuations?We are in a total different century today,therefore our expectations of the 'Right-Ideal-Man' completely changes.I for one,or million will not settle for less than the 'Best',am i insane to demand this?Girls can we have a girl talk-its really really really serious! loooool

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spike

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 07:55 am
well i am not a girl, but i just have to put my
two cents in. Are you the perfect girl too.
It is only fair, if you want the best man
you have to be the best girl too.
Anyway one wise man said once, do't go for the
sky, you might fall from a very high place.

haha ha ha , did i made one or did i made one.

but then again , as they say, it is a women's
progative to go for the best

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SomaliCream

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 08:19 am
Basra it is always good to hear from you, well let me get back to the topic

As a women I believe that we were created to be picky with high expectations, but as time will show u there is no "Perfect Man" he does not exist in this world, so why search for someone that does not exist??. We are all humans after all, and we all have our qualities and our flaws. It is good to be picky but not too picky, we need to give some men a chance, they may not seem like your ideal man at first but sooner later your perception of perfection changes depending with time, his flaws can sometimes become his best qualities.

So ladies my advice to you all is not have such high expectations or you would end up hurt and alone.

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MNman

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 09:09 am
one thing PLZZZ especially Somali girls low ur expectation little bit. Just advise

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Honesita

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 10:40 am
Basra......i am the pickiest human bein' u can ever imagine......and i'm not picky about only men....about everything....but when it comes to men.....i agree with Spike and SomaliCream......!!

Simply no one on earth is perfect......and if u find some1 who u consider is the best.....they have to have some qualities u dont like......cuz again we go back to -no one is perfet-.....!! Look for at least 70% right brotha.....that is easier.....and u have to be understandin' and live with the other human's mistakes and life style......and if love is the issue....nothin' really matters then sistah...!!

Salaam

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spike

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 11:07 am
Honesita . i am waiting for the sabaayad.
do't tell me you forget to bring the sabaayad
and i am not perfect, so good to know that u are not looking for a perfect man. lol

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Crazy woman

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 04:10 pm
Basra

I agree with you,i can't seem to chose between my gardener and the next door professional Hunk.They both give something and lack something else.Keep Love real sisters.

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Anonymous

Saturday, March 31, 2001 - 09:22 am
Uuuhh, Basra, does the IDEAL-MAN really excist??
It feels like I have been looking for him for ages, but still no luck... And what is ideal when you are 18 might not be ideal when you are 25
and so on... So now I am not sure myself how the
IDEAL-MAN should be like.. No wonder I can't find him! LOL!

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haboon

Saturday, March 31, 2001 - 11:34 am
I know one thing , there's someone perfect and then there's that one that's perfect for u!
so, look for the one that's perfect for u.

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ladiesman

Saturday, March 31, 2001 - 12:11 pm
ladies let me tell yo something

we all know that there no one is perfect on this earth and yo girls got high expectation, so plz keep down. its hard to find the ideal man if yo think about it or look for it. so best thing yo could is just chil back and wait til the right one knocks the door. another thing, girls need to do is to start openin up to guys. what i meant was to be open mind thats all yo need, girls are hard headach so start losing up little. my advice is play smart with guys like they do to yo. well peace out i got go much love 4 all

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Amina

Saturday, March 31, 2001 - 03:21 pm
U guys said it all . i think it is good to be picky though. my moma always told me to never settle for less. I think i've met my 'perfect man', but i dunno in lay qoray...yet lol. and no he is not so perfect which is all good coz i ain't.

anonymous lol.
it's true tho. u really dunno what u want till it hits u in the face, or says hello.

ladiesman, seen keep talking bro, i am taking notes lol.

peace n love ya'll

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Anonymous

Sunday, April 01, 2001 - 03:24 am
Hey does anyone here know where I can find a site with nude Somali women posted? Nothing obscene, just classy type stuff.

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Thriller in Manilla

Sunday, April 01, 2001 - 06:09 am
You can be picky and strive to get the best deal in this world but, there is destiny and that one person that allah has alocated to you.. you will find him one day..so hold your horses sis.

The other thing is that ppl have different taste and what you consider as a classy, your friend might not agree with you..

As they say love is in the eyes of the beholder..

It's only fair that men are also sometimes picky and looking for women with all of the qualities you have mention above.

piece sisters!!

brother thriller

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lonelyheart

Sunday, April 01, 2001 - 12:10 pm
i know everyone woman wants the perfect man but i have to say there is no perfect man out there.

u can't look for some one who's perfect but u have to look for someone who's perfect for u.
in others eyes he might not be but when u look at him u will know he is perfect.

it's just a matter of finding someone who fits u and ur needs.


yours
lonelyheart

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Anonymous

Sunday, April 01, 2001 - 12:58 pm
what you need to ask is , can you mold the 'ideal man " that all you ladies projected that image in your minds. i asked the same, is there the perfect woman. ??????

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Anonymous

Sunday, April 01, 2001 - 01:34 pm
Nope, sorry man, no perfect women left for you, only bitches. Because we want MORE than JUST a man.... We want the IDEAL MAN. So I'm sure you will say we are bitches all of us. :O

A BITCH.

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SweeTsis

Sunday, April 01, 2001 - 03:16 pm
to spike;
hey don't u know its the women that suffers the most in marriage.she is the one who will look after the children if divorce results, but men can walk out and get another single women in less then a month.
girls deserve the best guy
and guys deserve the best but for different matters.
for a guy its only if she is pretty, good cook and from good gamily.
but for girls its a religious with the khuluq character, hardworking, as well as good looking.
i will get back soon.

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Anonymous

Monday, April 02, 2001 - 12:21 am
Trust me if you are looking for a perfect man you gonna spend a lot of lonely years.

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Nur

Monday, April 02, 2001 - 05:34 am
How can Basra not ak for MrPerfect she is sooooooooooo Bhufff.... she da bomb

check this out!

http://communities.msn.com/AFRICANSOMALIANS&naventryid=100

From this forward i realy realy realy want nothing less then MsImperfect.... the other end of the scales.... to what is up there

heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp LMAO lol... i hope she sleep on the floor? no bed is going to hold her!

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ubaax

Friday, April 06, 2001 - 04:02 am
Look ladies,there is on point in look or even being 'picky'as u put it,coz at the end of day u go home with who u r destined with(in marriage wise)there is even no need 2 describe ur ideal man.Illahay rot it down the day u were born.Thus i dont bother look 4 da right man,i jus simple sit at my yard and wait,as sad as it may sound but at lest i can where wear a white drss on my wedding day and be proud:-}

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Anonymous

Friday, April 06, 2001 - 04:37 am
Anybody know where I can find photos on the net of Somali women in the buff?????

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Ninxoon

Friday, April 06, 2001 - 06:24 am
Hater-Girl, aka Gheto-Girl

http://www.geocities.com/haweya73/haweya.jpg

Can you blame me if i hate all somali females as a result of that experience? I need serious therapy after dating someone like her it is the desicion of My private doctor that i be sent to St. Joseph's Healthcare, Hamilton, Centre for Mountain Health Services.Located in the Hamilton Wentworth Region of Central South Ontario (previously referred to as Central West) and serve the districts of Hamilton-Wentworth, Halton, Brant, Niagara and Haldimand-Norfolk. To be examined for the following

SCHIZOPHRENIA
GENDER DISORDERS
GERIATRIC PSYCHIATRY DISORDERS
FORENSIC PSYCHIATRY DISORDERS
DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITY WITH A PSYCHIATRIC OR MAJOR BEHAVIOURAL DISORDER
ACQUIRED BRAIN INJURY WITH A BEHAVIOURAL DISORDER

She is was physically, mentally, emotional and spritually abusive :( i have nightmares to this day! Vancouver General Hospital,the royal ottawa hospital and brockville psychiatric hospital and Homewood Health Centre Refused to house me!:( They diagnosed <1% chances of recovery.

call 519-824-1010, fax 519-824-1827, please to give me your support to quick recovery.


jama:(

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Anonymous GirL

Friday, April 06, 2001 - 10:18 am
Stay picky!
If u put your mind to something u
will be able to get it!!!!

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Anonymous

Friday, April 06, 2001 - 12:03 pm
Hi anisa,

I sort of understand your perception of somalian guys and wanting the best guy there is. To be truthful, there is no perfection other then allah (swt), but for you to search for the best, can be understood. I have the same problem, but to find the ideal somalian women is very difficult. My trick is to pay attention to my university and make myself as bussy as possible. You have to understand that the world is full of good men, it's just your patience that will guide you to the right path. Have good hope's and try to pray to allah, and ask him for a man that will pledge his alligence and loyalty to you for life. Look for 4 things 1:Religous or not, 2:Beauty 3:honor and respect and 4: wealth. These for things should be enough to guide you to the right muslim man. Inshallah, I hope that I have provided the right answers. Salamu Ailkum

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Jayalani

Friday, April 06, 2001 - 03:03 pm
@@@@@@@@@@@@ninxooooooooooooon

I am rolling on my back like a baby........ ahhhhhhhhhhhh i can't stop the tears of laughter

damn

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JAYLANI

Friday, April 06, 2001 - 03:10 pm
TO THE IDIOT WHO TRYING TO BE ME

LEARN HOW TO SPELL MY NAME FRIST DUMP ASS :)
LET ME SPELL FOR YOU STUPID

J.A.Y.L.A.N.I........GOT IT...BITCH

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JAYLANI

Friday, April 06, 2001 - 04:06 pm
http://www.geocities.com/haweya73/index.htm

NINXOON THE LINK YOU LOOKING FOR HAS BEEN MOVED BY THE INTELLIGENCE AGENCY TO THE ABOVE :O! THE FIRST OF THE VICTIMS OF THE NEW SECRET AGENCY ABOUT TO EXPOSE ALL THE DIRTY ••••!

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T-GIRL

Friday, April 06, 2001 - 10:00 pm
Anonymous
I know where U can find pictures of NUDE somali women.....Just go through your FAMILY ALBUM and U will see your Ayeeyo with Wrinkles on her Pimples.

Basra
I gotta go work.....I'll elaborate more on the topic later......Just had to put iGNORANT Anonymous in his place..

CIAO

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MusLimaH

Saturday, April 07, 2001 - 07:50 am
Salaam ppl

I agree with lonely heart...there is no such thing as the perfect man/woman...everyones opinions differ, and what perfect for you, may not be perfect for another...everyones idea of perfection is not the same.

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Sagittarius

Saturday, April 07, 2001 - 12:34 pm
Basra,

I could as well have used a female alias, but hate to be an impostor!

Being picky is what we're all good at, but being perceptive is what we fail to excel at. In reality, being picky is created by mind games and societal pressures. In fact, mind games create an unattainable picture in one's mind, while matter of fact we're only at all times concerned with one or two personal traits that are essential to our existence and compatible with our long-term ambitions, thus the rest of the traits are minor and could be developed or nurtured during a relationship, and they don't have to come as a complete package to go.

On the other hand, social pressure (What others might think of your relationship,) are more cumbersome to any relationship than the mind games, so you need to determine from the onset whom matters most, that of your family, friends, colleagues, or yourself. Sometimes, indeed you might know whom you really want, but due to considerations of what others should expect from you, might lead you into a quagmire (cross-roads.) Finally, if the kind of a relationship you're seeking is related to a long-term basis, then you should consider your long-term goals and who would best fulfill them, regardless of the mind games and social pressures.

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Geelle.

Saturday, April 07, 2001 - 12:55 pm
good topic
i can't help but to throw my share into this diverce pool of wonderful ideas
I want to relate to ya a kind of littel intriging story:
At approximately a year or so ago, i went to a Masjid close by where i lived whereby an istimulating muhaadara was by made by A well know schoolar. After the lucture ended, as usual people to ask follow up quesitons about the topic and finally This midle aged guy stood and took the speaker complaining to the Sheik and for this matter the audience that he can't find a beuatiful women to get marry: Everyone laughed with the resilence blantness of the guy,but the respond of Shiek stil sticks in my mine: The shiek, said, if you are hansome dad the chance is that you kids will be goodlooking,but if you are an everage, the same is si probable. He added, by said, let of everyone of you try to look his/her surroundings and and look closely to those ppl who rae siting with him;her; and said, what you see is what you get:
so, the point is, the someli men are the product of someli women: and it is only commonsense to conclude that a son is reflection of his mom:
so, sisters, we are from ya and you are from us:
and we have make the best use out of what is in ou8r disposal:

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Opinionated girl

Saturday, April 07, 2001 - 03:53 pm
I am so glad that there is a topic that I can actually talk about. Basra I totally know where you are coming from. I must admit I can be really really picky when it comes to guys (somali). I can sadly say that there is no one that is perfect out there(unfortunatley). I want the "Ideal man" who is clever,educated,good looking(you know all you girls want a gorgeous guy)who is actually planning on doing something with his life unlike ALL the somalian guys that I have seen that are ALL low lives with 10 girlfriends(black dirty girls). I'm sorry about the novel that I wrote but I just wanted to express my own opinion. You know all them somalian guys like to hate on girls like Basra and myself(and a million others) and tell us were stuck up but is it wrong to want nothing but the best for your self?? I don't think so. Again Basra thanx for bringing up an interesting subject that I'm sure we all wanted to get off our chests.
Peace

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