Muna | Tuesday, April 03, 2001 - 10:08 am This is a good example of how men and women view the world differently. HER STORY: He was in an odd mood when I got to the bar to meet him but I thought it might have been because I was a bit late. He didn't say anything much about it. He seemed silent, distracted, and his only eye contact seemed rather judgmental. I decided, maybe I should never wear that dress again. Well, maybe it was the color. Maybe I should never wear this color again. The conversation was slow going so I thought maybe we should go off somewhere more intimate so we could talk more privately. He didn't really seem to agree, but we went off to this quiet little restaurant. He's still acting a bit funny and I'm trying to cheer him up, be witty and tell cute stories but I start to wonder whether it's me, or something else. He doesn't smile much so I ask him if there's a problem and he says no. But you know, I'm not really sure. I wonder and then I think about the 5 pounds I gained this past month. I bet he thinks I'm a fat hog now. Anyway, in the cab back to his house, I say that I love him and he just puts his arm around me but doesn't squeeze. I don't know what the hell this all means or what I should think because you know he doesn't say it back or do anything. We finally get back to his place and I'm wondering if he's going to dump me so I try to ask him about it but he just switches on the TV. Reluctantly, I say I'm going to bed and then, after about 10 minutes or so, he joins me and we have sex. But he still seems really, really distracted so afterwards I just wanted to leave. I roll over and sniffle a little real quietly. He snores. I dunno, I just don't know what he thinks anymore. I mean, do you think he's met someone else? --------- HIS STORY: Shitty day at work. Tired. Got laid, though. |