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     | Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 01:32 pm Hey people please help me out i need some advice i'm dating this guy he is Hawiye and i'm Daarood and is big deal with my Family what should i do please help in good way okay.
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| | Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 01:34 pm Hey girl Just follow your heart, your heart will tell you what is right, Tripe is nothing but trouble. peace out
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| | Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 01:44 pm TO NEED HELP BITHC YOU SHOULDN'T BE DATING IN THE FIRST PLACE!!! HOW OLD ARE YOU ANY WAYS, YOU SOUND JUVENILE!!
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| | Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 05:42 am Hey ninxoon leave the sister alone man. You know we as somalian we get big problem this poor sister is asking for advice, but instead of helping we make thing worst then they all ready are or seem to, if you really care just give advice if not just leave how bad that could be. for the sister trap is nothing sis, trip is what bering us in white man land okay, just talk to your family about it and how you feel about this guy that is if there is feeling. Well good luck sis peace out
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| | Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 11:30 am to needhelp sis i am daarood too and married to hawiye man i don't have probem with it or either my family but,sometime we know to married one of them its't a probem howerover be stonger and trust allah (swc) who know what future hold for you.
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| | Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 01:00 pm well if you really love the guy you should fellow you heart i know tripe is big deal to our parent try to do the right thing what you feel inside.
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 07:10 am Thanx Guys. you guys helped me alot. Ninxoon grow up this is the year 2001 not 1800. I know people make a big deal out of it. But u know what you can't help who you fell inlove with. Don't look at the person clan look what's inside of that person. I know that the family told all of ya'll what hawiye did to us but all hawiye are not the same there are bad once and good once. Well thanx all of ya'll by answering my questions and helping me out. Sista hanna you right imma try to do what's right for me.
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 07:21 am dear sista , dating is haraaaaaaaaam. if you marrying him, tribe is not big deal. but dating is no good , whether we are 18th centuary or 21st... dating is haraam
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 07:36 am Need Help.... Sister, my mother is Darood and my father is Hawiye. Honestly, I don't like the way my Abtis treat me. They insult me, call me darky and so on. They used to insult me ever since I was a kid. Today, I hate them. I have promised to marry into my own qabiil. I despise my rer abti.
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 08:57 am hey people stop. those who is hiding behind the daarood name, since when hawiye and daarood ever married, naayaa hee hawiye nama gayo so why do not you marry monkey since they are the same. did you forget 1992 oh idiots, you can have daarood man, so why on god's name you want to bring ugly kids on this world since i'm sure they will be ugly since their father is hawiye. get a life and hana fadarayn.you can have another man but not another family.
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 09:27 am Spike.....i have a question brotha.....lets say u got attracted to this beautiful somali girl and u wanna get to know her and all that.....would u look for her address....knock on her door...ask for her hand from her parents....!!!!!!?? That is how pple got married back in da day.....i am not sayin' anything is wrong with that....but who is gonna do that now....if every girl says i'm not gona date and i'm gonna sit home wait for mr. right.......i guess most of them would miss the train....!!!! Datin' is haraam yes...but only when we do it like the westerners...gaalo pple...!! NeedHelp......sistah qabiil is nothin' but trouble nowadayz......ur family have no right to say no to a guy u luv if he is muslim just cuz his nationality or qabil......!! U can go ahead and stay with the brotha......but would u rather lose ur family....!!! U have to think about what is more important to u....a man u met yesterday...or ur family who u spent ur entire life with....!! U can try convincing ur family that this brotha has somethin' goin' on for him....but if it dont work....i wouldnt advice u to rebel on ur family....!!! Good luck sweetie..!! Salaam
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 09:30 am ProudtobeDarrod.....nacas baa tahay walaahi....look at ur self in the mirror....u sure dont see how ugly ur face looks...what is even worse is u have the ugly attitude too which makes u 300 below 0....lax waaxid...!! Salaam
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 11:32 am I was going to touch this, but Naah.
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 01:22 pm to need help I don't give a f wether we are in the 17 century or the 29th , the bottom line xaram is xaram...get it, bithc
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 01:52 pm Honesita ...let us say I like this girl i found her ,where she lives ,her age.email address...the rest is history....without dating her. i find things that I need to know about her. if i like what i see...propose...if she likes what she see...acceptance..end of the story... after marraige...the best love life she every imagined....after five years..no more mushy stuff kids, lots of them...when they can babysit each other..love life starts again.. lol what you think
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 02:01 pm moe, you little fat bitch...stay out of this discussion...fat ass bitch
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 02:06 pm ninxoon you out of all ppl are talking about what's haram and what's not lol what is the world turning to? Didn't you know that swearing was haram?
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 02:35 pm anonymus, it's not haram when it's a self defence
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 03:01 pm man! these people are stupid kids... let me tell you..am hawiye and my mother is daarood..that does not mean anything at all. and who said Hawiye is dark and all this. every one is dark and what is wrong being dark? do u guys just like to hate and insult each other in this age? aren't we getting tired of this ? walaahi, in tha name of allah, this hurts me so bad that it makes me to puke. i don't think whoever posted this message is serious. hawiye iyo daarood waa dad soomali wada ah oo is dhalay, isu dhaxay, isla dhaqma...waxaana jira malaayiin eey iska dhaleen. dad waxaa kuugu dhow kan kula dhashay oo qabiil kasta ha noqdee..aniga walaalaheeyga waa daarood iyo hawiye. marna ma u maleeynaayi in aan sidan nacasnimada leh wax u arko. maxaase ka micna ah, mar hadaad qof soomaali ah oo isku dhaqan diin iyo af tihiin aad la socoto ood rabto inaad si xalaal ah isku guursataan. yaa muslimiin, war dadkaan cadaawadu ka buuxdo ee buka is daaweeya dhaha.... aniga waxaan joogaa magaalada columbus ohio , haddaana iigu horeeysa qabiilka la isku ximaayo, sababtoo ah waxaan ayaan dhaweeyd tagay salaad derbi show waxaana meesha ku arkay gabar qurux badan oon ka helay markaan la hadal maagayna waxaa dhinacyada ka soo galay wiilal badan oo siku qabiil yihiin si la iiga qashqashaado ama la iigu ogolaan inaan la hadlo gabadhaas....calaa kuli xaal gabadhaas iyada ah waxaa hadda la socdo wiil hawiye ah..marka qof laga ilaalin karo qof kale ma jirto..gabdho badan oo sidaas loo galayna waxeey marka danbe raacaan jamaican iyo niggers.... ilaah ka cabsada oo qabyaaladaan aan waxba tareeyn joojiya.....
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| | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 03:15 pm holdup, hold up, let me begin with this . first of all none of yo all is wrong about what you said and what you believe a bout this subject; however, what we all need is, to understand one thing just one stupid litte thing and thats" what you personally do and how you behaive has nothing to do with your tribe. is just fucking name algiht, or may i say a referal point in a group of society. so brothers and sisters don't hate each other just 'cause of your old mom and dady knew nothing but judging a man because of his tribe not his action or his place in society TO THE SISTER, WHO WANTS TO know WHAT TO DO. LET ME BREAK IT DOWN 4 YOU. SISTER DO YOU THINK THIS MAN IS A NICE PERSON, HARD WORKING AND NOT A CRACK HEAD. DO YOU THING YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH A MAN IN A MISSION NOT A GANGESTER. IF YOU THINK SO PLEASE TAKE THE DOG AS YOUR LOVELY GUIDING ANGLE. AND IF YOU understan THE UNION OF MAN AND WOMEN,IT IS BETTER THAT YOU COMMUNICATE WITH HIM.FOR BETER OR WORST MAKE HIM YOU CALL. NOT SOMONE ELSE BECAUSE HE IS YOUR TRIBE. i HOPE YOU GOT MY POINT IF NOT WHEN YOU BREAK UP WITH HIM,PLEASE RING MY BELL AND I WILL BE THERE FOR YOU. ALRIGHT SHORTY.
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| | Friday, April 13, 2001 - 04:53 am hey ma waadan maqal buraanburkii ay islaani kula hadashay gabadheeda oo ay tiri "hawiye booraamuu dagaa, koodii boqoro dhaleena buunshii ku siinayaa waa dulaysi badanyahay suleekheey hooyo calool xumadaas kulama rabo" so think before you do it.
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| | Friday, April 13, 2001 - 04:54 am hey ma waadan maqal buraanburkii ay islaani kula hadashay gabadheeda oo ay tiri "hawiye booraamuu dagaa, koodii boqoro dhaleena buunshii ku siinayaa waa dulaysi badanyahay suleekheey hooyo calool xumadaas kulama rabo" so think before you do it.
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| | Friday, April 13, 2001 - 06:53 am lol@Spike.....it seems like u know enough about this girl huh.....but do u think she knows a lot about u...do u think that is enough to start makin' kids...lol......if u got her e...u should introduce ya self brotha...!! lol.....What do i think of da rest of the story?....sweeeeeeeeeeet...!! lol I think this topic is another one lookin' for qabil fight........if u r wise enough please ignore it...!!!!!! Salaam
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| | Friday, April 13, 2001 - 07:03 am Honesita...does she know enough about me, I do not think so, but she knows enough to be curious and start asking q. here and there and then if she likes she finds out..then may be she will encourage the fellow to get involve more, you know ,to know each other more.. if two ppl start trusting each other....it is enough to start kids..yah...some start kids less than that
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| | Friday, April 13, 2001 - 07:55 am spike i dont think dating is xaaraam, okaaay? what is wrong with it? if you go out into a public place saay..like a restaurtant chines or whateva and get to know each other with no touching ofcourse and no improper talking (like you have nice chest) i fail to see the mistake in that. i realy believe that before the two ppl marry they should become freinds..best of freinds,infact. there is more into marriege then "liking what you see" ..i say freindship is a key..and that could only be gained from DATING. the xalaal way. yeah. so, spike enlighten me and honesita (i like the way you think girly)...tell us why you believe this harmless outing is xaraam??
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| | Friday, April 13, 2001 - 08:47 am gabardadow..i agree what you said...dating I am talking about is the dating that involves improper thinks. The one you talking about is possible but hard to do it.when a female and a male are together, tempitation are very high. so you got be strong
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| | Friday, April 13, 2001 - 12:42 pm who cares
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| | Monday, April 16, 2001 - 05:50 am fu*ckup ppl.get a live
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| | Monday, April 16, 2001 - 06:22 am uh-huh! temptations! never entered my mind....guess i understand where you coming from now spiky. naughty naughty...  thanks eh.
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| | Monday, April 16, 2001 - 06:31 am gabardadow I am a naughty boy by nature...lol q. for you. i got what gabar means. but can't figure out what dadow mean.. lol
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| | Monday, April 16, 2001 - 07:41 am lol@Spike.....she means dad baa iskaleh....she belongs to dad islaameed...ee amaan sii gabadha dadka...lol...!! Gabardadow....thanx abaa.....but u know what....i agree with Spike in this one....temptations r crazy walaahi......some how i just dont believe a guy and a girl r gonna go out on a date...eat some where...go to the movies...ride together alone in a car when they supposedly really like each others without doing somethin'....let it be a minor kiss.....somethin' that is considered xaraam is gonna be happenin' for sureeee.....!! If it does not......then gacan iyo lug aa utaagay labadaas.....but its just impossible...!! Salaamz
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| | Monday, April 16, 2001 - 08:25 am Honesita . are you serious. is that what it means. I better go back to school to learn the somali langu....lol.I just hope Honesita does't mean the same ...lol... Hay do you want to try Da date and see how strong we are...lol
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| | Monday, April 16, 2001 - 08:56 am hey honesista and spike. i think we can control the temptation if we all know the consequens. i was going out with this guy like a year and ride the car, go to movie, we have never kissed or even catch hands, because we both know that it is big mistake that could lead us to hell(walciyaadu bilaahi).so do not say we can not control ourselves, not only two of us are like that but i know alot of people.
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