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I AM HURT AND I FEEL LIKE A GARBAGE

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HURT_BRO

Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 07:22 pm
I used to be the proudest, the coolest and the most civilized person you could ever have met. Suddenly, this moment I feel like I lost it. I feel like I am insane. I feel like I have unintentionally put me down to the lowest of the lowest. This is not right. I know it's feels like am lost. I can't believe I did this to myself
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This is what I was before this moment.
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I am a young educated professional Somali guy. I am endowed with high intellect. Most of my friends consider me some kind of genius. I am very spiritual and I love my Islamic religion. I am proud Somali. I came from a nice Somali family. My upbringing was all right. I am kind, considerate and very down to earth person. My parents did all they could to make me the awesome person I became before this.
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That is what I was and all the people who know me think or perceive such of me.
I know this is crazy, I don't even know how to explain it.
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Let me give you a brief history of my background.
I was born and raised in Mogadishu. I grew up in a very tough but nice neighborhood. I had good life growing up. my family earned all their livelihood in a very lawful Islamic way. We had no enemies, we never hurt no one, we never put down any one. My parents taught us to respect and treat all the people with dignity and reverence.
I have been immersed in a very progressive environment. I was exposed to my culture, my religion and I have been taught to be proud of who I am and what I stand for. I knew I was first and foremost am MUSLIM, Then SOMALI. I have been taught that there is no difference between the two.
Before the downfall of our nation and the current civil war, I left Somalia to pursue my education in Europe. I went to Italy and I have been very lucky to learn and study the Italian culture, language and society. I even was able to get into some school. However, due to circumstances beyond my control, I could not take advantage of that opportunity. I went to look for good pastures in different countries. Like a typical Somali nomad, I was able to roam and wander in Europe. I went to Switzerland, Austria, Germany and Holland. In my sojourn in these countries. I picked up their languages and culture. It was a good experience. Then, I got some sponsorship from Canada. I came to Canada with enthusiasm. Soon I become ambitious. I got nice decent job and I had the chance to support and help my close family and relatives. I was also able to pursue my education. I got into higher institute of learning. I graduated with some kind of degree. As the Canadian economy was in recession and our big brothers in the south of the border were having an economic boom, I decided to check it there. Then, again as a typical Somali nomad, I was on the move , searching for greener pastures. I came to USA where I landed a nice good paying job.
In all these times, I had some brief moments of love and social life. I was always very careful and aware of what kind of person I engage with relationship. Some were good, some were bad. I had my ups and downs as usual. I considered that normal. Nothing was wrong with that. But I never lost my high standard, pride and dignity.
I was in control of my destiny. I did things according to my own terms. I never hurt any one and I never had any one who hated. I always treated my Somali sisters with respect and treated them equally.
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That was me until I met someone on the net. Yeah, you heard me. I met some Somali girl on this very site. I had a nice chat with her and we get connected. we clicked as they say. We started exchanging emails, phone calls, gifts. We continued this for about three months. It felt like we knew each other for ages. The daily exchange of phone calls, emails were over the limit. we exchanged photos. We sent to each other different sets of pictures of us. Her pictures were kind decorated in my desktops. I even had her pictures posted on my cubicle at work. I never felt so close to someone in my whole life. I FELL IN LOVE with that sister. Yeah please underline that word...FELL IN LOVE. This girl was so sweet, so decent, so kind, so dignified. I expressed my feelings to her and she accordingly acknowledged them. Even though we had different background, that never came to be an issue with me at least.

We have decided to see each other. she couldn't wait to see me. She always asked me when I will come. I had made some arrangements with my employees and booked a flight. I told her abut my arrival and she was so excited to see me. I went to her city and she welcomed me warmly. The first two days , she was there for me visiting me at my hotel room and taking me out. we had dinner, went to the movies together. I treated her like a queen and my love for her even increased. I had no intention to disrespect her. Then my last day the unthinkable came, out of nowhere, this beautiful sister whom I fell in love blindly told me in my face that she does not want anything to do with me. She tried to find excuses that will not make sense. I couldn't take it. I felt hurt. I knew we only knew for few months and we met on the net but I thought this was it for me. I even had a dream about it. I thought this was a heavenly intervention. I had high hopes. I expected too much. I dreamed about having very beautiful eternal life with this sister. I pictured me and her in gray hair visiting our grand children together. All this were totally destroyed by the moment she confessed to me that she got nothing to do with me. I tried to find out what have changed her mind. The sister could not give me one reason. I felt so hurt and I could not take the pain of being rejected.
I thought about if this was NABS. I couldn't recall if ever hurt one insect let alone any human being in my whole life.
As I had to leave and take a flight back home, I was totally not the same person. I broke down and cried in front of strangers. Then all of sudden, I felt empty and void. I read some Quran since I had the Holy Quran book in my pocket. I finished JUZ AMMA and I took the second leg of my flight back to home. Next day, I went to work and tried to function normally. But that was difficult. I couldn't take all the pain. I felt I can't even take the highway to commute. I had to drive so slow to avoid accidents. See I was really absent minded. Then I started sending emails to sister and she wouldn't reply. I will consistently check my inbox for a new email. I was desperate to hear from the sister. Finally, She wrote me a consolation one but it didn't make a sense. I wrote her back some email, pleading with her. Every song that was on the radio felt like was kind related to my pain. the worst was when I changed the channel to some RAP station. there, in surprise, they had this BRANDY tune,--- Have you ever loved somebody so much---- they usually don't play R&B songs at that time.
I listened to it very carefully and I felt it. I thought maybe BRANDY or who ever wrote this song knew of my pain in advance. It sounded like it written for my pain knowingly.
I started sending my stormy emails and making my phone calls. The sister was now acting differently and was rude to me. she asked me to stop stalking her.
I tried to reason with her and to just tell me what wrong I have done to change her mind. was it my looks? my style? my smell....my calmness.. my.....did I said something bad to her...I just needed answers and there she was telling me to forget about her.
She said she had no reason and she wouldn't even feel like explaining anything to me.
She told me in a very simple and plain language that there will never be anything between me and her. She has no feelings for me. As she was saying these words, I felt like I came alive from being dead. I realized I was not myself, That I was naive and went down low of my standards. I didn't interrupted her and I let her finish her negative statements. Then, after she has done with her speech. I thanked her and wished her for the best. I promised her that I will not disturb her again. then she hang up on me. That was it.
Then here I am. I decided to share with all of this just to let it out. I don't want it to consume me. Yeah, I feel hurt but I know worse things happen in this world. I know millions of people die and suffer. This is nothing and I will come over it. Though, I am looking for reasons to justify this.
I am now reorganizing myself and again coming to my sense.
Would this hinder me to fell in love again? No, not really simply because I know I am capable to love and to give love.
Until I meet and find the only and one eternal soul mate of my life, I will continue to hope for the best.

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Anonymous

Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 07:37 pm
Do I dare think you are devil`s Love??

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HURT_BRO

Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 07:57 pm
No anonymous, I am not Devil's love. am just one crazy balhead brother who naively invented some make belief unreality, some kind of virtual insanity. I easily fell in love but this was some strange one. I hope i will be able to recover from this and i hope this will be some good lesson for me. NEXT, I intend to STAND in love. INSHALLAH.

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HURT_BRO

Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 08:01 pm
JACEYL AAN LAGULA WADIN WAQTIGAAGA YUU LUMIN!!!

I REMEMBER THESE WORDS AND NOW THEY MAKE SENSE MORE THAN EVER.

I REMEMBER THE LOCATION, THE SITUATION, THE FEELINGS, THE SORROUNDINGS OF THE SCARY UNFORGETTABLE MOMENT. I REMEBER EVERYTHING....WOULD I BE ABLE TO FORGET..ONLY ALMIGHTY ALLAH KNOWS AND CAN TELL. AM JUST A WEAK DEPENDENT CREATURE.
I WILL TAKE COMFORT IN MY SOLACE FOR NOW AND I WILL SURVIVE INSHALLAH

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Amistadgirl.

Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 08:15 pm
sorry 2 hear about that brotha.

for real. You sound smart especially how u handle it at the end. Give u probs' for doing that. True that love will always come, just make sure u keep ur coolness in you. But it also taught u that this "net" thing can be out of hand sometimes and u know people will lie. So never fall for anything that anyone in cyper world. Sorry thought, that u had to take it things too real when it wasn't. Because u know cyper world is just another world. I guess somehow u took it to another level. Glad that u shared with us, who knows it might inspire some people. In the meantime take care brotha. Wish you all the best in life.

Keep ur head up.

Alright.

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exp/bro

Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 08:35 pm
am really sorry to hear that bro,but please do not let u r self down,life goes on...and i wish you the best.and be aware next time.

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nin-rag-ah

Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 09:56 pm
listen modafucka, u either dickless, physically disabled, mentally stupid, you have some kind of hunch-back. and you let all the somali brothers down, how the hell can you fly for bitch that long flight. bitch is bitch. and love ain't true, as long you got pusy. and get your heads done, that is love modafucka.

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kingmaker

Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 11:45 pm
Bro

It is sad, but remmember this happens almost any man first time
bro this thing called woman are very complex creature and they can not handle kindness and love and handle well violance and ignoring.

this will be a lesson, from no on don't love woman that much and ignore them , just when she is your wife give her love.


i can assure u that she always regret losing when she married voilent loser.

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Mr-TypeLess

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 01:27 am
I THINK I KNOW HER AND 3 OTHERS LIKE HER! BRO YOU AIN'T ALONE IN THIS, IT HAS HAPPENED TO MORE THEN 50% OF THE DECENT GUYS HERE.

AFTER THE THIRD TIME IT HAPPENED I CONCLUDED THAT IT IS NOT ME OR MY BALD HEAD THEY ARE RUNING FROM IT IS THEMSELVES. I MEAN A LOT OF GUYS GET BALD AFTER THEY GET MARRIED SO IF THAT IS THE ONLY REASON SHE COULD THINK OF REJECTING YOU THEN MAN SHE WAS REALLY SAD.

I GOT MY EYE ON A SMART BLONDE 2CUBICALS FROM ME, I MEAN BLONDES DON'T COME SMART WITH AN MsC VERY OFTEN.

FEEL YOUR PAIN BRO DON'T DISPEAR, IT HEALS WITH TIME.

I HAVE NEEDED A NEW STERIO EACH TIME BECAUSE I SMASHED THEM WHEN EVERY SONGS IS MOCKING MY PAIN!!

CLASSICAL QUOTE

"You are not my type"

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Sharmaarke

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 06:41 am
Hurt-Bro=CiyaalMama

Soory, You just got ambushed without your Armour?
Bewera.. Out there..is Jungle..MyAdvice Wank yourself till you come a Blood, Trust that would do..

Rag-rag-dhalay.

I like your Attitude, the guy goes all the way from god Knows where, and rents Hotel and here he is, lamenting about the lost opportunity..What a good chance the MamaBoy lost..

Eri nin aan laheeyn aa hella.. was it..

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Honesita

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 07:27 am
I was just readin' The Last Camel.....and i've seen this: A woman is like a shadow: go to her; she flees; leave her, she followes you...(somali proverb)...!!

So my dear brotha......i am a woman and i cant understand my own self.......i feel sorry for u men who try to understand us.....!!

The only thing i can tell ya about internet relations is dont go too deep into them......control ur feelings as much as u can.....cuz sometimes what you see online might not be what you get in real life....-wysomnbwygirl-...cool term huh.......!!lol

My girl might kill me if i say this.....but she met this dude she was chattin' with online for a while.......she really liked talkin' to him on the phone and stuff....but when she met him....she said she almost puked....he was too old and ugly....and she ended the date at 8:00pm....!!! Maybe ur friend got what she did not expect......maybe the way u treated her...or somethin' about ur style......maybe u were just not her type...!!

I'm really sorry bro.....ur story is really sad...!!

Salaam

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HURT_BRO

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 07:40 am
to Honesita..
let me tell you one thing, am very confident of my looks and style. that is not the issue and i haven't treated her badly. She just got some issues and am finding them now. So spare me with your teen mentality and high school talk.
One more thing, I know you as a person, You should be the last person to talk about looks and style. OOPS...damn that hurts am sorry sis...

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Shamsa

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 07:44 am
Hey hurt_bro, you said that you and the girl have different backgrounds and also that all her excuses were kind lame? can you little bit explain that for us? Also, what are the issues you finding? are you digging the dirt? remember you said you over this? and you will go on with your life?
Don't trust these chicks. They don't have what it takes to appreciate the good man like you

i can see you are very considerate and optimistic person.

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Honesita

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 07:49 am
How sweet...HurtBro.....ok... IS my teen mentality and high school talk the one up here complaining about how my 'supposedly man' dumped me after flying to him and freakin' renting a hotel room just to make him happy???.....!! I dont think so sweet heart.....and believe me....i have more confidence about my looks and especialy my style than u do.........!! So take care and stop cryin' like some one said up there...ciyaal mama....!!

Salaam

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Anonymous

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 07:57 am
Hurt bro
now we can see why she dropped you off like bomb.
you have bad ATTITUDE! may be low mentality.
get off honesita`s back. she might be teenager but she got a brain triple of yours,looser.

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Asha_

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 08:01 am
Wow..hurt bro..forget these teenagers and i can see that you are very naive..you don't mess up with some people here...first and foremost..honesista is very popular and got a huge following. She is the kids advocate.
So watch or all the kids will start assaulting you with insults and profanities and that is the least you need here..plus this seems more mature and grwon up thing...
let's all make it trivial..

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Anonymous

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 08:19 am
Asha
one thing you are right,hurt bro shouldnt mess up with honesita.one thing it is him who posted his sorry story and wanted advice so she give him what he asked for.secondly instead of appreciating her answer, whether he agrees with her or not,he started insulting her age,and looks.
BTW we are not supporting coz she is kid,it is because she is mature and way ahead of these teeenagers.she got Most of adults(grown up, mature ppl) appreciating and liking her.
hurt bro even though he advocated he is somewhere in his late 20s or early 30(left somalia before civil war for higher education) but he didnt mature yet!

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SUMMERTIME

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 08:35 am
Hurt-bro

don't worry u just were off the game for a while, sooner u will learn how to keep ur emotion.

It was just sad ur first love was cyber. What i am saying start form where u live, u just can't jump to cyber love without experience.

My last advise play it cool with the sisters, most of them don't like very serious ppl especially at early stages aight.

Certainly u will overcome this one, but be careful u might lose the faith if things doesn't work well with the other ones.

All best bro.

Peace

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Anonymous

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 08:43 am
WANT TO FEEL BETTER ?
Do U WANT TO FEEL BETTER ?
YES OR NO

YES >>>> GET YOURSELF ANOTHER WOMAN.
nothing can cure a broken heart like another woman. tear her pictures, get a new email account. Rid yourself of everything that reminds u of her.

IN THE FUTURE, Don't roam the Chatrooms looking for love. Love is found in places where u can make contact: discos, supermarket aisles, gym (Strike that, u don't want to mess with a woman from your gym or building), libraries, weddings ( not Somali ones coz of the complex social web), funerals, business trips etc.

Like the Girl called Honesita said, SOmali women are like shadows. Run from them and they want u. Being the mysterious guy whom know no one knows too much about, makes them want u bad. The more unavailable u seem, the more they want u.

I broke up with a Somali woman about 3 months ago. Did not call her and now she's back. 2 days after her, I hooked up with a temp lady at the office. It cured me of my blues. I had to take a lesson about Somali women since I never dated Somali women before her. I figured out what I did wrong and know I am better informed. Like they say, "Once bitten, Twice Shy." I am taking a couple of months off from starting a relationship with a Somali woman.

So HurtBro, Get some clothes, Shave, Cut your Hair. Put on nice aftershave I suggest CoolWater and Go out this Friday. Get laid and all your problems shall disappear. Think of yourself as Mr. Cassanova. U can have any woman u want as long as you say the right things.

THE WORLD IS YOURS.

GET THEM TIGER !!!!!

Lenin.

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HURT_BRO

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 09:21 am
HOnesita...am so sorry sis! that was not me and i am still trying to find myself. I shouldn't have blasted you like that. my sicere apologies. I hope you are the better person/
For all of you, Thanks for the concern, the disses, the consolation and all.
My love life is just the typical one and beleive me this was not my first and it will not be my last. the thing is, this was kind different and the net had something to do with it.

again thanks specially honesita...i hope u understand my frustrations..i didn't mean what i said.

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spike

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 10:26 am
Do not feel like a GARBAGE bro. you are
a GARBAGE. you talk like GARBAGE and then
say, I am sorry. punk

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Adan

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 11:30 am
Hey, give the guy a break. he seems decent and very inteligent. you are all rude and somewhat ignorant. We need to understand each other. no complications, no dissing, no insults

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Gaajo

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 11:37 am
Hurt bro

Thanx for sharing your story with us.It is da surprises that life offers. During one's life time, you will see ups and downs in life and the only person that can overcome is a person who is strong...

Anything that happens, happens for a reason and it is upto you to learn from it and move on with your live.

Forget about her go on with your lives. It aint crime or anything like dat for two individuals to develop somethin and later mutually decide to terminate.

Be strong man and forget about what happened in the past...Keep your head up. I wish all the best

Nabadeey Till next time

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SpoiltRichGirl

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 11:48 am
WASTE OF SPACE

HURT BRO.....I entirely sympethize with ya, I do but how can U lower yourself to a hollow void when all U had to begin with was merely a trace of nothing...In other words she was a myth, a woman who had no feelings for you and UR blowing your entire being on this woman...Aaaaaah Man if U R half as good as U said U was......Then U will wake up and smell the mini bar in your hotel room and move on......Mate U need to forget her and think to yourself that is was her LOSS. U R a fine brother....I never seen ya but U sound very impressive.......So scrape the left overs of your conscience and MOVE ON

PEACE
Your ever loving sister
T-GIRL

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Big_bro

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 12:41 pm
i dont believe the funcking •••••••....i bet he is a funking liar why dont we hear the side of the gall
hey Hurt bro email her and tell her to post her side thought too
•••• this is just a mere liars

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Saxarla

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 12:42 pm
Hurt brother, I feel for you and i am sorry to what happend to you. It's ok. don't worry about. you know what they say life goes on. So be strong and i am sure you will find a beautiful and passionate sister to understand you and take care about you. If you need, i can hook you up with my female friends. They are fun, educated and beautiful. But i guess this is not the time. you maybe on the rebound. anyways, get a grip of yourself. no need to feel down. You got a lot going on for you.

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Muna

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 12:51 pm
Oh......here goes another gesture and laughter@@@

Ya shall continue...probably create ur own SOAP my friend.......best wishes...may u all

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Anonymous

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 12:53 pm
i dont about ya'll but aren't there 2 sides to every story. damn people stop jumpin to ur gunz

peace n much love

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Alipapa

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 03:14 pm
nin rag ah and sharmarke;

hats off. I couldn't say better than you guys. And i guess it is time for me to retire from this forums. it is because i was only catylist( he who triger the events) who only wanted to uplift those pu*sy-somali men who were reduced to the size of the bug by bithces.

For now there are many of you who will teach the pussies, like HuRT_bro, how to be a man, i rested my case. Ain't gonna give any advise to him at all. Needless to say, i didn't believe a nano second what the heck he was trying to say. Look even if he was telling the truth, i hated the way he was whining. it is wasn't manly way, after all? was it?. i guess it was pathetic . he cried like 2 yr-old-babe-girl. damn it!!

Sharmarke;

you cracked me up when you said "..God knows where...".

Alipapa

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Sagittarius

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 03:41 pm
Hurt-Bro,

No wonder the laddy dumped you! As how you responded to Honesita reflected whom you indeed are, while not knowing yourself. Even your apologies came short of explaining your outbursts.

Honesita,

Needless to say that I admire you, even if Alipapa would classify as P##### ******, but after all we're whom we're!

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MOHAMEDEEN

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 04:53 pm
some people here are getting out of hand.
I don't think to diss the brither like this? yeah he made a mistake for beleiving in a cyper girl. but something is clear here. he is just a decent guy who wanna make it. it's not bad to vist and see someone. it's natural. people cross over oceans to meet someone. but the point here is, don't fall for cyper chicks and don't specially fall for somali girls. they don't deserve all that attention. that is the bottom line here.
did this guy represented all somali guys? no. if he was really a typical somali guy, he wouldn't have gone to visit some low class biatch. but some guys are so suscitible to love and romance. they will go blind. i am glad to see this cos this hurt bro proved my point if the whole story is true..which i think is...
don't even rely on somali girls. i met someone on the net. she was white and she was very considerate. she came to me first and visited me, then i returned the favor. she is now muslim and was studying islam before she met me. she wants to be my wife and hopefully we will get married.
I lost hope of most of the somali chicks long time ago and as i said white women are the salvation of the somali men. you will have an obedient and decent wife by your side. she will imbrace your religion, culture and she will give birth to beautiful multi-racial children. why on earth will you ever not take advantage of that?
come to my state and i will show young white american muslim ladies who wants to have a decent hard working and honest somali and muslim brother.
even ghanian and morrocans are having a feast here.

so rush mister hurt bro.....

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najma

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 06:40 pm
hi hurt-bro,
i am so sorry about this but again this is life, u did not do anything wrong u just loved someone, we don't chose love but love choses us u c.
So pls don't give up u life u can always find someone who will give u the same love.Some pll in this world they are very selfish and sad, i am sure that one day she will get someone who will hurt her just the way she did to u so don't worry illaah aa kuu aar gudaaya.

p.s. remember what goes comes arround and don't 4get that love is blind.

I wish u the best luck and life in the world ok bro.

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former

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 09:00 pm
hurt bro
we almost have same background.

it is not always good to have nice family? As the age of six I finish yaasiin and at eight was helping my family business. I Left Somalia one year before the civil war as a very young age to study abroad. being all these EUROPEAN countries and now U.S.A. Difficult to understand these new comers' who had been refugee camps in Kenya and being here is more than opportunity. I understand you spent lot of time these night clubs and A Somali lady was never in the picture. After five years in the jungle my first love, was embarrassing too. I had all the confident with "my respected" family, very young and good education compared to most Somalis and more average good looking. From the first day I impressed her and she was so interesting that everyone could notice. I left to my home town and after months I come back to tell her that I want to married her, assuming she will except easily. However she told me straight that she has nothing to do whit me and the the reason is she is dating somebody else.
Well, that was hard to swell why she did not like me?. Back in Somali' Mothers invited my MAMA and introduced their doters'. The girl was clean, average good looking and untouched(my though).However her family was poor and she raised her Uncle plus she was a difficult person. I took the train back to my hometown and came back home earlier than I planned. I moved to another city with my younger brother who was totally different. These teenagers was crying in the phone all the time and when I asked him why he doing this. he told me it is game. "you cry or they cry. It is better them cry, is not" From that day I never take anything grant when it comes women. Today I am happy marry and have children.I found out later that the lady had buufis and was sent back to Somalia. My brother he is still provisional hurt breaker. However he spent months in jail when a white teenage accused him for rape.
get out brother without feeling rather "NEEDS"

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Sharmaarke

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 09:28 pm
Alibaba

After reading this lame-dick who shamed All the Somali dudes, when I got home my misus were there(Though not Maried yet), I don't know why I just snapped..this guy's crab were still ringing in my head, Well She called this morning Sick.. I just got a call from her.. when I asked why she did'nt go to work? She replyed? "What have you done to me I feel Like a Someone..(Caga-cagaf dardartay) I Replyed to her "what did you expact?" Do you know what she said.."I am going to the Market to Buy a Fish! I will cook you tonight special diner honey?!! Damn.. She was never this nice before?.. Thanks to Bro-Hurt for the special Diner.

Bro-Hurt that is what you needed to do man.. Majuuju sidii Cajiinkii?!! or do you home-Work I mean Hotel-Work or stay Away from the ladies...

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Modey

Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 11:58 pm
Na man he disrespected Honeysister...jerk deserves what he got...fag carying for us to feel his sh!t while he is talking about how a younger sister is this and that... idiot... get off the net and get a life... any man that has to resort to finding love on the net ha something malfunctioning... in the south of the border...

You have a loose fuse and she realised in time alhamdu li allah... you would have made her life a misery...trust!

She listened to her female instinct and i wish more sisters would do so and aviod the stupid spenders and long talkers who they think have what it takes... when they ain't got nothing but...fluf... ar$e wipes feed by their mothers till...they find a house keeper do take over... you sound like a proper mama bowy...4real... s/out.

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Adviser

Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 06:31 am
Hurt Bro or shall I say desperado!!!!!!
One advice to u is to get ur senses back and feel the heat,u r dreaming buddy,what did u expect
from the sis huh? she welcomed u yes but where did u get the idea that if some1 welcomes u,next thing u become their soulmates? u r one hell of a sick minded dude,open ur eyes and differentiate the reality and the cyper world or is it that u got no real life and u rely on the net? if so u need help beyond our abilities,otherwise take it easy man get ur freaky life together aight!!!

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Mr_Swin...

Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 07:00 am
Adviser i am indeed pleased to hear you kick that overgrown vegetable exactly where it hurts. There is no way to get experience but through experimentation and rather then writing it down on his dairy and making a few notes he has decided to shower his feelings all over the net.

Man you best start by saying "alhamdu li allah" she allowed you cause she could have really destroyed your stupid butt and even taken and sold your passport! Leaving you with you mom bought silk under wear and a tie to hide your stupid chicken chest!

I don't think he deserves any type of ADVICE if you know what i mean...

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magaclaawe

Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 08:03 am
Hey Hurt bro ? this is really crazy! the same •••• that happened to you also happened to me.
it's must be a coincidence or something? i did the samething and i thought i had a soulmate as they say but no..am am wiser and now exactly the stupidity of all of this. believe me i did the samething you did just last weekend and am kind surprised how this could be. about these guys who are dissing you, just take it as a tough love. they wanna straighten you up and sometimes you need a slap to come to your senses. forget the girl..that is what am i doing. am forgetting about her and am trying to stay away from somali girl and sijuui girls too....lol..am joking here.
hey i have a lot of love coming from every direction

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Adviser

Friday, April 13, 2001 - 05:42 am
Magaclaawe=======Hurt Bro=who do u think u kidding
u r even more desperate than i thought miskinnnnn!

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Sencerity

Friday, April 13, 2001 - 06:09 am
lol Adviser you have a keen sense and an eye for detecting specific personality signitures!

I would like him to give us all a characteristics list of both himself and her; i.e

Hurt-man/hurt-woman [I think she too is hurt]

-age?
-height?
-weight?
-skin colour?
-job?
-faith?
-original sex? [If changed]
-previous relationships[with who, how long]

We will then be able to further diagnose your satuation and stipulate a specific remody for your current ailment!

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Abdirahman

Saturday, April 14, 2001 - 05:21 am
Not only are u a garbage but a PIG SH*T+TRASH
fu*k the mum that gave make to a physco pathetic you ashamed us indeed especially us men! thats why the girl dissed you i bet u are full of lies as Big_bro was telling.... i wish we could hear the girl's side
i can bet ma cat's life she dissed you of your stupidness and the way you brag about the cheap background you got...by the way who on earth isn't educated a**hole straighten your di*k

i rest ma case and Adviser bro/sis nice noticing he was magaclawe and hurtbro same piece of sh*t

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